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Posted by BaitedFish
yes except when u have a ceramel skin colour
You mean caramel? What about it?
Posted by BaitedFish
yes except when u have a ceramel skin colourYou mean caramel? What about it?
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with it u cant hide imperfections without make up
Posted by Theatrum
Apparentely around 95% of women would rather cancel a date than go without makeup. Shocking? A part of me can't help but to think so.Let's say hypothetically, you have a date coming up but you have no access to makeup. Would you be confident enough to rely purely on your natural looks along with clothes/ style . Or would you cancel it? Truthfully.
Cancel
Date or no date, I don't leave the house unless I'm "ready" from head to toe.
Posted by BaitedFish
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and faceI agree with the nails, most look ridiculous anyway..especially when they are very long. Wow @ using vaseline on the face though, doesn't it make you pimply?
no it doesnt,tried all the lotions,they messed up my face.so i went back to vaseline and it works for me perfect
Ya I know about lotions messing up your face..Pond's does that to me & all the other popular face stuff. If vaseline works for you then that's great.
so which one do u use,maybe i should try that
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I use something called Gentle Magic, I'm not sure if its available outside South Africa though. I use their face cream & soap because other soaps make me itch. I have very sensitive skin. I've struggled for years trying to find a product compatible with my skin & I'm good now.
I'm scared to use powders & liquid makeup..I get rashes easily. I only use the brow stuff & sometimes eyeshadow. No lipstick or lipgloss, I'm like LL Cool J..I lick my lips too much for any of that.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Black studs kind of look like this, yet again nordstrom rack for $ 20 instead of $ 40, my favorite earrings so far, especially for work...they go with everything.
I've got ones just like that, I only wear studs too..no big chandelier earings for me. I got gifts when I got married & you know how Arabs are into dangling, VERY huge earings. I gave all that away to my Indian bff. I don't do gold either, I'm not Shab Shabba Ranks.
Posted by BaitedFish
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and faceI agree with the nails, most look ridiculous anyway..especially when they are very long. Wow @ using vaseline on the face though, doesn't it make you pimply?
no it doesnt,tried all the lotions,they messed up my face.so i went back to vaseline and it works for me perfect
Ya I know about lotions messing up your face..Pond's does that to me & all the other popular face stuff. If vaseline works for you then that's great.
so which one do u use,maybe i should try that
I use something called Gentle Magic, I'm not sure if its available outside South Africa though. I use their face cream & soap because other soaps make me itch. I have very sensitive skin. I've struggled for years trying to find a product compatible with my skin & I'm good now.
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Awesome, ill try to see if I can find that in a beauty supply store coz they have beauty products from different parts of the world
Posted by BaitedFish
i dont put on make up at all.i prefer natural,all the guys i have dated find that intersting and like it. not even my nails.my nails are always short,cant stand long nails coz they carry dirt.i use only vaseline on my lips and faceI agree with the nails, most look ridiculous anyway..especially when they are very long. Wow @ using vaseline on the face though, doesn't it make you pimply?
no it doesnt,tried all the lotions,they messed up my face.so i went back to vaseline and it works for me perfect
Ya I know about lotions messing up your face..Pond's does that to me & all the other popular face stuff. If vaseline works for you then that's great.
so which one do u use,maybe i should try that
I use something called Gentle Magic, I'm not sure if its available outside South Africa though. I use their face cream & soap because other soaps make me itch. I have very sensitive skin. I've struggled for years trying to find a product compatible with my skin & I'm good now.
Awesome, ill try to see if I can find that in a beauty supply store coz they have beauty products from different parts of the world
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I hope you find it, but don't buy the liquid stuff, it's not good. The soap & the cream are fantastic.
@WaterCup thank u, let me save that in my phone
Posted by CluelessCancer
lol about the GOLD, you know East Africans, that's all we wear in our events, we be bling blinging.but no i wear dangly earrings when i go out, but not at work, cause it's just too much, i feel overdressed.
Yeah East Africans are just like Indians with that gold stuff. I hope you don't have a gold tooth, though lol. That's one of the most disgusting things ever imho. In Pretoria where I'm staying almost every 3rd guy has a gold tooth..I'm single for a reason. Yuck.
women shouldnt be wearing fakeup at all. it is false advertisement.
i think its part of the reason chicks lose their looks by like.....20. all those nasty chemicals on your face cant be good for the skin and cause it to age rapidly.
would not date a chick who wore slut paint
srs
I don't wear a lot of make up.
Yeah, probably. Depending on my mood.
Every once in a while someone catches me in a state of 'yeah, this is me, deal with it' for better or worse lol. And honestly, if someone can't handle what I look like without makeup then it's obviously not going to work out anyway so I would be saving us both a lot of time and hassle by just using au natural as a kind of litmus test.
My FIL always said "If you want to know what a woman really looks like, take her swimming"
I don't wear makeup, so it's not an issue.
I hardly ever wear make up. so wouldn't make a difference for me if going on a date.
I do wear mascara and sometimes lip gloss at work.
I am pretty vain about my hair however. Bad hair days can be devastating! LOL
Posted by CluelessCancer
anybody have suggestions on how to make you pores smaller, mines are ridiculously large...
Clinique makes a toner that does. They come in different formulas for different skin needs (oily, dry, combo, etc).
I would totally on a date without makeup, because I spend the vast majority of my time without makeup on. I'm comfortable with myself without it.
I am confident in my looks and charm to get me through a date but If I do choose to wear makeup its to complete my look according to my aesthetic which is a trashy street ratbag ??_I hate looking polished on a date it makes me feel uncomfortable like I'm trying too hard I do however want to look cool??_.I don't care if you find me sexy or caring I want to be perceived as cool first hahaha
Yes, I would and I have. Some men prefer women to look natural and those are the men I am attracted to.
Be yourself, you can't go wrong.
Be yourself, you can't go wrong.
you could be ugly.
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true but hiding it won't change that fact 😉
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
A lot of men say they don't like make up but deep down you all do, end of discussion.With that being said, I would probably cancel. Not because I'm afraid to go out without make up, I don't wear any make up to work, but for me first impressions are everything. I hate it when I go on dates and the guy doesn't bother going out of his way to look good. And make up does enhance your natural features so it is a must for me on the first date.
I agree. (And many men don't even know what "no makeup" actually looks like. They think that natural makeup = no makeup)
I always skipped makeup for first dates, intentionally. Because I only wanted to deal with guys for whom I wouldn't have to be a slave to the mirror. It sets the baseline, so that you only look better down the road.
It worked -- too well. Now I have a dh who actually hides my makeup because he so prefers me without it. xD
Be yourself, you can't go wrong.
you could be ugly.
true but hiding it won't change that fact 😉
lol just L O L where do you work?
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what do you mean?
Ya it is just playing with makeup I don't leave the house on like a woman though
Posted by Theatrum
Apparentely around 95% of women would rather cancel a date than go without makeup. Shocking? A part of me can't help but to think so.Let's say hypothetically, you have a date coming up but you have no access to makeup. Would you be confident enough to rely purely on your natural looks along with clothes/ style . Or would you cancel it? Truthfully.
Truthfully, yes. I rarely wear makeup. Most of my dates with my husband was without make up.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
me in my natural beauty #nofilter
I like this a little more 🙂
I showed my friend the picture of the girly pic of me and he said I had a mans chin??_I was like duh! can't you see my beard?
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
me in my natural beauty #nofilter
handsome man 🙂
To the OP, yes, I would always go on a date without makeup because I don't wear any. Don't need it and I'm pretty awful at it so I just said forget it lol. Most guys don't notice until a few weeks or even months in.
Posted by Theatrum
Apparentely around 95% of women would rather cancel a date than go without makeup. Shocking? A part of me can't help but to think so.Let's say hypothetically, you have a date coming up but you have no access to makeup. Would you be confident enough to rely purely on your natural looks along with clothes/ style . Or would you cancel it? Truthfully.
yeah i can go out on a date without make up. i realized it doesn't make a difference if i wear make up or not so why bother? im still debating if i should even wear make up on my wedding. i'm getting married in 2 days. maybe i should at least wear lipstick, mascara and blush.
lol, I even wear makeup in the gym
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yes except when u have a ceramel skin colour