@Theatrum
12 Years1,000+ Posts
Would you go on a date w/o makeup?
You are on page out of 2 | Reverse Order
^ HAHAHAHA I swear I knew you were gonna say something like that!
Posted by MellyMel909
I don't wear make up to begin with... Just a bit of Bare Essentials mineral stuff for sunscreen and so my face doesn't look oily.
That's awesome. Don't get me wrong, makeup is great, it makes you more attractive, confident and whatnot. It can be a work of art. But at the end of the day, your true face is all you are left with.
I think I'd go on a date without makeup on. Come to think of it, dates only lead to one thing, sex or a relationship. I don't know anybody who get their fuck on with full makeup on, so why not speed up the process where he gets to see you without your fake face on? Hmmm.
I'd admit thou, if I'm really into a guy, I sneak to the bathroom VERY early in the morning do a few touch-ups & get rid of the 'drool trail' & crusty eyes. I turn the pillow too incase he wakes up & see my drool stains. I'm a dangerous drooler lol.
I'd admit thou, if I'm really into a guy, I sneak to the bathroom VERY early in the morning do a few touch-ups & get rid of the 'drool trail' & crusty eyes. I turn the pillow too incase he wakes up & see my drool stains. I'm a dangerous drooler lol.
I wouldn't need the works, but come on, at least lip gloss! Damn!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with makeup, just like there's nothing wrong with hair products that "enhance" what your hair should REALLY look like! There's nothing wrong with push up bras or anything that enhances things
If 95% of the women who wore makeup were single, then I'd say hey ladies let's take it off, but clearly that's not true. Clearly the guys who are swearing they hate makeup are very much so still getting in relationships with them!
Makeup isn't ever gonna go away. It's just gonna get worse lmao
There is absolutely nothing wrong with makeup, just like there's nothing wrong with hair products that "enhance" what your hair should REALLY look like! There's nothing wrong with push up bras or anything that enhances things
If 95% of the women who wore makeup were single, then I'd say hey ladies let's take it off, but clearly that's not true. Clearly the guys who are swearing they hate makeup are very much so still getting in relationships with them!
Makeup isn't ever gonna go away. It's just gonna get worse lmao
Posted by CluelessCancer
anybody have suggestions on how to make you pores smaller, mines are ridiculously large...
There are treantments for that, but for a healthy looking face in general and something you can DIY, carrot is your best friend. Yep. Peel half a carrot before going to bed, let the juice stay for about 20 minutes, than apply it equally on your face & neck. If you feel it tightening the face, you're doing it right.
Posted by krysrenee7
I wouldn't need the works, but come on, at least lip gloss! Damn!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with makeup, just like there's nothing wrong with hair products that "enhance" what your hair should REALLY look like! There's nothing wrong with push up bras or anything that enhances things
If 95% of the women who wore makeup were single, then I'd say hey ladies let's take it off, but clearly that's not true. Clearly the guys who are swearing they hate makeup are very much so still getting in relationships with them!
Makeup isn't ever gonna go away. It's just gonna get worse lmao
There's always the "no makeup" makeup look. 😛
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by TheatrumPosted by CluelessCancer
anybody have suggestions on how to make you pores smaller, mines are ridiculously large...
There are treantments for that, but for a healthy looking face in general and something you can DIY, carrot is your best friend. Yep. Peel half a carrot before going to bed, let the juice stay for about 20 minutes, than apply it equally on your face & neck. If you feel it tightening the face, you're doing it right.
thanks how do i get the juice out? do i use a juicer?click to expand
I don't know how it's called on English lol!
If you're gonna keep doing it permanently than make sure to remove the little carrot pieces from your face while applying it. Cuz it could stay lighter on your face eventually and than there's nothing you can do about it. Also if it's a small carrot than use the whole thing. If it's a big carrot, half is enough. I'm just quoting my beautician here, she knows her stuff.
Posted by feby16aqua
I need: eyeliner, mascara, lip stick, lip liner, eye shadow (optional)
Most of my life I don't wear make-up, but if I have to put myself together and go out like to impress: I'd feel naked without it.
I have a love hate relationship with mascara cuz it's a pain in the ass to take off but it looks so good >
Nooooo never leave it on 😢 As hard as it is to take off you don't want it ruining your lashes
Posted by CluelessCancer
i do look exotic when i wear makeup, but i was told my eyes are scary by my x virgo when i stared at him one time, i had one eyeliner and mascara...it emboldened my eyes
so i wouldn't wear it around him if i saw him again
I hope you didn't go Goth on the poor guy lol. Some girls go too thick & hard on the eye stuff & end up looking like a mama racoon. I watch 'what not to wear' & the makeup artist there has great tips.
Posted by Theatrum
Apparentely around 95% of women would rather cancel a date than go without makeup. Shocking? A part of me can't help but to think so.
Let's say hypothetically, you have a date coming up but you have no access to makeup. Would you be confident enough to rely purely on your natural looks along with clothes/ style . Or would you cancel it? Truthfully.
I wouldn't cancel-- that would be silly-- but I wouldn't be thrilled, either.
I've said it before, but if you look good, you feel good-- or at least better.
And I wouldn't want said date to think idgaf.
I don't wear much makeup to begin with-- but I DO wear it.
Totally. 😄
Posted by CluelessCancer
theatrum thanks but are you saying this would bleach my skin?
No, it doesn't make it lighter. It just gives it a healthy tone (if you really use it for years). It's not gonna do anything after you apply it once, twice, for a month even. Try it and see how it goes, or look it up online for more info.
Hahaha red lipstick FTW indeed 😄
Posted by sandynads
Its in the diet. Mebbe just eat the carrot? 😛
That's what I usually end up doing lol!
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by WaterCupPosted by CluelessCancer
i do look exotic when i wear makeup, but i was told my eyes are scary by my x virgo when i stared at him one time, i had one eyeliner and mascara...it emboldened my eyes
so i wouldn't wear it around him if i saw him again
I hope you didn't go Goth on the poor guy lol. Some girls go too thick & hard on the eye stuff & end up looking like a mama racoon. I watch 'what not to wear' & the makeup artist there has great tips.
no i have very expressive eyes, he didn't like the way i looked at him, cause i was cutting through him , i do that alot, my eyes speak for themselvesclick to expand
Oh I thought maybe it was due to how you put on your eye makeup. Ya, you do have piercing eyes.
Posted by sandynadsPosted by WaterCupPosted by CluelessCancer
i do look exotic when i wear makeup, but i was told my eyes are scary by my x virgo when i stared at him one time, i had one eyeliner and mascara...it emboldened my eyes
so i wouldn't wear it around him if i saw him again
I hope you didn't go Goth on the poor guy lol. Some girls go too thick & hard on the eye stuff & end up looking like a mama racoon. I watch 'what not to wear' & the makeup artist there has great tips.
Guys do not notice this imo.click to expand
I'm sure they don't because the most focus is usually given to the chest 😛
This thread is a great inspiration for Haloween...go as yourself without a stitch of makeup & see the crowd sprint.
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by Theatrum
Hahaha red lipstick FTW indeed 😄
Just suck on a red lollipop.click to expand
So red tongue > red lips? :/
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCup
This thread is a great inspiration for Haloween...go as yourself without a stitch of makeup & see the crowd sprint.
I'd bring a knife with me. Whoever runs will get it.click to expand
Have you chosen an outfit yet?
For a potential date...I'd probably wear mascara and under eye concealer...I dont need to scare anyone with my dark circles. They are really bad...ugh genetics lol. If I didnt have those things...I'd still go.
Other than that I dont do the makeup thing not even at work...I dont want to be one of those girls that as soon as they decide to not wear their makeup...everyone like wtf happen to her face lol
Other than that I dont do the makeup thing not even at work...I dont want to be one of those girls that as soon as they decide to not wear their makeup...everyone like wtf happen to her face lol
I rarely wear makeup. I try so hard to wear lipstick but, I have to be real with myself, I really don't care about it. Makeup makes me feel self conscious.
The only guy that loved me wearing makeup was a Sag. He even wanted to do it for me...too cute.
I prefer to do the hard work of taking care of myself. It's hard work taking care of yourself to look good the natural way and probably the same cost: exfoliating, sunscreen everyday, moisturizing, African cocoa butter for even tone and,treatment of blemishes, exercise to keep away cellulite...water, vitamins
The only guy that loved me wearing makeup was a Sag. He even wanted to do it for me...too cute.
I prefer to do the hard work of taking care of myself. It's hard work taking care of yourself to look good the natural way and probably the same cost: exfoliating, sunscreen everyday, moisturizing, African cocoa butter for even tone and,treatment of blemishes, exercise to keep away cellulite...water, vitamins
Posted by tiziani
It's really attractive and cute when they touch up their makeup sneaking to the bathroom in the morning nightgown
Never. That's my worst nightmare needing, relying, or feeling the need for make up that badly. I'm serious.
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by tiziani
It's really attractive and cute when they touch up their makeup sneaking to the bathroom in the morning nightgown
Only you twizzler. Only you.click to expand
Nah it's sweet.
Posted by OOOOOi
I guess so...cute for you but whats really going on with the self conscious chick?
Have you seen them without make up?
It's not about looking like you're going for a magazine photo-shoot, at least not for me. You just go in there to make yourself look presentable eg. even the brows, clean up the face & brush your teeth. Brows, clean face & teeth doesn't equal Sasha Fierce.
Yes. I need to do up my eyes, a little.
That's it.
That's it.
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOi
I guess so...cute for you but whats really going on with the self conscious chick?
Have you seen them without make up?
It's not about looking like you're going for a magazine photo-shoot, at least not for me. You just go in there to make yourself look presentable eg. even the brows, clean up the face & brush your teeth. Brows, clean face & teeth doesn't equal Sasha Fierce.
Thats what am telling twizzler but I guess some women do it and good that some men appreciate it.click to expand
Don't you get self-conscious in the morning waking up to somebody else in the room with you? Men do it too. Some refuse to talk in the morning until they 1st brush their teeth.
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOi
I guess so...cute for you but whats really going on with the self conscious chick?
Have you seen them without make up?
It's not about looking like you're going for a magazine photo-shoot, at least not for me. You just go in there to make yourself look presentable eg. even the brows, clean up the face & brush your teeth. Brows, clean face & teeth doesn't equal Sasha Fierce.
Thats what am telling twizzler but I guess some women do it and good that some men appreciate it.
Don't you get self-conscious in the morning waking up to somebody else in the room with you? Men do it too. Some refuse to talk in the morning until they 1st brush their teeth.
As I said I only clean up the gold dusts in my eyes and check if my breath smells. Otherwise, im good.
People actually look pretty after having a good sleep.
click to expand
Oh, I didn't see that part. I thought maybe you just let the people wake up to the nightmare of crusty eyes & stuff.
Posted by OOOOOi
Im not so insecure of the outside as I am of the inside.
As lame as that sounds.
We all have insecurities lol.
Posted by OOOOOi
Hell no.
The best part of the morning Is waking up, sort of half asleep and sexed eyes.
Mhhhhmmmm
Then having sex feels like you're dreaming. Weeeeeeee!
Do you let them kiss you while sexing you that early in the morning? Morning kisses are gross & sticky..before brushing. Eww
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOi
Im not so insecure of the outside as I am of the inside.
As lame as that sounds.
We all have insecurities lol.
Im insecure with my birth chart and how I may not evolve. I feel like a facking pokemon thats so slow to evolve while the rest are transforming to a phoenix or summin 😭
I just want to transform this damn soul to something great so next lifetime wont be so hard.
I feel like a turtle and im a damn gem.click to expand
You're too hard on yourself, you're wonderful the way you are. As a matter of fact, you're more zen that the most of us here..you & starlover & few others. The rest of us are a burning match lol, messy!
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOi
Hell no.
The best part of the morning Is waking up, sort of half asleep and sexed eyes.
Mhhhhmmmm
Then having sex feels like you're dreaming. Weeeeeeee!
Do you let them kiss you while sexing you that early in the morning? Morning kisses are gross & sticky..before brushing. Eww
Yes. If both of us don't mind and have tolerable breathes, sometimes we'll quickly gurgle some water.
click to expand
*makes a face*
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOi
Im not so insecure of the outside as I am of the inside.
As lame as that sounds.
We all have insecurities lol.
Im insecure with my birth chart and how I may not evolve. I feel like a facking pokemon thats so slow to evolve while the rest are transforming to a phoenix or summin 😭
I just want to transform this damn soul to something great so next lifetime wont be so hard.
I feel like a turtle and im a damn gem.
You're too hard on yourself, you're wonderful the way you are. As a matter of fact, you're more zen that the most of us here..you & starlover & few others. The rest of us are a burning match lol, messy!
Lol zen my arse. Its hard. If I go super emo its like a dark cloud and I don't want to rain on others. So need the humor a lot. At least it doesn't sound so terrible.
I actually want to take yoga and do all those leg positions. You know the splits. Probably a good sex position 😛click to expand
LOL @ sex position. I used to do yoga, for free but I stopped because it's expensive out of pocket.
I don't know if this works for everyone but, floss, brush, and mouthwash before bed relieves morning breathe?
Love morning sex. The sun shining over the bed is perfect mood lighting...specially, Sunday morning.
Makeup's friend is the night it seems... and the camera.
Love morning sex. The sun shining over the bed is perfect mood lighting...specially, Sunday morning.
Makeup's friend is the night it seems... and the camera.
Posted by OOOOOi
WC did you get to the level where you can do splits?
Feb mhmm showers are usually nice for a lot of things 😉 sex in the water is something I still have to try
VenusA yes definitely. Flossing is important and brushing tongue especially.
LOL, no splits here but I'm pretty flexible by nature..still can't do splits, though. I now have an interest in pilates, I bought 6 pilates dvds (for beginners) on friday because I'm lazy to go to the gym..I need to do something at least.
Posted by robyn808
I don't care if I'm not wearing makeup depending on the place. But I guess I feel tremendous social pressure to look appropriate for where I'm going.
If I'm going to the park, or causal lunch, shopping, what ever I don't care. But if I'm going out at night and I know other bitches will be judging me. Cus that's what most bitches are doing, trying to figure out if their better then you are. So you just got to walk up in there like "no bitch, you ain't!"
That sounds horrible. But fuck it, its the truth.
No it ain't horrible. It's true. I still wear no makeup and still they will hate even more... as females we have so much... hair, body, clothing, the man on your arms... they'll find something.
Posted by robyn808
I don't care if I'm not wearing makeup depending on the place. But I guess I feel tremendous social pressure to look appropriate for where I'm going.
If I'm going to the park, or causal lunch, shopping, what ever I don't care. But if I'm going out at night and I know other bitches will be judging me. Cus that's what most bitches are doing, trying to figure out if their better then you are. So you just got to walk up in there like "no bitch, you ain't!"
That sounds horrible. But fuck it, its the truth.
HAH yeah, I see your point.
Posted by OOOOOiPosted by WaterCupPosted by OOOOOi
WC did you get to the level where you can do splits?
Feb mhmm showers are usually nice for a lot of things 😉 sex in the water is something I still have to try
VenusA yes definitely. Flossing is important and brushing tongue especially.
LOL, no splits here but I'm pretty flexible by nature..still can't do splits, though. I now have an interest in pilates, I bought 6 pilates dvds (for beginners) on friday because I'm lazy to go to the gym..I need to do something at least.
My mom has her zumba dvd.
Gyms are great but I hate treadmills, I feel awkward trying to run on it. Its great bc I do workout with my eyes. Im 20/20 vision and I plan on keeping it that way. Thats why in a way I loved my time at the gym. I prefer home workouts though bc I can actually do proper workouts.click to expand
You little minx! lol
Posted by tiziani
It's really attractive and cute when they touch up their makeup sneaking to the bathroom in the morning nightgown
Do you find the act of a woman wanting to look good for you more attractive than the actual makeup she put on? I see it. I'd find the same act attractive in a man (not makeup ofc but you get the point 😛).
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by robyn808
I don't care if I'm not wearing makeup depending on the place. But I guess I feel tremendous social pressure to look appropriate for where I'm going.
If I'm going to the park, or causal lunch, shopping, what ever I don't care. But if I'm going out at night and I know other bitches will be judging me. Cus that's what most bitches are doing, trying to figure out if their better then you are. So you just got to walk up in there like "no bitch, you ain't!"
That sounds horrible. But fuck it, its the truth.
No it ain't horrible. It's true. I still wear no makeup and still they will hate even more... as females we have so much... hair, body, clothing, the man on your arms... they'll find something.click to expand
yep i agree. Doesn't matter.
there are women I have read (famous people) who wear makeup to bed and put it on to freshen up before their husbands wake.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by OOOOOiPosted by feby16aqua
The ones that I know of who can do that are virgo ladies. Body like hour glass.
i'm scared to do stuff like that cause i don't want to stretch out my pussyclick to expand
lmao!!
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by OOOOOiPosted by feby16aqua
The ones that I know of who can do that are virgo ladies. Body like hour glass.
i'm scared to do stuff like that cause i don't want to stretch out my pussyclick to expand
lmao
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and face
Posted by BaitedFish
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and face
I agree with the nails, most look ridiculous anyway..especially when they are very long. Wow @ using vaseline on the face though, doesn't it make you pimply?
Posted by CluelessCancer
yes...makeup is not a staple in my life
All of this. Flip a cake face, I was born without make-up ain't all that necessary.
Posted by WaterCupPosted by BaitedFish
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and face
I agree with the nails, most look ridiculous anyway..especially when they are very long. Wow @ using vaseline on the face though, doesn't it make you pimply?click to expand
no it doesnt,tried all the lotions,they messed up my face.so i went back to vaseline and it works for me perfect
Posted by BaitedFishPosted by WaterCupPosted by BaitedFish
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and face
I agree with the nails, most look ridiculous anyway..especially when they are very long. Wow @ using vaseline on the face though, doesn't it make you pimply?
no it doesnt,tried all the lotions,they messed up my face.so i went back to vaseline and it works for me perfectclick to expand
Ya I know about lotions messing up your face..Pond's does that to me & all the other popular face stuff. If vaseline works for you then that's great.
Posted by WaterCupPosted by BaitedFishPosted by WaterCupPosted by BaitedFish
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and face
I agree with the nails, most look ridiculous anyway..especially when they are very long. Wow @ using vaseline on the face though, doesn't it make you pimply?
no it doesnt,tried all the lotions,they messed up my face.so i went back to vaseline and it works for me perfect
Ya I know about lotions messing up your face..Pond's does that to me & all the other popular face stuff. If vaseline works for you then that's great.click to expand
so which one do u use,maybe i should try that
Did this help you understand your situation?
dxpnet has hosted real conversations like this since 2000. If you value independent communities, you can support the site below.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
Let's say hypothetically, you have a date coming up but you have no access to makeup. Would you be confident enough to rely purely on your natural looks along with clothes/ style . Or would you cancel it? Truthfully.