Break ups..

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by AntiSocial on Wednesday, July 5, 2017 and has 18 replies.

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@AntiSocial
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I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!

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@nikkistar
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Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!

So, what you are saying is, for your own ego, you want to manipulate her into dumping you, so that you won't be categorized as one of "them".

Got it.

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@Mims
9 Years

Pisces are sensitive and careful about feelings (yours, theirs, anyone's) for what I know. Hence, if you would want one to dump you, you would have to hurt her feelings. Which you must know how to do since you are her boyfriend. This being said, that will put you in a worse category than "guy-who-dumped-her".

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@AntiSocial
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& also she is kinda in a rough patch right now..she has no job staying with me & I do everything I can to support her mentally and financially .. and don't want to contribute more negative ish in her life sooo it's cool I guess to just let it be till she becomes stable

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@Confused_
10 Years

Posted by AntiSocial
& also she is kinda in a rough patch right now..she has no job staying with me & I do everything I can to support her mentally and financially .. and don't want to contribute more negative ish in her life sooo it's cool I guess to just let it be till she becomes stable

Thaat's kind of you and even mindful but still it's like excuse from being honest plus slim chances she's gonna dump you from what I've read. What if it's not gonna get better anytime soon. Both of you won't be happy and the resentment can grow... I mean, just my suggestion, let her know your feelings are changing maybe just that, don't do break up at once. See how it goes from there.

Maybe she needs to be on her own to become stable/better? It's tough but you know

Good luck, however you choose 🙂

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!

what is your sign make up?

I know you are a Taurus sun but do you have gemini placements or aries placements?

it sounds like you have intimacy issues.

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@AntiSocial
9 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!

what is your sign make up?

I know you are a Taurus sun but do you have gemini placements or aries placements?

it sounds like you have intimacy issues.

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Hey yeah how do you figure out your placements ? Thank you!

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AntiSocial

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by AntiSocial
I usually don't mind doing the breaking up but she was already dump before & don't want to be in that same category I suppose.

But all the advices had been really great, thank you!

what is your sign make up?

I know you are a Taurus sun but do you have gemini placements or aries placements?

it sounds like you have intimacy issues.

Hey yeah how do you figure out your placements ? Thank you!

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Go here

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php

and plug in your birth time info

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@Pyscho_pisces
9 Years

Pisces girls can show you an intense, unconditional, passionate love you've never seen before, do everything for you and tell you they'll never leave you.

But over time, if you dont make them feel loved, it will all build up and they will just disappear one day and never want to have anything to do with you again.