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Sex with someone you don't like . Advice needed.
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
Why are you so wishy washy? If you want to have sex with her just have sex with her, theres nothing to be afraid of being attached to her if you just wanna fuck her, but it seems you have weaker game than her lol
lol she's a freak and that freakiness might get inside your head that's what you're worried about —
Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
My advice is to have sex with her and endure the worst she throws at you, the pain and annoyance will sink in quickly. This lesson is generally more easily learned by guys.
Posted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.click to expand
Posted by AdreamuponwakingIf she is a drunk she would be info you every time she is drunk!
So
I met this Pisces girl ( Venus in taurus , moon in Aries , mercury in pisces and mars in Capricorn ) this past summer at this festival and I was instantly drawn to her . But unlike past attractions I knew instantly that I wanted to have sex with her .
The Problem is that she is a train wreck waiting to happen . She frequents sex parties , does drugs, drinks herself into oblivion etc...etc
There are so many red flags but I can't stop thinking about her .
I saw her recently at this holiday party . She seemed into me . Kind of . I don't know . It's weird . She followed me around the party and seemed kind of nervous around me . She always tends to say and or do the wrong thing around me . She's pretty superficial , judgmental , and tends to say a lot of ignorant things about race and class .But at the same time she's also a walking contradiction . Most of the stuff she says is kind of BS. I don't know if she's trying to impress me by trying to say things she thinks I want to hear or if she doesn't know herself that well and tries to mask how insecure she really is by behaving the way she does .I really don't know .
E.g-One of the things that pissed me off the most that night is that she criticized some of former friends of hers for their alcoholism and tendency to hook up with friends ....right before she did the the very same thing at the party . She made out with this girl she said wasn't her type a few weeks ago ...the worst part is she has a boyfriend ( who may or may not be cool with her hooking up with chicks still ) he's a Scorpio so I'm betting against it .
I don't know what her deal is . I know I should avoid her but she fascinates me .I also in some way feel protective / responsible for her welfare .It's no Bueno.
Advice needed . What's the deal with this girl ?What should I do the next time she wants to hang out ?
I feel like this is the typical Pisces female being attracted to the troubled "bad boy " scenario ...except in my case I'm attracted to a troubled "bad girl ".
I'm a Pisces sun , venus in Taurus , with a Libra/Scorpio cusp moon and a mars in Capricorn btw if that helps .
Try to catch her sober!
Will she remember who you are?
Common! You've got to be a real moron to fall for a drunk!
Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.click to expand
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?
Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?click to expand
If your best friend came to you with this exact scenario, what advice would you offer...
Posted by Stinger408scorpLet's wait for people to chime in!Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?click to expand
I can have one other reason...drunk!
But when you drunk you love them ALL!
Lol
I rarely liked my partners....l always took what l could.
Posted by bricklemarkMay I pet your whatever as a pitty act?
I rarely liked my partners....l always took what l could.
Posted by Gemitatilol i don't drink but I do like holding my coke with no jack and even if I do I control the liquor I will never let it control me.Posted by Stinger408scorpLet's wait for people to chime in!Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?
I can have one other reason...drunk!
But when you drunk you love them ALL!
Lolclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Stinger408scorpLet's wait for people to chime in!Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?
I can have one other reason...drunk!
But when you drunk you love them ALL!
Lolclick to expand
I learned from this lol
She sounds like a girl who would have stds
Well karma is the type of thing that will make you accidently get her pregnant, or make the condom magically break. Then you will be fused to her life forever with a child.
Or maybe by taking the safe yet selfish road by ignoring her completely karma will still strike the same.
Confused? That's karma for ya.
Or maybe by taking the safe yet selfish road by ignoring her completely karma will still strike the same.
Confused? That's karma for ya.
Posted by Stinger408scorpNOW you explain to me what does it have to do with ANY sex?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Stinger408scorpLet's wait for people to chime in!Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?
I can have one other reason...drunk!
But when you drunk you love them ALL!
Lol
I learned from this lol
click to expand
Why bother ? 😐
Posted by GemitatiSo I avoid the ones I don't like.Posted by Stinger408scorpNOW you explain to me what does it have to do with ANY sex?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Stinger408scorpLet's wait for people to chime in!Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?
I can have one other reason...drunk!
But when you drunk you love them ALL!
Lol
I learned from this lol
click to expand
Wait her man is a Scorpio?
Posted by Stinger408scorpI am going back to pms.Posted by GemitatiSo I avoid the ones I don't like.Posted by Stinger408scorpNOW you explain to me what does it have to do with ANY sex?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Stinger408scorpLet's wait for people to chime in!Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?
I can have one other reason...drunk!
But when you drunk you love them ALL!
Lol
I learned from this lol
click to expand
You seem off the track
Posted by SeraphlightLol life is short only enjoy it with people you like.
I don't fancy people I don't like.
Posted by Gemitati??☝️rightPosted by Stinger408scorpI am going back to pms.Posted by GemitatiSo I avoid the ones I don't like.Posted by Stinger408scorpNOW you explain to me what does it have to do with ANY sex?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Stinger408scorpLet's wait for people to chime in!Posted by Gemitatilol I'm picky so I wouldn't know of anything else ?But I see your point ?Posted by Stinger408scorpLMAOffPosted by GemitatiI don't take dollar bills so making it rain won't do it for me ?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat if I pay you—lol
lol I will never have sex with someone I don't like.
I was thinking the ONLy way you can have sex with someone you don't likenMIA a desperation. For money. Or something else. Why else?
I can have one other reason...drunk!
But when you drunk you love them ALL!
Lol
I learned from this lol
You seem off the trackclick to expand
Posted by SeraphlightLol ?Posted by Stinger408scorpOh it's long enough.Posted by SeraphlightLol life is short only enjoy it with people you like.
I don't fancy people I don't like.click to expand
jfc
Posted by Seraphlightlol I sure am not homeless ?
It's true though....all this cray cray ..how are you peeps not homeless?
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by Gem_from_Venuslol I read all this trainwreck stuff on dxp and wonder how these people financially support themselves so that they're able to act crazy the rest of the time.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePersonally, I'm on vacation. Living the high life, clearly. 😆
What kind of day jobs do you ppl have?
Just curiousclick to expand
Dxpnet is not for paupers and incel (wo)manlets. I thought you knew
Posted by SeraphlightYou're absolutely right. I am a train wreck.
To be honest I can't imagine any girl in her right mind fancying you either though. You're a train wreck in your own way.
But that's exactly why girls like me.
Piscean women love me.lol
Posted by Stensco21This was my first thought
She sounds like a girl who would have stds
Posted by AjnaI think you're my soulmate Ajna.What are your placements?Posted by Adreamuponwaking
So
I met this Pisces girl ( Venus in taurus , moon in Aries , mercury in pisces and mars in Capricorn ) this past summer at this festival and I was instantly drawn to her . But unlike past attractions I knew instantly that I wanted to have sex with her .
The Problem is that she is a train wreck waiting to happen . She frequents sex parties , does drugs, drinks herself into oblivion etc...etc
There are so many red flags but I can't stop thinking about her .
I saw her recently at this holiday party . She seemed into me . Kind of . I don't know . It's weird . She followed me around the party and seemed kind of nervous around me . She always tends to say and or do the wrong thing around me . She's pretty superficial , judgmental , and tends to say a lot of ignorant things about race and class .But at the same time she's also a walking contradiction . Most of the stuff she says is kind of BS. I don't know if she's trying to impress me by trying to say things she thinks I want to hear or if she doesn't know herself that well and tries to mask how insecure she really is by behaving the way she does .I really don't know .
E.g-One of the things that pissed me off the most that night is that she criticized some of former friends of hers for their alcoholism and tendency to hook up with friends ....right before she did the the very same thing at the party . She made out with this girl she said wasn't her type a few weeks ago ...the worst part is she has a boyfriend ( who may or may not be cool with her hooking up with chicks still ) he's a Scorpio so I'm betting against it .
I don't know what her deal is . I know I should avoid her but she fascinates me .I also in some way feel protective / responsible for her welfare .It's no Bueno.
Advice needed . What's the deal with this girl ?What should I do the next time she wants to hang out ?
I feel like this is the typical Pisces female being attracted to the troubled "bad boy " scenario ...except in my case I'm attracted to a troubled "bad girl ".
I'm a Pisces sun , venus in Taurus , with a Libra/Scorpio cusp moon and a mars in Capricorn btw if that helps .
Does it have to be sexual?
I believe you exchange more
than liquids or any other physical
properties when merging with someone.
Why not just keep in contact and make sure she is okay?
You did say there was something about her that made you feel the need to
look out for her well-being? Maybe she needs that right now? from someoneclick to expand
I've actually tried this with several girls. The problem is one or both of us ends up catching feelings.
It's usually just them, though .They eventually come on to me and then when I don't reciprocate the friendship ends. It's a bad pattern that I'm trying to break. I've probably actually unintentionally hurt a lot of people .
Posted by TaurasianMy game is soooo weak.
Why are you so wishy washy? If you want to have sex with her just have sex with her, theres nothing to be afraid of being attached to her if you just wanna fuck her, but it seems you have weaker game than her lol
Posted by confusingconfused
You will become even more obsessed with her after sex and want to be her life saver but only end up being used.
Isn't this the story of every Piscean man and Piscean woman's life?
Seriously, though. It's clearly my fate. Why am I trying to fight it?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a siren.
Why bother ? 😐
"SIRENS - AS SYMBOL OF PASSION
The siren myth seems to run through every old culture of the world, in one form or another. The mermaid is only one of those forms. It is an archetype ripe with meaning on many levels. The siren in myth is most often a dangerous creature as much as she is pure sexual attraction. In some myths she lures sailors to their deaths. In others, she takes them to live with her in her underwater kingdom.
Odysseus confronts many different variations of the siren on his journey. One of the most interesting is his desire to be bound to the mast of his ship so he can listen to their song and be enraptured, yet live through the experience without being destroyed. He seems to be saying that having been under the spell, yet surviving it, would somehow make him stronger. In a way, this is a mythic image of life itself. All these ideas are part of my purpose.
The siren is the ideal symbol of the primal power the female has over man. As rational beings we are often amazed, overwhelmed, and even frightened, by the profound intensity of that power.
The eternal female is both worshiped as goddess, and feared as demon, in nearly all ancient myth-systems. The siren myths, I believe, are the expression of that amazement; of the rational man trying to understand, and come to terms with, his own mysterious and uncontrollable biological urges.
The siren myth is the "mother" of all female myth symbols. She is sensual, alluring, powerful. Yet, if the man is not prepared for the adventure, she is dangerous.
She is both the image of intense attraction, and profound fear. She is the primal sexual urge, she is beauty, she is sublime. She is all that becomes art.
The siren is a religious image. Not of rational religious ideas, but of the spirit of the life force. She is the essence of that magic that woman posseses over man, and a joyful and playful meditation on all that it means. But most of all, in art she speaks to all people, of both sexes, and represents those things one spends a lifetime avoiding out of fear, only to regret at the end. The siren is telling us to prepare for the adventure of life, and live.
The risk of drowning is worth the possibility of Freedom. But only when you're ready. So make yourself ready."
pisces are walking contradictions until we switch on - and when we switch on other people will know it. considering she's definitely still out there and playing with her values and the consequences, she hasn't made much effort to really help herself.
you're a smart guy. she may not want to hurt you, but with the life style she's living she will.
you're a smart guy. she may not want to hurt you, but with the life style she's living she will.
Is this the same person. You wanna fly to Morocco with?
I've never heard of siren? Is it taboo or common?
Posted by firefis1996I completely agree with you. I know she will.
pisces are walking contradictions until we switch on - and when we switch on other people will know it. considering she's definitely still out there and playing with her values and the consequences, she hasn't made much effort to really help herself.
you're a smart guy. she may not want to hurt you, but with the life style she's living she will.
That's why we are here discussing this. I need reinforcement to stop me from fostering my connection with her.
She could ruin me. My life is so great right now.
Posted by SeraphlightI love myself a lot in fact. I'm probably a textbook narcissist.
Op you need people you don't fancy or like to fancy you because you don't like yourself.
Who wakes up after a one-night stand thinking oh yay so glad the stranger's body is still here?
If you need people you don't love ..to fancy you or want to have sex with you...you're fucked.
I had always surrounded myself with people that are very similar to me.
All of my friends share similar values as me and come from similar family backgrounds.
She's the antithesis of everything I stand for.
I was drawn to her because, in fact, I thought we were very similar initially.
Now as I am getting to know her , the more, I'm finding out how different we are.
And instead of being repelled like I normally am after finding out how someone differs from me in a fundamental ideological area ( e.g - general political views, social-cultural ideals etc...)
it strengthens my attraction to her.
She simply fascinates me.
Maybe what they say is true. Opposites attract and my problem is I've been trying to date people who were very similar to me.
Maybe that's why there was no spark.
Posted by SeraphlightHappy professionally. Okay in terms of my social life.I'm trying to grow my friend circle. A lot of my friends are in serious relationships so I'm trying to meet more single people to hang out with.Posted by AdreamuponwakingYou sure? You don't seem happy.Posted by firefis1996
pisces are walking contradictions until we switch on - and when we switch on other people will know it. considering she's definitely still out there and playing with her values and the consequences, she hasn't made much effort to really help herself.
you're a smart guy. she may not want to hurt you, but with the life style she's living she will.
My life is so great right now.
If your life was great one person you hardly know couldn't affect it.click to expand
I decided awhile ago that I'd be happy regardless if I had found someone to spend the rest of my life with. For me the most important thing was my profession and making a good impact on the various communities I was a part of.
I thought I had everything figured out.
Simply content. I wasn't looking for anyone.I was happy just being single.
....and then she walked into my life.
It usually happens this way I've noticed.
Posted by SeraphlightHaha!
I don't buy this thread. Are you making this up?
I wish I was. God how I wish I was.
I don't like complications.
Posted by SeraphlightYou might be my new favorite troll.Posted by SeraphlightIn fact you're loser.
Op you need people you don't fancy or like to fancy you because you don't like yourself.
Who wakes up after a one night stand thinking oh yay so glad the strangers body is still here?
If you need people you don't love ..to fancy you or want to have sex with you...you're fucked.click to expand
; )
Posted by firefis1996Also
pisces are walking contradictions until we switch on - and when we switch on other people will know it. considering she's definitely still out there and playing with her values and the consequences, she hasn't made much effort to really help herself.
you're a smart guy. she may not want to hurt you, but with the life style she's living she will.
what do you mean by "pisces are walking contradictions until we switch on"?
Like in terms of liking someone?
As soon as we make up our minds about someone we commit? Is that what you are implying?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Maybe.
Is this the same person. You wanna fly to Morocco with?
: )
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Advice needed . What's the deal with this girl ?What should I do the next time she wants to hang out ?
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I'm a Pisces sun , venus in Taurus , with a Libra/Scorpio cusp moon and a mars in Capricorn btw if that helps .