I hate relationships

Its gotten to that point I think where my heart is turning into nothing - I hate relationships because they make me feel and it is so much easier to feel nothing at all.

mine have all been blowers... hopefully this new one will prove to be better than the last or i think im done with them.

"I hate relationships because they make me feel and it is so much easier to feel nothing at all."

I'm with Sweet-P on this one....to be ALIVE one must be able to feel - only the dead do not feel. Easy to not feel? well, if this is your perception than this is what you will create for yourself. Your whole world will change if you change your thoughts regarding relationships - perhaps you can now see them as fun, exciting, a time to explore who you are. Have no expectations...just enjoy each person for who they are, being grateful for how they enrich your life with their being.

My question is, why do most people choose to see a relationship that didn't work out as a failure? could it possibly have been a gift? It is so much easier to find the good in everyone and every situation.

Fortunately for you pisces, you are a Pisces .. in the depths of despair, once a relationship has left us feeling as you are now .. our strength is built to swim to the surface again, for a new breath of fresh air. You won't be down long .. soon, you will rise to the top again .. better than before.

I completely understand this comment, "they make me feel and it is so much easier to feel nothing at all" .. Our mission to feel very deeply about EVERYTHING has been bestowed upon us for a reason. Imagine the world if everyone could actually walk around the easy way .. without feeling. Sadly, some people go their whole lives and never really feel much below the surface of their skin.

It's because of people like you who CAN feel, that keeps the rest going, reminding them there's a reason for compassion and empathy.

To feel so deeply is a gift, pisces .. not a curse.

The sun's gonna rise again in your soul, surly .. when it does, make it your mission to bring true and meaningful feelings to another. Relationships don't HAVE to last .. they only need to survive long enough for you to show that other person how deep the ocean really is .. that is your gift to mankind.

Message posted by: DepthCharge on 3/22/2007 4:40:04 PM
Love with everything you have and it might just work, go in half-hearted and it's sure to fail

I couldn't agree more..Btw, I liked the first poem you had posted on your webpage..though it doesn't appear to be there any longer.

The best stuff happens automatically. Focus on YOURSELF and may the best player catch the FISH. Once caught, be selfaware of what is fantasy and what is reality. Beware of what verbal agreements you make especially in the heat of the moment.

That's why I love Aries. They make all the moves and naviagate the entire relationship like the captain of a ship! All we gotta do is tell them they're the best at it and fulfill their needs!

emptying out is a positive thing

Awww P-Angel That was perfect to read - thaks soo much for your words of wisdom 🙂

Starfish225 - The thing is I am not your typical Fish

Solitas - yeah I have had breaks in between relationships & it seams when I am at my happiest (alone) someone swoops in & whips me off my feet - Maybe I like being on my own when it comes to romantic relationships? I have allot of close friends so when we need advice a hug or to chill we just hang out together - When i need sex I go and get it without any strings attached - it just seams allot less drama

By this comment - I hate relationships because they make me feel and it is so much easier to feel nothing at all - I was referring to romantic relationships not life in general - Yup feeling alive is wonderful - feeling in love & feeling out of love yeah its easier not to feel at all then -

That's why I love Aries. They make all the moves and naviagate the entire relationship like the captain of a ship! All we gotta do is tell them they're the best at it

Have 2 ex Aries - no thanks -

im with u on this....fk relationships. ill take some sex without emotional pain anyday. 🙂

Never dated a cancer male - Well not that I know of - amy have shaged one - wouldnt remember - ha

well if u did he didnt do a very good job then 🙂

trick....u mean my ex girlfriend?lol

or tyler the dog......

barely....me and tyler are good just been working and in the middle of remodeling my kitchen....its a mess here.lol

speaking of cancers not doing a good job.........u do take into account how traveled-tired and drunk i was then right....?🙂

random calls out of the blue from her nowadays...i dont answer.....i like it that way.

i dont think either of us was.......much better now 🙂

i do always come back stronger....can try but u can hold me down forever. im glad things are going well for u......everyone deserves to be happy and life is too short to not be.

immature pisces..or perhaps a dumb one

who?

i read the poe........oh wait.....need the bucket......bbllaahhhhaaaaaaa. 🙂

HA! Wiiine is sooo good 😛

I think its taken my crappy relationships to help me recognise and appreciate a good one.
🙂