Pisces and Gemini: Can It Work?

I know the one is water, the is other air, but it seems to me that they share many common characteristics (mentally oriented, imaginative, creative, flexible etc.). I've never been in a relationship with a Pisces before, so I'd like to know from all of you who have been in a Pisces-Gemini relationship what it was like, pros and cons, etc.

This gemini guy and I kinda had a crush on each other once but we scrapped the idea because we got long distant.

He used to find me really sexy and intellectually rich and I used to love his childlike smile and his desire to know more about something or a person. While we never had the chance to experience a relationship but I found him contradictory from what many websites tend to portray gemini men as this emotionally unavailable men. He flirts,yes.With almost any girl. He might ask you to skype after midnight and go on for hours and compliment you but don't you feel special because he's veryvery very likely doing the same almost all weekends with another girl.However,he would often talk romantic saying how he wished i was there in person so we could hold hands lol. It's these two different personalities of him - 1) I am not made for a relationship/marriage (2) it would have been so lovely had I been in a committed serious relationship with my perfect girl.

I enjoy my talks with him (except when he gets too sarcastic or taunts too much) but in my heart I don't think we'd have been happy in the long term.

Geminis & Pisces star crossed lovers coming from someone with a Gemini father and a Pisces mother.

As friends, yes.

Everything else depends on other natal places and synastry (composite) aspects.

Pisces and Gemini: Can It Work?

Posted by MIIeFisk
If you really like each other, both will need to put in conscious effort to understand each other. Because this pairing isn't easy.

But why— On the surface, they seem very compatible, even in a romantic way. Is it because Pisces feels too much and Gemini thinks too much, causing a disconnect?

Sadly Gemini are prone to boredom and it will take the Pisces a lot of commitment into keeping her Gemini man grounded. Geminis are a mutable air sign, so they go wherever their curiosities take them. They are curious about every person they meet, and would prefer to hear different stories by conversating with everyone in the room, over having an intimate conversation with one person. Gemini's flighty nature and indecisiveness will wear Pisces out, because she will often find herself bending over backwards by being really good to you to earn your whole heart. So you, the Gemini man, will have to repress your adventurous nature at times and learn how to settle down with the woman you love. Even if you don't cheat or anything, she will feel unloved or disrespected if you neglect her and prioritize your curiosities.

Posted by Nemilicious
a pisces with lots of air or fire or a gemini with lots of water ~ my dad is a watery gem and we get on (better than with my earthy mother).

I agree! I'm a fiery and earthy Pisces he's a fiery gem with just enough water to be sensitive to my moods. Even so, the biggest challenge we face is communication. Like anything worth having, it takes work.

A emotionally immature Pisces and Gemini won't go the distance.

To make a long story short: Pisces & Gemini = great friends, terrible partners.

Most recent ex is a Gem Sun and Venus; I’m a double Pisces. Any cliché about these two signs applicable here….

Yes, we had a strong mental and physical connection. We liked and disliked the same things, had similar hobbies, ideas, sex every time we met…. For a man in his 50ies, I was his second longest relationship, after his Leo wife. What killed it after only two years? Well, everything we didn’t have!

The lack of firm direction and trust, lack of commitment, lack of drama, lack of passion, lack of the ability to maintain our grass greener than elsewhere…despite being a Pluto-heavy relationship!

Yeah….put Gem and Pisces together…add the mighty, dark, transformative and obsessive Pluto to it….and it becomes…Pluto the dog 😄

Sun in Pisces here.

Once I was in a foolish, platonic love with a gem guy but we did not have a relationship because he was so chaotic that I got scared. (I was chaotic, too)

Plus, he did not know when he hurt me with his foolish words (we were too young) and I did not want to explain myself all the time to him it seemed too tiring, most of the time I remained silent. (I remember I gave him big black points in my mind when he used rude words hahaha...)

Total lack of consequence bothered me a lot. (Once he said he liked me than he started to tell jokes about me to our friends).

I still bless my self-restriction that I didn't get involved with him and turned down his invitation to a date. His following relationships were dramas and tears. He was simply too much to handle for me.

For me as a pisces, I would say yes and no. Yes because sometimes geminis and pisces make good companions, the gemini guys i dated were good at making me laugh, and 3 of my past relationships have been with gemini guys.

No, because the gemini guys, whether y'all are aware of it or not...can come off like jekyll & hyde, the dual personalities, and as a pisces, I didn't like that about my gemini exes. How 1 minute they would appear 1 way and 1 minute they appeared like a totally different person. I liked how generous my gemini exes were at times & affectionate, but I didn't like how 2 of my gemini exes weren't honest with me about who they were from the beginning. They pretended to be someone they thought i wanted them to be instead of being themselves, and I didn't like that. My last gemini ex was a little too straightforward sometimes, and that scared the pisces in me too. He caught me off guard with some of his questions sometimes, and it scared me. I'm telling u all this so that hopefully through my experience u can decide for yourself whether or not u feel it's worth it or not to pursue a gemini/pisces relationship...

Things to keep in mind:

*Be Yourself-Don't pretend to be who U think she wants u to be but Be Yourself. Be ReaL & Honest about who U r.

*Be clear with the communication so u can both be sure that you're Both on the same page...

*Make sure that y'all have the same goals, want the same things out of life, going in the same direction...

*Try not to flip on her. In that, Please don't do the dr. jekyll/mr. hyde stunt where out of the blue u act like a completely different person that who she's used to seeing.

*Use good hygiene, please...

*Spoil her-that will always win your pisces girl over. 😉

*Have the talk at times to make sure y'all still want to pursue a relationship with each other & build dreams together... 🙂

@ awood:

'They pretended to be someone they thought i wanted them to be'

THIS is sooo true. I felt as if I was in the theatre but I knew when he got real. But he did not remain real for as long as we got to know each other correctly. I would have liked him just like that without the show.

Posted by Nemilicious
a pisces with lots of air or fire or a gemini with lots of water ~ my dad is a watery gem and we get on (better than with my earthy mother).

this.



my husband's grandmother is a Pisces sun, late February and the only love of her life is a Gemini sun.

but he wasn't that watery, he did have a Cancer venus though. that is important.

and she had Aquarius Venus. Again the total CLASH of even love signs. it is weird if one gets into astrology only knowing sun signs and is ignorant of understanding the world out there with millions of people.

I thought. whoa, total CLASH. but no one was into astrology, no one was thinking of that stuff, and they got together, remained loving and faithful and to the end, buried together.

one thing I will say, though which has gone unnoticed to me, is that the other day, a Libra sun girl (who is with an Aries sun male with Gemini venus/mars) said she has never been attracted to men with "hands on," and is always been attracted to men with mental powers.

that caught my attention.

but from the accounts of my man's grandfather, he was BOTH. mental and physical.

but an airy guy is on the MENTAL plane, so you need to have AIR planets to get with that mental person. lol or air houses.

same with water. water planets or water energy, will do just fine.

and most importantly, chemistry and will power that your attraction is true blue.

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Posted by GeminiGuy76
I know the one is water, the is other air, but it seems to me that they share many common characteristics (mentally oriented, imaginative, creative, flexible etc.). I've never been in a relationship with a Pisces before, so I'd like to know from all of you who have been in a Pisces-Gemini relationship what it was like, pros and cons, etc.

I say the same thing all the time, I've just started giving Gemini men a chance and I have 2 that I've connected with this year. It all depends on the chart. These 2 signs can be a great couple ❤️ They're already great friends. I'm Mercury dominant and I have a Virgo moon with Aqua Merc/Mars and a tight Asc in Gem.

It's weird though because the Gemini I'm more attracted to (Cap Moon, Cancer Merc, Taurus Venus, Leo Mars) and I thought would be the better match, we have Moon/Moon trine, Sun/Mercury trine DW, Venus/Venus sextile, Mars/Mars opposite (fire!!) but.. He gets on my fucking nerves with his over sensitivity. I walk on eggshells with him but he's so fun!! But he lies a lot. We're more friendly now and he gives me way more attention than he did when we were "dating". We have tons of the same interests and it's not a heavy relationship.. He contacts me a lot now but I don't think I wanna date him anymore..

Now the 2nd Gem has a Libra Moon, Gemini Mercury, Taurus Venus, Virgo Mars and we are twins! We talk everyday, all day. He invites me everywhere and we too laugh a lot and have the same interests. I guess I'm more Airy than I think. I'm emotional but I prefer a mental connection so I think that's why I love Gemini men. I haven't seen a dark side. They're flighty but so am I. They're really free and that's what I crave out of a relationship. Plus, I'm starting to think my 2nd Gem is just more mature than the 1st one. That plays a big role too.

Just look at the charts. 😉 plus, anything can happen with some effort, patience, and understanding. Both of these signs take a lot of each.

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Same here, Mercury dominant, Aqua placements, plus sun, moon and mercury in Gem's house. My 7th house is 90% Gemini. Raised by a Gem with Gem stellium. I like everything Gem! They make very good friends.

However.....they are flighty, yes. "Really free" also means they will second guess their attachment and commitment to you every time you hit the tiniest problem. This gets really draining in a LTR. Expect judgements like this: "I didn't put too much effort into our relationship recently, therefore I think it means I don't love you anymore".

They would do much better with a fixed sun in a long term relationship. So would we!

well I did some research, and your opposite sign Virgo sun/Aries moon sexy Selma Hayek is married to a Billionaire Gemini sun. lol

and guess who else is married to a Gemini sun Billionaire— A pisces sun, Taurus moon (libra dominant)

Nastasha Vodiana, from Russia, and he's from the U.S.?





she's a supermodel but I bet that Taurus moon, of hers keeps her grounded. And his Aries moon loves her libra stellium I bet.

also, here is another one, from the Netherlands and Spain.

Yolanthe Cabau from Spain,

and Wesley Sneijder from Netherlands who is a professional soccer player, so you know he makes the CHA-CHING $ $ $

lol



she's a SEXAY spanish Pisces sun and he's June 9th, Gemini sun/libra moon/leo rising....



http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Wesley_Sneijder









what do they all have in common? they married billionaires. lol 😆

oh ok, maybe millionaire on the soccer player. 😆

OOPS, he's not from the U.S., the Gemini sun/Aries moon billionaire, he's from France.

so I bet he's whispering oooh wee wee oh la la romancy stuff. ^___^

Posted by lisabethur8
well I did some research,

what do they all have in common? they married billionaires. lol 😆

Haha Lisa, I always like your research.

Now I know what I did wrong....my Gem was only millionaire 😛

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Posted by lisabethur8
well I did some research,

what do they all have in common? they married billionaires. lol 😆

Haha Lisa, I always like your research.

Now I know what I did wrong....my Gem was only millionaire 😛

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haha, undine, sooooo that's why!!



incidentally those two Gemini sun guys above, one is Taurus dominant, the other scorpio dominant. one of the pisces gals are aries dominant, the other libra dominant.



Edit --- oohhhh and guess who is with with who— soooooo astrology!! Taurus dominant Gemini is with Libra dominant, and Aries dominant pisces is with scorpio dominant Gemini. 😆

Great friends, great buddies, great companions to make the best entertainment show ever lol but as a partner... No. Met many Geminis with different placements and didn't feel with any of them similarity in romance or romantic behaviour. Pisces wants to deeply stare their love interest, vibe on a intuitive level, cuddle and draw cards with hearts. Gemini wants someone who is willing to exchange anecdotes and latest news or will be bored. In a long term, not working out lol

My opinion is if the Pisces is adventurous in the same way as the Gemini, it will be fine with the boredom. I'm very easy going with what makes me happy, I don't have to do much to enjoy someones company but I don't like being cooped up inside on beautiful days. I'm as simple as just driving around with the windows down listening to music loud. 🙂

I find Pisces when truly invested can have such stimulating conversations but they can be quite snippy, if they don't feel you're opening up to them. Well, my Pisces friend is very upset b/c he feels I've completely shut him out. ( to be fair, I'm just not sharing certain things)

Anyways, I think it's a good pairing! I see them as stable couples, who last for many years. Well, if they are evolved.

Posted by kaseke9
Great friends, great buddies, great companions to make the best entertainment show ever lol but as a partner... No. Met many Geminis with different placements and didn't feel with any of them similarity in romance or romantic behaviour. Pisces wants to deeply stare their love interest, vibe on a intuitive level, cuddle and draw cards with hearts. Gemini wants someone who is willing to exchange anecdotes and latest news or will be bored. In a long term, not working out lol

it would square too much your planets I think, as you have sun, and venus there. and not good with cancer ascendant.

don't know about your mercury and mars though.

Posted by WateryGem
My opinion is if the Pisces is adventurous in the same way as the Gemini, it will be fine with the boredom. I'm very easy going with what makes me happy, I don't have to do much to enjoy someones company but I don't like being cooped up inside on beautiful days. I'm as simple as just driving around with the windows down listening to music loud. 🙂

I find Pisces when truly invested can have such stimulating conversations but they can be quite snippy, if they don't feel you're opening up to them. Well, my Pisces friend is very upset b/c he feels I've completely shut him out. ( to be fair, I'm just not sharing certain things)

Anyways, I think it's a good pairing! I see them as stable couples, who last for many years. Well, if they are evolved.

I notice that with Gemini and any sign, my father in law double virgo is very adventurous and super informative (he is a research obsessive man and knows many many things) that is probably why his Gemini wife appreciates that, that he is super smart and also super adventurous. he has no Sagittarius but I bet he has a sag rising/ or a packed 9th house or something.

that's the thing with the two couples above, I notice, is that they seem adventurous and outgoing.

although I see more the pisces sun/Taurus moon supermodel with her dominant Taurus Gemini man more laid back and stay at home. but because they are super rich, they have lots to do, and share with eachother, and they don't lack in anything.

My first husband was a Gemini, and I have several good friends who are Gems.

As friends, we are fine. I guess because friends don't really have the same expectations on each other, and are much more considerate of each other's right as individuals.

Couples though ... most definitely are very inconsiderate of each other as individuals and their irrational expectations of having the other cater to them, and be obligated to them are through the roof.

So, there's no real comparison between couples and friends.

With my husband .... we had great chemistry, and were in mad love with each other. BUT .. and yes, there has to be a "but" otherwise we wouldn't be exes.

The obstacle that we couldn't cross was the difference in our loyalties. In my character, I am extremely devoted to my partner, as most Pisces are. In this devotion, I express it as believing in everything you do. I may not like it, but, I will believe in that you know for yourself what you are doing, and that you are acting in our best interest. I will not question your choices, or your decisions. Being a Pisces I am dual, but, this duality manifests in being able to dislike and trust at the same time. I may not like what you are doing, but, I believe in you so will concede at the same time.

Whereas, him being a Gemini, and being dual .. it doesn't come out that same way. The side that doesn't like what I do, attempts to control me, attempts to change me .. while his other side believes he is free to do what he wants without having to be held accountable. And his inability to practice what he preached was the brick wall that broke us.

If the Fish can learn to not be so doormatty .. and the Twin learn to not be so double-standard to find a middle ground .. then I believe this could be an excellent match.

Posted by P-Angel
My first husband was a Gemini, and I have several good friends who are Gems.

As friends, we are fine. I guess because friends don't really have the same expectations on each other, and are much more considerate of each other's right as individuals.

Couples though ... most definitely are very inconsiderate of each other as individuals and their irrational expectations of having the other cater to them, and be obligated to them are through the roof.

So, there's no real comparison between couples and friends.

With my husband .... we had great chemistry, and were in mad love with each other. BUT .. and yes, there has to be a "but" otherwise we wouldn't be exes.

The obstacle that we couldn't cross was the difference in our loyalties. In my character, I am extremely devoted to my partner, as most Pisces are. In this devotion, I express it as believing in everything you do. I may not like it, but, I will believe in that you know for yourself what you are doing, and that you are acting in our best interest. I will not question your choices, or your decisions. Being a Pisces I am dual, but, this duality manifests in being able to dislike and trust at the same time. I may not like what you are doing, but, I believe in you so will concede at the same time.

Whereas, him being a Gemini, and being dual .. it doesn't come out that same way. The side that doesn't like what I do, attempts to control me, attempts to change me .. while his other side believes he is free to do what he wants without having to be held accountable. And his inability to practice what he preached was the brick wall that broke us.

If the Fish can learn to not be so doormatty .. and the Twin learn to not be so double-standard to find a middle ground .. then I believe this could be an excellent match.

This gives me hope.

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Posted by kaseke9
Great friends, great buddies, great companions to make the best entertainment show ever lol but as a partner... No. Met many Geminis with different placements and didn't feel with any of them similarity in romance or romantic behaviour. Pisces wants to deeply stare their love interest, vibe on a intuitive level, cuddle and draw cards with hearts. Gemini wants someone who is willing to exchange anecdotes and latest news or will be bored. In a long term, not working out lol

it would square too much your planets I think, as you have sun, and venus there. and not good with cancer ascendant.

don't know about your mercury and mars though.

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Wouldn't Cancer AC go well with a Pisces sun?

Mercury is in Taurus, Mars is in Leo.

I've had a a gemini as a friend/ with benefits. We get along pretty well. Never felt a deep connection though, but on the surface everything runs smoothly.

My mommy is a Gemini and we get along great... we can be mistaken as sister because we're so close and confide within one another...

My little sister (Leo) father is a Pisces... her father and my mom was together for a really long time plus after their breakup they became really good friends... Up to this day my mom is married and she's still pretty cool with my sisters dad...

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Posted by P-Angel

My first husband was a Gemini, and I have several good friends who are Gems.

As friends, we are fine. I guess because friends don't really have the same expectations on each other, and are much more considerate of each other's right as individuals.

Couples though ... most definitely are very inconsiderate of each other as individuals and their irrational expectations of having the other cater to them, and be obligated to them are through the roof.

So, there's no real comparison between couples and friends.

With my husband .... we had great chemistry, and were in mad love with each other. BUT .. and yes, there has to be a "but" otherwise we wouldn't be exes.

The obstacle that we couldn't cross was the difference in our loyalties. In my character, I am extremely devoted to my partner, as most Pisces are. In this devotion, I express it as believing in everything you do. I may not like it, but, I will believe in that you know for yourself what you are doing, and that you are acting in our best interest. I will not question your choices, or your decisions. Being a Pisces I am dual, but, this duality manifests in being able to dislike and trust at the same time. I may not like what you are doing, but, I believe in you so will concede at the same time.

Whereas, him being a Gemini, and being dual .. it doesn't come out that same way. The side that doesn't like what I do, attempts to control me, attempts to change me .. while his other side believes he is free to do what he wants without having to be held accountable. And his inability to practice what he preached was the brick wall that broke us.

If the Fish can learn to not be so doormatty .. and the Twin learn to not be so double-standard to find a middle ground .. then I believe this could be an excellent match.

Oh man, I wish I could talk to you right now

If heaven exists and you can see all the bs Im up to right now, give me a sign about how Im doing PLEASE lol 🤣

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I actually agreed with everything pertaining to Gems, I don't do double standards. I'm probably more like a Pisces in a lot ways bc if the Virgo Pisces axis. However, I've seen some bs from two Gems before.

One was an old friend, claimed to be this strong Christian. She cheated on her ex, ok, whatever, that's your business. She filed for divorce and moved on, but then she started screwing a man who was engaged and then got married. All while I'm going through my horrible separation from my ex cheating. I lost all respect for her at that moment.

She had to much mutable energy, like Pisces moon and Gem, Mercury, Venus and maybe even Mars.