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capricorn sun virgo moon.... its like living an episode of spy vs spy.

aren't you a virgo?

how's it going with a virgo moon?

no initiative no green light we are just analyzing each other from afar nothing more.

feels like when you go to prom and you're just standing at opposite ends looking at each other. awkward
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fuck i feel the same way

that's the thing about virgo, somebody gotta get the ball rolling first
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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.
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I'm learning that now. I don't understand manipulation but me dealing with Virgos over the last year is teaching me a new game to play, so it's holding my interest for now. This Virgo is fun, way better then the last one, but he plays little games too. I think I will learn how to play them though, and drive him bat shit crazy just for fun 😄 Spice it up a little lol
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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?
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Hmmm. So you need a new shiny red ball
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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.

I'm learning that now. I don't understand manipulation but me dealing with Virgos over the last year is teaching me a new game to play, so it's holding my interest for now. This Virgo is fun, way better then the last one, but he plays little games too. I think I will learn how to play them though, and drive him bat shit crazy just for fun 😄 Spice it up a little lol
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The retrograde sent all 3 venus in Taurus who i had been carrying a torch for.

Years later and the same denials and masks.

I got bored and blocked them all.

I like venus in sag...too bad they cant keep it in their pants.
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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?
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Ah I feel ya! Except we’ve never been done. So I’m always watching to see what he’s up to & get a clue of when he’s coming back lol. Ok not always watching, I go through phases. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done and then ohhhh I wonder what he’s doing? 🤦‍♀️ Starting to think we have no choice but to just figure it out!! Major trust issues and both cap Venus 😮 Okay maybe it’s our cap venuses 😂
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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.
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what do you mean about earth and masks?
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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?

Ah I feel ya! Except we’ve never been done. So I’m always watching to see what he’s up to & get a clue of when he’s coming back lol. Ok not always watching, I go through phases. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done and then ohhhh I wonder what he’s doing? 🤦‍♀️ Starting to think we have no choice but to just figure it out!! Major trust issues and both cap Venus 😮 Okay maybe it’s our cap venuses 😂

I just decided we were done. IDK what to say I haven't seen him or talked to him at all.
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How long has it been? We would have been done a long time ago but he keeps coming back.. now he thinks we are meant to be. This is definitely the hard way to get there!!

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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?

Ah I feel ya! Except we’ve never been done. So I’m always watching to see what he’s up to & get a clue of when he’s coming back lol. Ok not always watching, I go through phases. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done and then ohhhh I wonder what he’s doing? 🤦‍♀️ Starting to think we have no choice but to just figure it out!! Major trust issues and both cap Venus 😮 Okay maybe it’s our cap venuses 😂

I just decided we were done. IDK what to say I haven't seen him or talked to him at all.

How long has it been? We would have been done a long time ago but he keeps coming back.. now he thinks we are meant to be. This is definitely the hard way to get there!!
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This happened to me with an Aqua, he kept coming back saying he’d changed. He did for a couple of weeks and then back to normal

Hope that doesn’t happen to you, it’s such a waste of time and energy drain
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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?

Ah I feel ya! Except we’ve never been done. So I’m always watching to see what he’s up to & get a clue of when he’s coming back lol. Ok not always watching, I go through phases. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done and then ohhhh I wonder what he’s doing? 🤦‍♀️ Starting to think we have no choice but to just figure it out!! Major trust issues and both cap Venus 😮 Okay maybe it’s our cap venuses 😂

I just decided we were done. IDK what to say I haven't seen him or talked to him at all.

How long has it been? We would have been done a long time ago but he keeps coming back.. now he thinks we are meant to be. This is definitely the hard way to get there!!

This happened to me with an Aqua, he kept coming back saying he’d changed. He did for a couple of weeks and then back to normal

Hope that doesn’t happen to you, it’s such a waste of time and energy drain
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One step at a time. I’m not diving in. He doesn’t say he’s changed, he’s being honest and over this year I have seen him making progress. Like he’s evolving. He knows he has to now & that is huge for him. If he can, it could be a beautiful relationship actually. So I’m observing and not slamming the door in his face. I also need to take responsibility for my part that made him feel insecure. So we are talking about it all.. actual communication .. it just has taken a long time to get there. We have both fought it and tried to move in and always back to this.. so idk. I’m open to seeing if it could work, but careful too.
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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.

I'm learning that now. I don't understand manipulation but me dealing with Virgos over the last year is teaching me a new game to play, so it's holding my interest for now. This Virgo is fun, way better then the last one, but he plays little games too. I think I will learn how to play them though, and drive him bat shit crazy just for fun 😄 Spice it up a little lol

The retrograde sent all 3 venus in Taurus who i had been carrying a torch for.

Years later and the same denials and masks.

I got bored and blocked them all.

I like venus in sag...too bad they cant keep it in their pants.
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I don't think I've ever had a Venus in Taurus before.

But this Virgo has a Venus in Scorpio, like myself, so there is a better level of understanding and being ridiculously obsessive but feeling like it's ok. He isn't used to someone being accepting of it. I told him this is what I'm looking for so he needs to let me see and not hide it. It just hasn't worked out in the past with him showing his true nature. I live for it, so hopefully he continues opening up.

But I also have lots of patience for things that appeal to me. So far he's cool as hell and fairly consistent with seeing me, I just want him more often.
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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?

Ah I feel ya! Except we’ve never been done. So I’m always watching to see what he’s up to & get a clue of when he’s coming back lol. Ok not always watching, I go through phases. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done and then ohhhh I wonder what he’s doing? 🤦‍♀️ Starting to think we have no choice but to just figure it out!! Major trust issues and both cap Venus 😮 Okay maybe it’s our cap venuses 😂
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Ahhh 2 earth venus.

No action of a cardinal venus usually means they're either being coy or not interested
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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?

Ah I feel ya! Except we’ve never been done. So I’m always watching to see what he’s up to & get a clue of when he’s coming back lol. Ok not always watching, I go through phases. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done and then ohhhh I wonder what he’s doing? 🤦‍♀️ Starting to think we have no choice but to just figure it out!! Major trust issues and both cap Venus 😮 Okay maybe it’s our cap venuses 😂

I just decided we were done. IDK what to say I haven't seen him or talked to him at all.

How long has it been? We would have been done a long time ago but he keeps coming back.. now he thinks we are meant to be. This is definitely the hard way to get there!!

This happened to me with an Aqua, he kept coming back saying he’d changed. He did for a couple of weeks and then back to normal

Hope that doesn’t happen to you, it’s such a waste of time and energy drain

One step at a time. I’m not diving in. He doesn’t say he’s changed, he’s being honest and over this year I have seen him making progress. Like he’s evolving. He knows he has to now & that is huge for him. If he can, it could be a beautiful relationship actually. So I’m observing and not slamming the door in his face. I also need to take responsibility for my part that made him feel insecure. So we are talking about it all.. actual communication .. it just has taken a long time to get there. We have both fought it and tried to move in and always back to this.. so idk. I’m open to seeing if it could work, but careful too.
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Sounding positive Roo! Good luck with it ❤️😊
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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.

what do you mean about earth and masks?
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Earth venus wears a mask with their feelings.

Maybe some of the other earth placements as well.

But they could really really like someone, damm near obsessed but when the object of their desire asks them if they have feelings, earth will deny deny deny even tho theyre head over heels.

They could literally be jumping up and down on the inside but outside, cold as ice, stoic, unbothered, cool as cucumber.

They develop ulcers from keeping so much on the inside.

They're into control.

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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.

what do you mean about earth and masks?

Earth venus wears a mask with their feelings.

Maybe some of the other earth placements as well.

But they could really really like someone, damm near obsessed but when the object of their desire asks them if they have feelings, earth will deny deny deny even tho theyre head over heels.

They could literally be jumping up and down on the inside but outside, cold as ice, stoic, unbothered, cool as cucumber.

They develop ulcers from keeping so much on the inside.

They're into control.
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yeah sounds like me

i can be secretly obsessed with you but text you twice a week
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another flakey Libra and a potential Virgo - and the Pisces continues to attempt to noodle his way back in but Taurus ain't havin' it

What the hell. The Pisces is still lurking? JFC and they say Taurus can't move on.
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it's partly my fault because he said he just wanted to be friends and so I said ok but now I can't seem to get rid of him - he did help me with some yard work but geez, I should have smelled that one coming ... no he has not moved on and it was 6-7 years
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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.

what do you mean about earth and masks?

Earth venus wears a mask with their feelings.

Maybe some of the other earth placements as well.

But they could really really like someone, damm near obsessed but when the object of their desire asks them if they have feelings, earth will deny deny deny even tho theyre head over heels.

They could literally be jumping up and down on the inside but outside, cold as ice, stoic, unbothered, cool as cucumber.

They develop ulcers from keeping so much on the inside.

They're into control.

Correct
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I get mad just thinking about how much time Earth placements waste with this song and dance routine.

Like I said, I moved on to fire.
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Embarassingly, the Capricorn man jeez I feel like a bimbo— Why can I move on—?

No judgements here.

I know. I probably you wouldn't believe how long its been. I think its because when I met him someone really close to me had died so I had major attachment to him and it was kind of too late when he decided he was done with me because I had already attached to him. I forgot what its called like soul cord?

Ah I feel ya! Except we’ve never been done. So I’m always watching to see what he’s up to & get a clue of when he’s coming back lol. Ok not always watching, I go through phases. I’m done, I’m done, I’m done and then ohhhh I wonder what he’s doing? 🤦‍♀️ Starting to think we have no choice but to just figure it out!! Major trust issues and both cap Venus 😮 Okay maybe it’s our cap venuses 😂

Ahhh 2 earth venus.

No action of a cardinal venus usually means they're either being coy or not interested
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Miscommunication of an issue that made him insecure it turns out, and disappear. Then he misses me & cant get me out of his head. Admits some major stuff why this is what he wants long term .. a life with me and breaking down his walls & working on his insecurities. He’s been doing a lot of internal work.

I, on the other hand, refuse to beg him to talk to me. So when he’s a stubborn ass I make no effort. He has to be the one to come back and show me he wants this for real or it’s a big fuck you on my end.
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A Virgo, but my obsession goes in and out with him. I think I like missing him and the fantasy of him more. I don't like his cool, calm, demeanor-makes me want to choke him out 😛

I used to be so infatuated with earth placements but I grew bored of the waiting game and constant masks.

I'm switching to fire venus these days.

what do you mean about earth and masks?

Earth venus wears a mask with their feelings.

Maybe some of the other earth placements as well.

But they could really really like someone, damm near obsessed but when the object of their desire asks them if they have feelings, earth will deny deny deny even tho theyre head over heels.

They could literally be jumping up and down on the inside but outside, cold as ice, stoic, unbothered, cool as cucumber.

They develop ulcers from keeping so much on the inside.

They're into control.
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Yep & just imagine 2 of us!! Plus I’m aqua moon 😂 Virgo moon talks about his feelings way more than aqua moon 🤷‍♀️ It’s something when he tells me I love you and I KNOW you love me too. 😂😂 We are meant to be and I’m willing to break my wall down, I have to stop pushing you away. Hmmm I said prove it! 🙃