@Carl8
4 Years
Awkward
How a Pisces Might React to Being Dumped by Message
Pisces individuals tend to be sensitive and emotional. They may feel hurt or confused but often seek understanding and closure. Their reaction can vary from withdrawal to seeking a heartfelt conversation. It is important to approach them with kindness and honesty to help them process their feelings.
She prob found someone else to fantasise over by now
Could be. I hope that's what happened.
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
React to what? You dumping her or you trying to come back after dumping her in a cowardly way and trying to reappear after 5 weeks?
There's an event, we both have to go, it's sort of a compulsion.
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
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And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
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I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
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You triggered honest, straight talking.
Something you should have done with her 😉
Why do you even care…. Regrets??
Your behaviour was very poor and disrespectful.
Hopefully she’s moved on.
In future remember, cowardly men aren’t atttactive at all...
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
What sign are you
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Scorpio
Why do you even care…. Regrets??
I hate drama.
React to what? You dumping her or you trying to come back after dumping her in a cowardly way and trying to reappear after 5 weeks?
There's an event, we both have to go, it's sort of a compulsion.
If she’s anything like me she might walk by you like she don’t even know you. Lol but I don’t know.. keep us posted let us know how it turns out
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She and her friends would probably gang up on me again.
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
It’s good that you recognize this in yourself. Maybe it’s something to work on. Do you have libra in your chart? Afraid of confrontation?
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Gemini moon.
Your behaviour was very poor and disrespectful.
Hopefully she’s moved on.
In future remember, cowardly men aren’t atttactive at all...
Why do you think that?
Your behaviour was very poor and disrespectful.
Hopefully she’s moved on.
In future remember, cowardly men aren’t atttactive at all...
Why do you think that?
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Which part?
How long were you together before the ghosting?
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3m
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
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She knows why.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
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Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
If she is anything like me she was sad for a day or 2 and now she's over it. Don't be surprised when she doesn't recognize you in the future.
If she is anything like me she was sad for a day or 2 and now she's over it. Don't be surprised when she doesn't recognize you in the future.
That's what I would call a blessing,
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
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Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
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I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.
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You’re a respectful person
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
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is that how you justify behaving in a toxic way?
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3m
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Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.
But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.
But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.
Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.
Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.
Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3m
Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.
But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.
But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.
Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.
Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.
Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.
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I am not texting her.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
is that how you justify behaving in a toxic way?
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Ok, I never said I'm ghosting her, and it's complicated means she's not fond of making the first move or starting a conversation, and I don't need to.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.
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I did that but not in person because I wasn't in town, this vacation gave me time to think about things. Also, I did it this way simply because I know I wouldn't be able to, why feelings tend to creep in.
Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.
But dude… over a year?!
My I ask what you consider early days? Is it ok to ghost after 3 months?
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3m
Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.
But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.
But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.
Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.
Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.
Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.
I am not texting her.
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Good. Just take the L. In the long run it’s gonna prove to be less awkward for the both of you.
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
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If you are not good with break ups you aren’t good to be in a relationship
What was the point of the message in which you “dumped her” via text? Were you genuinely done with the relationship or was that a manipulative attempt to see if she would chase or fight for you?
That was genuine.
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
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She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
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We can't put ourselves in her shoes to feel what she may feel if we don't know what she has done.
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
Why not ask her directly
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Should I? Pisces probably will feel bad.
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
We can't put ourselves in her shoes to feel what she may feel if we don't know what she has done.
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And I couldn't understand her in a year.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
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Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
Obv whatever she did to break your trust relates to fucking someone else.
If she's been this vague with you this long she's been living a double triple whatever life.
No one needs that shit. Or whatever the ganged up garbage was. Seems off.
Cut your losses.
Water signs... ... ...
Obv whatever she did to break your trust relates to fucking someone else.
If she's been this vague with you this long she's been living a double triple whatever life.
No one needs that shit. Or whatever the ganged up garbage was. Seems off.
Cut your losses.
Water signs... ... ...
I did 5 weeks ago, there's an event we both have to go to.
Carl,
Are you sure you aren't a Cancer?
It's my rising sign.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
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She acted like she didn't get that message.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
She acted like she didn't get that message.
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She’s karma ghosting you
😂
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
She acted like she didn't get that message.
She’s karma ghosting you
😂
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I am talking about break-up text.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
She acted like she didn't get that message.
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It would probably be a win-win situation if you both ignored each other as much as possible at the upcoming event.
From a Pisces POV: I would probably send you an evil glance now and again but not make a scene hahaha.
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Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?