fairyland (Page 5)

I already have my BA in Political Science. grad school=graduate study...Master's Degree. Tushy=bum. I'm thinking Libra would be the best sign...Virgo's are too uptight. Libra's are more rational...open minded. Sorry it has taken me so long to respond, I've been swamped. Will write more, soon!

ok 🙂

OK, new topic in fairyland...What kind of girl attracts you?

do you mean physically?

yes, I think...mainly, what is it that they must posses...whether it be physically, mentally, emotionally...what?

k...save the answer for tomorrow. I have to run out of the office for a mtg., and won't be back. Talk to you soon!

that's a nasty one! i haven't been looking for a partner for the last seven years because i've been living with my girl, but there goes (copying your lines already):

mentally and emotionally: stabile (hehehe), loyal (not only in terms of sex), strong personality but ALWAYS fair, not too dominant, misusing her strength and power! a partner in crime!!! is that confusing? i hope not! further, smart and intelligent and open-minded. she must be caring and affectionate, a healthy sex drive would be nice, too. and i like my partner to be a flirt, in a general nice and light-hearted way, but loyal! btw, i'm not the type of person who'd leave a partner if they've been unfaithful once or twice. i wouldn't take it lightly though and would want to discuss why it happened etc. if it happens more often, than i would probably end the relationship because it hurts. it's not like i don't care for faithfulness/fidelity, but it depends really. i could forgive infidelity if i feel loved by my partner because they give me care and affection and support and all that goes with it...

now physically, that's a lot easier, because it's a simpler, shallow and superficial attraction, although a very strong and important one!!!!:
stabile (hahaha)... i like petite slim women, long slim legs, silky skin, big warm smile (know someone?), colour of hair, eyes and skin is absolutely!!! not important. expressive eyes is important. length and shape of hair isn't important either, as long as i feel that it fits the person. size of breast couldn't be less important!!! i like nicely shaped ones though. ... i like women who take good care of their body, don't like too much make up though.
btw...erm... 5'2 is a major turn on, since i sometimes like to be sexually dominant and that fits the idea?

just keep in mind that this is an extreme and extremely unrealistic description of a woman that certainly doesn?t exist: a fantasy really! like everything i would like in a woman, but i don?t need all of that!
it?s about the person and how they come across. if there is mutual sympathy i wouldn?t need even half of the above to feel attracted to them!!!

what about you? what are you looking for in a man? and since you seem to be at least a bit curious, in a girl, too? i?d appreciate the same kind of unrealistic description, as mine: whatever you fancy or fantasize about, not just the qualities you need. i guess i?d rather be interested in what attracts you physically, since you?ve already told me what attracts you mentally and emotionally, but if you?d like to add to that, too, please do?.

sorry, i had to go back on that, just couldn't resist, too tempting .....

?I don't have the balls to be w/ a nice girl...c'mon, now!?

you really don?t need balls to be with a girl. use your hands, your ?luscious lips? and... um... your tongue... trust me, i?m a professional! hehe

hahahahahahahaha............aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa......

look what i've found on another thread:

4 of the Types To Beware

The Emotionally Unavailable Man

He'll happily string you along, even though he's married, engaged or so committed to career or hobbies that you'll always come last. STRATEGY: The minute you find out he's married, end it. If he spends all his time on other interests, ask yourself: Where's his committment to me?

The Man With the Hidden Life

By the time you learn of his hidden wife and kids, secret addiction or criminal history, you'll probably be well into the relationship. Most of these tricksters are "combo-pack" men who fit more then one of the eight categories. They have addictions, mental health issues, predatory instincts and emotional unavailability. STRATEGY: Get nosy. Ask persistent questions if something feels off. These men thrive on trusting, unquestioning woman.



i only copied two of the descriptions because the other didn't apply to me, physical violence involved and so on....

but you have done so well, quotes:

STRATEGY: The minute you find out he's married, end it.

and

STRATEGY: Get nosy. Ask persistent questions if something feels off. These men thrive on trusting, unquestioning woman.

LOL

"i like petite slim women, long slim legs, silky skin, big warm smile (know someone?), colour of hair, eyes and skin is absolutely!!! not important. expressive eyes is important. length and shape of hair isn't important either, as long as i feel that it fits the person. size of breast couldn't be less important!!! i like nicely shaped ones though. ... i like women who take good care of their body, don't like too much make up though. btw...erm... 5'2 is a major turn on, since i sometimes like to be sexually dominant and that fits the idea?"

I'm not trying to be sarcastic, or boasting...but you just described me to a "T" except for the long slim legs (they're rather short, cuz I'm rather short). Sorry, but this is no longer a fantasy for you...your fantasy exists in Washington DC...hehehehe!

But I'm a bit shocked...you would stay w/ someone even if they cheated on you? BAD!!! I don't know if I could do that. Maybe I am too much of a feminist, but cheating is disrespectful and distrusting. I would never trust the person I'm with, after the first time. If that person doesn't respect me enough to not stray...why would I want to stay w/ them. You staying w/ someone after cheating, is like me getting back together w/ my Aries man...wouldn't that be bad?

As far as physical looks (you already know everything else I look for in a man)...he doesn't have to be "all that..." but, he should be in good shape, preferably dark skinned (not necessarily African American), I like dark, shoulder length hair, nice strong arms, back and legs. Someone w/ a healthy sex drive and who will take on the dominant role in the bedroom (but knows how to submit to me). Piercing eyes, nice smile, nice manicured hands and pedicured feet. Height isn't an issue since most men are taller than me. But I don't think I could date someone who was shorter than me.

BTW, sorry to leave you hangin' yesterday afternoon. Time flew by rather quickly, and I had to leave.

"BTW, sorry to leave you hangin' yesterday afternoon. Time flew by rather quickly, and I had to leave."

yeah, that happens to me sometimes, too. let's make a deal: it's not rude to just cut off a conversation, if we need to leave... ok!?

i just feel that this is an ongoing conversation and if you don't answer today, you will tomorrow or the day after... or whenever... i can wait, so don't worry about that. i know we both enjoy the chat, this is what matters!

"...except for the long slim legs (they're rather short, cuz I'm rather short)."

well, you know, legs don't stand on their own, they're usually attached to a body! so, in case your legs are long and slim in relation/proportion to your body .... just don't tell me about it, PLEASE!!!

"But I'm a bit shocked...you would stay w/ someone even if they cheated on you? BAD!!! I don't know if I could do that. Maybe I am too much of a feminist, but cheating is disrespectful and distrusting. I would never trust the person I'm with, after the first time. If that person doesn't respect me enough to not stray...why would I want to stay w/ them. You staying w/ someone after cheating, is like me getting back together w/ my Aries man...wouldn't that be bad?"

i agree with you, cheating hurts the other and is mostly(!!!) disrespectful. it always hurts, but whether it's really disrespectful or not i'd like to decide for the actual situation, not in general. as far as trust is concerned i'm able to segregate physical, mental and emotional loyalty! if my trust gets shaky in one department, that doesn't mean that i would automatically distrust them in other things, only if they give me an actual reason for that. don't get me wrong, i wouldn't let a person to play me around!!! i just like to think of people as humans and not as machines, like computers that get programmed to do only one thing and never fail doing it unless you cut off their power or break them... so, bottom line: i may very well break up with a person if they are unfaithful to me EVEN ONCE!!! i just like to stay open-minded and consider the circumstances and the person's overall attitude towards me first and then decide...

i don't expect others to share my view, i find your take on this just as valid and can perfectly understand if you couldn't trust a person after a fukc up!
Btw, your ram is here out of the question. he?s way more than just fukced up! he?s shown you that he doesn?t give a siht about you, but only cares for the benefits.

i'm leaving work now... don't know if i'll be online later on today... but definitely tomorrow! maybe today...just can't promise.

hey you seem to be really busy today... going to bed now. will write tomorrow! a lot!

"I'm not trying to be sarcastic, or boasting...but you just described me to a "T" except for the long slim legs (they're rather short, cuz I'm rather short). Sorry, but this is no longer a fantasy for you...your fantasy exists in Washington DC...hehehehe!"


boy, you've given me SOMETHING to dream about!!! scared to go to bed now...

Good Morning (or good evening, in my case). I just wanted to have a nice little post ready for you when you woke up!! Anyway, I was busy yesterday. I didn't write anything else, though, cuz I thought you were gone for the day.

Anyways...still thinking about aries...mainly cuz I'm lonely. Can hang out w/ friends, but it's just not the same. I need some strong words right now...hopefully you are feeling inspired. Also, my legs are in proportion to my body...hehehehehehe! Two new people just started in our office, so i've been training them, and getting them settled in. It is such a bitch, but it's nice to have some of the workload taken off my hands.

You never told me the lyrics to this "mysterious" song you just wrote. I would love to read them. Ok...ok...tag your it! I will write more when I get into the office tomorrow (or in your case, today)!

See ya!

"mysterious" song, hehe:

baby, let's get all romantic
baby, while the world is frantic

tonight
i won't let you out of my sight
tonight
we'll let the others fight

not us
we won't fuss
that's just not us
tonight

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baby, have i told you lately (that)
baby, you're the one who saved me

from all those lies
that i seem to make up myself
tonight
i feel, with you i'm safe

i feel
with you
i'm safe

tonight... BABY....

(here goes a light tune, like a scale going up and down, with an echo/delay, so it seems like a canon/round - two melodies chasing each other up and down...)

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repeat first verse (variation)

end

"I need some strong words right now...hopefully you are feeling inspired."

here goes: Don't sleep w/ the ex...not good!!! I highly warn against it!!!!!!!!!!

i only can repeat myself! do you really think that he is the only man who can give you what you want? look left and right. isn?t there any men who hit on you, or whatever you say when a man makes a move towards you? or does just none of them get your interest? is it really that bad? come on, there must be someone who?s interested and at least has ?the potential?!

well, maybe you just can?t afford to wait to be found. go on the hunt!!! i?m not able to see you, not able to hear your voice, to smell you and to taste you, can?t touch you either? our conversation is purely on a mental/intellectual/imaginative basis and still you?ve turned my head (hehehe). that?s certainly possible with other men, too!!! especially when they can perceive you with all their senses. i know, you hate to get that talk... but you really can do so much better!!!!

now:

1. get out and meet a lot of nice people.
2. find a man that you find special, one that has ?the potential? and who?s heart is free.
3. get to know him better, to be sure that you really want him.
4. hunt him down, making no prisoners!!!

in the meantime i?ll continue to blow your socks off in fairyland... promise!

?...he should be in good shape ... nice strong arms, back and legs.?

i?ve subscribed with a fitness center today. will start working out tonight! hehehehe...


?... nice manicured hands and pedicured feet.?

i sometimes do that. always have clean and cut nails, just not always have nice manicured hands and pedicured feet, because i don?t always want to take the time for it... but on holydays, or on special dates.


?Someone w/ a healthy sex drive?

no comment!


?... and who will take on the dominant role in the bedroom (but knows how to submit to me).?

if a woman wants me to submit to her she has to earn this...

"if a woman wants me to submit to her she has to earn this..." You make me want to work hard to earn it!!

Good morning. Your song is great especially the "(here goes a light tune, like a scale going up and down, with an echo/delay, so it seems like a canon/round - two melodies chasing each other up and down...)." I like that part, sounds like a great tune!

"i?m not able to see you, not able to hear your voice, to smell you and to taste you, can?t touch you either?our conversation is purely on a mental/intellectual/imaginative basis and still you?ve turned my head (hehehe). " oooh...when I read that, it sent chills down my spine. You see, I've done the whole "dating thing." I haven't met anyone special. I don't want to go on the hunt, because it's failed me in the past. I want to be found...that's the only sense of logic for me. My scorp friend...the one I said I didn't like anymore...well, I still think about him from time to time. He's the only one that had "potential" but he hasn't called me in a couple of weeks, and I'm not about to call him...I tried and it didn't get me anywhere.

I know I can't sleep w/ the ex...I know that. I just wish I had someone, special. Thanks for your words.

blah...blah..blah...so, you are going to the gym, eh. Hopefully you are doing it for you...hehehehehe! As far as the "manicure and pedicure" goes, I didn't mean professional work, necessarily, just "clean and cut nails," that's important.

You still never answered my question...why aren't you two married. Now, i'm being nosy. If you don't want to tell me, just say so, but you can't put it off anymore.

I keep telling myself..."the guy who was too selfish to voice any concern for your well-being is the guy you want in your bed right now" How sick is that? How sick are we (human beings)? That what I don't understand the most. Why would I want that...what's wrong w/ me. Besides being horny and lonely, why cant I be realistic w/ myself...I know that I can't sleep w/ him, but why do I want to?

"I keep telling myself..."the guy who was too selfish to voice any concern for your well-being is the guy you want in your bed right now" How sick is that? How sick are we (human beings)? That what I don't understand the most. Why would I want that...what's wrong w/ me. Besides being horny and lonely, why cant I be realistic w/ myself...I know that I can't sleep w/ him, but why do I want to?"

it's not sick it's human failure. sorry for being a smart ass and repeating myself over and over again. i'll tell you what would be really sick and disgusting. if you knew that sleeping with him again would hurt you and obviously be wrong, and still you wanted to do it, not because you're lonely and weak, but because you wanted to gain something out of it, like hurt him... or if he was rich and famous, trying to get some of his fame for yourself or get him to spend some (big) money on you... now that would be really sick!!!
the way you're feeling is kind of tragic but absolutely natural and human. i'm not different and i believe most people are similar... we (humans) seem to be capable of having unconditional feelings, after all...

"...being horny and lonely"

this is really not good, not healthy. at least in the long run it's not. i'm worried that you'll do something stupid at some point. you see, i think that sex is important. you can't ignore your needs forever, just because you don't have a special one to share your lust with... but i understand that you don't want to sleep around with random men, just to get sex. i wouldn't want it either (me: girls, of course, hehe)!
are you at least able to help yourself with that sometimes, or wouldn't you go there?

i'm quite undersexed, too, since my girl doesn't feel comfortable with sex during the pregnancy, which i can understand. but i can relate to your situation and feel with you!


p.s.: i couldn't access dxpnet for hours again, and you—

Yup...I couldn't get on it for a while, also.

I have little toys that help w/ my cravings, but other than that, you are right. I don't want to sleep w/ random men. As far as doing something stupid, I agree w/ you. My goal has been to not put myslef in "that" situation, where I would do something stupid. But it's hard. To be honest w/ you, our conversations, and other flirtations from men definitely helps. But it's so tangible and abstract. I need something physical, you know, something that's there. It's not even about sex, really, I just want to be held, and touched. Does this sound corny?

corny? NO!!! i feel with you, exactly the same! you can't substitute the physical closeness to someone who's special to you!

"the guy who was too selfish to voice any concern for your well-being is the guy you want in your bed right now"

i hope he's not the only one you want in your bed right now... or on your floor... or wherever....

"Your song is great especially the "(here goes a light tune, like a scale going up and down, with an echo/delay, so it seems like a canon/round - two melodies chasing each other up and down...)." I like that part, sounds like a great tune!"

it means A LOT to me that you like it. *blushes*

""i?m not able to see you, not able to hear your voice, to smell you and to taste you, can?t touch you either?our conversation is purely on a mental/intellectual/imaginative basis and still you?ve turned my head (hehehe). ""

"oooh...when I read that, it sent chills down my spine."

this is probably the bigest motivation for me to keep doing this, if you tell that it has such an effect on you!!! i really mean what i say and it's not just a flirt... i know it's not the real thing either, and wasn't trying to suggest that, but.... it's honest and i really WANT to make you feel nice. a lot of what you write sends chills down my spine, too.

"so, you are going to the gym, eh. Hopefully you are doing it for you...hehehehehe!"

to be honest i'm not the gym type. if i had to go to the gym, that would mean to me that i'd have to consciously pack my things and make the time to go there. for me physical activity needs to fit in with every day life. so, what i do is, go to work by bike in the summer and go swimming during the winter time, because there is a pool on the way to work and i can just stop by on the way there or on the way home... further i use my winter holydays to go snowboarding and in the summer i try to play as much beach volleyball with my friends as possible... and almost every morning i spend about 30min. with pilates in my living room, before i go to work... and yes, i do it for myself, but i just can't deny that knowing that you'd appreciate it, too, really turns me on!

"a lot of what you write sends chills down my spine, too." ok...more chills!

"i hope he's not the only one you want in your bed right now... or on your floor... or wherever...." No, he's not. There is someone else. But it's a secret. His name is Lorpio Scizard, he's got dark hair, brown eyes, and is a musical genius! We've only been chatting, and he is in a relationship. But if he wasn't, I would be on the next plane to Germany (that's where he lives). It's weird, how we connect. But he completly gets me, and I love that! He's kind, warm, honest, open...and "puts me in my place." I hope to meet someone like him (who is available, of course). But until then, I look forward to visiting him in fairyland, every chance I get!

"if a woman wants me to submit to her she has to earn this..." You make me want to work hard to earn it!!


grrrr, you can choose to work hard, or... simply ask what the condition is. besides i get the impression that you've got all it takes to make me submit to you, anyway! although you've done so well hiding it.... hehe

"a lot of what you write sends chills down my spine, too." ok...more chills!

"i hope he's not the only one you want in your bed right now... or on your floor... or wherever...." No, he's not. There is someone else. But it's a secret. His name is Lorpio Scizard, he's got dark hair, brown eyes, and is a musical genius! We've only been chatting, and he is in a relationship. But if he wasn't, I would be on the next plane to Germany (that's where he lives). It's weird, how we connect. But he completly gets me, and I love that! He's kind, warm, honest, open...and "puts me in my place." I hope to meet someone like him (who is available, of course). But until then, I look forward to visiting him in fairyland, every chance I get!


pulse at 260! just don't stop!

My colleague at work just asked me why I have this huge smile on my face...I told her that I've just been bitten by a lizard scorpio

bitten by a lizard scorpio

mmmmm, intoxicating.....

"and almost every morning i spend about 30min. with pilates in my living room, before i go to work... " SO DO I!

k...either you can't sign on to the website, or you've gone to bed...I'm leaving, so I will talk to you tomorrow! Ciao Bello!

good morning existing fantasy,

i thought, today i'd have a nice little post waiting for you when you get to work and sign in! but knowing me, it will be more than one post, hehe.

"k...either you can't sign on to the website, or you've gone to bed...I'm leaving, so I will talk to you tomorrow!"

yes and yes. first i couldn't sign in and then i went to bed...

i'm beginning to develop tactics and strategies, how to prevent ever meeting in person, because i really don't know what will explode if we ever met in person, the planet or the whole universe. you see, we have a responsibility towards our fellow earth citizens, we can't just blow their planet in pieces now, can we!?

"and almost every morning i spend about 30min. with pilates in my living room, before i go to work... " SO DO I!

WOW!

and

mmmmmm, nice loooong muscles and firm, stretched, healthy!!! body. tasty....

do you speak italian? or any other foreign language?

this 'Lorpio Scizard' seems to be a real nobleman!!! you can tell by his exotic name.

as i already said, short posts are fun!

back to that again: "bitten by a lizard scorpio"

can i bite you a gain? i can almost taste you and this is so... oooooh........

huh, that was fun so far... but now the hard work!


?You still never answered my question...why aren't you two married. Now, i'm being nosy. If you don't want to tell me, just say so, but you can't put it off anymore.?

i don?t want to tell you in detail, but i feel that i owe you at least an explanation:

i love her and we have a good relationship based on trust, understanding, support etc. but we also have problems/issues that shake my confidence, that make me insecure and unsure whether it will be forever or not = not married yet!
and that?s where i draw the line because if i was to explain in detail i?d have to give away things that concern her directly, it?s not about only me anymore. it?s just like i wouldn?t tell any intimate info about you to anyone, NEVER!!! i know, the posts we?re writing are open to the whole dxp gang to read and we are pretty anonymous here, but say if i knew who you were and you told me a secret... i?d never give it away. i may tell a friend that i?ve met this amazing girl on the net and that she just blows my mind every single day, but i?d never give away personal details. that?s why i can?t tell you in detail what?s exactly wrong, it would concern her too much.

i?m glad to tell you everything about me though. i don?t have a lot of secrets, but the few a have... if you asked explicitly... but then again, you said that you?ve found out all my secrets on your own already, hehehhehe...

i don?t know if leos like to be watched, but can you imagine what it?s like for a secretive scorpio to write the things i?ve written to you, knowing that everyone can read this... LOL
but i really don?t give a fcuk... which is strange... and amusing in a way.

questionnaire
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last cd you bought:

last concert you went to:

last book you read:

book you?re reading at the moment:

favorite drink(s):

favorite food:

last holyday destination (except home, or parent's home):

favorite holyday destination so far (except home, or parent's home):

foreign countries you have been to:

foreign countries you?d like to visit:

anything else you?d like to share:

still anything you?d like to share:

Wow! Wow! Wow!

Good Morning,

I wake up and rush to work every morning, just so that I can read the "nice little post waiting for you when you get to work and sign in!" I'm crazy about you...just so you know. I can say things like that, cuz we are a safe distance from one another.

You shouldn't say things like "i'm beginning to develop tactics and strategies, how to prevent ever meeting in person," because it makes me even more intrigued and curious. Plus, that would totally be sooooooooooooo BAD for the universe!! But I do want to know what tactics and strategies you've been using to prevent us from meeting.

Gosh, could you imagine if we actually met in person one day. I would either burst into tears, laugh hysterically, or scream my head off out of such excitement. I dunno if I could take it. It would be a powerful thing.

I do speak French...conversational french that is. I took four years in High School and a couple of classes in College. I lived in Italy for 6 months, so I can speak a little Italian (better french), but I'm not fluent. Your english is very good...probably better than most english speaking natives. Do you speak any other languages?

Thanks for filling me in on your situation. I understand why you don't want to go into detail because it does involve her, and frankly, that would be none of my business. Can't wait for your next post!

last cd you bought: Ludacris

last concert you went to: I haven't been to a concert since I was like...9yrs old. But the next concert I'm going to is Coldplay (30 September)

last book you read: "Blink"

book you?re reading at the moment: "Devil in the White City" just started

favorite drink(s): Beer/Caffeine Free Pepsi/Craberry Juice/Coffee

favorite food: Anything that involves Garlic, Onions, Basil and Olive Oil

last holyday destination (except home, or parent's home): Charleston, South Carolina and Savannah, Georgia

favorite holyday destination so far (except home, or parent's home): parent's home

foreign countries you have been to: France, Italy, England, Greece, Spain

foreign countries you?d like to visit: Africa, Russia and of course, Germany

anything else you?d like to share: I love my family...would die for them!

still anything you?d like to share: Will you answer the same questions, please?

i'll be online in about two hours. will gladly answer all questions!!! till then i'll try telepathy... see if it works!

ha, sooner on line than i thought, but not enough time for the questions ... a bit later, ok?

Of course...whenever you get the time!