Do Pisces always stay friends with their ex? (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Illuminati on Saturday, February 6, 2016 and has 63 replies.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by Illuminati
@undine That guy was playing me and his ex. He still dates her and tells her he is just not ready for relationship, if he was ready she is the one he will commit to.

No, you are the one playing. And every person with brain cells can clearly recognize it by what you have posted in here.

You are stalking his fb ... because stalking men is what desperate cunts do

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Illuminati
@undine That guy was playing me and his ex. He still dates her and tells her he is just not ready for relationship, if he was ready she is the one he will commit to.

Well, this is different. Let him go, he could not appreciate you as long as he is emotionally unavailable.

Good job you found out. Good intuition and excellent detective work! Now google what "emotionally unavailable" partner does to women like you.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by Undine

Posted by Illuminati
@undine That guy was playing me and his ex. He still dates her and tells her he is just not ready for relationship, if he was ready she is the one he will commit to.

Well, this is different. Let him go, he could not appreciate you as long as he is emotionally unavailable.

Good job you found out. Good intuition and excellent detective work! Now google what "emotionally unavailable" partner does to women like you.

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here is a good link too

http://www.yourtango.com/experts/katarina-phang/he-emotionally-unavailable-or-he-just-not-you

Falling For Mr. Unavailable? Follow These Rules

First of all, how do you know if he's really emotionally unavailable or if he's just a little guarded because he's not ready to plunge in both feet or, worse still, he's just emotionally unavailable to you or in other words he's just not that into you?

Here's Why He Lies About His Actual Feelings For You

Second, if he's not ready, will he be ready one day and when he's ready he will pick you as the one? Will you just waste time with such guys? Will you feel used or feel like a temporary filler until something better comes along and then and only then he will dump you?

Third, if he's truly emotionally unavailable, is there a cure to it and should you just accept it or move on to a greener pasture

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@Illuminati
10 Years

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Illuminati
@undine That guy was playing me and his ex. He still dates her and tells her he is just not ready for relationship, if he was ready she is the one he will commit to.

No, you are the one playing. And every person with brain cells can clearly recognize it by what you have posted in here.

You are stalking his fb ... because stalking men is what desperate cunts do

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This is 2016, it's not stalking if you are simply looking at info that is already put on Internet. Get on with time grandma

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@Illuminati
10 Years

@undine Thanks but not much detective work went in there as I saw it with my own eyes he was kissing a girl.

I'm seeing other people and have no issue with him doing the same at early stage.

I started this post simply out of curiosity of Motive of Pisces man staying in touch with an ex.

Last night he text me by accident to say if he was ready to be in relationship he will be with me (he meant his ex)

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Illuminati
@undine Thanks but not much detective work went in there as I saw it with my own eyes he was kissing a girl.

I'm seeing other people and have no issue with him doing the same at early stage.

I started this post simply out of curiosity of Motive of Pisces man staying in touch with an ex.

Last night he text me by accident to say if he was ready to be in relationship he will be with me (he meant his ex)

How do you know the text was not meant for you? Did he called you on his ex name? Maybe that was the accident? I am embarrassed to confess I did something similar when my Gem called to say he was breaking up with me.

We have rarely used our names, because we gave each other pet names. When he was breaking up with me, he called me on my real name. I wanted to call him on his real name too, but I wasn't used to it. So imagine me pleading with Gem to give our relationship another chance.......when I suddenly call him on the name of my ex, a guy Gem was jealous about! LOL!

It wasn't funny at that time, though. Needles to say, we didn't make up.

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@Illuminati
10 Years

@undine we have never talked about commitment. He did mention about marriage and commitment when asked why breaking up with his ex. I replied asking if it was meant for her and no reply. Put him in blocked list since then.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

He seems to have talked about commitment with you before, at least as a reason for breaking up with his ex.

How could he reply if you blocked him? Only he knows the truth (we are just guessing) and you could have know it too by now.

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@Illuminati
10 Years

Posted by Undine
He seems to have talked about commitment with you before, at least as a reason for breaking up with his ex.

How could he reply if you blocked him? Only he knows the truth (we are just guessing) and you could have know it too by now.

I meant we never talk about commitment with each other.

I forgot to block him on Facebook he try contacting me there.

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@einrikspisces
10 Years

It depend on how I break up with my ex. If I break up with my ex in bad term then, I will erase her completely like she never exist.

But if I break up with my ex in good term then being friend with her is OK, I guess.

BUT, I won't kiss her because I already have you, think about your feeling.

Please stop condemn all pisces bad just because some pisces bad. people are different no matter what is their sign.

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@Illuminati
10 Years

Posted by einrikspisces
It depend on how I break up with my ex. If I break up with my ex in bad term then, I will erase her completely like she never exist.

But if I break up with my ex in good term then being friend with her is OK, I guess.

BUT, I won't kiss her because I already have you, think about your feeling.

Please stop condemn all pisces bad just because some pisces bad. people are different no matter what is their sign.

He doesn't really have me as in it exclusive to him. Having me or not it's still weird to take your ex out on dates and kiss on my book

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@Poppyseeds
10 Years500+ Posts

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Posted by Aquastic
No they would never advice you to date other men, Pisces are very insecure, they would do all sorts of things to test if there is another man in your life.

Yes, they do test a whole lot. They only statrt testing if they start developing serious feelings towards you. But then again, they are insecurities drives them to do unthinkable things that may drive you far away from them.

And what's wrong with finding out if there's another man in your life? Knowing whether there's another man in your life or not let's us know where we stand with you.

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I think she was referring to my ex (we still dating) suggested I can date other guys before he is ready for relationship. he said he is not sure how long will it take him and he wants me to be opened to guys who are commitment friendly.

I interpret it as he wants nothing to do with me, after he said that he still takes me out on dates, outside would think we are a couple that is madly in love as he can't takes his eyes and hands off me in public.

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@4reefer2man0
9 Years

Im pisces male. I dont keep in contact with ex's, only the 1 I have children with. When the kids are 19 she will never hear from me again, and we still get along. When your gone its forever. I cant imagine wasting my time, money, effort on someone that I no longer want around. Ill save my energy for the ones I do want around.