Question with my pisces GF...

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Hello I am new here , nice to meet yall...

Well I have a question I'm a taurus & my gf is a pisces we've been friends for a while & now we are in a relationship ... I mean we slept together before we were in a relationship , in which I kinda hesitated at first in doing because she had just gotten out of a relationship 3 months prior & she was a really cool friend, she slept over my house a lot after she had broken up & I thought about having sex with her but never made a move cause she was my friend but as time passed I guess I couldn't help it anymore cause goddamn we were in the same bed , I asked her if she was cool with it and she said yes...

But now a year has passed and we have sex almost everyday, is that normal ? I mean I love it ! but I'm just wondering if her being a pisces think the same way I do Or if we keep having sex at the rate we do would she lose interest in me in the long run ?

Any advice would be appreciated thank you!
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We've been in a relationship for a year, yeah we do work out together and what regular couples do, I've known her for a while.

She did ask me if I'm only in it for the sex before we were in a relationship but little did she know that I was already developing feelings for her, so we made it official bf & gf, and now a year has passed.

The sex is still great for me and I think she is cool with it too, but I find it too comfortable and I don't know if she feels that it is too comfortable as well.

We care for each other and I guess what's lacking is we don't really hold hands or do those cuddly stuff, but she did brought that up that why I never do it; I mean for me it just seems awkward at times so I don't do it, maybe it's a guy thing.

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Posted by AntiSocial
We've been in a relationship for a year, yeah we do work out together and what regular couples do, I've known her for a while.

She did ask me if I'm only in it for the sex before we were in a relationship but little did she know that I was already developing feelings for her, so we made it official bf & gf, and now a year has passed.

The sex is still great for me and I think she is cool with it too, but I find it too comfortable and I don't know if she feels that it is too comfortable as well.

We care for each other and I guess what's lacking is we don't really hold hands or do those cuddly stuff, but she did brought that up that why I never do it; I mean for me it just seems awkward at times so I don't do it, maybe it's a guy thing.


"We care for each other and I guess what's lacking is we don't really hold hands or do those cuddly stuff, but she did brought that up that why I never do it; I mean for me it just seems awkward at times so I don't do it, maybe it's a guy thing." She said she was uncomfortable with it? Or you're uncomfortable with it? It's definitely not just a guy thing. All the men I've been involved with were physically demonstrative.

Your feelings about your sex life with her are also unclear: in the OP, you said your were happy with it, that it was great sex, but you were worried how she felt about it. In today's post, you said it was too comfortable.
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"We care for each other and I guess what's lacking is we don't really hold hands or do those cuddly stuff"

Hold her bloody hand...it is just a 5-10 min thing that you do it "spontaneously" when walking next to her, just before you arrive somewhere....how difficult is that?

As for cuddling, start by putting your head/upper body into her lap while sitting next to her on the couch....

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Posted by AntiSocial

1 - ... I mean we slept together before we were in a relationship ..... I couldn't help it anymore cause goddamn we were in the same bed , I asked her if she was cool with it and she said yes...

2 - but I'm just wondering if her being a pisces think the same way I do




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3 - We've been in a relationship for a year, yeah we do work out together and what regular couples do

4 - She did ask me if I'm only in it for the sex before we were in a relationship but little did she know that I was already developing feelings for her, so we made it official bf & gf, and now a year has passed.

5 - I find it too comfortable and I don't know if she feels that it is too comfortable as well.

6 - what's lacking is we don't really hold hands or do those cuddly stuff, but she did brought that up that why I never do it; I mean for me it just seems awkward at times so I don't do it

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1 - So, you two were casually sleeping in the same bed when just platonic friends? .... and that is NOT what you question is normal or not? I couldn't believe my eyes when I read that, as you said so nonchalant, as if it's perfectly acceptable for two regular friends to sleep in the same bed. Are you nuts? But, then jump to #4 and we find out that you had hidden feelings for her ... so it's logical to assume that you had her in your bed under the false pretenses that you wanted her as a friend.

2 - This one really gets my goat, but, opens the door for understanding as to why you are trying to maneuver her to your benefit. This sentence of yours is basically making the implication in the form of a question that because she is Pisces, she will just perform what you want without communicating - which you aren't communicating. However, I notice everytime a subject comes up, it's her bringing it up.

3 - You were asked what you two do other than have sex to define being in a relationship and your answer was to say you work out together and what other regular couples do. Which basically amounts to you not answering the question at all. If you don't know what defines being a couple and so have to say "what others do" .... then you two aren't even in a relationship and just fucking.

4. There would be no point in asking what mean by making it official, since your answer would be something like, "what every one else does when making it official" And again, notice it's HER communicating and addressing issues - not you, you stated how you hide having to address and communicate things.

5. Of course you don't know if she finds it uncomfortable because you don't fucking talk to her about shit ..... so, I guess somewhere in your warped mind, you think normal couples don't talk out their stuff. You two aren't in a relationship, you are just in a fantasy in where you don't really even have to be present, while getting your dick wet.

6. This is confirmation that you're not in a relationship. You don't do what it takes to make a person feel special ..... I mean, you won't even hold her hand or be affectionate (which is the cuddly stuff).



Your other thread begins to make sense now where you're questioning the compatibility of your two signs. I mean, it's obvious from this thread that you have no interest or intentions on making her feel valuable or special to you .... you won't even have necessary discussions with her, while telling us "little does she know".

You're not worth it being a boyfriend ... and it's only a matter of time before she gives up on your selfish ass and swims.
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He appears to want more rigorous sex. Like more heated sex. Spice it up a little. I'm sure your mermaid is well equipped to handle that. Scorps have a few kinks they like to explore from time to time.


question, no disrespect but why are you mentioning scorpio?

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Oops. I thought one was a Scorpio. I must have looked at the wrong headline or something. Sorry.