In love with my pisces boss! Help. I’m an Aries and his wife is a cancer (Page 2)

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Dang. I know a Pisces man that left his Pisces wife cause he was cheating and he married an Aries girl lol 😆 too funny. Guess the chemistry is very nice. But it helps to find a single Pisces.

most pisces are single. at least that's what i've noticed from my work with insurance stats. very hard for me to unoderstand what's attractive about the men. i always feel like they're trying to con or just saying what i wanna hear. get that vibe from them, seems fake. and when they seem to talk 'genuine', it's about some fucked up bullshit that sounds like overcompensating, misguided masculinity. too bad coz they usually have big dicks. don't understand what all the overcompensating is for.

To everyone hating on pisces I just wanna say, you guys are actually mostly right. To be honest, I dislike 99 percent of Pisces I know, actually. The large majority are evil, sick, scheming liars with no morals and no sense of guilt whatsoever. I’ve seen them do some seriously shady shit and ALWAYS play the victim so I absolutely see where you guys are coming from. I will say however, that this man is different. Probably the first if not the only Pisces I actually respect. Very different from the rest of them.

There are good and not so good people in all of the signs

You respect him, do you respect the fact he is married and how it could be totally devestating to his wife and child if you got involved with him and you got found out?

Not if he’s fallen out of love with her and missing something in his own life, no. She’s not my problem and if she’s not giving him what he needs and I can, i dont see the harm in exploring it. Marriages end all the time. People change, grow apart.. etc. and their kid is 12.. TONS of kids parents get divorced at that age. So I think that looking at this from a neutral perspective, it’s important to consider these factors as well. Just my own opinion

He will always love her. What if he can't give you what you want? I want 💗 lWould you be happy being his bit on the side?
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Thats bullshit! He doesn’t love her already...
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Basically I feel an intense attraction to boss.. he’s married with a kid, but does not wear a wedding ring or have any pictures of her on his desk. He’s complimented me on my hair before and my tattoos and flirted with me .. but also criticizes my clothes sometimes in a joking manner. Sometimes when we’re talking he’ll innocently touch my arm.. He goes to church, and has been married for over 10 years. But his wife doesn’t wouldn’t go on vacation with him to fl and he even asked one of my coworkers to come with him. I have deep feelings for him and today he said he’d go over one of the projects we’re working on with his wife. I don’t know if he casually mentioned her to see my reaction or to remind me or himself that he’s married.. I have the biggest crush on him and I know most people are going to tell me to keep it professional but a lot of people are WAY too judgemental. Please give me some advice and if you think he’s jnterested in me.. I’m not trying to break up a happy home but if he’s fallen out of love w her it could be worth exploring

honestly you sound like a homewrecker. you say people are "like, WAY too judgemental" but what are you talking about here. You are asking for advice on romance in the workplace, WITH YOUR BOSS.

take a step back from whatever fantasy land you are living in. Work is Work. You get paid to do your job. Where in your job description does it say to destroy a family, WRECK A HOME, and stir a GIANT POT OF SHIT because you have "like, the biggest crush on him"

Fucking ridiculous.

#judginghard.

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If you’re gonna judge me, I hope you are COMPLETELY PERFECT. Otherwise you can shut your mouth. You know who’s a homewrecker? Alisha keys, also an Aquarius (: bet you didn’t know that. Step off your self righteous soapbox you pathetic bitch

who the fuck is talking about alicia keys?

this has nothing to do with self-righteousness, this has to do with you not taking your job seriously, yet you are still collecting a fucking pay check. you don't fucking take a job with the intention of of fucking around with your boss do you? well maybe YOU do.

I'm not perfect-- but wait, I FUCKING AM. so kiss MY fucking ass why don't you.
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Have anyone ever kissed your fucking ass except your mother?
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What's the best outcome you could think of?

That you two are having an affair? That you will become a homewrecker and then happily married after? Imagine yourself in this situation. How would you sleep at night, after feeding his teenage son, that probably hates your guts? Or after seeing how pretty and friendly his new employee is?

I think it's quite common for a woman to feel an attraction towards her boss. Especially when he is nice or attractive and pays her attention and praise. Many years ago, this was me: "In love with my Aqua boss! I’m a Pisces and his wife is Libra". Except there were no online forums back then, so I confided in a coworker. She was disgusted, and right!

Try to make the best out of it by becoming much better at your job. His praise and references will do you good. As long as you stay out of his bed!
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Dang. I know a Pisces man that left his Pisces wife cause he was cheating and he married an Aries girl lol 😆 too funny. Guess the chemistry is very nice. But it helps to find a single Pisces.

most pisces are single. at least that's what i've noticed from my work with insurance stats. very hard for me to unoderstand what's attractive about the men. i always feel like they're trying to con or just saying what i wanna hear. get that vibe from them, seems fake. and when they seem to talk 'genuine', it's about some fucked up bullshit that sounds like overcompensating, misguided masculinity. too bad coz they usually have big dicks. don't understand what all the overcompensating is for.

To everyone hating on pisces I just wanna say, you guys are actually mostly right. To be honest, I dislike 99 percent of Pisces I know, actually. The large majority are evil, sick, scheming liars with no morals and no sense of guilt whatsoever. I’ve seen them do some seriously shady shit and ALWAYS play the victim so I absolutely see where you guys are coming from. I will say however, that this man is different. Probably the first if not the only Pisces I actually respect. Very different from the rest of them.

There are good and not so good people in all of the signs

You respect him, do you respect the fact he is married and how it could be totally devestating to his wife and child if you got involved with him and you got found out?

Not if he’s fallen out of love with her and missing something in his own life, no. She’s not my problem and if she’s not giving him what he needs and I can, i dont see the harm in exploring it. Marriages end all the time. People change, grow apart.. etc. and their kid is 12.. TONS of kids parents get divorced at that age. So I think that looking at this from a neutral perspective, it’s important to consider these factors as well. Just my own opinion

He will always love her. What if he can't give you what you want? I want 💗 lWould you be happy being his bit on the side?

Thats bullshit! He doesn’t love her already...

In all honesty neither of us know, but he hasn't left her officially and that might be for financial reasons. I've seen it before even if they leave, they never really leave if you know what I mean. Always going back to see the children or for trivial matters or for a quick knee trembler.
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Don’t you agree as a man that you wouldn’t SEE other women IF you LOVED one?

I don’t care if he left her or not - staying doesn’t mean loving...

Being married doesn’t mean feelings.

Men often settling or trapped...

However OP is not even sure herself what is that. And maybe it’s her troll’s imagination. If she isn’t trolling 100% .
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What's the best outcome you could think of?

That you two are having an affair? That you will become a homewrecker and then happily married after? Imagine yourself in this situation. How would you sleep at night, after feeding his teenage son, that probably hates your guts? Or after seeing how pretty and friendly his new employee is?

I think it's quite common for a woman to feel an attraction towards her boss. Especially when he is nice or attractive and pays her attention and praise. Many years ago, this was me: "In love with my Aqua boss! I’m a Pisces and his wife is Libra". Except there were no online forums back then, so I confided in a coworker. She was disgusted, and right!

Try to make the best out of it by becoming much better at your job. His praise and references will do you good. As long as you stay out of his bed!

why would the OP have sole responsibility? i don´t understand the blame shift /homewrecker.

worse things have happened on earth.

but it takes two to tango, no?

i fully agree with your last paragraph ....to excell at the job.
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Both parties are to blame, and if they try to come clean, they will still be labelled with cheater, homewrecker and so on for a while.

As for the guilt, this feeling is rather individual. I didn't even appeal at her guilt, but to her future distress as stepmother to a boy loyal to his real mum (mum who most likely will blame the Aries) and wife of a husband possibly fucked out of the wedding lock by the new Employee of the Month 😄
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What's the best outcome you could think of?

That you two are having an affair? That you will become a homewrecker and then happily married after? Imagine yourself in this situation. How would you sleep at night, after feeding his teenage son, that probably hates your guts? Or after seeing how pretty and friendly his new employee is?

I think it's quite common for a woman to feel an attraction towards her boss. Especially when he is nice or attractive and pays her attention and praise. Many years ago, this was me: "In love with my Aqua boss! I’m a Pisces and his wife is Libra". Except there were no online forums back then, so I confided in a coworker. She was disgusted, and right!

Try to make the best out of it by becoming much better at your job. His praise and references will do you good. As long as you stay out of his bed!

why would the OP have sole responsibility? i don´t understand the blame shift /homewrecker.

worse things have happened on earth.

but it takes two to tango, no?

i fully agree with your last paragraph ....to excell at the job.

Both parties are to blame, and if they try to come clean, they will still be labelled with cheater, homewrecker and so on for a while.

As for the guilt, this feeling is rather individual. I didn't even appeal at her guilt, but to her future distress as stepmother to a boy loyal to his real mum (mum who most likely will blame the Aries) and wife of a husband possibly fucked out of the wedding lock by the new Employee of the Month 😄

This sounds like the script of a Rom-com..... besides that though, pisces (men) are known for their ambiguity the OP might just be reading into that...
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It’s definitely possible its all in my head. I mean they’ve been Married for a long time with a 12 year old.. seems like it’s oretty solid
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Posted by CancerAquaSagg

If he isn't divorced stop finding excuses to ruin his family life, because anyone who flirts and hit on married people suck and deserve the same once they are married.

No excuses for home wreckers sorry. And yes you can blame him but you can also blame yourself it takes two to tango.

Find yourself a single man I don't get the attraction for married men.

Couldn’t agree more

You Aries find it so interesting to flirt with taken men as if to prove how cool you are.

This behaviour is miserable.
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I don't even know if I'm finished paying for the last time I made a similar really dumb mistake. But you go ahead and live your life and lie in your own bed when the time comes.

At least I have the ability to see all sides of the story instead of just my own. At least I don’t hide behind my phone judging people and thinking I know it all because I made a few mistakes. You’ve got a lot of growing up to do. Keep thinking you know everything.
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Lol you literally judged 99% of Pisces as horrible human beings earlier in the thread. But now are crying because you dumped your mess of a life onto the internet and people have opinions about it you don’t like.

You can dish it but can’t take it. Typical.