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What we deserve?
Posted by MissKrabs
i think people mostly refer to you got to try getting it if you want it not just sit around. likelihood is that you will get somewhere, or realize you can't and simply move on.
No. I am referring to something like ‘it’s ok if you eat a whole cake without cutting it and saying you just had one piece...and your face is a size of your ass - that’s why you can’t dind your Knight on a white horse...he will come because you deserve love!’
Or ‘it’s not a sin that you lazy as fuck and can’t hold a job - you deserve vacation as everyone else...it’s not fair that you can’t afford it but you deserve it’...
That type of shit!
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by Gemitati
I am so sick of this ‘you deserve this or rhat’...
Who came up with this crap?
What does it mean ‘you deserve’? Said who?
Apparently if you don’t have it - you don’t deserve it! Because if you did - you wouldn HAVE it!
Isn’t ‘deserving’ determined by God, Universe...? If everyone deserved love, wealth, happiness - why don’t everyone have it than?
Chime in...do you think you deserve something you don’t have?
I have everything i worked for. I don't believe in deserve this and that BS, you want something, you work for it. You get it, great nurture it/look after it.
If you don't get it, reflect and learn what could be done better, if you still want it, do it better.click to expand
So you won’t wait for everything you want must fall into your laps because you deserve it? Lol
Posted by LethalFantasia
I think I deserve many things I do not have. 😛
But it doesn't mean I won't get them.
They're just waiting for me when I am ready to receive them.
xoxoxox
Why do you think you ‘deserve’ them? Have you saved someone’s life? Served your country in Army? What makes you think you deserve it except you just substitute word ‘I want it’ to ‘I deserve it’...
We all deserve love ❤️
Posted by MyStarsShine
We all deserve love ❤️
You smarter than that! That’s nonsense! We WANT love!
Use words accordingly please...
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by LethalFantasia
I think I deserve many things I do not have. 😛
But it doesn't mean I won't get them.
They're just waiting for me when I am ready to receive them.
xoxoxox
Why do you think you ‘deserve’ them? Have you saved someone’s life? Served your country in Army? What makes you think you deserve it except you just substitute word ‘I want it’ to ‘I deserve it’...
Saving or serving in army don't makes someone deserve something.
It's like saying I have a job so I deserve to get paid, no you have a job so you have the right to receive a financial compensation by law!click to expand
I just wanted to know why she thinks she deserves anything? Is there anything significant that she had done that puts her in if existed ‘deserving’ category...because some people believe if they had done something others haven’t done - now they deserve more or all!
Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by GemitatiPosted by LethalFantasia
I think I deserve many things I do not have. 😛
But it doesn't mean I won't get them.
They're just waiting for me when I am ready to receive them.
xoxoxox
Why do you think you ‘deserve’ them? Have you saved someone’s life? Served your country in Army? What makes you think you deserve it except you just substitute word ‘I want it’ to ‘I deserve it’...
If you want it, it's yours!click to expand
Keep trolling. It’s yours...
Posted by Caramelprincess
We all deserve something. Good or bad.
Because you worth it?
Watching too much L’Oreal commercials?
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by LethalFantasia
I think I deserve many things I do not have. 😛
But it doesn't mean I won't get them.
They're just waiting for me when I am ready to receive them.
xoxoxox
Why do you think you ‘deserve’ them? Have you saved someone’s life? Served your country in Army? What makes you think you deserve it except you just substitute word ‘I want it’ to ‘I deserve it’...
Saving or serving in army don't makes someone deserve something.
It's like saying I have a job so I deserve to get paid, no you have a job so you have the right to receive a financial compensation by law!
I just wanted to know why she thinks she deserves anything? Is there anything significant that she had done that puts her in if existed ‘deserving’ category...because some people believe if they had done something others haven’t done - now they deserve more or all!
I understand where you were coming from, I just made that statement, apologies if caused confusion.
Like you suggest, it could be just choice of words for the poster 🙂
What do you think about it? Do you feel you deserve to be treated kindly if you are kind to peopleclick to expand
I don’t believe in deserving a shit!
If I treat people nicely it who I am.
And when I do something nice - I believe it’s God made me do it. And I never wait nothing in return. I do it because I felt like doing it and it felt right. If I deserve something - it’ll be given to me without me knowing or asking.
Posted by CaramelprincessPosted by GemitatiPosted by Caramelprincess
We all deserve something. Good or bad.
Because you worth it?
Watching too much L’Oreal commercials?
Ew. No I’m a more high end buyer hun.click to expand
Watching commercials doesn’t mean using the product! Just FYI
Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by edgelord
i deserve nudes @gemitati, but you still haven't sent them. who is at fault here?
😆
Yes, we wanna see that MILF kittyclick to expand
Younsaid you’ll get everything you want when it’s time. Forgot already?
Posted by edgelord
i deserve nudes @gemitati, but you still haven't sent them. who is at fault here?
😆
I’ve offered them to you but you’ve refused! Remember?
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
We all deserve love ❤️
We all want love. Human nature.
Not Every one is loveable either xxclick to expand
I think it's everyone's birthright
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by LethalFantasia
I think I deserve many things I do not have. 😛
But it doesn't mean I won't get them.
They're just waiting for me when I am ready to receive them.
xoxoxox
Why do you think you ‘deserve’ them? Have you saved someone’s life? Served your country in Army? What makes you think you deserve it except you just substitute word ‘I want it’ to ‘I deserve it’...
Saving or serving in army don't makes someone deserve something.
It's like saying I have a job so I deserve to get paid, no you have a job so you have the right to receive a financial compensation by law!
I just wanted to know why she thinks she deserves anything? Is there anything significant that she had done that puts her in if existed ‘deserving’ category...because some people believe if they had done something others haven’t done - now they deserve more or all!
I understand where you were coming from, I just made that statement, apologies if caused confusion.
Like you suggest, it could be just choice of words for the poster 🙂
What do you think about it? Do you feel you deserve to be treated kindly if you are kind to people
I don’t believe in deserving a shit!
If I treat people nicely it who I am.
And when I do something nice - I believe it’s God made me do it. And I never wait nothing in return. I do it because I felt like doing it and it felt right. If I deserve something - it’ll be given to me without me knowing or asking.
Given to you by who?click to expand
Whoever holds the book of my life!
Higher Powers...
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
We all deserve love ❤️
We all want love. Human nature.
Not Every one is loveable either xx
I think it's everyone's birthright
You are a lovely person to think that.
World will be a better place if many more people think that way xclick to expand
🙂 thank you
Every baby that comes into the world deserves huge amounts of love, respect and nurtring ❤️
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by LethalFantasia
I think I deserve many things I do not have. 😛
But it doesn't mean I won't get them.
They're just waiting for me when I am ready to receive them.
xoxoxox
Why do you think you ‘deserve’ them? Have you saved someone’s life? Served your country in Army? What makes you think you deserve it except you just substitute word ‘I want it’ to ‘I deserve it’...
Saving or serving in army don't makes someone deserve something.
It's like saying I have a job so I deserve to get paid, no you have a job so you have the right to receive a financial compensation by law!
I just wanted to know why she thinks she deserves anything? Is there anything significant that she had done that puts her in if existed ‘deserving’ category...because some people believe if they had done something others haven’t done - now they deserve more or all!
I understand where you were coming from, I just made that statement, apologies if caused confusion.
Like you suggest, it could be just choice of words for the poster 🙂
What do you think about it? Do you feel you deserve to be treated kindly if you are kind to people
I don’t believe in deserving a shit!
If I treat people nicely it who I am.
And when I do something nice - I believe it’s God made me do it. And I never wait nothing in return. I do it because I felt like doing it and it felt right. If I deserve something - it’ll be given to me without me knowing or asking.
Given to you by who?
Whoever holds the book of my life!
Higher Powers...
Ah you are religious. 🙂click to expand
I am not religious but I believe in Creator of all of us and fate that each of us has.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
We all deserve love ❤️
You smarter than that! That’s nonsense! We WANT love!
Use words accordingly please...click to expand
....all babies that come into the world deserve love
It's been proved in orphanages that babies who don't receive love and nurturing become ill and some have died early
So, as i said before, we all deserve love
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
We all deserve love ❤️
You smarter than that! That’s nonsense! We WANT love!
Use words accordingly please...
....all babies that come into the world deserve love
It's been proved in orphanages that babies who don't receive love and nurturing become ill and some have died early
So, as i said before, we all deserve loveclick to expand
So how is uou saying it changing anything?
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by LethalFantasia
I think I deserve many things I do not have. 😛
But it doesn't mean I won't get them.
They're just waiting for me when I am ready to receive them.
xoxoxox
Why do you think you ‘deserve’ them? Have you saved someone’s life? Served your country in Army? What makes you think you deserve it except you just substitute word ‘I want it’ to ‘I deserve it’...
Saving or serving in army don't makes someone deserve something.
It's like saying I have a job so I deserve to get paid, no you have a job so you have the right to receive a financial compensation by law!
I just wanted to know why she thinks she deserves anything? Is there anything significant that she had done that puts her in if existed ‘deserving’ category...because some people believe if they had done something others haven’t done - now they deserve more or all!
I understand where you were coming from, I just made that statement, apologies if caused confusion.
Like you suggest, it could be just choice of words for the poster 🙂
What do you think about it? Do you feel you deserve to be treated kindly if you are kind to people
I don’t believe in deserving a shit!
If I treat people nicely it who I am.
And when I do something nice - I believe it’s God made me do it. And I never wait nothing in return. I do it because I felt like doing it and it felt right. If I deserve something - it’ll be given to me without me knowing or asking.
Given to you by who?
Whoever holds the book of my life!
Higher Powers...
Ah you are religious. 🙂
I am not religious but I believe in Creator of all of us and fate that each of us has.
That's contradictory
Explain the difference between the guy religion calls as God and the creator of us all.
click to expand
It’s a discussion for different thread.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
We all deserve love ❤️
We all want love. Human nature.
Not Every one is loveable either xx
I think it's everyone's birthright
You are a lovely person to think that.
World will be a better place if many more people think that way x
🙂 thank you
Every baby that comes into the world deserves huge amounts of love, respect and nurtring ❤️click to expand
And millions of them don’t! So where is your theory goes? If they deserve it but they don’t have it...what’s now?
People don’t get what they deserve. They get what they accept.
Posted by LadyNeptune
People don’t get what they deserve. They get what they accept.
What does it have to do with this thread?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
We all deserve love ❤️
We all want love. Human nature.
Not Every one is loveable either xx
I think it's everyone's birthright
You are a lovely person to think that.
World will be a better place if many more people think that way x
🙂 thank you
Every baby that comes into the world deserves huge amounts of love, respect and nurtring ❤️
And millions of them don’t! So where is your theory goes? If they deserve it but they don’t have it...what’s now?click to expand
I just answered your question "what we deserve"
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Who came up with this crap?
What does it mean ‘you deserve’? Said who?
Apparently if you don’t have it - you don’t deserve it! Because if you did - you wouldn HAVE it!
Isn’t ‘deserving’ determined by God, Universe...? If everyone deserved love, wealth, happiness - why don’t everyone have it than?
Chime in...do you think you deserve something you don’t have?