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What do you think is the true reason for why some women are such HUGE nasty bitches to other women? Specifically when it is totally unwarranted and they have no real reason to hate on another.

Competition

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

What do you think is the true reason for why some women are such HUGE nasty bitches to other women? Specifically when it is totally unwarranted and they have no real reason to hate on another.

WHY MUST WOMEN SPECIFICALLY LIKE, LOVE OR OTHERWISE 'NOT HATE' EACHOTHER ON ACCOUNT THAT THEY ARE WOMEN?

Newsflash: There is no special place in hell for women who don't help other women !

Low self esteem

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

What do you think is the true reason for why some women are such HUGE nasty bitches to other women? Specifically when it is totally unwarranted and they have no real reason to hate on another.

WHY MUST WOMEN SPECIFICALLY LIKE, LOVE OR OTHERWISE 'NOT HATE' EACHOTHER ON ACCOUNT THAT THEY ARE WOMEN?

Newsflash: There is no special place in hell for women who don't help other women !

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You sound extremely stupid.

Re read the question.

define "huge"

slap induced PTSD via muscle memory

it is a largely ignored silent killer

Can you give an example

They ate my food

Posted by Ellygant

Typically it’s because they either have something they want but don’t have (confidence, money, looks, a partner) or because they have been hurt badly by women at an impressionable age (such as a bad relationship with their mother, aunt or betrayed badly by one of their first real close female friends).

Either way, hatred is due to some unresolved ill, either with themselves or someone from their past. Otherwise you’d just be indifferent and not waste the energy.

In agreement with all of the above. Totally hit the nail on the head. BUT, if the cause is being hurt at an impressionable age, why would you then go on to hate on, bully and/or exclude other women? Is it an outlet for the hatred they harbour for the individuals of the gender that treated them badly as a whole? Is it because they are now wary of women on a whole as a result?

Could it also be control over social dynamics because they are insecure?

Posted by Ellygant

Typically it’s because they either have something they want but don’t have (confidence, money, looks, a partner) or because they have been hurt badly by women at an impressionable age (such as a bad relationship with their mother, aunt or betrayed badly by one of their first real close female friends).

Either way, hatred is due to some unresolved ill, either with themselves or someone from their past. Otherwise you’d just be indifferent and not waste the energy.

Exactly.

The OP seems to imply this cookiemonstering is specifically a women's thing. Men do this too among eachother but it doesn't necesserily register with women

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

In agreement with all of the above. Totally hit the nail on the head. BUT, if the cause is being hurt at an impressionable age, why would you then go on to hate on, bully and/or exclude other women?

Why do those sexually molested as children grow up to molest kids themselves?

I'm an asshole to both penis owners and vagina owners. It has nothing to do with competition or some emotional pain.

I simply hate stupid, and unfortunately I find most people stupid. However, I will say that I more than likely seem to hate women more, because I don't get emotional bullshit and women tend to be more inclined to be emotionally driven over men. But I have the same adverse reaction to men that exhibit that trait too. It's just less pronounced due to most men not seemingly showing that, for whatever reason. I just don't like people allowing emotions to override logic.

I really, really hate stupid.

I really hate emotional. I've gotten better as my husband and daughter are emotional.

My post history will show that I do not discriminate.

I say what the hell I mean and I mean what the hell I say.

I'm 44, I know who I am, and I do not give a fuck.

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Posted by Ram416

Competition

It's got nothing to do with men. It's nothing to do with competition. Or anything to do with them being women.



I only fight with other women if they have done something horrible to me other people or people i love. Also if they have just no basic decency.

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Ok I'm sure every cookiemonster believes this about themselves but if that was true there'd be no cookiemonsters

Posted by VenusAquarius

I really, really hate stupid.

I really hate emotional. I've gotten better as my husband and daughter are emotional.

My post history will show that I do not discriminate.

I say what the hell I mean and I mean what the hell I say.

I'm 44, I know who I am, and I do not give a fuck.

Ok but would you then go out of your way to slander a woman and bitch about her incessantly? Because that’s what I’m talking about here. That sort of behaviour. Also the cases I’m referring to - the woman isn’t stupid nor emotional and her behaviour doesn’t warrant mistreatment.

Posted by nikkistar

I'm an asshole to both penis owners and vagina owners. It has nothing to do with competition or some emotional pain.

I simply hate stupid, and unfortunately I find most people stupid. However, I will say that I more than likely seem to hate women more, because I don't get emotional bullshit and women tend to be more inclined to be emotionally driven over men. But I have the same adverse reaction to men that exhibit that trait too. It's just less pronounced due to most men not seemingly showing that, for whatever reason. I just don't like people allowing emotions to override logic.

This question is regarding generalised behaviour of other women who do, for no real reason whatsoever, pointlessly and incessantly attack other women. I can understand having low tolerance for emotional bs etc., but not women who bully and are malicious for the heck of it.

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

Posted by nikkistar

I'm an asshole to both penis owners and vagina owners. It has nothing to do with competition or some emotional pain.

I simply hate stupid, and unfortunately I find most people stupid. However, I will say that I more than likely seem to hate women more, because I don't get emotional bullshit and women tend to be more inclined to be emotionally driven over men. But I have the same adverse reaction to men that exhibit that trait too. It's just less pronounced due to most men not seemingly showing that, for whatever reason. I just don't like people allowing emotions to override logic.

This question is regarding generalised behaviour of other women who do, for no real reason whatsoever, pointlessly and incessantly attack other women. I can understand having low tolerance for emotional bs etc., but not women who bully and are malicious for the heck of it.

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Ah.

Honestly, I chalk that up to bitterness and low self esteem. Misery loves company and all that jazz.

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

Posted by VenusAquarius

I really, really hate stupid.

I really hate emotional. I've gotten better as my husband and daughter are emotional.

My post history will show that I do not discriminate.

I say what the hell I mean and I mean what the hell I say.

I'm 44, I know who I am, and I do not give a fuck.

Ok but would you then go out of your way to slander a woman and bitch about her incessantly? Because that’s what I’m talking about here. That sort of behaviour. Also the cases I’m referring to - the woman isn’t stupid nor emotional and her behaviour doesn’t warrant mistreatment.

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I do not persecute people...

...except for liars. I hate lying. I will go nuclear. My previous boss was a liar and I destroyed her on paper. If I could get my...

Coochiecoochiecoo,

That shit you discribe sounds immature and petty. I've had real beef... life and death shit, broke or rich shit.

I stay away from bullshit like I see it and am trying to keep it off my show. Shit stinks when you stick your nose in it and be fanning the shit.

It has to have a welcomed audience and participants.

Posted by Antiochus

Women in general care more about social roles and hierarchy which are areas that men traditionally don't care much about. The result is that the main competition in those areas consists mostly of women and a heightened sensibility that results in a heightened awareness of potential enemies and conflicts for those areas.

While men tackle conflicts among them quite directly until it is resolved one way or another women often tend to fight a lot less direct and have conflicts that last longer or even become a status quo. Together with said heightened awarness they might react to things most men wouldn't even realize. Having both sides with such an awareness can create a perpetual feedback loop.

In short: it's not that women hate each other but that "classic" female behaviour triggers and keeps triggering each other where the "classic" male behaviour from one of the people involved would potentially interrupt and stop said loop.

That's my observation and amateur theory at least.

Men have pecking order soooooo down pat, you all assume the position. It's truly fucking amazing.

I know cause I have brothers, my husband is a pack leader, and I have watched. Watched lesser dudes: less strong, less tall, less intelligent bow-the-fuck down. Most battles are men equal to one another.

Men have sooo many codes and rules that are just naturally accepted without voting.

As I write, I think it is men's history in the millitary that makes this so. I imagine that actually getting out on a battlefeed can put some much into perspective. You know your limits, you know "the wall," and you all accept it. Period.

However, men know that most resolutions end in violence so you don't trifle with one another much.

Posted by hydorah

define "huge"

Over 12in