Pisces broke up and asked for space

I have been with my Pisces girlfriend for almost 5years and we have broken up some days ago. We always had a relationship which was easy but hard because of how different we think.

We always adored each other for the things that differ a lot for us which is what kept us wanting each other apart from all the passion.

Lately I have been suffering from stress and I used most of my energy on my problems and not her so we ended up breaking up as I do not give her time to be together and meet mostly weekends.

She asked me to give her space which although hard I am trying.

Not sure if this is the end of it, which would break my heart badly but I want to try to find a way to make her come back.

I wanted to send her flowers at work with a note from a poem she likes and also send her an apology email telling her how much I did mistakes again and again and that she means the world to me. I can’t imagine anyone else in my life...I feel she is the love of my life.

Shall I do what I mentioned? Would it make her more mad? We broke up a week ago and we spoke yesterday a bit, where I asked her about her job interviews. But conversation was strictly about that.

Please help

Maybe might have other issues going on in her life. The best you can do is give her space to recharge but you should let her know that you are still around in case she wants to talk.

Probably, checking on her on a daily basis or three times a week , how she is doing but not deep conversations. Preferably on phone through text or voice. You can even send her the flowers as this will cheer her up because Pisces want to feel or know that they are loved.

For how long should I wait to give her space? It will be exactly a week tomorrow. Was thinking to send those flowers this Friday.

I know she is right about breaking up with me, and not sue how to make her understand that I know my mistakes and why it got us here and get her trust back. 😢

I am afraid she will b looking to get with someone else because I disappointed her again and failed her...

I think she was trying, but me neglecting her was making her sad...

I knew I was just how I was feeling I was not able to give her enough attention and make love to her as much as she wanted.

Broken hearted

On and off for the last 2 months 😢

I don't think she will find someone else because you disappointed her. That will be too soon for her to make that decision. Pisces usually take long to fall in love. She probably wants some solitude to figure her self out. That's what Pisces normally do from time to time.

Maybe she thinks she is the main cause of this whole situation so she is feeling guilty to confront you. If possible ask her what might be holding her back. She will definitely tell you what's going on with her.

Give her a week or two days to be alone but let her know that you around. After this she will comeback strong.

Ok I will try to do what you are suggesting. In the meantime will just send here those flowers with a short note with it.

I guess after sending those flowers I will have an idea if she is done with me for good or not 😢

Any ideas how to make her trust me and wanting me again? I want to write her that I understand what I neglected and I want the same thing as her. But I am afraid she will see it as pressure and also feeling cornered that she is not able to ‘leave’ if she wants to?

She always told me that she feels free with me and that she knows I believe in her dreams and encourage her. We can have deep conversations together even if in a different way. She likes that I am adventureous and I never bored her. I am in love with how she speaks to me, how she looks at me. I make her laugh with anything I say and that makes me wanting her more.

I am a Leo, and although we are almost opposite to each other, I always give her the limelight around people and take it back when we are together alone.

I think she is going through a crisis too but for different reasons. She needs passion in her life and lots of love all the time. Seriously a proper Pisces.

Me when not suffering I am the same too, I have never been so close to anyone before I met her. She opened my hearts.

We had a passionate relationship even if we had our problems like any couple.

Intimacy declined because of me and that was what broke us in my opinion. I know for sure that it declined from my part because of me being stressed.

When she tamed me down I was exactly where I needed to be. Stress sucks, I am hoping those flowers will not push her more away.

Posted by sharon183
I think she is going through a crisis too but for different reasons. She needs passion in her life and lots of love all the time. Seriously a proper Pisces.

Me when not suffering I am the same too, I have never been so close to anyone before I met her. She opened my hearts.

We had a passionate relationship even if we had our problems like any couple.

Intimacy declined because of me and that was what broke us in my opinion. I know for sure that it declined from my part because of me being stressed.

When she tamed me down I was exactly where I needed to be. Stress sucks, I am hoping those flowers will not push her more away.

She is feeling neglected. Don’t give her to much space or she will disappear.

What you are planning is perfect. The flowers and that you understand that you not having enough time for her was a mistake.

Intimacy is really important for us, but it really seems like you know her well and what when wrong.

You have to win her back. She is hurt and feels unloved so she needs you to convince her that you can give her that again or she will move on and find it somewhere else.

Thank you ❤️

How can I show her and convince her that? Is an email enough? Was planning to write out what I know is wrong and apologize for neglecting her. But don’t know how to put it that we can make this work and give each other what we deserve and need. I don’t think she wants to meet me yet.

Yes I know her well and love her for who she is. I’m destroyed for letting it come to this since I really know what is breaking us. I really do believe we have a lot to conquer together. So much different and then again so much we compliment each other. I never spoke so much highly for any partner I had in my life.

Maybe you are right I guess I will know soon if she is willing to give me a chance or not after she receives those flowers tomorrow.

I really do not want this story to end like this 😢

So she received the flowers and replies to me that I shouldn’t have done that and thank you.

Not sure what to reply to her...not so happy that that I sent them at work. Also said I should let her her go... 😢

Posted by sharon183
So she received the flowers and replies to me that I shouldn’t have done that and thank you.

Not sure what to reply to her...not so happy that that I sent them at work. Also said I should let her her go... 😢

Did you tell her what you were going to tell her apart from the flowers?

You should had send them at home but never mind that is it done.

Tell me more so I can help you

She told me I should have done this in the 4years together which obviously I didn’t send flowers but I did different acts of love to her even in bad times.

She is a bit annoyed I sent at work, but it was hard to send them at her house because of her landlord.

Told me that I should let her go and to not play games with her now. Which obviously I am not.

I’m afraid I created anxiety to her which is what I didn’t want to do. One reason I sent flowers was so I don’t have to meet her since she asked not to meet.

The apologies I didn’t say them yet no as I don’t want to do in chat. Last resort is email but maybe now she will get mad at me.

I know she won’t meet me and won’t be asking her to upset her more.

She said that she is about to cry because everyone is asking her in the office...what did I do 😢

She is hurt and annoyed with you. She really needs to hear that you are sorry and that you understand what it went wrong. Do it as soon as you can.

Will a well written email make a difference? I am a rod sent those flowers while away.

I already wrote all that I need to, just need to write it nicely in an email I can send her. Will do it tonight I guess unless it’s too late.

What else, can I do?

She says I had 4years, I know but she knows how much I love her. I won’t manage to hold much longer I’m really hurt and will make more mistakes to push her more. Nothing aggressive just me being stupid in love

She gets mad at me because she doesn’t understand why I would send flowers now. We agreed that I will send her an email and she said wants to read it. She also said that she wants to write to me toO but when ready.

She still wants me to let her be and still seems that for her we are over. She said she put the flowers close to the sea which is what my memories are to her.

Devastated seems she want it over for good...

Asked her if we could meet but to have closure as she would not accept it. She will think about it. But I think if we meet I will b worse, it can’t be I don’t see the love of my life anymore until some months down the line.

It’s like I lost someone who passed away. This is how it is feeling. Like a shock that it was coming but never knew it would hit me hard and I can’t do anything about it.

What do I do?

It cannot be that I feel this way only myself, it’s impossible. I can’t bear the thought of someone else being close to her and taking my place. When I have so much left to give her.

So if anyone is still reading this thread. In a week lots of things changed.

We spoke a lot and we met too. We spend 2hours talking on the phone. She did give an idea that there are some things that if I would do she would rethink about it. Obviously not saying yes but I felt the hesitation.

She still said again that for her relationship is over and doesn’t want me to stay bad about her. I’m confused I don’t want to move on, because if I do it means I will remove her completely from my life.

I feel too much for her and don’t want to let go of what we have.

I understand her why she did what she did, but don’t know what to think...