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This topic was created in the Pisces forum by DeeLovesRed on Thursday, December 1, 2016 and has 31 replies.

Pisces Relationship Compatibility with Other Pisces

Pisces and Pisces often share a deep emotional connection and understanding. Their relationship tends to be highly intuitive and intimate, with a strong focus on mutual compassion and empathy. While they can face challenges in setting boundaries, their shared sensitivities usually foster a supportive and harmonious bond.

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Any Feb Pisces ever dated or still is dating a March Pisces—

How was it?

What have you learned or still learning from it?

Is it very intimate?

Just Curious...

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Posted by cvurko
We were both March Pisces and were together for 5 years and a half. I have mostly good memories. Intimacy was high, yes. But that was my first and only serious relationship (just ended) so i dont really have lots to compare with.

Aww man.... —?...

Because it just ended I'm not even going to ask you any questions...

it's still pretty fresh..

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Posted by cvurko

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Posted by cvurko
We were both March Pisces and were together for 5 years and a half. I have mostly good memories. Intimacy was high, yes. But that was my first and only serious relationship (just ended) so i dont really have lots to compare with.

Aww man.... —?...

Because it just ended I'm not even going to ask you any questions...

it's still pretty fresh..

Its ok, If i feel bad it wont be because of questions somebody asked 🙂 If you are interested in something you are welcome to ask

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Did you ever feel like you have to take the lead? Because when I read about Pis-Pis relationships... They always say no one is "capable" of taking the lead... Which I think is a stereotype, but how was it in that sense

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@Undine
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Posted by DeeLovesRed
Any Feb Pisces ever dated or still is dating a March Pisces—

How was it?

What have you learned or still learning from it?

Is it very intimate?

Just Curious...

Yes, it was my longest lived-with relationship.

Intimate? For the first few years...after that we became like siblings...not even Mars conjunct Venus in ARIES could save it 🥱

What have I learned? Never date your "brother".

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Posted by Undine

Posted by DeeLovesRed
Any Feb Pisces ever dated or still is dating a March Pisces—

How was it?

What have you learned or still learning from it?

Is it very intimate?

Just Curious...

Yes, it was my longest lived-with relationship.

Intimate? For the first few years...after that we became like siblings...not even Mars conjunct Venus in ARIES could save it 🥱

What have I learned? Never date your "brother".

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Dang,So after a while there wasn't anymore sexing? Was there alot of bickering??

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by Undine

Posted by DeeLovesRed
Any Feb Pisces ever dated or still is dating a March Pisces—

How was it?

What have you learned or still learning from it?

Is it very intimate?

Just Curious...

Yes, it was my longest lived-with relationship.

Intimate? For the first few years...after that we became like siblings...not even Mars conjunct Venus in ARIES could save it 🥱

What have I learned? Never date your "brother".

Dang,So after a while there wasn't anymore sexing? Was there alot of bickering??

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No, sex, fighting and passion...all went downhill. What was left was a very bland and comfortable life.

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@lexci
10 Years

Posted by cvurko

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by cvurko

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by cvurko
We were both March Pisces and were together for 5 years and a half. I have mostly good memories. Intimacy was high, yes. But that was my first and only serious relationship (just ended) so i dont really have lots to compare with.

Aww man.... —?...

Because it just ended I'm not even going to ask you any questions...

it's still pretty fresh..

Its ok, If i feel bad it wont be because of questions somebody asked 🙂 If you are interested in something you are welcome to ask

Did you ever feel like you have to take the lead? Because when I read about Pis-Pis relationships... They always say no one is "capable" of taking the lead... Which I think is a stereotype, but how was it in that sense

Actually there might be some truth to that. I've felt that i had to take the lead a lot of the times and after 2-3 years i started feeling exhausted from that and occasionally lacked the desire to take the lead. So maybe its not just a stereotype but it depends on every individual. We are not our sign... Both of us are strong pisces tho 😄 😄 😄

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Yeah, I agree. There may be a little truth to that statement. Me and my husband are both Pisces. (March Pisces) I get angry with him a lot because I feel he doesn't stand up like a man and take lead when he needs to. I feel he expects me to take the lead and I don't want to do that because I am more so submissive rather than dominant. So sometimes I'm forced to take lead, even though I don't want to.

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10 Years

i had a feb pisces confess his love to me (march pisces) just a week ago. very close understanding relationship. dont share the same values but the friendship chemistry is very good

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@lexci
10 Years

Posted by cvurko

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Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by cvurko

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by cvurko
We were both March Pisces and were together for 5 years and a half. I have mostly good memories. Intimacy was high, yes. But that was my first and only serious relationship (just ended) so i dont really have lots to compare with.

Aww man.... —?...

Because it just ended I'm not even going to ask you any questions...

it's still pretty fresh..

Its ok, If i feel bad it wont be because of questions somebody asked 🙂 If you are interested in something you are welcome to ask

Did you ever feel like you have to take the lead? Because when I read about Pis-Pis relationships... They always say no one is "capable" of taking the lead... Which I think is a stereotype, but how was it in that sense

Actually there might be some truth to that. I've felt that i had to take the lead a lot of the times and after 2-3 years i started feeling exhausted from that and occasionally lacked the desire to take the lead. So maybe its not just a stereotype but it depends on every individual. We are not our sign... Both of us are strong pisces tho 😄 😄 😄

Yeah, I agree. There may be a little truth to that statement. Me and my husband are both Pisces. (March Pisces) I get angry with him a lot because I feel he doesn't stand up like a man and take lead when he needs to. I feel he expects me to take the lead and I don't want to do that because I am more so submissive rather than dominant. So sometimes I'm forced to take lead, even though I don't want to.

The"being a man" stereotypes tho 🙂 both should be leading and be active in a relationship

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I have to respectively disagree. There are waaay too many men these days who have feminine ways. You just don't see any masculine men anymore, and it's unattractive to me. I'm not sure if you are a guy or a girl, but if you are a guy, would you want a woman who acted manly? Would a woman who drinks beer and scratches her private parts in public attract you lol? Of course not.

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10 Years

Posted by Nemilicious
feb pisces here, i married a march 18th pisces.

but we also got divorced.

2 beautiful girls are the result (gemini and cancer) of this liasion

😄

How did the divorce go? Is he still in the kids lives?

I think my daughter is what keeps me in the relationship with my Pisces. That, and the fact that he isn't in a position to live on his own right now. I've been looking to leave the relationship but I'm not sure how it will affect my daughter. I'm trying to wait until he finds work again before I do that. I care for him, but I'm not in love anymore.

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10 Years

Posted by Nemilicious

Posted by lexci

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feb pisces here, i married a march 18th pisces.

but we also got divorced.

2 beautiful girls are the result (gemini and cancer) of this liasion

😄

How did the divorce go? Is he still in the kids lives?

I think my daughter is what keeps me in the relationship with my Pisces. That, and the fact that he isn't in a position to live on his own right now. I've been looking to leave the relationship but I'm not sure how it will affect my daughter. I'm trying to wait until he finds work again before I do that. I care for him, but I'm not in love anymore.

not too well. being a lawyer himself; he tried to pull me over the table during the divorce.

the girls were very young. 2 years old and the other one was just two months old. they were one of the main -amongst many other - reasons that i up and left and filed for a divorce. could not allow them to grow up in a family built on lies and unhealty vibes and toxicity. he sucked my energy which i needed for them. i hated his guts so i did the only logical thing.

he does not play a major role in their lives. we talk openly about him whenever they want to; there are no secrets; i believe being sincere and honest with your kids also about ones own mistakes and decisions is the only way to go. he has always tried to reconnect with me over them; something i do not take fondly to. i let them decide if they want contact or not.

so far so good.

i see no sense at all being a martyr and a saviour for somebody else; co dependence is very harmful for all involved. i hope you work things out for your daughter and yourself 🙂

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Wow, your situation sounds just like mine. Just like your ex he literally drains me from my energy and happiness. Sometimes I think I care about him more than he does.

Thanks for the information. I think it's time for me to move on and maybe stay single for a while lol.

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Most people think in terms of longevity, rather than quality.

Once you get the proper perspective on that ...... then all experiences with other people will be welcomed without doubts or worries of failure, because failure doesn't actually exist in relationships.

Live, enjoy and let it die when it's finished ..... move along

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Posted by Undine

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Posted by DeeLovesRed
Any Feb Pisces ever dated or still is dating a March Pisces—

How was it?

What have you learned or still learning from it?

Is it very intimate?

Just Curious...

Yes, it was my longest lived-with relationship.

Intimate? For the first few years...after that we became like siblings...not even Mars conjunct Venus in ARIES could save it 🥱

What have I learned? Never date your "brother".

Dang,So after a while there wasn't anymore sexing? Was there alot of bickering??

No, sex, fighting and passion...all went downhill. What was left was a very bland and comfortable life.

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The reason why I asked was b/c a while back I was "dating" well more like getting to know this Pisces (Feb 28) guy... And everything was good, but I called it off because I'm not one to fully give myself away UNLESS I know we're heading to deeper depths...

So, he's always liked me and years ago he mentioned how he can see himself with me (we've been friends for a while).. I explained that relationships are things I strayed away from in the past b/c I didn't like the "commitment thing"...But I feel like if we're going to do it.. it has to be REAL and we have to be "in it to win it"... After a while, I called everything off because I didn't trust his answer (IMMATURE OF ME ??)... And ever since he really wants to show me that he's really looking for that person to build and go far with...

Now, looking back on it.. he's a gentleman and he's has a great income.. He's very selfless and family-oriented... So I like those qualities of him... He's stayed in contact with me since I called thing off and communication hasn't changed not once.. and every chance he gets he asks "Are you ready??"... I feel like I want to go for it, but maybe I'm too scared...

By the way I'm a March Pisces (Mar 4, to be exact)

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16 Years

I'm 0 for 3 with March born Pisces, first March 13th, the second March 7th and the last March 20th.

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Posted by Fire-Water
I'm 0 for 3 with March born Pisces, first March 13th, the second March 7th and the last March 20th.

All bad experiences?? Well maybe in my case the Feb is the Male and me being the March, I'm a female..

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Feb 28 and March 4 means the suns are conjunct, which is better than what we had (me: Feb 28 and him: March 13).

The way your Feb 28 is courting you sounds similar to how I chase someone I'm interested in. I would stop it the moment I know he's got a girlfriend, though.

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Posted by Infinite8

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correction ... let it pass when it's finished

With that said, is it safe to say you don't believe in marriage?

Just live life with a partner and see how it goes on a day to day basis?

Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell did that and it seemed to work very well for them.

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I believe in enjoying the experience to it's fullest, and then stepping away when it's passed. That really isn't marriage specific, nor single specific.

I would live a lifetime married, or not married and just shacking up .. if that were the terms, so long as we were happy together and still enjoying each other.

I don't believe in ownership of a person if that is what you were trying to say

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Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by Fire-Water
I'm 0 for 3 with March born Pisces, first March 13th, the second March 7th and the last March 20th.

All bad experiences?? Well maybe in my case the Feb is the Male and me being the March, I'm a female..

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Nah they were all good at some point, only one ended with the March pisces being a bit vindictive but im chalking that up to her specifically. Im a Feb born pisces

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Posted by Undine
Feb 28 and March 4 means the suns are conjunct, which is better than what we had (me: Feb 28 and him: March 13).

The way your Feb 28 is courting you sounds similar to how I chase someone I'm interested in. I would stop it the moment I know he's got a girlfriend, though.

I didn't know our suns were conjunct.... Yes, he said really interested and that's part of the reason I want to go ahead and say yes... Because what if he starts to lose interest, I'll be A-S-S'ed out

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13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

Here how a pisces/pisces relationship can go:

-pisces are very receptive and will adapt to each other and will probably end up sharing the same feelings at the same time and feel too close to each other. Like being on the same wavelength all the time. More like telepath siblings than a couple. Love needs some distance.

-In love like in combat pisces is reactive. They like the other person to act first and they adapt the best way possible, that explain a lack of leadership. Pisces can take brusque initiatives sometimes to get out of a rut with a whip of the tail, so the relationship might altern phases of dullness and senseless stampedes.

-They're two masterful mind players. Imagine a very tense game of poker or a cold war world chess championship. That's how it can end up after a while.

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12 Years

I've never had any chemistry with a Pisces male, and I'm a female Pisces sun/moon. BUT, almost everything else in my chart is cap. In fact, I'm sort of repelled by the way the Pisces men that I've met, have acted. They're either off their rocker (and probably high on something) or giving off really antsy/dark emotional vibes.

I have a good Aqua friend who's parents are both Pisces and have been married a long time, but she says it's constant complaining, mind games, suspicion, etc. But neither of them will leave eachother or change anything.

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Posted by IV_NAMED
Before i got married i had been with a few pisces chicks..one even got my name tatted on her back lol

it was cool overall but i can't picture having a long term relationship with one

Why couldnt you picture a long term?