Pisces man sun moon and mars..disappearing!! HELP!!!

Posted by MissDiamond

Posted by Aquababy222
@MissDiamond Did he disappear without saying anything? Was it usually after an argument or if things got too intense? If you text would he ignore you? I know he loves the idea of a relationship. I know he is also trying to play on my emotions. I don't think it's his intention to do so. Because then again he told me he's not emotional and I KNOW that's a lie. I sure wish I would've met him BEFORE his heart was broken. :/ I found out he wasn't straight up lying to me about most things but he would make excuses for every little thing. I know he was the type to be faithful... "in a relationship" and he told me once if "in a relationship"... he would try to make it work with the girl he had not get a new one like a used car. Lol. He was ALWAYS the one to bring up relationships, travel, kids...he EVEN said he wanted a TATTOO of my lips on him! But...that's why he avoids REAL relationships like I know he does. In all he is a pretty amazing freaking Pisces! And he treated me very special in all. I think he was starting to feel too much something. Possibly. We were becoming very close and I was letting him take the lead so it felt comfortable. He has appeared to have been single ever since that one ex and he probably has had short little flings here and there that got intense for him. The thing is I think he truly wants a relationship but just cant pull himself to do it for a number of reasons. I try not to take it personal anymore.

Thank you! And sorry to hear... :/

Thank you, it's okay though, it happened 5 years ago and since then I'm happily married. 🙂 Yes, when he disappeared it was always in a moment when things got intense. When I asked some questions, when he had to make a decision, when it was time for him to stand up for our relationship, etc. He had no backbone. Pisces men can be indecisive and a hot mess, hell I have seen quite a few that didn't figure what they want in life by their 30s, but this guy was something extra. Because of people like him have Pisces men the reputation of being untrustworthy and deceitful.

I hope it works out for you, I wish you the best of luck! 🙂

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Posted by Happy_Aqua

Posted by daydreamerfishy
Aqua and Pisces are almost never compatible. My spouse is also

Pisces and there are always some Aqua women chasing him...he is usually polite but admitted that was never attracted to one no matter the looks.

So it will be better for both of you not to gather and your Pisces man feels it, that is why he disappears.

Of course your spouse would say this, that he's not attracted....

I disagree, Pisces and Aquarius can be a good match, if the synastry works out well.

There could be so many reasons a Pisces disappears. And all the Pisces I know had the guts to say it if they did not feel compatible, or if a relationship was no option.

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Posted by Aquababy222

He was sometimes lazy about taking me out but didn't mind spending the night...

Like he only wanted the sex not to actually spend real time together. So I didn't say much and he text me right after saying sorry. I didn't care too much

Posted by Happy_Aqua

Posted by daydreamerfishy
Aqua and Pisces are almost never compatible. My spouse is also

Pisces and there are always some Aqua women chasing him...he is usually polite but admitted that was never attracted to one no matter the looks.

So it will be better for both of you not to gather and your Pisces man feels it, that is why he disappears.

Of course your spouse would say this, that he's not attracted....

I disagree, Pisces and Aquarius can be a good match, if the synastry works out well.

There could be so many reasons a Pisces disappears. And all the Pisces I know had the guts to say it if they did not feel compatible, or if a relationship was no option.

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Posted by Aquababy222
PLEASE HELP

I'm Aquarius Sun and Pisces Venus

He is Pisces Sun, Moon, and Mars

..we have strong Saturn, Pluto(including north node) , Venus and Neptue in synastry.

Plus double venus/moon and mars/venus

Hello Aquababy. You need a response to your dilemma and as Piscean with similar placements as your Piscean man, here goes. Sorry 😢 Your Piscean "swam away". We LOVE the attention we give and receive to our "newly formed" relationship. Since you were not his girlfriend and vice versa, there really was no love at first sight for him (yeah, we believe in this). As Pisceans we love beauty; a beautiful face, a beautiful personality, a beautiful person (woman; that's you) for me, of course, that would be a beautiful man. He talks to you to find out everything about you. Some Pisceans are introverts/extroverts; sounds like he's an introvert as he didn't want to go out, but yeah, wanted a booty call. If that's your cup of tea, then go for it! Beware of the consequences if it is. We SAY we won't hurt you, but when YOU hurt us, then we slap your face with our wet fin (I've heard it hurts more than slapping your face with a wet hand); so he swam away. Sorry little one, you sent him a text by mistake, and you can get on your knees and walk towards us and apologize 10,000 times, and yeah, we'll forgive you, but it's buried in the back of our minds; that when you do something "wrong" again, be it chew on the wrong side of your mouth (being sarcastic here) that will be the straw that broke the camel's back to us/him and he will not want nothing to do with you anymore. Sorry to be blunt, but that's how he/we are as Pisceans. I remember you posted that you wished you would have met him before he got his heart broken; this you cannot "control" just like you cannot control who your parents are since they gave birth to you and you were born Aquarius. What life is teaching you little one is this: 1) Do I want to be a man's booty call? 2) Next time I text I will make sure I double check the name before clicking on "send" button 3) I will NOT make excuses for a man anymore, etc. You yourself posted a long topic with explanation and you're telling yourself he just needs time. Nope. He doesn't need time. He's already made his decision; AND he's not afraid of meeting someone after having his heart broken. We try, and try, and try, and try, until we've kissed allot of frogs and that 10,000 + 1 will be the one that turns into a prince/princess. What he IS saying to himself about the ex-girlfriend is this, "SHE lost the best man that came into her life!". MAYBE he's waiting to meet a woman that will compare to his ex-gf; and sorry, that wasn't you. Do you want to be his friend? You also mentioned you were clingy and decided not to post anymore; and you did the smart thing as we Pisceans HATE to be ignored! Ignore him...and you'll reel him in again, but NOT as his future girlfriend, and again, I repeat myself, if you want to be his booty call; that's your decision.

Sorry 😢 again

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Aquababy222
PLEASE HELP

I'm Aquarius Sun and Pisces Venus

He is Pisces Sun, Moon, and Mars

..we have strong Saturn, Pluto(including north node) , Venus and Neptue in synastry.

Plus double venus/moon and mars/venus

Hello Aquababy. You need a response to your dilemma and as Piscean with similar placements as your Piscean man, here goes. Sorry 😢 Your Piscean "swam away". We LOVE the attention we give and receive to our "newly formed" relationship. Since you were not his girlfriend and vice versa, there really was no love at first sight for him (yeah, we believe in this). As Pisceans we love beauty; a beautiful face, a beautiful personality, a beautiful person (woman; that's you) for me, of course, that would be a beautiful man. He talks to you to find out everything about you. Some Pisceans are introverts/extroverts; sounds like he's an introvert as he didn't want to go out, but yeah, wanted a booty call. If that's your cup of tea, then go for it! Beware of the consequences if it is. We SAY we won't hurt you, but when YOU hurt us, then we slap your face with our wet fin (I've heard it hurts more than slapping your face with a wet hand); so he swam away. Sorry little one, you sent him a text by mistake, and you can get on your knees and walk towards us and apologize 10,000 times, and yeah, we'll forgive you, but it's buried in the back of our minds; that when you do something "wrong" again, be it chew on the wrong side of your mouth (being sarcastic here) that will be the straw that broke the camel's back to us/him and he will not want nothing to do with you anymore. Sorry to be blunt, but that's how he/we are as Pisceans. I remember you posted that you wished you would have met him before he got his heart broken; this you cannot "control" just like you cannot control who your parents are since they gave birth to you and you were born Aquarius. What life is teaching you little one is this: 1) Do I want to be a man's booty call? 2) Next time I text I will make sure I double check the name before clicking on "send" button 3) I will NOT make excuses for a man anymore, etc. You yourself posted a long topic with explanation and you're telling yourself he just needs time. Nope. He doesn't need time. He's already made his decision; AND he's not afraid of meeting someone after having his heart broken. We try, and try, and try, and try, until we've kissed allot of frogs and that 10,000 + 1 will be the one that turns into a prince/princess. What he IS saying to himself about the ex-girlfriend is this, "SHE lost the best man that came into her life!". MAYBE he's waiting to meet a woman that will compare to his ex-gf; and sorry, that wasn't you. Do you want to be his friend? You also mentioned you were clingy and decided not to post anymore; and you did the smart thing as we Pisceans HATE to be ignored! Ignore him...and you'll reel him in again, but NOT as his future girlfriend, and again, I repeat myself, if you want to be his booty call; that's your decision.

Sorry 😢 again

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Thank you EvatheDiva for your help. Check your messages I messaged you from my old account.

Posted by Aquababy222

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Aquababy222
PLEASE HELP

I'm Aquarius Sun and Pisces Venus

He is Pisces Sun, Moon, and Mars

..we have strong Saturn, Pluto(including north node) , Venus and Neptue in synastry.

Plus double venus/moon and mars/venus

Hello Aquababy. You need a response to your dilemma and as Piscean with similar placements as your Piscean man, here goes. Sorry 😢 Your Piscean "swam away". We LOVE the attention we give and receive to our "newly formed" relationship. Since you were not his girlfriend and vice versa, there really was no love at first sight for him (yeah, we believe in this). As Pisceans we love beauty; a beautiful face, a beautiful personality, a beautiful person (woman; that's you) for me, of course, that would be a beautiful man. He talks to you to find out everything about you. Some Pisceans are introverts/extroverts; sounds like he's an introvert as he didn't want to go out, but yeah, wanted a booty call. If that's your cup of tea, then go for it! Beware of the consequences if it is. We SAY we won't hurt you, but when YOU hurt us, then we slap your face with our wet fin (I've heard it hurts more than slapping your face with a wet hand); so he swam away. Sorry little one, you sent him a text by mistake, and you can get on your knees and walk towards us and apologize 10,000 times, and yeah, we'll forgive you, but it's buried in the back of our minds; that when you do something "wrong" again, be it chew on the wrong side of your mouth (being sarcastic here) that will be the straw that broke the camel's back to us/him and he will not want nothing to do with you anymore. Sorry to be blunt, but that's how he/we are as Pisceans. I remember you posted that you wished you would have met him before he got his heart broken; this you cannot "control" just like you cannot control who your parents are since they gave birth to you and you were born Aquarius. What life is teaching you little one is this: 1) Do I want to be a man's booty call? 2) Next time I text I will make sure I double check the name before clicking on "send" button 3) I will NOT make excuses for a man anymore, etc. You yourself posted a long topic with explanation and you're telling yourself he just needs time. Nope. He doesn't need time. He's already made his decision; AND he's not afraid of meeting someone after having his heart broken. We try, and try, and try, and try, until we've kissed allot of frogs and that 10,000 + 1 will be the one that turns into a prince/princess. What he IS saying to himself about the ex-girlfriend is this, "SHE lost the best man that came into her life!". MAYBE he's waiting to meet a woman that will compare to his ex-gf; and sorry, that wasn't you. Do you want to be his friend? You also mentioned you were clingy and decided not to post anymore; and you did the smart thing as we Pisceans HATE to be ignored! Ignore him...and you'll reel him in again, but NOT as his future girlfriend, and again, I repeat myself, if you want to be his booty call; that's your decision.

Sorry 😢 again

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Thank you EvatheDiva for your help. Check your messages I messaged you from my old account.

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Ahhhh, girl, you made me think I had Alzheimers (too young for that 😉 just PM you back. YW and any time you want to chit chat PM me!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by daydreamerfishy

Posted by Happy_Aqua

Posted by daydreamerfishy
Aqua and Pisces are almost never compatible. My spouse is also

Pisces and there are always some Aqua women chasing him...he is usually polite but admitted that was never attracted to one no matter the looks.

So it will be better for both of you not to gather and your Pisces man feels it, that is why he disappears.

Of course your spouse would say this, that he's not attracted....

I disagree, Pisces and Aquarius can be a good match, if the synastry works out well.

There could be so many reasons a Pisces disappears. And all the Pisces I know had the guts to say it if they did not feel compatible, or if a relationship was no option.

From my observations we think quite different, aquas barely get the essense of pisces...you are just too far away and we want real intimacy, true and deep feelings. Aqua can not meet our expectations and we usually disappear.

Eh that's very vague. Im a Pisces dominant with Aquarius a close second, and I can tell you that I hardly sense the difference between the two. Sometimes I have trouble distinguishing the two. They arent all that different. Also, synastry is not all about the Sun sign, so just because she's an Aquarius and he's a Pisces doesnt mean their synastry won't work out. You saying that your Pisces spouse has never been attracted to Aquas is really an ignorant generalization that Aqua and Pisces dont go together, because people regardless of their sign are not attracted to people of certain signs. So I wouldnt go telling her that it'll never work between them. She is going through heartbreak Im sure that's the last thing she wants to hear.

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Posted by d0s3r
lol that was way too long

learn to use paragraphs. jesus

from my exp:

disappearing from social media - embarrassment. need to make some changes (in myself). in social media i get caught up in the overload of other opinions, trends, etc. and i lose myself. so i hide to find myself

hot and coldness - i want u but not sure if u want me back. especially after a disappearance episode. u might be over me by now/found somebody else. so i try to act like a normal friend, but the 'heat' is my emotions taking over (can't help it). the coldness is me trying to act normal/unattached again

Posted by d0s3r
"He has a HUUUUGE heart but his heart had been curuushed a few years prior with his first love (he doesn't know I know that) and he is a commitment phobe now. He has trouble getting close even though he never expressed it to me. He always asks me "what's on your mind?" I had one day I broke down in tears (so unlike me) I told him how I am a healer and love being there for people but I had trouble letting people in because I always get hurt."

you don´t like his lack of commitment/hot-coldness but you also don't let people in. that's not cool.

my ex was like u (pisces sun aqua moon). wanted to be my therapist but wouldn't sort his own shit first.

try not to act like you´re doing him a favour by being there for him. u may think ur a healer but u should ask if ppl even want u to heal them.

pisces can fix themselves, just don't be so pushy. if u enjoy each other then just enjoy. ur following relationship guidelines and they don't work for a pisces

Posted by Jayceon
TL; DR

Posted by YasmineMin

Posted by daydreamerfishy

Posted by Happy_Aqua

Posted by daydreamerfishy
Aqua and Pisces are almost never compatible. My spouse is also

Pisces and there are always some Aqua women chasing him...he is usually polite but admitted that was never attracted to one no matter the looks.

So it will be better for both of you not to gather and your Pisces man feels it, that is why he disappears.

Of course your spouse would say this, that he's not attracted....

I disagree, Pisces and Aquarius can be a good match, if the synastry works out well.

There could be so many reasons a Pisces disappears. And all the Pisces I know had the guts to say it if they did not feel compatible, or if a relationship was no option.

From my observations we think quite different, aquas barely get the essense of pisces...you are just too far away and we want real intimacy, true and deep feelings. Aqua can not meet our expectations and we usually disappear.

Eh that's very vague. Im a Pisces dominant with Aquarius a close second, and I can tell you that I hardly sense the difference between the two. Sometimes I have trouble distinguishing the two. They arent all that different. Also, synastry is not all about the Sun sign, so just because she's an Aquarius and he's a Pisces doesnt mean their synastry won't work out. You saying that your Pisces spouse has never been attracted to Aquas is really an ignorant generalization that Aqua and Pisces dont go together, because people regardless of their sign are not attracted to people of certain signs. So I wouldnt go telling her that it'll never work between them. She is going through heartbreak Im sure that's the last thing she wants to hear.

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