Work Dilemma. What Would You Do?

So guy I work with started seeing/dating/hooking up with a girl who works in a different department in my work. Guy works in my department. I don’t know the girl very well, but we’ve always had friendly reactions. This @ $ $ hole guy whom I’ve never liked has been showing us and telling all of us a bunch of private things that should be between them. Like nude pics of her as well. I’m pissed off and want to tell this girl, but don’t want to put my business into it. What would you do?

I'd ask him to stop being such a prick and keep his mouth shut and how does he think she would feel if she knew he was talking about her like this

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by MyStarsShine

I'd ask him to stop being such a prick and keep his mouth shut and how does he think she would feel if she knew he was talking about her like this

It wouldn't help. Since he's pick he doesn't care. Some people shouldn't be able to have genitails or possibly to reproduce :/

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Pick?

I'd have to say something....

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by MyStarsShine

I'd ask him to stop being such a prick and keep his mouth shut and how does he think she would feel if she knew he was talking about her like this

It wouldn't help. Since he's pick he doesn't care. Some people shouldn't be able to have genitails or possibly to reproduce :/

Pick?

I'd have to say something....

Prick * 🙂

I know. I would too. But I'm sure it won't help. Since he is doing this kind of things he has no shame.

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I think if he's showing naked pics of her, she has a right to know.....I'd want to know, wouldn't you?

Yeah....he's an ass.

Tell the 'ass' that you don't want to be shown anything concerning the young lady he's with. Then, stay far away from him.

Posted by IMightBeElle

Showing me nude pictures of anyone at work is unacceptable and considered sexual harassment.

He will keep doing it because nobody can be bothered to report him.

This.

I would go straight to the girl and let her know. She probably has no clue how disrespectful and disgusting he is. She would be grateful to you.

Lol! He must’ve gotten his hands on the nude pics somehow right? It’s not like he telepathically transferred them to his phone. That’s always a potential consequence when you send nude pics to begin with. Maybe she should pick better guys to send nudes to, yeah? Only get involved in all that if you're super bored otherwise they all sound stupid af.

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Posted by librak924

So guy I work with started seeing/dating/hooking up with a girl who works in a different department in my work. Guy works in my department. I don’t know the girl very well, but we’ve always had friendly reactions. This @ $ $ hole guy whom I’ve never liked has been showing us and telling all of us a bunch of private things that should be between them. Like nude pics of her as well. I’m pissed off and want to tell this girl, but don’t want to put my business into it. What would you do?

Drop her an anonymus note.

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This....i had the same thought

Posted by IMightBeElle

Showing me nude pictures of anyone at work is unacceptable and considered sexual harassment.

He will keep doing it because nobody can be bothered to report him.

...and this.

By doing nothing he will carry on

Posted by librak924

So guy I work with started seeing/dating/hooking up with a girl who works in a different department in my work. Guy works in my department. I don’t know the girl very well, but we’ve always had friendly reactions. This @ $ $ hole guy whom I’ve never liked has been showing us and telling all of us a bunch of private things that should be between them. Like nude pics of her as well. I’m pissed off and want to tell this girl, but don’t want to put my business into it. What would you do?

Report him to HR?

1. Ask him to stop showing you/talking about it around you. It's inappropriate in the work place.

2. Report to HR if he doesn't. That's what they are there for.

3. Stay away from both. You know the risks of giving out nudes. Not something you want to concern yourself with in the work place. Stay out of it.

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Posted by SassyKiwi

Lol! He must’ve gotten his hands on the nude pics somehow right? It’s not like he telepathically transferred them to his phone. That’s always a potential consequence when you send nude pics to begin with. Maybe she should pick better guys to send nudes to, yeah? Only get involved in all that if you're super bored otherwise they all sound stupid af.

True. Still does not give him the right. In fact, she could take legal action.

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Ain't nobody got time for that. People need to take responsibility for their poor decisions. This is no different from dangling a wallet at a hobo.

Hey y’all just reading some of these comments, thanks for the tips. They’re done anyway so glad to see that lol. I’m not sure what happened but the less I know the better

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Posted by librak924

So guy I work with started seeing/dating/hooking up with a girl who works in a different department in my work. Guy works in my department. I don’t know the girl very well, but we’ve always had friendly reactions. This @ $ $ hole guy whom I’ve never liked has been showing us and telling all of us a bunch of private things that should be between them. Like nude pics of her as well. I’m pissed off and want to tell this girl, but don’t want to put my business into it. What would you do?

Ignore it, don’t participate, and do your work. Keep doing this, and eventually people will not come to you with nonsense that is none of your business anyway because they get the idea that you’re too busy for it.

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I just saw this now but yes! Like I’m kind of new in the department and I’m trying to send off “I don’t care about your personal life” vibes especially to this dude. I’m glad to see they’re no longer together, he tried telling me why and I said “yeah I can tell but don’t spare me the details” and I hope that girl finds happiness