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Posted by tizianiI had already typed a reply & for some reason it doesn't show on the post.
You may need to rephrase your story in time because he comes off weak.
Not saying he is weak, I'm sure you have legit reasons for admiring him. None of those reasons are obvious in your post, though. You've painted a picture of a guy who has nothing to offer you.
Anyway here i go again:
So as a woman who has been approached by many men... Its kind of refreshing to actually meet somebody who shares the same sense of humor as you & doesn't have to try too hard to make me like him.
It was seriously crazy how we connected so quickly & how we both instantly felt intellectually attracted to the other. When I'd talk to him it was as though we were in an intimate situation (making love to the brain is what i like to call it). We didn't need to talk about anything besides express our own thoughts to feel so in sync with eachothers feelings and thoughts.
He also has this naturally manly appearance which is hard to find now a days combined with a humble character. I obviously found him super attractive & he had also mentioned that i was driving him crazy in multiple occasions.
Last but not least, he wasn't worried about coming off as a macho man to me but instead he was much more concerned about making me feel safe and secure through his actions and words. He wanted me to know that he was willing to make things work & would genuinely and carefully listen to the things I'd say and expect... In other words, he didn't rely on stupid mind games , although I feel as though he'd sometimes use the pity card to try and fish some compliments. But I was okay with letting him know what he was worth & basically helping him the way he was helping me
Posted by tizianiWhat you've said makes so much sense & it's literally what ive been telling myself for a while. But idk, he seems genuine enough to make me wanna give it a shot.Posted by notafollowerPerfect, you should get more real (and not unhinged) responses when people take the time to read this now.Posted by tizianiI had already typed a reply & for some reason it doesn't show on the post.
You may need to rephrase your story in time because he comes off weak.
Not saying he is weak, I'm sure you have legit reasons for admiring him. None of those reasons are obvious in your post, though. You've painted a picture of a guy who has nothing to offer you.
Anyway here i go again:
So as a woman who has been approached by many men... Its kind of refreshing to actually meet somebody who shares the same sense of humor as you & doesn't have to try too hard to make me like him.
It was seriously crazy how we connected so quickly & how we both instantly felt intellectually attracted to the other. When I'd talk to him it was as though we were in an intimate situation (making love to the brain is what i like to call it). We didn't need to talk about anything besides express our own thoughts to feel so in sync with eachothers feelings and thoughts.
He also has this naturally manly appearance which is hard to find now a days combined with a humble character. I obviously found him super attractive & he had also mentioned that i was driving him crazy in multiple occasions.
Last but not least, he wasn't worried about coming off as a macho man to me but instead he was much more concerned about making me feel safe and secure through his actions and words. He wanted me to know that he was willing to make things work & would genuinely and carefully listen to the things I'd say and expect... In other words, he didn't rely on stupid mind games , although I feel as though he'd sometimes use the pity card to try and fish some compliments. But I was okay with letting him know what he was worth & basically helping him the way he was helping me
All I can say for now is being attracted to Pisces energy repeatedly is probably something you shouldn't fight. Just roll with it until it's becomes obvious to you what attracts you to that side of life. And although you've said he doesn't play mind games, he obviously has this big "I quit" side where may he's fishing for you to be the one offering reassurance. Sometimes you can have 9 things going right for you both, and just the 1 thing wrong and yet that 1 thing is big enough to potentially break the deal. In this case, not being able to find the right time and place to give/take healthy reassurance from each other in a way that doesn't have you looking at each other like "why was I ever interested in sleeping with you in the first place??"
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However for that I need to know from a diff perspective if his feelings are perceived as legitimate or If it's just a fling type of situation.
Also, dyou think he has moved on? Or is there a chance he might come back? Its been a week since we last said bye & also my birthday was just yesterday but he didn't bother to write me...
Maybe he's just over it
Posted by tiziani100% .Posted by notafollowerPosted by tizianiWhat you've said makes so much sense & it's literally what ive been telling myself for a while. But idk, he seems genuine enough to make me wanna give it a shot.Posted by notafollowerPerfect, you should get more real (and not unhinged) responses when people take the time to read this now.Posted by tizianiI had already typed a reply & for some reason it doesn't show on the post.
You may need to rephrase your story in time because he comes off weak.
Not saying he is weak, I'm sure you have legit reasons for admiring him. None of those reasons are obvious in your post, though. You've painted a picture of a guy who has nothing to offer you.
Anyway here i go again:
So as a woman who has been approached by many men... Its kind of refreshing to actually meet somebody who shares the same sense of humor as you & doesn't have to try too hard to make me like him.
It was seriously crazy how we connected so quickly & how we both instantly felt intellectually attracted to the other. When I'd talk to him it was as though we were in an intimate situation (making love to the brain is what i like to call it). We didn't need to talk about anything besides express our own thoughts to feel so in sync with eachothers feelings and thoughts.
He also has this naturally manly appearance which is hard to find now a days combined with a humble character. I obviously found him super attractive & he had also mentioned that i was driving him crazy in multiple occasions.
Last but not least, he wasn't worried about coming off as a macho man to me but instead he was much more concerned about making me feel safe and secure through his actions and words. He wanted me to know that he was willing to make things work & would genuinely and carefully listen to the things I'd say and expect... In other words, he didn't rely on stupid mind games , although I feel as though he'd sometimes use the pity card to try and fish some compliments. But I was okay with letting him know what he was worth & basically helping him the way he was helping me
All I can say for now is being attracted to Pisces energy repeatedly is probably something you shouldn't fight. Just roll with it until it's becomes obvious to you what attracts you to that side of life. And although you've said he doesn't play mind games, he obviously has this big "I quit" side where may he's fishing for you to be the one offering reassurance. Sometimes you can have 9 things going right for you both, and just the 1 thing wrong and yet that 1 thing is big enough to potentially break the deal. In this case, not being able to find the right time and place to give/take healthy reassurance from each other in a way that doesn't have you looking at each other like "why was I ever interested in sleeping with you in the first place??"
However for that I need to know from a diff perspective if his feelings are perceived as legitimate or If it's just a fling type of situation.
Also, dyou think he has moved on? Or is there a chance he might come back? Its been a week since we last said bye & also my birthday was just yesterday but he didn't bother to write me...
Maybe he's just over it
My guess on the whether he comes back or not = pure chance. 50/50.
Because it seems like you're both yet to scratch the surface. At the most it sounds like it was infatuation at this stage, with the chance for more (as is always the case).
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Thank you so much for the feedback
Posted by notafollowerhe sounds a lot like me.Posted by tizianiI had already typed a reply & for some reason it doesn't show on the post.
You may need to rephrase your story in time because he comes off weak.
Not saying he is weak, I'm sure you have legit reasons for admiring him. None of those reasons are obvious in your post, though. You've painted a picture of a guy who has nothing to offer you.
Anyway here i go again:
So as a woman who has been approached by many men... Its kind of refreshing to actually meet somebody who shares the same sense of humor as you & doesn't have to try too hard to make me like him.
It was seriously crazy how we connected so quickly & how we both instantly felt intellectually attracted to the other. When I'd talk to him it was as though we were in an intimate situation (making love to the brain is what i like to call it). We didn't need to talk about anything besides express our own thoughts to feel so in sync with eachothers feelings and thoughts.
He also has this naturally manly appearance which is hard to find now a days combined with a humble character. I obviously found him super attractive & he had also mentioned that i was driving him crazy in multiple occasions.
Last but not least, he wasn't worried about coming off as a macho man to me but instead he was much more concerned about making me feel safe and secure through his actions and words. He wanted me to know that he was willing to make things work & would genuinely and carefully listen to the things I'd say and expect... In other words, he didn't rely on stupid mind games , although I feel as though he'd sometimes use the pity card to try and fish some compliments. But I was okay with letting him know what he was worth & basically helping him the way he was helping me
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if he is...his feeling were 100% genuine
BUT insecurity is a fatal tragic flaw.
insecurity will lead to self-sabotage 100% of the time.
If he works through that issue he will be an amazing partner.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
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Can't believe I'm actually going to say this as I've been avoiding fishes since I became interested in astrology (thanks to my ex who has multiple pisces placements, my mums ex, my aunts husband and well a few pisces like Justin Bieber) .....
isn't bieber an aries...?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingAwwww. That's a really nice thing to hear ☺️☺️Posted by notafollowerhe sounds a lot like me.Posted by tizianiI had already typed a reply & for some reason it doesn't show on the post.
You may need to rephrase your story in time because he comes off weak.
Not saying he is weak, I'm sure you have legit reasons for admiring him. None of those reasons are obvious in your post, though. You've painted a picture of a guy who has nothing to offer you.
Anyway here i go again:
So as a woman who has been approached by many men... Its kind of refreshing to actually meet somebody who shares the same sense of humor as you & doesn't have to try too hard to make me like him.
It was seriously crazy how we connected so quickly & how we both instantly felt intellectually attracted to the other. When I'd talk to him it was as though we were in an intimate situation (making love to the brain is what i like to call it). We didn't need to talk about anything besides express our own thoughts to feel so in sync with eachothers feelings and thoughts.
He also has this naturally manly appearance which is hard to find now a days combined with a humble character. I obviously found him super attractive & he had also mentioned that i was driving him crazy in multiple occasions.
Last but not least, he wasn't worried about coming off as a macho man to me but instead he was much more concerned about making me feel safe and secure through his actions and words. He wanted me to know that he was willing to make things work & would genuinely and carefully listen to the things I'd say and expect... In other words, he didn't rely on stupid mind games , although I feel as though he'd sometimes use the pity card to try and fish some compliments. But I was okay with letting him know what he was worth & basically helping him the way he was helping me
if he is...his feeling were 100% genuine
BUT insecurity is a fatal tragic flaw.
insecurity will lead to self-sabotage 100% of the time.
If he works through that issue he will be an amazing partner.
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Yeah he was very insecure & well if he does it wont be for me apparently... Since we're not talking anymore. Are you guys the type to move on quickly or dyou think he'll message me at some point?
Tbh, i kind of miss him. I think about the random things he used to say and it makes me smile
Posted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
Posted by einpiscesI know that I might sound old fashioned, but in my experience if a guy really wants you he'll put anything aside and go after you.Posted by notafollowerIs pursuing really important ? arent whats important is you being happy ? many pisces are pssive aggresive and shy you know.
Can't believe I'm actually going to say this as I've been avoiding fishes since I became interested in astrology (thanks to my ex who has multiple pisces placements, my mums ex, my aunts husband and well a few pisces like Justin Bieber) .....
But this pisces man has caught my attention & yes, by the time I found out that he was one it was already too late. To be honest the connection was so strong after a couple of hours of talking that I wasn't too bothered about his sign. (His placements are moon in virgo, venus in aries & mars in pisces).
Anyway, when we met I was going through a break up phase with someone else so it was kinda like we knew that the connection was there but we didnt fully address it till i was actually done with the relationship. He was very quick to tell me that we should stop talking as he was catching feelings and was becoming scared and insecure.
Honestly he is amazing, never felt like someone was so willing to truly hear me out and take care of my needs as he was. I felt secure with him... Anyway
We talked about not being ready to be in a relationship (me or him) as for now. But he asked me to wait until he would get his butter together so that we could be together. But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy. So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
Id like some insight on the situation to know what's up incase he contacts me again. Because its not like im crazy in love with him but it's really hard for me to gain interest in somebody and I feel like i might be making a mistake judging him?...
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After that of course im more than willing to give it a 100% . But from my perspective, if he's not pursuing me it means he feels that he is really not that into me. And I'm not the type to fall for someone who doesn't think i am special or different because it means he'll have no problem replacing me.
Hope I don't sound too selfish or one sided, because it's definitely not that. I just feel it's the best way to go (in my opinion and for me)
Posted by notafollowermy venus is in taurus so it's harder for me to move onPosted by AdreamuponwakingAwwww. That's a really nice thing to hear ☺️☺️Posted by notafollowerhe sounds a lot like me.Posted by tizianiI had already typed a reply & for some reason it doesn't show on the post.
You may need to rephrase your story in time because he comes off weak.
Not saying he is weak, I'm sure you have legit reasons for admiring him. None of those reasons are obvious in your post, though. You've painted a picture of a guy who has nothing to offer you.
Anyway here i go again:
So as a woman who has been approached by many men... Its kind of refreshing to actually meet somebody who shares the same sense of humor as you & doesn't have to try too hard to make me like him.
It was seriously crazy how we connected so quickly & how we both instantly felt intellectually attracted to the other. When I'd talk to him it was as though we were in an intimate situation (making love to the brain is what i like to call it). We didn't need to talk about anything besides express our own thoughts to feel so in sync with eachothers feelings and thoughts.
He also has this naturally manly appearance which is hard to find now a days combined with a humble character. I obviously found him super attractive & he had also mentioned that i was driving him crazy in multiple occasions.
Last but not least, he wasn't worried about coming off as a macho man to me but instead he was much more concerned about making me feel safe and secure through his actions and words. He wanted me to know that he was willing to make things work & would genuinely and carefully listen to the things I'd say and expect... In other words, he didn't rely on stupid mind games , although I feel as though he'd sometimes use the pity card to try and fish some compliments. But I was okay with letting him know what he was worth & basically helping him the way he was helping me
if he is...his feeling were 100% genuine
BUT insecurity is a fatal tragic flaw.
insecurity will lead to self-sabotage 100% of the time.
If he works through that issue he will be an amazing partner.
Yeah he was very insecure & well if he does it wont be for me apparently... Since we're not talking anymore. Are you guys the type to move on quickly or dyou think he'll message me at some point?
Tbh, i kind of miss him. I think about the random things he used to say and it makes me smileclick to expand
he might be better with a venus in aries...but really its a toss up with that virgo moon
Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
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i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingHahaha. Guess I'll never know —Posted by notafollowermy venus is in taurus so it's harder for me to move onPosted by AdreamuponwakingAwwww. That's a really nice thing to hear ☺️☺️Posted by notafollowerhe sounds a lot like me.Posted by tizianiI had already typed a reply & for some reason it doesn't show on the post.
You may need to rephrase your story in time because he comes off weak.
Not saying he is weak, I'm sure you have legit reasons for admiring him. None of those reasons are obvious in your post, though. You've painted a picture of a guy who has nothing to offer you.
Anyway here i go again:
So as a woman who has been approached by many men... Its kind of refreshing to actually meet somebody who shares the same sense of humor as you & doesn't have to try too hard to make me like him.
It was seriously crazy how we connected so quickly & how we both instantly felt intellectually attracted to the other. When I'd talk to him it was as though we were in an intimate situation (making love to the brain is what i like to call it). We didn't need to talk about anything besides express our own thoughts to feel so in sync with eachothers feelings and thoughts.
He also has this naturally manly appearance which is hard to find now a days combined with a humble character. I obviously found him super attractive & he had also mentioned that i was driving him crazy in multiple occasions.
Last but not least, he wasn't worried about coming off as a macho man to me but instead he was much more concerned about making me feel safe and secure through his actions and words. He wanted me to know that he was willing to make things work & would genuinely and carefully listen to the things I'd say and expect... In other words, he didn't rely on stupid mind games , although I feel as though he'd sometimes use the pity card to try and fish some compliments. But I was okay with letting him know what he was worth & basically helping him the way he was helping me
if he is...his feeling were 100% genuine
BUT insecurity is a fatal tragic flaw.
insecurity will lead to self-sabotage 100% of the time.
If he works through that issue he will be an amazing partner.
Yeah he was very insecure & well if he does it wont be for me apparently... Since we're not talking anymore. Are you guys the type to move on quickly or dyou think he'll message me at some point?
Tbh, i kind of miss him. I think about the random things he used to say and it makes me smile
he might be better with a venus in aries...but really its a toss up with that virgo moon
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
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I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btwclick to expand
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
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Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys had
Posted by notafolloweri've reached out twicePosted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys hadclick to expand
she didn't reply.
maybe she's blocked me on her phone. idk
we are still friends on fb...i don't get why she wouldn't unfriend me or block me....
so that has been a small source of hope
i thought about mailing her an apology card and gift a couple of months but i honestly think it would be a waste. i thought she would just throw it away.
sucks because
i didn't know she was truly upset until a couple of weeks after i posted that thing on fb.
i deactivate my account a lot so i didn't notice she left a comment on the stupid thing i posted until i reactivated my account weeks later after i posted the stupid thing
oh and as for her placements
we almost have all of the same placements except for our moon sign , and mercury sign
she's a pisces sun
aries moon
venus in taurus
cap mars
merc in pisces
she's the incarnation of a wishlist i made for what i want in a partner a couple of years ago when i was getting over my ex
she's defintely not perfect ( nobody is....myself included) as in i don't idolize her.
i can definitely see her flaws... she is a little rough around the edges....but i think it makes me like her even more
i want to argue with her and then have sex with her afterward.
it's No Bueno.
Posted by GoldenRatioTrust me. I know it's hard for you to live upto the standards of society according to what a man should and shouldn't be doing, but it's really important that you listen to the person when they give you reassurance because it'll help you become more confident in the long run.
Really liking this thread. Feel like I'm getting sound advice, as I too am a Pisces man who finds it hard to initiate things... I feel like woman always mistake my shyness/insecurity as not being interested. Def need to work on that :/
I remember when the pieces told me he was shocked to find out that i was into him because he found himself ugly (though it didn't matter to him anymore. He had just accepted it at that point).... That truly hurt my feelings as he wasn't capable of seeing everything i was seeing. It made me feel horrible so i boosted his confidence as much as i could. And on the same day we stopped talking because he was insecure, he once again told me that he didn't deserve me anyway.
That made me so frustrated because at that point I couldn't figure out if he was trying to get rid of me or looking for reassurance one more time. In that moment i was really mad at him for saying it... Now I regret not having tried to figure out if he was just trying to gain a feeling of security so that he could continue moving forward with whatever it was that we had going on.
Posted by GoldenRatioSo you think he's just waiting for me to reach out to him?
women* and also I bet more than anything this guy is waiting by his phone for you to reach out first if he really liked you. We are just too shy to take the initiative to fix things, its a crappy flaw. I know...
Does that mean that he's not planning on doing it?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingHahahahahha . I laughed so hard at the last sentence ?Posted by notafolloweri've reached out twicePosted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys had
she didn't reply.
maybe she's blocked me on her phone. idk
we are still friends on fb...i don't get why she wouldn't unfriend me or block me....
so that has been a small source of hope
i thought about mailing her an apology card and gift a couple of months but i honestly think it would be a waste. i thought she would just throw it away.
sucks because
i didn't know she was truly upset until a couple of weeks after i posted that thing on fb.
i deactivate my account a lot so i didn't notice she left a comment on the stupid thing i posted until i reactivated my account weeks later after i posted the stupid thing
oh and as for her placements
we almost have all of the same placements except for our moon sign , and mercury sign
she's a pisces sun
aries moon
venus in taurus
cap mars
merc in pisces
she's the incarnation of a wishlist i made for what i want in a partner a couple of years ago when i was getting over my ex
she's defintely not perfect ( nobody is....myself included) as in i don't idolize her.
i can definitely see her flaws... she is a little rough around the edges....but i think it makes me like her even more
i want to argue with her and then have sex with her afterward.
it's No Bueno.
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I feel like she might have felt that your excuse wasn't genuine & by the time you replied she might had already done the most to get over you (telling herself that you didn't care about her).
Idk what to say, it's kind of hard for a woman to regain interest after shes lost it. But never lose hope because anyway can work as long as you make it work.
And I believe that if she once had feelings for you you might be able to bring them back.
Posted by GoldenRatioTo an extent. Like you don't need to depend on it , but of course it's nice to hear good things about you from the people you love. Especially if you need them.
Oh wow, your Pisces guy sounds so much like me. I was literally going to tell the girl I was into the same thing. I truly feel like she deserved so much better than me. I don't know what it is about us, we can literally make other people feel great about themselves/loved but then when it comes to ourselves its just not there unless we have evolved I guess. it sucks! but thanks for the advice. I try not to put my insecurities on others because I know that is SO draining for people. Its not their job to make me feel better about myself, always remind myself of that.
With the pisces guy the only time i was frustrated with that was when I felt like he was trying to get rid of me telling me that he didn't deserve me. Other than that i was happy making him happy.
After all he did take his time to listen to me and try to make me feel understood & comfortable (which I really appreciated)
Oh man I really care about him. Even if we dont end up being together in the end. I just want us both to be happy
Posted by GoldenRatioHow long does that take you? ?
Honestly, he may crack and reach out (I always usually do) lol
I feel so impatient lmaooo
Posted by notafollowerBy need them i mean when you're going through a period of low self steem.Posted by GoldenRatioTo an extent. Like you don't need to depend on it , but of course it's nice to hear good things about you from the people you love. Especially if you need them.
Oh wow, your Pisces guy sounds so much like me. I was literally going to tell the girl I was into the same thing. I truly feel like she deserved so much better than me. I don't know what it is about us, we can literally make other people feel great about themselves/loved but then when it comes to ourselves its just not there unless we have evolved I guess. it sucks! but thanks for the advice. I try not to put my insecurities on others because I know that is SO draining for people. Its not their job to make me feel better about myself, always remind myself of that.
With the pisces guy the only time i was frustrated with that was when I felt like he was trying to get rid of me telling me that he didn't deserve me. Other than that i was happy making him happy.
After all he did take his time to listen to me and try to make me feel understood & comfortable (which I really appreciated)
Oh man I really care about him. Even if we dont end up being together in the end. I just want us both to be happyclick to expand
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
Posted by boxcarmirntaHe's actually a Pisces but I don't think he means harm tbh
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
Im a cancer (gemini dominant) with venus in leo and rising in virgo
Posted by boxcarmirntaIts so interesting to read about peoples diff points of view though i must admit....
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
Ill deff take into consideration your perspective
Posted by GoldenRatioI understand. Its great to get some insight because understanding his motives really helps me see things in diff light.Posted by notafollowerPosted by GoldenRatioHow long does that take you? ?
Honestly, he may crack and reach out (I always usually do) lol
I feel so impatient lmaooo
It takes a while... I almost have to psyche myself up to it and think about never seeing/talking to that person again and if I really really like them, then that thought becomes unbearable and I reach out. But also, if I felt like she were completely done with me, I might want to just let her go be with someone who communicates better or could make her happier in the long run. Communication really is key to everything I swear lol. But you'll never know unless you guys talk. It might be nice to at least get some closure if anything
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This is new to me. You guys are complicated, which in a way i like but it also sort of makes me feel like its too much work.
Thank you btw
Posted by notafollowermaybe as a friend...i'm not sure about morePosted by AdreamuponwakingHahahahahha . I laughed so hard at the last sentence ?Posted by notafolloweri've reached out twicePosted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys had
she didn't reply.
maybe she's blocked me on her phone. idk
we are still friends on fb...i don't get why she wouldn't unfriend me or block me....
so that has been a small source of hope
i thought about mailing her an apology card and gift a couple of months but i honestly think it would be a waste. i thought she would just throw it away.
sucks because
i didn't know she was truly upset until a couple of weeks after i posted that thing on fb.
i deactivate my account a lot so i didn't notice she left a comment on the stupid thing i posted until i reactivated my account weeks later after i posted the stupid thing
oh and as for her placements
we almost have all of the same placements except for our moon sign , and mercury sign
she's a pisces sun
aries moon
venus in taurus
cap mars
merc in pisces
she's the incarnation of a wishlist i made for what i want in a partner a couple of years ago when i was getting over my ex
she's defintely not perfect ( nobody is....myself included) as in i don't idolize her.
i can definitely see her flaws... she is a little rough around the edges....but i think it makes me like her even more
i want to argue with her and then have sex with her afterward.
it's No Bueno.
I feel like she might have felt that your excuse wasn't genuine & by the time you replied she might had already done the most to get over you (telling herself that you didn't care about her).
Idk what to say, it's kind of hard for a woman to regain interest after shes lost it. But never lose hope because anyway can work as long as you make it work.
And I believe that if she once had feelings for you you might be able to bring them back.click to expand
she said she was physically attracted to me but re-evaluated her feelings once she learned more about my history ( i was upfront with all of my intimacy issues in the beginning...I basically was trying to scare her away before anything started but convinced myself it was for the good of both of us)
Self-sabotage is real
idk
the few times we hung out even after I told her all that stuff she would still give me these looks that were so much full of love and adoration
when she was drunk she would verbalize how fond she was of me...sometimes in front of other people..sometimes alone. i would always joke with her and say that it was just the alcohol talking.
i'm hoping that ultimately somehow remnants of those feelings still remain in her and that initial connection we had will somehow someway give way to reconnecting in the future
especially with the help of divine intervention.
The cards have been stacked against me countless times before and
in believing in something greater than myself and not giving up hope
I've always prevailed.
Posted by boxcarmirntasee this is why I love that aqua moon merc
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
and aries combo
even with your pisces sun
you just added spice to this thread .....
it was getting too watery.lol
my libra moon is like stop emoting
and my aqua mercury is like you're not putting me to good use.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingThat's another thing i loved about the pisces. The spirituality. I think its indispensable to feel satisfied in life.Posted by notafollowermaybe as a friend...i'm not sure about morePosted by AdreamuponwakingHahahahahha . I laughed so hard at the last sentence ?Posted by notafolloweri've reached out twicePosted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys had
she didn't reply.
maybe she's blocked me on her phone. idk
we are still friends on fb...i don't get why she wouldn't unfriend me or block me....
so that has been a small source of hope
i thought about mailing her an apology card and gift a couple of months but i honestly think it would be a waste. i thought she would just throw it away.
sucks because
i didn't know she was truly upset until a couple of weeks after i posted that thing on fb.
i deactivate my account a lot so i didn't notice she left a comment on the stupid thing i posted until i reactivated my account weeks later after i posted the stupid thing
oh and as for her placements
we almost have all of the same placements except for our moon sign , and mercury sign
she's a pisces sun
aries moon
venus in taurus
cap mars
merc in pisces
she's the incarnation of a wishlist i made for what i want in a partner a couple of years ago when i was getting over my ex
she's defintely not perfect ( nobody is....myself included) as in i don't idolize her.
i can definitely see her flaws... she is a little rough around the edges....but i think it makes me like her even more
i want to argue with her and then have sex with her afterward.
it's No Bueno.
I feel like she might have felt that your excuse wasn't genuine & by the time you replied she might had already done the most to get over you (telling herself that you didn't care about her).
Idk what to say, it's kind of hard for a woman to regain interest after shes lost it. But never lose hope because anyway can work as long as you make it work.
And I believe that if she once had feelings for you you might be able to bring them back.
she said she was physically attracted to me but re-evaluated her feelings once she learned more about my history ( i was upfront with all of my intimacy issues in the beginning...I basically was trying to scare her away before anything started but convinced myself it was for the good of both of us)
Self-sabotage is real
idk
the few times we hung out even after I told her all that stuff she would still give me these looks that were so much full of love and adoration
when she was drunk she would verbalize how fond she was of me...sometimes in front of other people..sometimes alone. i would always joke with her and say that it was just the alcohol talking.
i'm hoping that ultimately somehow remnants of those feelings still remain in her and that initial connection we had will somehow someway give way to reconnecting in the future
especially with the help of divine intervention.
The cards have been stacked against me countless times before and
in believing in something greater than myself and not giving up hope
I've always prevailed.
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Ask God to guide your actions & im sure that you'll make your way through... Right to her heart.
Good luck man
Posted by notafolloweryeah, Pisces are like Scorpios in terms of destruction and rebirth except we are a bit more positive as in we have hope.... well we acquire it eventuallyPosted by AdreamuponwakingThat's another thing i loved about the pisces. The spirituality. I think its indispensable to feel satisfied in life.Posted by notafollowermaybe as a friend...i'm not sure about morePosted by AdreamuponwakingHahahahahha . I laughed so hard at the last sentence ?Posted by notafolloweri've reached out twicePosted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys had
she didn't reply.
maybe she's blocked me on her phone. idk
we are still friends on fb...i don't get why she wouldn't unfriend me or block me....
so that has been a small source of hope
i thought about mailing her an apology card and gift a couple of months but i honestly think it would be a waste. i thought she would just throw it away.
sucks because
i didn't know she was truly upset until a couple of weeks after i posted that thing on fb.
i deactivate my account a lot so i didn't notice she left a comment on the stupid thing i posted until i reactivated my account weeks later after i posted the stupid thing
oh and as for her placements
we almost have all of the same placements except for our moon sign , and mercury sign
she's a pisces sun
aries moon
venus in taurus
cap mars
merc in pisces
she's the incarnation of a wishlist i made for what i want in a partner a couple of years ago when i was getting over my ex
she's defintely not perfect ( nobody is....myself included) as in i don't idolize her.
i can definitely see her flaws... she is a little rough around the edges....but i think it makes me like her even more
i want to argue with her and then have sex with her afterward.
it's No Bueno.
I feel like she might have felt that your excuse wasn't genuine & by the time you replied she might had already done the most to get over you (telling herself that you didn't care about her).
Idk what to say, it's kind of hard for a woman to regain interest after shes lost it. But never lose hope because anyway can work as long as you make it work.
And I believe that if she once had feelings for you you might be able to bring them back.
she said she was physically attracted to me but re-evaluated her feelings once she learned more about my history ( i was upfront with all of my intimacy issues in the beginning...I basically was trying to scare her away before anything started but convinced myself it was for the good of both of us)
Self-sabotage is real
idk
the few times we hung out even after I told her all that stuff she would still give me these looks that were so much full of love and adoration
when she was drunk she would verbalize how fond she was of me...sometimes in front of other people..sometimes alone. i would always joke with her and say that it was just the alcohol talking.
i'm hoping that ultimately somehow remnants of those feelings still remain in her and that initial connection we had will somehow someway give way to reconnecting in the future
especially with the help of divine intervention.
The cards have been stacked against me countless times before and
in believing in something greater than myself and not giving up hope
I've always prevailed.
Ask God to guide your actions & im sure that you'll make your way through... Right to her heart.
Good luck manclick to expand
lol
Posted by notafollowerGood luck to you tooPosted by AdreamuponwakingThat's another thing i loved about the pisces. The spirituality. I think its indispensable to feel satisfied in life.Posted by notafollowermaybe as a friend...i'm not sure about morePosted by AdreamuponwakingHahahahahha . I laughed so hard at the last sentence ?Posted by notafolloweri've reached out twicePosted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys had
she didn't reply.
maybe she's blocked me on her phone. idk
we are still friends on fb...i don't get why she wouldn't unfriend me or block me....
so that has been a small source of hope
i thought about mailing her an apology card and gift a couple of months but i honestly think it would be a waste. i thought she would just throw it away.
sucks because
i didn't know she was truly upset until a couple of weeks after i posted that thing on fb.
i deactivate my account a lot so i didn't notice she left a comment on the stupid thing i posted until i reactivated my account weeks later after i posted the stupid thing
oh and as for her placements
we almost have all of the same placements except for our moon sign , and mercury sign
she's a pisces sun
aries moon
venus in taurus
cap mars
merc in pisces
she's the incarnation of a wishlist i made for what i want in a partner a couple of years ago when i was getting over my ex
she's defintely not perfect ( nobody is....myself included) as in i don't idolize her.
i can definitely see her flaws... she is a little rough around the edges....but i think it makes me like her even more
i want to argue with her and then have sex with her afterward.
it's No Bueno.
I feel like she might have felt that your excuse wasn't genuine & by the time you replied she might had already done the most to get over you (telling herself that you didn't care about her).
Idk what to say, it's kind of hard for a woman to regain interest after shes lost it. But never lose hope because anyway can work as long as you make it work.
And I believe that if she once had feelings for you you might be able to bring them back.
she said she was physically attracted to me but re-evaluated her feelings once she learned more about my history ( i was upfront with all of my intimacy issues in the beginning...I basically was trying to scare her away before anything started but convinced myself it was for the good of both of us)
Self-sabotage is real
idk
the few times we hung out even after I told her all that stuff she would still give me these looks that were so much full of love and adoration
when she was drunk she would verbalize how fond she was of me...sometimes in front of other people..sometimes alone. i would always joke with her and say that it was just the alcohol talking.
i'm hoping that ultimately somehow remnants of those feelings still remain in her and that initial connection we had will somehow someway give way to reconnecting in the future
especially with the help of divine intervention.
The cards have been stacked against me countless times before and
in believing in something greater than myself and not giving up hope
I've always prevailed.
Ask God to guide your actions & im sure that you'll make your way through... Right to her heart.
Good luck manclick to expand
let us know when he contacts you or if you contact him!
Posted by notafollowerPosted by boxcarmirntaHe's actually a Pisces but I don't think he means harm tbh
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
Im a cancer (gemini dominant) with venus in leo and rising in virgoclick to expand
I dated a cancer who said that kinda shit all the time... Turns out he was right... I could find a million men better than him..... That's cowardly talk.. He wants you to do the work for him. Yuck.i wish i wouldve headed his warning.
Posted by GoldenRatioPosted by boxcarmirntaAgreed. I have a lot of Cancer in my chart and I def think it makes me get down on myself for no reason. It's lame, but also its just the drawback from being so emotional. All that water creates emotions and they gotta come out somehow. The only places that really value excess emotions are the arts/entertainment industry and psychiatry lol. Women appreciate it I think but only to an extent, gender roles tell men they can't be overly emotional or they look "weak." I've become a master of hiding my emotions because of this but it backfires all the time and I come off as cold.
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
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I like emotional dudes but they also need to be strong. I hate when men put all their garbage on me and expect me to do all the emotional work. Over it. Also all the aquarius in my chart hates that I'm a Pisces.. Haha.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntasee this is why I love that aqua moon merc
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
and aries combo
even with your pisces sun
you just added spice to this thread .....
it was getting too watery.lol
my libra moon is like stop emoting
and my aqua mercury is like you're not putting me to good use.
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Haha.. My aqua and pisces are constantly battling eachother!! It's exhausting..
Posted by boxcarmirntamaybe it will get easier as you get older.Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntasee this is why I love that aqua moon merc
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
and aries combo
even with your pisces sun
you just added spice to this thread .....
it was getting too watery.lol
my libra moon is like stop emoting
and my aqua mercury is like you're not putting me to good use.
Haha.. My aqua and pisces are constantly battling eachother!! It's exhausting..
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i feel like it will.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntamaybe it will get easier as you get older.Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntasee this is why I love that aqua moon merc
Oh god he sounds like a cancer.... Ughhh... I hate the whole 'you deserve someone better'who the fuck says that?? Can you imagine saying that?
What that means is: i can do whatever i want to you if you accept this bs I'm feeding you... Don't pity him don't feel bad for him and don't let him get away with that crap. He wants to see how far you'll go for him, so he can continue to play games for eternity. What is your sign?
and aries combo
even with your pisces sun
you just added spice to this thread .....
it was getting too watery.lol
my libra moon is like stop emoting
and my aqua mercury is like you're not putting me to good use.
Haha.. My aqua and pisces are constantly battling eachother!! It's exhausting..
i feel like it will.
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Think I'm already old! 🙂
"I tell him to sort of get lost" Ummmm alright. If I was him I wouldn't give you a chance after being so damn rude. You don't deserve him
Posted by AdreamuponwakingWill do ☺️Posted by notafollowerGood luck to you tooPosted by AdreamuponwakingThat's another thing i loved about the pisces. The spirituality. I think its indispensable to feel satisfied in life.Posted by notafollowermaybe as a friend...i'm not sure about morePosted by AdreamuponwakingHahahahahha . I laughed so hard at the last sentence ?Posted by notafolloweri've reached out twicePosted by AdreamuponwakingSo you haven't reached out to her and asked her what was it that bothered her?Posted by notafollowernot exactly...things were misinterpreted on both of our ends constantly.Posted by AdreamuponwakingHow come? Was it hard to keep the conversation going? What was her sun?Posted by notafollowerthat's greatPosted by AdreamuponwakingApparently he only invests energy in communicating when he is interested.
it sounds like he is also great at communicating which is also super rare for pisces males.
And we both seemed to agree on the fact that it was very natural & that we didn't really have to try.
Sometimes when I'd hold something back he'd tell me to stop because i was going to damage the communication flow.
So i used that same sentence on him everytime hed hold back & it worked —??
i wish communication was better between me and my last love interest
miscommunication was really our undoing.
she won't talk to me and like you i miss her .
she was really cute.
i know it's a long shot but i'm hoping someday we'll reconnect even as friends.
it would definitely be a small miracle if we did but i have already witnessed plenty of those in my short little life.
I'm here to listen to you vent if you need it btw
at first it was benign but eventually, things got awkward ( when we were texting...like often times she didn't get when i was joking) and then I think I ultimately hurt her feelings somehow by posting this stupid thing i wrote on fb.
she has since stopped talking to me and i'm not 100 percent sure how i offended her.
i really just want to spend more time with her.
it's on my bucket list.
Again, whats her sun sign?
You know i would play along when my pisces would say "hurtful" things in a jokingly way. Then hed think i was offended when I truly wasn't . I was just playing along.
But anyway I feel like if you don't show interest in getting to know what was it that bothered her she'll become resentful and eventually think you're not really interested in the first place.
And I know it's hard for pisces men sometimes to make things happen. But you need to own the situation and take the lead at least the first time if you want to regain that friendship (atleast) that you guys had
she didn't reply.
maybe she's blocked me on her phone. idk
we are still friends on fb...i don't get why she wouldn't unfriend me or block me....
so that has been a small source of hope
i thought about mailing her an apology card and gift a couple of months but i honestly think it would be a waste. i thought she would just throw it away.
sucks because
i didn't know she was truly upset until a couple of weeks after i posted that thing on fb.
i deactivate my account a lot so i didn't notice she left a comment on the stupid thing i posted until i reactivated my account weeks later after i posted the stupid thing
oh and as for her placements
we almost have all of the same placements except for our moon sign , and mercury sign
she's a pisces sun
aries moon
venus in taurus
cap mars
merc in pisces
she's the incarnation of a wishlist i made for what i want in a partner a couple of years ago when i was getting over my ex
she's defintely not perfect ( nobody is....myself included) as in i don't idolize her.
i can definitely see her flaws... she is a little rough around the edges....but i think it makes me like her even more
i want to argue with her and then have sex with her afterward.
it's No Bueno.
I feel like she might have felt that your excuse wasn't genuine & by the time you replied she might had already done the most to get over you (telling herself that you didn't care about her).
Idk what to say, it's kind of hard for a woman to regain interest after shes lost it. But never lose hope because anyway can work as long as you make it work.
And I believe that if she once had feelings for you you might be able to bring them back.
she said she was physically attracted to me but re-evaluated her feelings once she learned more about my history ( i was upfront with all of my intimacy issues in the beginning...I basically was trying to scare her away before anything started but convinced myself it was for the good of both of us)
Self-sabotage is real
idk
the few times we hung out even after I told her all that stuff she would still give me these looks that were so much full of love and adoration
when she was drunk she would verbalize how fond she was of me...sometimes in front of other people..sometimes alone. i would always joke with her and say that it was just the alcohol talking.
i'm hoping that ultimately somehow remnants of those feelings still remain in her and that initial connection we had will somehow someway give way to reconnecting in the future
especially with the help of divine intervention.
The cards have been stacked against me countless times before and
in believing in something greater than myself and not giving up hope
I've always prevailed.
Ask God to guide your actions & im sure that you'll make your way through... Right to her heart.
Good luck man
let us know when he contacts you or if you contact him!
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Posted by pisceanlovesWell thats the best I could do after he decided to talk to me like he was trying to get rid of me.
"I tell him to sort of get lost" Ummmm alright. If I was him I wouldn't give you a chance after being so damn rude. You don't deserve him
I know now that it wasn't the case. But i was annoyed & anyway I don't feel like that was rude.
Probably blunt if anything.
We were used to talking like that anyway. He has an Aqua Mercury and mine is in Gemini.
Im sure he didn't take it to heart
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But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy.
So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
You've got to be kidding.
so, YOU push him away, several times ... but, he's the bad guy because your Princess self is so used to be chased?
According to the OP, he did nothing offensive, nor unsure .. until YOU pushed him away.
My hope is that he realizes your a fucking bullet, so then he swims away.
Posted by P-AngelIf thats how you interpretated the whole situation... I mean there always has to be someone who takes everything the wrong way, so I ain't mad ☺️Posted by notafollower
But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy.
So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
You've got to be kidding.
so, YOU push him away, several times ... but, he's the bad guy because your Princess self is so used to be chased?
According to the OP, he did nothing offensive, nor unsure .. until YOU pushed him away.
My hope is that he realizes your a fucking bullet, so then he swims away.
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Not like I was expecting positive feedback when I saw it was you. You seem to be quite negative overall
Posted by notafollowerPosted by P-AngelIf thats how you interpretated the whole situation... I mean there always has to be someone who takes everything the wrong way, so I ain't mad ☺️Posted by notafollower
But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy.
So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
You've got to be kidding.
so, YOU push him away, several times ... but, he's the bad guy because your Princess self is so used to be chased?
According to the OP, he did nothing offensive, nor unsure .. until YOU pushed him away.
My hope is that he realizes your a fucking bullet, so then he swims away.
Not like I was expecting positive feedback when I saw it was you. You seem to be quite negative overallclick to expand
..... because you ignoring him just because you had a little mood is a positive thing for you to do.
..... because telling him to get lost when he hasn't done anything wrong except react off of you pushing him away is a positive thing for you to do.
Sounds like you have the self awareness of a dog turd.
Posted by P-AngelIs that all you've gotten from the story?Posted by notafollowerPosted by P-AngelIf thats how you interpretated the whole situation... I mean there always has to be someone who takes everything the wrong way, so I ain't mad ☺️Posted by notafollower
But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy.
So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
You've got to be kidding.
so, YOU push him away, several times ... but, he's the bad guy because your Princess self is so used to be chased?
According to the OP, he did nothing offensive, nor unsure .. until YOU pushed him away.
My hope is that he realizes your a fucking bullet, so then he swims away.
Not like I was expecting positive feedback when I saw it was you. You seem to be quite negative overall
..... because you ignoring him just because you had a little mood is a positive thing for you to do.
..... because telling him to get lost when he hasn't done anything wrong except react off of you pushing him away is a positive thing for you to do.
Sounds like you have the self awareness of a dog turd.click to expand
Then its been confirmed. You're quite a negative person
Posted by scorpiosnowJust saw this. No hes a piscesPosted by notafollower
Can't believe I'm actually going to say this as I've been avoiding fishes since I became interested in astrology (thanks to my ex who has multiple pisces placements, my mums ex, my aunts husband and well a few pisces like Justin Bieber) .....
isn't bieber an aries...?
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1. Bieber is garbage
2. I'm a great communicator, I'd say most are.
3. If you come off moody, we'll respond negatively back.
4. Dudes an extremist with emotion.
5. Sincerity counts when talking after.
Honestly how you feel "strongly" is what you should flow with. What happened is basically a moody error and be recovered somewhat quickly.
2. I'm a great communicator, I'd say most are.
3. If you come off moody, we'll respond negatively back.
4. Dudes an extremist with emotion.
5. Sincerity counts when talking after.
Honestly how you feel "strongly" is what you should flow with. What happened is basically a moody error and be recovered somewhat quickly.
Posted by notafollowerhe is making some effort and you are just attacking him lol
We talked about not being ready to be in a relationship (me or him) as for now. But he asked me to wait until he would get his butter together so that we could be together. But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy. So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Any type of feed back would be appreciated
Posted by einpisces—Posted by notafollowerHopefully he will move on too, to other woman who could accept him for who he is, a woman that see and appreciate abudant beautiful thing inside him which he have not searching and asking what he dont have.Posted by P-AngelIs that all you've gotten from the story?Posted by notafollowerPosted by P-AngelIf thats how you interpretated the whole situation... I mean there always has to be someone who takes everything the wrong way, so I ain't mad ☺️Posted by notafollower
But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy.
So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
You've got to be kidding.
so, YOU push him away, several times ... but, he's the bad guy because your Princess self is so used to be chased?
According to the OP, he did nothing offensive, nor unsure .. until YOU pushed him away.
My hope is that he realizes your a fucking bullet, so then he swims away.
Not like I was expecting positive feedback when I saw it was you. You seem to be quite negative overall
..... because you ignoring him just because you had a little mood is a positive thing for you to do.
..... because telling him to get lost when he hasn't done anything wrong except react off of you pushing him away is a positive thing for you to do.
Sounds like you have the self awareness of a dog turd.
Then its been confirmed. You're quite a negative person
Then happy with that woman.click to expand
Posted by notafollowerPosted by P-AngelIs that all you've gotten from the story?Posted by notafollowerPosted by P-AngelIf thats how you interpretated the whole situation... I mean there always has to be someone who takes everything the wrong way, so I ain't mad ☺️Posted by notafollower
But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy.
So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
You've got to be kidding.
so, YOU push him away, several times ... but, he's the bad guy because your Princess self is so used to be chased?
According to the OP, he did nothing offensive, nor unsure .. until YOU pushed him away.
My hope is that he realizes your a fucking bullet, so then he swims away.
Not like I was expecting positive feedback when I saw it was you. You seem to be quite negative overall
..... because you ignoring him just because you had a little mood is a positive thing for you to do.
..... because telling him to get lost when he hasn't done anything wrong except react off of you pushing him away is a positive thing for you to do.
Sounds like you have the self awareness of a dog turd.
Then its been confirmed. You're quite a negative personclick to expand
so now you're making the thread about what you think of me, rather than the topic at hand ... no wonder he's backing off. You can't handle anything other than what your self imposed privileged mind wants to hear.
He's hopefully realizing you're not worth his effort and just want to play head games with him by putting in on the end and string while making false promises to keep him strung along.
My hope is that he finds a woman who knows how to treat him right ... you're not her.
Posted by P-AngelDon't you have anything better to do? Just wondering.Posted by notafollowerPosted by P-AngelIs that all you've gotten from the story?Posted by notafollowerPosted by P-AngelIf thats how you interpretated the whole situation... I mean there always has to be someone who takes everything the wrong way, so I ain't mad ☺️Posted by notafollower
But still i was unsure that I would like him enough in the long run to commit to a serious relationship with him.
One night he wanted to talk to me & i wasn't in the mood, so he became insecure, thought i was talking to another man & started telling me that I deserved someone better, that he didn't deserve me and that he really wanted me to be happy.
So then i tell him to sort of get lost and he asks me to block him because he wasn't able to & that he wanted me but clearly he couldn't have me.... I told him that if I didn't matter to him there was no need to block as he wouldn't matter to me either. (Which I meant at the time)....
Point is, for me if a guy wants to be with me, I'm used to them working hard to persue me & with this guy im not sure he really liked me because of how he acted.
You've got to be kidding.
so, YOU push him away, several times ... but, he's the bad guy because your Princess self is so used to be chased?
According to the OP, he did nothing offensive, nor unsure .. until YOU pushed him away.
My hope is that he realizes your a fucking bullet, so then he swims away.
Not like I was expecting positive feedback when I saw it was you. You seem to be quite negative overall
..... because you ignoring him just because you had a little mood is a positive thing for you to do.
..... because telling him to get lost when he hasn't done anything wrong except react off of you pushing him away is a positive thing for you to do.
Sounds like you have the self awareness of a dog turd.
Then its been confirmed. You're quite a negative person
so now you're making the thread about what you think of me, rather than the topic at hand ... no wonder he's backing off. You can't handle anything other than what your self imposed privileged mind wants to hear.
He's hopefully realizing you're not worth his effort and just want to play head games with him by putting in on the end and string while making false promises to keep him strung along.
My hope is that he finds a woman who knows how to treat him right ... you're not her.
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I mean I already got your point. No need to repeat yourself so much ?
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