@Nefer
17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces
Losing a guy in ten days can involve actions like being overly clingy, creating conflicts, or showing disinterest. The key is to act in ways that highlight incompatibility or push him away without being manipulative. This approach helps make the breakup clear and straightforward within the timeframe.
Love you too, Ian 😛
Open your mouth and utter one of these two phrases:
I love you.
I'm pregnant.
Watch them scatter like cockroaches. 😛
Posted by ianthefish
we are on the pisces board not the capricorn board..
LOL!
LMAO True, true. Nor am I a Leo.
It doesn't matter what sign he is. You want to lose a guy fast, tell him you just had a threesome with his mom and dad.
Ten days... pffft... people always trying to make things hard!
Honestly it was just so personal and emotonal for me dat I posted it and after two hours of me watching for someone to answer and nobody did I felt way too vulnerable to leave it there...Its so close to my heart and occupiying all of my thoughts at the moment I cudn't bear for it to be out in the world unless it was in a constructive way..if u no wat i mean— I was obviously wrong I shud have just waited for yer time zone : )
Vulnerable is the hardest thing for a Pisces (esp a woman) to do.
Might be good practice for you to do it with Internet strangers, eh?
As for the library books - SHAME on you, coorkie!
I don't steal 'em... I check them out properly.
... then "forget" to return them.
Whoops.
Okay den....well i really don't even remember what I fully wrote the first time...It was only a vent really...Nothing anyone cud do ta help....Long story short Im in love with a man who hates me because I made him ahte me...Because clearly subconsciously I want to die alone haha
So go back to your first post and unhide it.
And if fucking up a relationship means we want to die alone, then we're mostly all just hermits and Grinches and want nothing more than to die lonely and alone. In other words, we ALL screw up relationships - they're a learning process cuz we aren't born knowing what to do already. So don't beat yourself up.
And I made a joke dunners. 😢 Ah's sorry. *dragging toe in sand*. Didn't even see what you first posted.
Right its unhidden..let me av it...any thoughts atall?? about how to either forget this or fix it wud b helpful?
He seems to have some weird jealousy thing going on, esp for a guy that barely knows you and is certainly not your "man." Aside from letting alcohol "unleash your inner bitch" (lol) (and maybe getting too emotional/pushy/clingy with a new guy) which you already know was not the right thing to do, I don't see how you "fucked up" anything. Maybe he's just an immature douche? But then again, I know very little about Aries males, being that the only Aries male I'm in very close contact with is my teenage son LOL (And he's got my same Pisces Mercury, so he's a bit of a sensitive, thoughtful sweetie under all that fire and never plays hot-cold games with people... it's all normal, normal, normal, BLOW UP, apologize, normal. heh)
Um yea I was just wondering what everyones opinion of the situation is because some of my friends think hes the idiot others blamed me for the whole thing.... It is weird the way hes such a jealous person when in all reality we definatly weren't together in any real way. While we were seeing each other I got a text message from a boy who I didn't know had my number so I was surprised and said why is such and such texting me and he said to tell the boy that he was going crazy that he had text me..I was like em no...He's a strange one. I don't know whether to reach out (because I hate leaving things unresolved) or just forget the whole nasty situation...I still have feelings for him but I wonder is that just my sadistic side alwasy wanting a difficult man who's just out of reach? The more I obsess about the general situation the more I convince myself rightly or wrongly I want him. My mind is a mess I think ha
yea ur probably right about the loyalty thing but I mean I was being loyal very loyal just not to him. He did wrong to my friend and I stood up and said it was wrong. I mean maybe I should have minded my own business but nobody else was going to call him out on it. I thought I would say my piece and it would b done. I don't know if it's because he new he was wrong and is ashamed that he has backed away. He doesn't even come to the places we used hang out now he has completley disapeared off the planet in regards to my friends etc. Im confused about what to do because I don't know if it's he hates me or thinks I hate him...So I don't know what tackt to take if and when I do see him again. I don't want to be over friendly in case he hates me and is horrible to me but I dont want to be cold in case he thinks I hate him which I don't..I want to at least be able to put this behind us and be friends..Do you follow? Sorry if Im abit all over the place Im nearly confusing myself at this stage..
I don't know I wish I could try those things but it's no contact right now last time we spoke he pretty much told me where to go...
Oh well... I don't know maybe I should just wait and see what happens... it's really difficult for me to do that though so impatient thanks for all the help anyway you guys : )
Will do. I wouldn't realy be sure how to go about reaching out though. wat to say keep it casual not mentioning the argument or apoligize again. I dont really know him well enough to know what he would respond to... Alot of peopel I have been talking to about it ahve said just to forget it youc an't really embaress somebody liek that and expec tthem to still want to be around you. I guess that's true but it was just my opinion I never thought he would take it to heart the way he did
I read this on subject and off if you want to have some one out of your life why don't you just tell him to fuck off. I mean my God (I could take the hint I find it hard to believe there are Guys who won;t just go away.
what?
ROFLOL And now a word from Tate.
It's alright dunners, trust me.
I don't understand haha
Just think of the man like a stealth bomber. Flies low, drops one ( comment in this instance ) and skies off into the distance. 😉
it going on half nine
its ten to ten this side of the world
not tonight last night after the night club I fell asleep on my kitchen floor in my underwear...my sister found my just lying there this morning happy as could be...so random
😄 Oh dear.
Oh dear is right my sister thought it was hilarious...espeically because the kitchen was ransacked from me trying to cook scrambled eggs at about half four in the morning.
LOL Oh no dunners. What is it about breakfast food that sounds so good after a night out? Up side, you didn't start a fire, and you were in your pants the next morning. Well done. 🙂
yes dat is a nice positive spin on it haha it has been worse I suppose, I made my self really sick before by cooking and eating minced meat from frozen when I was hammered i never knew you had to defrost it first—!?!?!?!
Im such a dunce
That's my kind of optimism!
Well, you didn't burn it down and you still had your undies... good for you. Nice!
LOL Oh NO! My goodness me dunners. That's funny. In the kitchen, with an ice lump in the pan. That thing had to have been char on the outside and arctic or raw within. You can laugh about it now though. Not funny then, made you sick. Note to self: Leave meal in fridge before going to pub. 😉
That's right LibraSid, have to look up with these sorts of things. 😄
Ye i was wondering wat he was talking about i didnt think it pertained to my situation at all IF ONLY my problem was he wouldnt leave me alone.
I know stupidity of cooking frozen mince..i put loads of bolongnese sauce on it tho and it tasted fine..well in my drunken state it did anyway...another friend of mine text me not so long ago and said when he woke up this morning after our night out he put his hand in his jeans pocket to see if he had any money left and pulled out a battered sausage haha
oh yea it had batter on it
imagine beating someone up with a sausage that would be comical
LOL!!!!!!!!!! Italian sauce covers all evils. Something rather, hmmm, shall we say..? Absolutely hilarious about a battered sausage in ones pocket. Oh the twists and turns the mind takes. 😉
I know it's hilarious the things that happen when you have had a few drinks.
This board is so great because I'm feeling really chatty today but would have nobody to talk to other then this
Isn't the internet great!!
The internet is wonderful. 🙂
Sid the little is between the 9 and 10 the big hand is on 6 so its half nine or 930 but if you in u.s. it could be between 7 , 6, 5, hours difference.
Posted by Nefer
Does it involve a shovel and a bag of lime? o.OHaha, you sound exp'd Nefer...
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You have no proof he DIDN'T run away with that chick from the bar that he was cheating on me with 😛
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Does it involve a shovel and a bag of lime? o.O