Shy Pisces? Am I not reading things right?

Okay first off I'm definitely just basing this completely on Sun Sign. I would provide more information if I could! What interests me is that the general consensus seems to be pisces are usually shy and would put feelings and actions over words. It wasn't til recently til I realised that I tend to meld quite well with almost all Pisceans I've come across 🙂

It just seems to be endless friendly flirting everytime without fail, maybe it's the spark in your eyes I'm not sure but I love the way you guys talk about your dreams and yourselves and your general openness! Even for a secretive aqua I find it comfortable to share some of my own dreams when in company of you fishies!

What I don't understand is that what I read or hear from others is a totally different story. Perhaps a brilliant fish mind can help quash this myth! Or is it simply true aquas and pisces have that spark and have great chemistry as friends?

The most recent pisces I've come in contact with is a new addition to the cafe/bar I work at. It was definitely those inviting eyes and charming smile that warmed me up! She ended up cutting her finger from broken glass and I ended up taking care of her and making sure she was okay. I usually just accept the harmless flirting and in retrospect I gather in my caring for her may have lead to her reciprocating the same actions. I'm usually protective of my own physical personal space but with her she seems to invade it effortlessly. The warmness and genuineness is far more than what I've felt from my other pisces friends.

This week has been fun and sweet 🙂 I was meant to make her some dinner at work but instead she made it for me and sat me down and made sure I ate it! We'd just stare and smile at each other, seemingly resonating and our smiles extend to goofy laughs whilst talking about our families, dreams, aspirations and our future. At one point she came up and drew a love heart on the foggy glass next to me and I thought it was the cutest thing.

She's a backpacker so I'm obviously guarded but as if knowingly she told me she'd come back for sure. I adore her friendship but my aqua mind might be driving me to think there's more? My brain does that, it's so evil. My logical side tells me time spent at work is work and we've only ever gone out for lunch outside of work once. I only just asked if she would like to hang out tomorrow earlier but she's taking a bit longer to reply than usual 🙂

All I hope is I haven't made her swim the oth

Definitely do well slower. She's obviously comfortable with you. Whether or not it is "comfortable as friends", or "comfortable because she's following the spark" - remains to be seen based on what you provided here.

Pay attention to the nuances of her behaviour. You'll have to really go deeper that the surface actions of "we did this and had fun", or "we hang out". You have to pay attention to body language, reactions, aversions to certain things.

Your post confused me a little - because I'm not seeing a direct question, that you didn't semi-answer yourself. So I apologize if my answer is useless lol

^ oops failed! forgot to close quote before reply! haha

Posted by bubblyaquarius

Yeah, us pisces girls are adorable.

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"us"

Thanks Koi 🙂 There's a digital copy here http://books.google.com.au/books/about/Astrology_for_Lovers.html?id=H2SL4batGRMC for everyone interested! Diving into the whole book now!

It's funny because from general reading it seems water and air has always been a bad mixture which is why I found it odd to have such attractions for them. But thankyou for pointing me to this book

She's the top and I'm the bottom (minds out of the gutter)

My first love was a Pisces so it wasn't really hard. lol
The dynamics of Male and Female are different though. I only (to a limited experience, myself and reading other Pisces/Aquarius famous celebs) know Aqua fem/Pisces male. However, the Male Aquarius/Pisces female...theres a few famous ones I found online.

Paul Newman/Joanne Woodward(long time marriage)


Taking a look at their aspects.
he has mars aries, cap rising, pisces moon, and a stellium in capricorn.
Joanne Woodward's mars and moon are in aquarius, jupiter in gemini, asc in cap.
My ex Pisces has a Mars Pisces, but despite that, he was very assertive and aggressive. Chased after what he wanted:
Stellium in Aries.
So, those indicators can show to some degree what can happen.
The best thing is to just go for it. Don't be shy, but be kind and sweet and compassionate and most of all, strong.

Thanks guys and elusivesoul!

I definitely feel a strong bond on a mental level. It's almost as if I found a lost relative of some sorts lol. Juke is definitely right when it feels like a dream when we just hang out and there's not many people that can do that with me. I always feel the need to settle and fixate to have a conversation but with her we just do what we like!

And all this is at work so I find it even strange seeing I can usually just FOCUS. Feels as if my body is working by itself and my mind is just floating somewhere above haha. Very corny I know!

Still undecided whether it's a romantic feeling so no doubt she's probably feeling the same. Asking her out works twofold, I want to spend more time talking with her but at the same time solidifying what or how I actually feel about her. As I said before she's a traveller, it's not to say I won't travel is she's the one but my guards are definitely up.

And Domz what happened!? Curious to know 🙂

😢 I'm sorry to hear Domz! She sounds amazing from how you've described her. I guess they really are on a league of their own!

I don't connect very often with people. This may sound like everyone I meet is a burden but I don't mean that at all! I often adapt and mirror those around me which I admit really bothers me sometimes. Knowing with having aqua and pisces influences this can make me a very difficult person to deal with sometimes. I guess take comfort in knowing when we need to retreat it means we are dealing with very real and strong emotions though we may not always share it!

All I can gather is the no communication part will probably be true for me lol as well as her. I can also relate to not being around for others, people say I have my own clock I revolve around. Perhaps for now we're just two people who drifted into each other's paths but part of me is optimistic that it stays 🙂

Posted by bubblyaquarius
lol lol if pisces is strong in her she will be more on the shy side i think, but if not, then that's why she's not. lol typos.

this is false, i am a 4X in pisces and i am not fucked up about verbalizing my feelings...

--Jack

welcome back jackity jack!

Posted by aquasnoz
She's the top and I'm the bottom (minds out of the gutter)

what a mess...

Posted by deezie
welcome back jackity jack!

omg thank you! its nice to be well received...been missing this place 🙂

sorry if i seem a lil rigid, taurus woman is throwing me for loops lol i thought we were supposed to get on well lol

Ohhhh get ready for dramas all over the joint!

Can you explain the mess— with those charts? I'm curious for your run down on the synastry

taurus woman what now? haha if you care to explain that to me, bring er on over to the spam chat thread 🙂 so I don't de-rail the aqua

i was taught to take person 1 ascendant and compare it to person 2 sun...and vice versa..and then compare the moons...then take mans venus and compare it to womans mars....based on what i see, he likes her more than she likes him....

pisces sun =/= libra ascendant (i know, my ex wife had this placement...with virgo sun)

aqua sun = sag ascendant (hence my previous statement)..

aqua moon =/= pisces moon (hard but can work)...

both with pisces in mars? (no real direction here...)

but stranger things have happened...i couldnt imagine myself with an aqua, although appealing, not fulfilling...

my opinion is not universal though..

--Jack

I like different views 🙂 so thankyou! I definitely like her (probably more than she does me haha 😛) and for some reason most other pisces suns I've come across so I felt the need to ask if the feelings were mutual! Around you guys this whole apparent aqua mysterious facade just disappears and it's just a whole lot of fun and learning for me.

thank you for the welcome back, sorry if i created a disturbance in the force! lol

aquarius is a masculine sign, pisces, double feminine....take that into account, my friend when approaching her...

this may not apply here, but i will share it anyway, aquarius women intimidate me...so perhaps the same might be true in your situation? ease back, it might help 🙂

--Jack

🙂 that might be the reason why the ex;s in my life and love of my life have aton of fire. I never realize intimidation was a big factor so if lots of fire, then fools rush in kind of thing.

Posted by ninjafish
Haven't read the whole thread but just wanted to chime in - the synastry is not a mess.

care to elaborate? what is the basis for your 'theory'?

--Jack

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by ninjafish
Haven't read the whole thread but just wanted to chime in - the synastry is not a mess.

care to elaborate? what is the basis for your 'theory'?

--Jack

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For one we need to see the whole synastry chart, and which houses each other planets fall in. And if you look at the sun and moon without the chart, it looks like there a conjuction and a double whammy at that. Which can signify a great connection and mutual understanding.

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by ninjafish
Haven't read the whole thread but just wanted to chime in - the synastry is not a mess.

care to elaborate? what is the basis for your 'theory'?

--Jack

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Also there are so many other aspects to look in synastry what about the asteroids? vesta, pallas, eros—??

i was able to determining the birth dates and times for both individuals...from the information i gathered, your pisces friend was born on march 5th!

that's my birthday!

different year though...now i can delve a little more into the synsatry aspect of this whole thing!

oh and i have wheel drawings showing matching data from above...

--Jack

well, i determined the posters birth date as well as the object of his affecton. and i did a synastry chart after doing the two individual chart..i am not going to post the charts or interps here without permission but i was able to determine that this relationship is characterized by a high level of harmony with a health amount of tension....68% harmony level (which is very high) and 44% tension which is healthy...the modality seems to balance out nicely...his fixed nature complements her mutable nature to a certain degree..there is a distinct lack of fire in both, and a relatively low air element...strangely enough HIS water element is nearly twice hers, she has an elemental balance that i am almost jealous of...anyway i will post the one graph and when i get more time later, i will follow up and see what else i can find....

--Jack

Hope this helps, more coming soon! 🙂

cheers!

Jack