Update on second round, same Pisces

I wasn’t sure how I could link to my other post but need advice. The post was called Second round, same Pisces. After months of communicating, he didn’t text for a bit and told me he would message me and get me up to speed. We were literally been messaging everyday and not only did he not get back to me on Thursday, I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday. Should I message him again? My last message was, if you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me. I hate being here in limbo not knowing if I’ve been ghosted or what.

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I wasn’t sure how I could link to my other post but need advice. The post was called Second round, same Pisces. After months of communicating, he didn’t text for a bit and told me he would message me and get me up to speed. We were literally been messaging everyday and not only did he not get back to me on Thursday, I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday. Should I message him again? My last message was, if you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me. I hate being here in limbo not knowing if I’ve been ghosted or what.

It’s been 4 days, wait 2 more and drop him a casual how are you text. Nothing serious or pressing!

“If you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me” that’s heavy and desperate, he’s dealing with his personal issues and you’re laying that on him. That’s why he’s not texted back yet. He has things on his mind that he’s dealing with. Men doing multi Task very well, his mind is elsewhere.

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Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.

But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.

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I wasn’t sure how I could link to my other post but need advice. The post was called Second round, same Pisces. After months of communicating, he didn’t text for a bit and told me he would message me and get me up to speed. We were literally been messaging everyday and not only did he not get back to me on Thursday, I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday. Should I message him again? My last message was, if you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me. I hate being here in limbo not knowing if I’ve been ghosted or what.

It’s been 4 days, wait 2 more and drop him a casual how are you text. Nothing serious or pressing!

“If you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me” that’s heavy and desperate, he’s dealing with his personal issues and you’re laying that on him. That’s why he’s not texted back yet. He has things on his mind that he’s dealing with. Men doing multi Task very well, his mind is elsewhere.

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And act like nothing is wrong? So he can do it again?

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Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.

But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.

How long ago was it that you had sex?

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We’ve only had sex twice the first and only night we went out.. It’s basically been a message only relationship😢

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I wasn’t sure how I could link to my other post but need advice. The post was called Second round, same Pisces. After months of communicating, he didn’t text for a bit and told me he would message me and get me up to speed. We were literally been messaging everyday and not only did he not get back to me on Thursday, I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday. Should I message him again? My last message was, if you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me. I hate being here in limbo not knowing if I’ve been ghosted or what.

It’s been 4 days, wait 2 more and drop him a casual how are you text. Nothing serious or pressing!

“If you want to let me go that’s fine, just tell me” that’s heavy and desperate, he’s dealing with his personal issues and you’re laying that on him. That’s why he’s not texted back yet. He has things on his mind that he’s dealing with. Men doing multi Task very well, his mind is elsewhere.

And act like nothing is wrong? So he can do it again?

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So walk away, you’ve come here asking what you should do to get your man.

However, you want him in your terms and they conflict, he’s not coming in your terms so move on.

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Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.

But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.

Things happen, life happens, problems arise. Why do people suddenly throw the whole relationship into the bin after 1st sign of discomfort or problem rather than just fixing it?

Call him, text him or straight up go to his place. Tell him you want to know if there is an issue between you two because of you and you want to solve that. And don't think for a second that you're being desperate like some idiot above has replied, if you're not passionate for something it's not worth it, and passion doesn't come without crazy.

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Thank you for that! I was looking for advice from Pisces male since that’s what I’m dealing with. However we have only gone out once, the rest has only been messaging. I suppose that’s not a good sign.

Pisces check out when their minds are troubled. And we dont need someone else pulling on us about relationship issues or talking about our behaviour. If you love your Pisces, you'll just be there without questioning why he's quiet when you know he has other issues to deal with.

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Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.

But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.

How long ago was it that you had sex?

We’ve only had sex twice the first and only night we went out.. It’s basically been a message only relationship😢

Yes, how long ago was that date?

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Over a month

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Posted by Arinoaqua

Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.

But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.

Things happen, life happens, problems arise. Why do people suddenly throw the whole relationship into the bin after 1st sign of discomfort or problem rather than just fixing it?

Call him, text him or straight up go to his place. Tell him you want to know if there is an issue between you two because of you and you want to solve that. And don't think for a second that you're being desperate like some idiot above has replied, if you're not passionate for something it's not worth it, and passion doesn't come without crazy.

Thank you for that! I was looking for advice from Pisces male since that’s what I’m dealing with. However we have only gone out once, the rest has only been messaging. I suppose that’s not a good sign.

Pisces are introverts, especially males. I've had 2 relationships in the past where we both first met via messaging, had our phone sex before actual sex lol and a large sum of our talking was via phone or messaging (because of distance and busy lives). So there is nothing wrong with messaging, but no message at all is bad, that means something is bothering him but he's not telling you about it.

We can be busy for hours but not for a whole day, never.

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So what exactly should I message him without looking desperate?

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Posted by Arinoaqua

Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.

But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.

Things happen, life happens, problems arise. Why do people suddenly throw the whole relationship into the bin after 1st sign of discomfort or problem rather than just fixing it?

Call him, text him or straight up go to his place. Tell him you want to know if there is an issue between you two because of you and you want to solve that. And don't think for a second that you're being desperate like some idiot above has replied, if you're not passionate for something it's not worth it, and passion doesn't come without crazy.

Thank you for that! I was looking for advice from Pisces male since that’s what I’m dealing with. However we have only gone out once, the rest has only been messaging. I suppose that’s not a good sign.

Pisces are introverts, especially males. I've had 2 relationships in the past where we both first met via messaging, had our phone sex before actual sex lol and a large sum of our talking was via phone or messaging (because of distance and busy lives). So there is nothing wrong with messaging, but no message at all is bad, that means something is bothering him but he's not telling you about it.

We can be busy for hours but not for a whole day, never.

So what exactly should I message him without looking desperate?

"Hey (insert name here), you've never wandered off from my mind even for a day. I'm constantly thinking about you, expecting your message to pop up on my phone every minute but I feel something is wrong now as we were never this silence between us before. Tell me, is something bothering you? Have I done anything wrong? Because I want us to work and fix this."

👆🏻 Will work 10/10 times.

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Smells of desperation and especially after 1 date and a failed marriage!

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Why would you message him again when he ignored your pleas to cut you loose? Keep your dignity.

But we were fine and this was out of the blue. We were talking on a daily basis.

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So I haven’t logged onto this site in ages! Literally.

So I may not be up to speed on the backstory. But if you all were doing “just fine” a few days ago, then why tf would you send a message saying “if you want to let me go, just tell me.” Or whatever it is you sent.

Honestly, it sounds like you just lost it unreasonably after a few days of no talk. And hey, understandable, if you talk to someone every day and then they just drop off the face of the earth for a few days, ignore your text, you will wonder.

But you sent a “omg, I JUST KNOW you want to leave me now/-since you haven’t talked to me for a few days—so just TELL ME, even though I’m trying to pretend like I don’t really care, this text is clearly says otherwise.”

And it’s showed your hand. You’re clingy. And even if he’s being shifty, this is just confirming his reasons to act like a shifty fuckboy.

Regain your self respect. Don’t message him again. He has your number. He knows what your worries are. And most importantly, he KNOWS what he’s doing. So pick up your dignity cuz honestly, you deserve more respect than he’s giving.