so remember when i said i had an unbelievable connection with a pisces— i even said i love how clingy he is and cheesy. damn i cant even read his name anymore, its just too much, when im under pressure and stressed bc of something i like when people leave me alone and let me cool down otherwise ill say things i dont mean and this pisces dude just wont leave me alone, spamming me telling me how he wants to make me happy and how beautiful i am, dont get me wrong i love the compliments, hes just too sensitive, everything is about him, cant even make a joke he'll be offended and keep saying "i dont get it i always do my best all i want is to make u happy". I feel like im suffocating jesus christ. am i being dramatic, an ungrateful bitch or am i right? someone pls just tell me
my clingy and sensitive pisces

You have to sit him down and tell him this. Directly and sternly. Let him know it isn't him, but when you are stressed you really need your space.
If he wants to make you happy...this is how.
If he can't respect that, then maybe you aren't compatible.
If he wants to make you happy...this is how.
If he can't respect that, then maybe you aren't compatible.

Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....

Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite

sometimes a pisces will want to dedicate all his time and thoughts to his loved one, which is not a good thing, but sometimes they do, and they get frustrated that the other person doesn't do the same in return.
but they'll come around
but they'll come around
Posted by shakedown
I am a Pisces woman and I am more like you. When stressed and under pressure, I also need space and time alone. Like you, I would find him a bit too clingy and suffocating; however, others might argue that you and I are insensitive because he is simply trying to support you in your time of need.
he's just very needy, hes all about spreading love and being loved but its too much for me i need my space and he is not willing to give me that, i understand i wouldnt like it either if my "soon to be girlfriend" soon decides from time to time that she needs to be alone and says back off u're being annoying, but if i werent suffocating i wouldnt have the need to do that

Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
he has a cancer moon
Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by imascorpio10
so remember when i said i had an unbelievable connection with a pisces— i even said i love how clingy he is and cheesy. damn i cant even read his name anymore, its just too much, when im under pressure and stressed bc of something i like when people leave me alone and let me cool down otherwise ill say things i dont mean and this pisces dude just wont leave me alone, spamming me telling me how he wants to make me happy and how beautiful i am, dont get me wrong i love the compliments, hes just too sensitive, everything is about him, cant even make a joke he'll be offended and keep saying "i dont get it i always do my best all i want is to make u happy". I feel like im suffocating jesus christ. am i being dramatic, an ungrateful bitch or am i right? someone pls just tell me
you're not in charge of his feelings. tell him, not us because that's the only way he'll know.click to expand
i did, he takes it the bad way. he says he's here to support me and help me go through stress and help me with my problems, but sometimes u just need to be alone and solve them urself bc no one can do that for u
Posted by hydorah
sometimes a pisces will want to dedicate all his time and thoughts to his loved one, which is not a good thing, but sometimes they do, and they get frustrated that the other person doesn't do the same in return.
but they'll come around
YES EXACTLY. that describes him perfectly. always giving me so much love and gets mad when he doesnt get it back for like ONE DAY.
Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.

Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.click to expand
Yikes...that kind of sounds bad. Imo it sounds like you are just over him...you cant even tolerate the pet names?
Posted by Boots1313Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.
Yikes...that kind of sounds bad. Imo it sounds like you are just over him...you cant even tolerate the pet names?
click to expand
yeah exactly! he just says it too often, lowkey possessive with all those "damn u look so good everyone is going to stare at u and ask u for ur number" or he repeats it like a thousand times a day that "you're only mine" it was cute at first now its just too much.
the worst thing is we have been seeing each other for barely 2 months lmao

Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the oppositeclick to expand
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha

Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
he has a cancer moonclick to expand
What is his Venus?
Posted by Sag898Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
he has a cancer moon
What is his Venus?click to expand
pisces lmao he has so much water in his chart

Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus hahaclick to expand
Really? News to me

Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.
Yikes...that kind of sounds bad. Imo it sounds like you are just over him...you cant even tolerate the pet names?
yeah exactly! he just says it too often, lowkey possessive with all those "damn u look so good everyone is going to stare at u and ask u for ur number" or he repeats it like a thousand times a day that "you're only mine" it was cute at first now its just too much.
the worst thing is we have been seeing each other for barely 2 months lmaoclick to expand
Only 2 months and the lovey dovey stuff is too much. Hes in the honeymoon phase and you are not. Idk if this relationship is sustainable

Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha
Really? News to meclick to expand
The men yeah
Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha
Really? News to me
The men yeahclick to expand
yeah taurus man are known to be very clingy

Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha
Really? News to me
The men yeahclick to expand
Not my expierence at all

Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313Posted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.
Yikes...that kind of sounds bad. Imo it sounds like you are just over him...you cant even tolerate the pet names?
yeah exactly! he just says it too often, lowkey possessive with all those "damn u look so good everyone is going to stare at u and ask u for ur number" or he repeats it like a thousand times a day that "you're only mine" it was cute at first now its just too much.
the worst thing is we have been seeing each other for barely 2 months lmaoclick to expand
I would have told him (I too, am Piscean), "Pete and Repeat! Hon! I have two ears (I am NOT deaf!) I heard you the first time, please stop repeating yourself to me or I'll start calling you "Pete"
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva

Just thought about this as I was drinking my water. Grab an empty Mason jar (have him put $ 1.00 each time he calls you a "Pet" name....you'll be rich!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva

Posted by imascorpio10
so remember when i said i had an unbelievable connection with a pisces— i even said i love how clingy he is and cheesy. damn i cant even read his name anymore, its just too much, when im under pressure and stressed bc of something i like when people leave me alone and let me cool down otherwise ill say things i dont mean and this pisces dude just wont leave me alone, spamming me telling me how he wants to make me happy and how beautiful i am, dont get me wrong i love the compliments, hes just too sensitive, everything is about him, cant even make a joke he'll be offended and keep saying "i dont get it i always do my best all i want is to make u happy". I feel like im suffocating jesus christ. am i being dramatic, an ungrateful bitch or am i right? someone pls just tell me
Ungrateful bitch but then again everyone's different & the hard part is if u give in & they change the fuck up

Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha
Really? News to me
The men yeah
Not my expierence at allclick to expand
Interesting

Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha
Really? News to me
The men yeah
Not my expierence at all
Interestingclick to expand
My man is so independent and reclusive. After a long weekend together he can get a little "wish you could stay longer" but definitely not clingy.

If you can't communicate with your partner, this is going nowhere fast.

Posted by shakedownPosted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha
Really? News to me
The men yeah
Not my expierence at all
Interesting
My man is so independent and reclusive. After a long weekend together he can get a little "wish you could stay longer" but definitely not clingy.
To me, this is perfect. Sweet and affectionate, but breathing room. Nice balance.click to expand
It took time to get there. 6 months or so. Mostly on my behalf . Im clingy, i wanted to be with him 24/7. But he explained to me from the begining he needs his days and space to himself. Learning curve. But we have an excellent balance now.

Posted by shakedownPosted by Boots1313Posted by shakedownPosted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898Posted by Boots1313Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
I think its more of a persons love language then a sign association. Imma taurus and im clingy AF.
Im auposee to enjoy solitude...quite the opposite
Yeah. I've known a lot of clingy Taurus haha
Really? News to me
The men yeah
Not my expierence at all
Interesting
My man is so independent and reclusive. After a long weekend together he can get a little "wish you could stay longer" but definitely not clingy.
To me, this is perfect. Sweet and affectionate, but breathing room. Nice balance.
It took time to get there. 6 months or so. Mostly on my behalf . Im clingy, i wanted to be with him 24/7. But he explained to me from the begining he needs his days and space to himself. Learning curve. But we have an excellent balance now.
You guys seem great together 👍.click to expand
Thanks
Posted by rmactavishPosted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.
Wow. Just wow.
I was just reading your previous post where you were worshipping Pisces dick and now you're already looking to leave the guy. Jeez.
And for what? He's clingy, he wants to show you affection and calls you nicknames like 'Babe'? Lmao girl you don't deserve that guy.
And that guy should really leave you for his own good.
You're indecisive and flaky. Few days ago madly in love with that guy now cussing him on the internet.click to expand
we've been seeing each other for literally 2 months and he already talks about getting married and having children with me and even talks about "forever". Tells me "u're mine" at least 5 times per day, not even exaggerating. I tell him im busy and cant text for the next few hours and he gets mad at me because "i cant seem to find time to talk to him" even tho im on my phone 24/7 just to be able to reply as fast as possible. When i tell him i need to stay alone for a few moments because im stressed and need to cool off he LITERALLY says "i dont understand i always give my best to see u happy" even tho the problem has NOTHING to do with him he just wont leave me alone and THINK for a damn second.
he's childish and needy, sometimes worse than a baby, when u start getting old u realize people have a life and dont always have time for someone else because they're busy dealing with their life and their own problems and he doesnt seem to get it. i'm ok with the pet names and the attention he gives me of course but being used to not having it at all it has become too much lately and i feel like i cant even breathe anymore because hes suffocating me so much. Gets jealous over everything.
i'm sure u understand now why i did this threat, no need to be so butthurt bro.
the dick is amazing yes it really is but its just too much
Posted by LaMadrina
since he cares so much tell him to show it by giving you breathing room. you're not conjoined twins. everyone needs self time without being bugged by others. personally to me, chico needs to fix his attitude. it's not endearing. it's off-putting, annoying, and possibly the sign of obsessive behavior. basically, it's a lot of crazy underneath his facade, chica.
he's had a rough past with his ex, she cheated on him and stuff, its a bad story and i remember him telling me that she called him a "psycho" and how he lost it. i never forgot about that psycho thing tho, always thought that was suspicious...
Posted by PontusPosted by imascorpio10Posted by Sag898
Interesting. I've never found pisces to be really clingy. Just sweet, romantic and sensitive. Cancer men though.....
he has a cancer moon
I think it is cancer moon causing this.
I am nothing like that.click to expand
probably.. idk
Posted by DrinkWater
Chill tf out, you're reacting so seriously. Just laugh I off, he will follow suit, remember he's just a Pisces reacting to the tides. Your intensity is bringing out his.
good point.

Ive never been like that in my life. Ew...that grosses me out hardcore. Anyone you have to walk on eggshells for isnt worth your time!! Love doesnt smother or make you feel bad...it just loves. Tell him to get it together or fuck off

Posted by imascorpio10Posted by LaMadrina
since he cares so much tell him to show it by giving you breathing room. you're not conjoined twins. everyone needs self time without being bugged by others. personally to me, chico needs to fix his attitude. it's not endearing. it's off-putting, annoying, and possibly the sign of obsessive behavior. basically, it's a lot of crazy underneath his facade, chica.
he's had a rough past with his ex, she cheated on him and stuff, its a bad story and i remember him telling me that she called him a "psycho" and how he lost it. i never forgot about that psycho thing tho, always thought that was suspicious...click to expand
she called him psycho cuz he is. Sounds like crazy emotional manipulation and blackmail to me.

Posted by imascorpio10Posted by rmactavishPosted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.
Wow. Just wow.
I was just reading your previous post where you were worshipping Pisces dick and now you're already looking to leave the guy. Jeez.
And for what? He's clingy, he wants to show you affection and calls you nicknames like 'Babe'? Lmao girl you don't deserve that guy.
And that guy should really leave you for his own good.
You're indecisive and flaky. Few days ago madly in love with that guy now cussing him on the internet.
we've been seeing each other for literally 2 months and he already talks about getting married and having children with me and even talks about "forever". Tells me "u're mine" at least 5 times per day, not even exaggerating. I tell him im busy and cant text for the next few hours and he gets mad at me because "i cant seem to find time to talk to him" even tho im on my phone 24/7 just to be able to reply as fast as possible. When i tell him i need to stay alone for a few moments because im stressed and need to cool off he LITERALLY says "i dont understand i always give my best to see u happy" even tho the problem has NOTHING to do with him he just wont leave me alone and THINK for a damn second.
he's childish and needy, sometimes worse than a baby, when u start getting old u realize people have a life and dont always have time for someone else because they're busy dealing with their life and their own problems and he doesnt seem to get it. i'm ok with the pet names and the attention he gives me of course but being used to not having it at all it has become too much lately and i feel like i cant even breathe anymore because hes suffocating me so much. Gets jealous over everything.
i'm sure u understand now why i did this threat, no need to be so butthurt bro.
the dick is amazing yes it really is but its just too muchclick to expand
This is very extreme. He is scared of losing you and overcompensating.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by imascorpio10Posted by rmactavishPosted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.
Wow. Just wow.
I was just reading your previous post where you were worshipping Pisces dick and now you're already looking to leave the guy. Jeez.
And for what? He's clingy, he wants to show you affection and calls you nicknames like 'Babe'? Lmao girl you don't deserve that guy.
And that guy should really leave you for his own good.
You're indecisive and flaky. Few days ago madly in love with that guy now cussing him on the internet.
we've been seeing each other for literally 2 months and he already talks about getting married and having children with me and even talks about "forever". Tells me "u're mine" at least 5 times per day, not even exaggerating. I tell him im busy and cant text for the next few hours and he gets mad at me because "i cant seem to find time to talk to him" even tho im on my phone 24/7 just to be able to reply as fast as possible. When i tell him i need to stay alone for a few moments because im stressed and need to cool off he LITERALLY says "i dont understand i always give my best to see u happy" even tho the problem has NOTHING to do with him he just wont leave me alone and THINK for a damn second.
he's childish and needy, sometimes worse than a baby, when u start getting old u realize people have a life and dont always have time for someone else because they're busy dealing with their life and their own problems and he doesnt seem to get it. i'm ok with the pet names and the attention he gives me of course but being used to not having it at all it has become too much lately and i feel like i cant even breathe anymore because hes suffocating me so much. Gets jealous over everything.
i'm sure u understand now why i did this threat, no need to be so butthurt bro.
the dick is amazing yes it really is but its just too much
This is very extreme. He is scared of losing you and overcompensating.click to expand
at first it was cute now he seems obsessed.

Posted by imascorpio10Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by imascorpio10Posted by rmactavishPosted by imascorpio10Posted by Boots1313
Listen my bf had to lay down some boundries worh me becasue i was too clongy for him. He was direct and honest. And now im able to take a day or two to myself. Shit i can go a whole day without talking to him. Just a goodnight text is needed.
But you got to nip it in the bud now.
He even said to me yesterday "i love how youre so much more relaxed now,"
There is hope, good luck!
he is used to calling me babe b and all those cute nicknames,at first i thought it was so cute because my ex boyfriend never did it and i was not used to it, now i feel so suffocated with him i dont even like that anymore, this is how bad this has gotten lmao...
but u're right i need to explain to him that he needs to stop otherwise i'll leave. i already have enough problems i dont need a man in my life that needs more attention and love than a baby.
Wow. Just wow.
I was just reading your previous post where you were worshipping Pisces dick and now you're already looking to leave the guy. Jeez.
And for what? He's clingy, he wants to show you affection and calls you nicknames like 'Babe'? Lmao girl you don't deserve that guy.
And that guy should really leave you for his own good.
You're indecisive and flaky. Few days ago madly in love with that guy now cussing him on the internet.
we've been seeing each other for literally 2 months and he already talks about getting married and having children with me and even talks about "forever". Tells me "u're mine" at least 5 times per day, not even exaggerating. I tell him im busy and cant text for the next few hours and he gets mad at me because "i cant seem to find time to talk to him" even tho im on my phone 24/7 just to be able to reply as fast as possible. When i tell him i need to stay alone for a few moments because im stressed and need to cool off he LITERALLY says "i dont understand i always give my best to see u happy" even tho the problem has NOTHING to do with him he just wont leave me alone and THINK for a damn second.
he's childish and needy, sometimes worse than a baby, when u start getting old u realize people have a life and dont always have time for someone else because they're busy dealing with their life and their own problems and he doesnt seem to get it. i'm ok with the pet names and the attention he gives me of course but being used to not having it at all it has become too much lately and i feel like i cant even breathe anymore because hes suffocating me so much. Gets jealous over everything.
i'm sure u understand now why i did this threat, no need to be so butthurt bro.
the dick is amazing yes it really is but its just too much
This is very extreme. He is scared of losing you and overcompensating.
at first it was cute now he seems obsessed.click to expand
Like drink water said, try to make fun of it and keep it light.
Make sure he doesn’t feel rejected but at the same time create boundaries
Posted by Aquarelle
If this is how he shows love and you can't take it, you have to be honest with him and yourself too, or else you will only hurt him in the end. You don't seem to give him the affection he needs and you can't convince him that he is the only one you want, apparently, so this causes more clinginess from his side.
At first you thought it was cute what he did, because you weren't used to it, but now you have changed your mind. It's you who has changed, not him, so why blame him?
i said that at first it was cute bc it wasnt so extreme. he would compliment me now and then sometimes call me babe or something etc it wasnt all of the time. now its constant. doesnt send me a text without the word babe in it. tells me he loves me 20 times a day, wants to be with me every day every hour and so on...
what annoys me the most is how he makes it all about himself, if im stressed or smt and i tell him i need space he'll get mad bc hes trying to help and i wont accept it instead of just leaving me alone.

"Psycho" and "Obsessed" that's how I called a few times my ex bf pisces, I told those as a joke, although it wasn't a joke, he had the exact behavior you describe here, maybe it was just a bit better than your pisces man, I mean without cute names, "I love you"s, but other than that it was exactly the same, like I couldn't breath.I got to a point where I couldn't do it anymore, I was exhausted, emotionally and even physically.
It was I think a Wednesday afternoon, we argued a bit about those differences in our relationship, I decided to take a nap, he was at work, but he still wanted to argue.I told him to pay attention to work 'cause I am too tired to talk and I wanna take a nap. I put my phone on silent and that's it. When I woke up (after 1 hour and a half) I found 45 missed calls and like 10 texts.. He was the one who woke me up by knocking on my door, I was scared and angry at the same time. We were together for a little over a month and he never came at my door till that moment. He crossed every boundary in that moment.
Later that day we somehow managed to make peace. He brought me roses and we went on a hill to see the sunset together. He was soooo scared of losing me, I could see it in his eyes. (funny,but not so funny, he told me after that was scared I was going to call the police when he came at my door)
In that night I told him, let's take things easy, let's not see each other for two-three days, let's just not talk all the time. I set boundaries, but being gentle, thinking about him and his needs too. And he understood.
That's how I made from an obsessed pisces an understanding pisces.
Just talk with him, face to face, be delicate, say it would be good for both of you if you guys just cool down a little, take some time apart, just take it easy.
You have to be careful not to hurt him. The important thing is to show him you are willing to make some compromises, that you're not selfish, that you want the best for him and for your relationship.
So, set boundaries..but gently.
It was I think a Wednesday afternoon, we argued a bit about those differences in our relationship, I decided to take a nap, he was at work, but he still wanted to argue.I told him to pay attention to work 'cause I am too tired to talk and I wanna take a nap. I put my phone on silent and that's it. When I woke up (after 1 hour and a half) I found 45 missed calls and like 10 texts.. He was the one who woke me up by knocking on my door, I was scared and angry at the same time. We were together for a little over a month and he never came at my door till that moment. He crossed every boundary in that moment.
Later that day we somehow managed to make peace. He brought me roses and we went on a hill to see the sunset together. He was soooo scared of losing me, I could see it in his eyes. (funny,but not so funny, he told me after that was scared I was going to call the police when he came at my door)
In that night I told him, let's take things easy, let's not see each other for two-three days, let's just not talk all the time. I set boundaries, but being gentle, thinking about him and his needs too. And he understood.
That's how I made from an obsessed pisces an understanding pisces.
Just talk with him, face to face, be delicate, say it would be good for both of you if you guys just cool down a little, take some time apart, just take it easy.
You have to be careful not to hurt him. The important thing is to show him you are willing to make some compromises, that you're not selfish, that you want the best for him and for your relationship.
So, set boundaries..but gently.
Posted by rmactavishPosted by Aquarelle
If this is how he shows love and you can't take it, you have to be honest with him and yourself too, or else you will only hurt him in the end. You don't seem to give him the affection he needs and you can't convince him that he is the only one you want, apparently, so this causes more clinginess from his side.
At first you thought it was cute what he did, because you weren't used to it, but now you have changed your mind. It's you who has changed, not him, so why blame him?
Exactly my point.
She changed in a matter of few days, flaky ad.
And this OP doesn't even fit in the 'Scorpio' description for me cuz Scorpios being a fixed sign, usually tolerate alot of the clingyness and smothering their partner throws at them, and even if they don't they NEVER make a huge scene like this on an internet thread.click to expand
lmao are u insinuating that im not a scorpio lol
i did tolerate all that in the beginning but just like every scorpio, when u feel suffocated u get done with the person very easily. personally i am like that, if i feel like i cant breathe i cannot tolerate anything anymore, cant see the good bc im too focused on the bad. sorry not sorry.
Posted by justlikeheaven
"Psycho" and "Obsessed" that's how I called a few times my ex bf pisces, I told those as a joke, although it wasn't a joke, he had the exact behavior you describe here, maybe it was just a bit better than your pisces man, I mean without cute names, "I love you"s, but other than that it was exactly the same, like I couldn't breath.I got to a point where I couldn't do it anymore, I was exhausted, emotionally and even physically.
It was I think a Wednesday afternoon, we argued a bit about those differences in our relationship, I decided to take a nap, he was at work, but he still wanted to argue.I told him to pay attention to work 'cause I am too tired to talk and I wanna take a nap. I put my phone on silent and that's it. When I woke up (after 1 hour and a half) I found 45 missed calls and like 10 texts.. He was the one who woke me up by knocking on my door, I was scared and angry at the same time. We were together for a little over a month and he never came at my door till that moment. He crossed every boundary in that moment.
Later that day we somehow managed to make peace. He brought me roses and we went on a hill to see the sunset together. He was soooo scared of losing me, I could see it in his eyes. (funny,but not so funny, he told me after that was scared I was going to call the police when he came at my door)
In that night I told him, let's take things easy, let's not see each other for two-three days, let's just not talk all the time. I set boundaries, but being gentle, thinking about him and his needs too. And he understood.
That's how I made from an obsessed pisces an understanding pisces.
Just talk with him, face to face, be delicate, say it would be good for both of you if you guys just cool down a little, take some time apart, just take it easy.
You have to be careful not to hurt him. The important thing is to show him you are willing to make some compromises, that you're not selfish, that you want the best for him and for your relationship.
So, set boundaries..but gently.
thats some really good advice, thank you.
i think the reason he's so needy at the moment is because hes on vacation and we're used to seeing each other everyday and now its been like 10 days since we've seen each other and sometimes dont even talk for days because he has no wifi. whatever, i'm going to have to talk to him when he comes back.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by rmactavishPosted by Aquarelle
If this is how he shows love and you can't take it, you have to be honest with him and yourself too, or else you will only hurt him in the end. You don't seem to give him the affection he needs and you can't convince him that he is the only one you want, apparently, so this causes more clinginess from his side.
At first you thought it was cute what he did, because you weren't used to it, but now you have changed your mind. It's you who has changed, not him, so why blame him?
Exactly my point.
She changed in a matter of few days, flaky ad.
And this OP doesn't even fit in the 'Scorpio' description for me cuz Scorpios being a fixed sign, usually tolerate alot of the clingyness and smothering their partner throws at them, and even if they don't they NEVER make a huge scene like this on an internet thread.
What kind of Scorpios you knowclick to expand
IKR wtf!

I think I know how to fix the problem, wuill post about it later today
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