How Do You Tell a Pisces No?

Okay, trying to get this right this time...... From my experience with a Pisces, it seems they do not like the word "NO." They want your attention when they want it and expect you to drop all things and give in, even if you really cannot . (even with merely texting). And if you cannot reciprocate much at that time even via text, but do let them know you are busy at the moment, somehow you have changed and they make it aware that you have changed and they do not like that change.

The Pisces I am speaking of has Venus in ARIES, not Scorpio as previously mentioned.....

Any input would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Okay, hid my original post and corrected it. Thanks for pointing it out LuLu. He has Venus in Aries.

BubblyAquarius, no not in love with him. Just infatuated I would say. We used to talk/text for hours. There were a few days where he would contact me via text and I did reciprocate but had a lot going on at the time and was not responding as I was prior to that. I did let him know what was going on. He became quite upset at this and since then he does contact me but not as often. I thought he was "swimming away", so I asked him why do we not talk like we used to. His response was, "Well that few days you acted different and just changed how we talk."

So, if what he is saying is true, why is he still talking/communicating with me if he was hurt by it?

BubbyAquaris, how would I find eros and psyche? (new to this). Thanks.

He is 45. It is almost like I feel he is "punishing" me in some way. I am putting that 150% in when we talk but it is like he is not anymore, but yet we are still communicating. May sound silly, but I am actually torn between continuing to show him that I am giving the 150% or just mirroring him and seeing what happens.

Posted by bubblyaquarius

I am exactly like what you just said. I can be .....

you are an Aquarius

Posted by bubblyaquarius

ok, I really don't think that venus or mars actually relate much to how a person loves.

lol, and a dumb one at that

Capgirl - ...are you sure that guy wasn't me? I have all those placements. ; )

I do live in PA! But no S initial. I was so close....Whatever, he has to be practically me, anyway.

Well, it's good to know that if you dated me, we might get along pretty well. ; ) Haha, that is totally useless knowledge. I want to try dating someone with the same placements as me and how that goes. Probably bad, is what I'm figuring. But, I think, past relationships in which you both can still say nice things about each other and be comfortable with what you had are the best.

It is kind of hard for people to give insight into a relationship we can't see or see interactions, but I would say that the man probably got the vibe that you were putting him off and now he mirrored you. He must like you in some way since he is still contacting you.

Does he have Taurus in his chart somewhere?

I dunno I think something is amiss and you left something out of the story. Maybe the reason he got upset was because of the reason of why you were busy? *shrugs shoulders* If he carved out time of his life at a busy time to contact you and the roles was reversed and you said you were too busy... that may do it.

I dunno... my spidey senses are tingling that something is missing.

Happy New Year's everyone. I really enjoy reading these threads. OMG there was one that read like a novel...... girl wanting to know how to react to a Pisces man. In the end she ended up being married or something like that. In my readings, both here and on the internet, I am still confused but have learned a lot, I think. LOL

I feel I have made plenty of attempts to speak with the Pisces I am talking to like it was in the beginning. I feel I am STILL being mirrored though. Don't get me wrong, he still texts me first off and on and does answer texts almost immediately when I initiate contact with him, but it is in NO way the way it was in the beginning. The conversations are a LOT more short lived than they were.

I feel he is just "being nice to me" and slowly swimming away. Since I last initiated contact and we had a short conversation, I am not going to text him anymore..... see if he contacts me.

Posted by bubblyaquarius
ok, I really don't think that venus or mars actually relate much to how a person loves. Can you find out their eros and psyche?

I think the lilith sheds alot of light also. I just never felt my venus and mars in aquarius fit me at all.

Is this a pisces man or woman?

From what I've read on pisces women, that behaviour doesn't seem odd. Seems norm. Pisces girls are just like that. -/

I think Pisces in love are very insecure and sensitive. =/

Yes were are.