I am very confused by Pisces man

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So I’ve known this Pisces male from ab Facebook group and we’ve been talking on and off since may. He’s very closed off and doesn’t reveal much. We fight when we’re on , because he doesn’t open up. I know he’s struggling with addiction, and he has a very laborious job. But we always seem to come back to one another and it’s usually left with me wondering where we stand. He has said “I love you” random times out of nowhere and Idk what to think about this. He has been very nasty to me in the past and said some awfully verbally abusive things. But he’s stopped that he knows I won’t stand for it anymore. But what’s with the “I love you” but not even knowing where we stand?? Is he just stringing me along.? Also he’s like 11 years younger than me, and it’s LDR he’s all the way across the country from me. What is going on. I’m a Virgo btw. Please help me!!! Thanks in advance🙂
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Posted by ValleysofNeptune

Well you must see something in him if you’re interested in him but from my point of view I’m struggling to see what that is lol. He doesn’t tell you much. Ok that’s fine. He’s struggling with addiction. Ok whatever I guess...He’s verbally abusive and you guys fight....he doesn’t even live close to you.....I guess I just don’t see why you would be interested lol


Maybe because he's shady and challenging ? lol

I've noticed I like solving puzzles as well, OP seems determined 🙂

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Posted by Sagicorn

Virgo get your feet back on Earth. You know very well it's nothing important at all and that you should be looking for real deal instead. I'm actually surprised to read this kind of topic from Virgo, you're much more reasonable than this. Snap out of it. You fight, he's addict, he lives across country, he's 11 years younger than you, he insulted you verbally...what worse can it be seriously?! Only thing lacking is you meet and he beats the crap out of you. Everything else that can go wrong you got going on already.

I love you.

See? It's not that hard to say to a stranger and it means literally nothing. Snap out of it and get your feet back on Earth

This 👆
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I agree; as hard as it was I blocked him, after the last time we spoke because he was extremely rude anyways. So yea I’ll let him deal with his shit.

Posted by Arielle83

He’s struggling with addiction.

Let him deal with his recovery.

If you know anything about addiction and how your relationship affects his struggle then you should back off.

He needs support, not worrying about validating you.

You’re 11 years older, so let him get his feet back on the ground

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It was probably the fact he was playing mind games and I couldn’t ever really have him so it was like a conquest or something. But I blocked him finally after I last spoke to him and he was completely rude. I’m moving forward... or going to try my hardest



Posted by ValleysofNeptune

Well you must see something in him if you’re interested in him but from my point of view I’m struggling to see what that is lol. He doesn’t tell you much. Ok that’s fine. He’s struggling with addiction. Ok whatever I guess...He’s verbally abusive and you guys fight....he doesn’t even live close to you.....I guess I just don’t see why you would be interested lol

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I blocked him I’m moving on from it. It was like something I was trying to win. I couldn’t understand why he wouldn’t open up to me or give me love so it was like a challenge.

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Posted by ValleysofNeptune

Well you must see something in him if you’re interested in him but from my point of view I’m struggling to see what that is lol. He doesn’t tell you much. Ok that’s fine. He’s struggling with addiction. Ok whatever I guess...He’s verbally abusive and you guys fight....he doesn’t even live close to you.....I guess I just don’t see why you would be interested lol


Maybe because he's shady and challenging ? lol

I've noticed I like solving puzzles as well, OP seems determined 🙂

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I agree I blocked his ass I’m done after he finally pulled the last straw and was very mean to me.

Posted by Sagicorn

Virgo get your feet back on Earth. You know very well it's nothing important at all and that you should be looking for real deal instead. I'm actually surprised to read this kind of topic from Virgo, you're much more reasonable than this. Snap out of it. You fight, he's addict, he lives across country, he's 11 years younger than you, he insulted you verbally...what worse can it be seriously?! Only thing lacking is you meet and he beats the crap out of you. Everything else that can go wrong you got going on already.

I love you.

See? It's not that hard to say to a stranger and it means literally nothing. Snap out of it and get your feet back on Earth

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tached very easily with a lot of people who show me affection. Daddy issues..? Idk anyways I’m done I blocked him.



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Posted by Sagicorn

Virgo get your feet back on Earth. You know very well it's nothing important at all and that you should be looking for real deal instead. I'm actually surprised to read this kind of topic from Virgo, you're much more reasonable than this. Snap out of it. You fight, he's addict, he lives across country, he's 11 years younger than you, he insulted you verbally...what worse can it be seriously?! Only thing lacking is you meet and he beats the crap out of you. Everything else that can go wrong you got going on already.

I love you.

See? It's not that hard to say to a stranger and it means literally nothing. Snap out of it and get your feet back on Earth


she wants to save him

BAD IDEA

trust me,

pisces guys might tell you they'd kill themselves then get mad when you try to save them

Yeah I know you wanna help people in trouble if you get attached but I'm surprised Virgo would get attached so easily lol oh them and death...couldn't count the number of times my Pisces mom said stuff like that! And it's some seriously scary and annoying stuff when your mom says it! It used to bother me a lot cause you know, I can't believe people act that way but can't save them they need to deal with it on their own
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Hey it sounds like this guy I used to work with and connected on FB. Never was attracted to him but he hooked me in somehow. It still surprises me and I’m a little ashamed. We got close then he just went cold. Told me I went cold. Then tells me I love you at random times. Is his name Josh? LMAO - I would not be surprised if it’s the same person. Or all Pisces men exactly what is described on these forums. What a shit sign. Well this Josh is a serial liar POS and a psychopath pretending to be some emo Buddhist meditating MF who will recommend you read Echart Tolle while he lies to your face.
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Hey it sounds like this guy I used to work with and connected on FB. Never was attracted to him but he hooked me in somehow. It still surprises me and I’m a little ashamed. We got close then he just went cold. Told me I went cold. Then tells me I love you at random times. Is his name Josh? LMAO - I would not be surprised if it’s the same person. Or all Pisces men exactly what is described on these forums. What a shit sign. Well this Josh is a serial liar POS and a psychopath pretending to be some emo Buddhist meditating MF who will recommend you read Echart Tolle while he lies to your face.
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Posted by Me1995

Hey it sounds like this guy I used to work with and connected on FB. Never was attracted to him but he hooked me in somehow. It still surprises me and I’m a little ashamed. We got close then he just went cold. Told me I went cold. Then tells me I love you at random times. Is his name Josh? LMAO - I would not be surprised if it’s the same person. Or all Pisces men exactly what is described on these forums. What a shit sign. Well this Josh is a serial liar POS and a psychopath pretending to be some emo Buddhist meditating MF who will recommend you read Echart Tolle while he lies to your face.


Ha no def not josh and not the meditating type lol..!! They’re just all the same! Haha
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Posted by Me1995

Hey it sounds like this guy I used to work with and connected on FB. Never was attracted to him but he hooked me in somehow. It still surprises me and I’m a little ashamed. We got close then he just went cold. Told me I went cold. Then tells me I love you at random times. Is his name Josh? LMAO - I would not be surprised if it’s the same person. Or all Pisces men exactly what is described on these forums. What a shit sign. Well this Josh is a serial liar POS and a psychopath pretending to be some emo Buddhist meditating MF who will recommend you read Echart Tolle while he lies to your face.


"some emo buddhist meditating MF"

they can be pompous/pretentious asf sometimes.. these are people who actually believes they're 'enlightened' even when they're sad and miserable
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The one I knew just acted like he was a lost cause and hopeless. He’d say “you should stay away from someone like me.” I said I know that’s my plan..!
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That's so funny, I do the "I love you" thing too. The girl that I have a thing with called me out on it. We have a major thing, but we're long distance for the time being so we are going to leave it at that. She said that it was a big word to throw around and just like yourself, she wants me to stop saying it until she knows it's forreal. And I get that. I would say it a lot, but I don't have like this deep sensational love for her or anything.

My point is that Pisces can say a thing like that without thinking twice about it. We have these spurts where we get all lovey-dovey and it makes us feel good to say it. It's also just a way to feel a connection with you, especially since you are at distance. We can be wishy washy too and go from 0 to 100 or 100 to 0 real quick. But if you love us back we are pretty easy to hold on to.
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Posted by Virgirl

So I’ve known this Pisces male from ab Facebook group and we’ve been talking on and off since may. He’s very closed off and doesn’t reveal much. We fight when we’re on , because he doesn’t open up. I know he’s struggling with addiction, and he has a very laborious job. But we always seem to come back to one another and it’s usually left with me wondering where we stand. He has said “I love you” random times out of nowhere and Idk what to think about this. He has been very nasty to me in the past and said some awfully verbally abusive things. But he’s stopped that he knows I won’t stand for it anymore. But what’s with the “I love you” but not even knowing where we stand?? Is he just stringing me along.? Also he’s like 11 years younger than me, and it’s LDR he’s all the way across the country from me. What is going on. I’m a Virgo btw. Please help me!!! Thanks in advance🙂


11 years younger than you and half-way across the country?

Yea, it's time to move on to someone else.

You are wasting your time if you think this is going anywhere.
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So I’ve known this Pisces male from ab Facebook group and we’ve been talking on and off since may. He’s very closed off and doesn’t reveal much. We fight when we’re on , because he doesn’t open up. I know he’s struggling with addiction, and he has a very laborious job. But we always seem to come back to one another and it’s usually left with me wondering where we stand. He has said “I love you” random times out of nowhere and Idk what to think about this. He has been very nasty to me in the past and said some awfully verbally abusive things. But he’s stopped that he knows I won’t stand for it anymore. But what’s with the “I love you” but not even knowing where we stand?? Is he just stringing me along.? Also he’s like 11 years younger than me, and it’s LDR he’s all the way across the country from me. What is going on. I’m a Virgo btw. Please help me!!! Thanks in advance🙂


11 years younger than you and half-way across the country?

Yea, it's time to move on to someone else.

You are wasting your time if you think this is going anywhere.
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Yea I’ve had him blocked the last two weeks I’m not going back for more verbal abuse.