@SoulfulGirlPisces
2 Years
Virgo man disappeared after vulnerable moment .
How to Support a Virgo Man After He Disappears
A Virgo man may withdraw after sharing vulnerable feelings due to stress or emotional overload. Giving him space while remaining available can help him process his emotions. Show understanding and patience, and avoid pushing for contact. Respecting his need for solitude can encourage trust and eventual communication.
What's his other placements?
Honestly it depends, you have to give more information.
I will say just talking it out with you will help him sort it out.
It can depend on the person yet in general woman vent, men don't vent much at all on a emotional level unless we trust you, want something, or shits really bad 😂
You have known him for 6-8 months, I hope some time in person too.
what do you think given what you know and understand about him and what does your intuition/gut tell you?
Hey Lostthoughts
Thank you for your time .
I’m assuming you’re referring to placements like his big 3
Sun Virgo 10th house
Moon Cancer 8th house
Rising Sagittarius 1st house
Yes we started talking in May and have met twice . A few weeks ago I moved closer to him ( still different state) . 1 month after meeting he mentioned me moving within the same area as him but he’s supportive of my current move and I do hope to one day move even closer .
The distance happened for the 1st time 2 months after knowing each other however he lost a family member . At that time we hadn’t meet yet but I was supportive , gave him space but also allowed him to talk about how he felt and included a few laughs .
This man is a provider and always being of services to others so I know him telling me he was having issues with work, finances was alot as well as him telling this to someone he’s only in the talking stage in . However I made sure to let him know I appreciate him for telling me and also encouraged him to go after what he deserves.
I plan on giving him space for a few more days and send him a text asking him in what ways can I show up for him and support him during this time ?
Any insight ?
Earth signs handle their issues on a remote island.
He will resurface once he gets a handle on things
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Give him $ of courseIt’s the best way to support people with financial difficulties
Unfortunately I wouldn’t be comfortable just offerubg him money at the stage we are in and most importantly I don’t believe he would ask me or take if I offered . I believe he wants to change his circumstances and not so much except quick help
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyoneI would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?
You dodged a missile. Just check out every Virgo thread on here..
they are chronic time wasters and chase the unavailable for a living.
Just going from his sun/moon/rising, he is a soft boi (cancer moon 8H) who also really values freedom (sag rising), and finances have probably been a big focus for his entire life (Virgo sun 10H), especially since 10H is the house of career. If he is having trouble with finances, he probably feels like he is failing in life with the career focus, he wants to always feel free and independent but cannot since lack of $ really limits what you can do in life. it strikes hard at home in his emotional moon with the 8H (debts, deep sharing with others) focus too. I would say give him space and just be a constant support from whatever distance he is comfortable with. He wants to be independent but deep down know that he is cared for
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?You dodged a missile. Just check out every Virgo thread on here..
they are chronic time wasters and chase the unavailable for a living.
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I have saw lots of posts on different platforms about Virgo men however I will choose to deal with who is in front of me then based him entirely on his zodiac sign
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?You dodged a missile. Just check out every Virgo thread on here..
they are chronic time wasters and chase the unavailable for a living.
I have saw lots of posts on different platforms about Virgo men however I will choose to deal with who is in front of me then based him entirely on his zodiac sign
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It’s a very strong sign, dare I say the strongest. With any planet or luminary orbiting at an degree.
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?You dodged a missile. Just check out every Virgo thread on here..
they are chronic time wasters and chase the unavailable for a living.
I have saw lots of posts on different platforms about Virgo men however I will choose to deal with who is in front of me then based him entirely on his zodiac sign
It’s a very strong sign, dare I say the strongest. With any planet or luminary orbiting at an degree.
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Yes I appreciate your feedback
He’s a very strong person I noticed with a vulnerable sign and some insecurities which humanizes him
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?You dodged a missile. Just check out every Virgo thread on here..
they are chronic time wasters and chase the unavailable for a living.
I have saw lots of posts on different platforms about Virgo men however I will choose to deal with who is in front of me then based him entirely on his zodiac sign
It’s a very strong sign, dare I say the strongest. With any planet or luminary orbiting at an degree.
Yes I appreciate your feedback
He’s a very strong person I noticed with a vulnerable sign and some insecurities which humanizes him
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Are you keeping tabs? Checking in helps.
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.
People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
I hear you
The man didn’t say he’s broke lol he’s just experiencing financial difficulties.We both make 6 figures however he doesn’t have more financial obligations than me .
As I stated before above I won’t offer him money nor will I even think he will accept it . He’s definitely a giver more than a receiver .
When it comes to a Virgo , or even him . He’s reserved/shy individual so yes him opening up did feel special and I appreciate him for doing so just as he’s mentioned to me the same whenever I tell him my innermost thoughts
Also, I have no issues with my self esteem and he’s done more for me than be emotional
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?You dodged a missile. Just check out every Virgo thread on here..
they are chronic time wasters and chase the unavailable for a living.I have saw lots of posts on different platforms about Virgo men however I will choose to deal with who is in front of me then based him entirely on his zodiac sign
It’s a very strong sign, dare I say the strongest. With any planet or luminary orbiting at an degree.
Yes I appreciate your feedback
He’s a very strong person I noticed with a vulnerable sign and some insecurities which humanizes him
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Are you keeping tabs? Checking in helps.
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Hey Anti
I plan on reaching out sometime this weekend if he doesn’t reach out first .
Posted by pouch42
Just going from his sun/moon/rising, he is a soft boi (cancer moon 8H) who also really values freedom (sag rising), and finances have probably been a big focus for his entire life (Virgo sun 10H), especially since 10H is the house of career. If he is having trouble with finances, he probably feels like he is failing in life with the career focus, he wants to always feel free and independent but cannot since lack of $ really limits what you can do in life. it strikes hard at home in his emotional moon with the 8H (debts, deep sharing with others) focus too. I would say give him space and just be a constant support from whatever distance he is comfortable with. He wants to be independent but deep down know that he is cared for
Wow thanks pouch . I can see that about focusing on money his whole life .
I can really appreciate the last part he wants to be independent but deep down know he’s cared for . I plan to continue to do that .
I’ll reach out sometime this weekend .
I wish I knew more about placements lol
I’m a Sun Pisces 3rd house
Moon Gemini 7th house
Rising Sag
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?You dodged a missile. Just check out every Virgo thread on here..
they are chronic time wasters and chase the unavailable for a living.I have saw lots of posts on different platforms about Virgo men however I will choose to deal with who is in front of me then based him entirely on his zodiac sign
It’s a very strong sign, dare I say the strongest. With any planet or luminary orbiting at an degree.
Yes I appreciate your feedback
He’s a very strong person I noticed with a vulnerable sign and some insecurities which humanizes him
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Are you keeping tabs? Checking in helps.
Hey Anti
I plan on reaching out sometime this weekend if he doesn’t reach out first .
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Not that you asked but if I were you I’d check in sooner than later. Virgos rarely get vulnerable so I choose to reward that strength with my attention but I have a wack moon (Pisces)
Hey Anti
I plan on reaching out sometime this weekend if he doesn’t reach out first .
Not that you asked but if I were you I’d check in sooner than later. Virgos rarely get vulnerable so I choose to reward that strength with my attention but I have a wack moon (Pisces)
Yes I plan on calling him at least by tomorrow and if he doesn’t answer then I’ll send a text and continue to give him his space
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Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?As you've said communication is key...reach out when you want. If he isn't emotionally available you'll know if he develops a pattern of not reciprocating.
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I appreciate your feedback
I noticed he’s a loner , an only child as well. He has friends but spends a great amount of time alone and enjoys his own company . I think reaching out in a lighthearted way and offering my support will help . I believe he likes me and I certainly feel a way about him . I don’t think I’ve been ghosted at all
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
I hear you
The man didn’t say he’s broke lol he’s just experiencing financial difficulties.We both make 6 figures however he doesn’t have more financial obligations than me .
As I stated before above I won’t offer him money nor will I even think he will accept it . He’s definitely a giver more than a receiver .
When it comes to a Virgo , or even him . He’s reserved/shy individual so yes him opening up did feel special and I appreciate him for doing so just as he’s mentioned to me the same whenever I tell him my innermost thoughts
Also, I have no issues with my self esteem and he’s done more for me than be emotional
click to expandPeople have a tendency to project their feelings on this site especially in regards to signs they dislike. They take their valid scenario and then blow it up to a "rule" and sometimes try to apply it universally, take their hot takes and truths with a metric ton of salt.
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Thank you for the reassurance
It does get quiet annoying , im dealing with a real person. I’ve learn to silent the noise by hitting the mute button literally lol.
Can I send you a message ?
I drafted a text for him but I don’t want to post it here
I believe I sent it correctly lol
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
I hear you
The man didn’t say he’s broke lol he’s just experiencing financial difficulties.We both make 6 figures however he doesn’t have more financial obligations than me .
As I stated before above I won’t offer him money nor will I even think he will accept it . He’s definitely a giver more than a receiver .
When it comes to a Virgo , or even him . He’s reserved/shy individual so yes him opening up did feel special and I appreciate him for doing so just as he’s mentioned to me the same whenever I tell him my innermost thoughts
Also, I have no issues with my self esteem and he’s done more for me than be emotional
click to expandPeople have a tendency to project their feelings on this site especially in regards to signs they dislike. They take their valid scenario and then blow it up to a "rule" and sometimes try to apply it universally, take their hot takes and truths with a metric ton of salt.
Thank you for the reassurance
It does get quiet annoying , im dealing with a real person. I’ve learn to silent the noise by hitting the mute button literally lol.
Can I send you a message ?
I drafted a text for him but I don’t want to post it here
Sure, I'll give you my take.
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I’m not sure if I sent the message correctly however if I didn’t please message me and I’ll send the text directly to that message
Thanks
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
I hear you
The man didn’t say he’s broke lol he’s just experiencing financial difficulties.We both make 6 figures however he doesn’t have more financial obligations than me .
As I stated before above I won’t offer him money nor will I even think he will accept it . He’s definitely a giver more than a receiver .
When it comes to a Virgo , or even him . He’s reserved/shy individual so yes him opening up did feel special and I appreciate him for doing so just as he’s mentioned to me the same whenever I tell him my innermost thoughts
Also, I have no issues with my self esteem and he’s done more for me than be emotional
click to expandPeople have a tendency to project their feelings on this site especially in regards to signs they dislike. They take their valid scenario and then blow it up to a "rule" and sometimes try to apply it universally, take their hot takes and truths with a metric ton of salt.
Thank you for the reassurance
It does get quiet annoying , im dealing with a real person. I’ve learn to silent the noise by hitting the mute button literally lol.
Can I send you a message ?
I drafted a text for him but I don’t want to post it here
Sure, I'll give you my take.
I’m not sure if I sent the message correctly however if I didn’t please message me and I’ll send the text directly to that message
Thanks
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I got your message and tried sending you one back. I'm not sure it got through as I didn't see my reply in the outbox. If you didn't get my response check your message settings.
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I fixed it
Can you resend your response ?
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
This is true. I doubt he meant to dump though. He sounds flaky which is a Virgo being state.
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.
People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖This is true. I doubt he meant to dump though. He sounds flaky which is a Virgo being state.
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Hey Anti
Try sending me a message
Thanks
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
This is true. I doubt he meant to dump though. He sounds flaky which is a Virgo being state.
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I believe his communication skills can be better however I’m learning to have patience with him
Hey y’all
I want to send this message but don’t want to come off anyway . I would have loved to put it in the chat however I don’t want my text to get trace back to this forum . He is the type of guy to look up his zodiac and forums lol.
Posted by aquarius09
Remember Tinder swindler? He was a double Virgo. You met him twice in 6 months. He should not be telling you his financial woes. Big red flag!!! He’s preying on you. Go right ahead and listen if you feel special by doing that but do not give him money. This is exactly how women fall prey to swindlers.People opening up to you shouldn’t make you feel special. People going out of their way to do things for you should. You are the one moving/inching closer to him. What is he doing for you? What efforts?
Now for an astrological diss, you Pisceans have to work on your self-esteem so you can attract better and feel special over more meaningful things (like making an effort for you) than someone emotionally dumping on you. 😖
This is true. I doubt he meant to dump though. He sounds flaky which is a Virgo being state.
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I don’t know who thinks Virgos aren’t complainers because when they like you, that’s how they show you…by complaining. They only complain to people they like, which is why I don’t want their love. LOL. No thanks.
My Cap mom dated a Virgo man for three years. He broke her patience (and Caps have impressive patience) with all the whining and complaining he did. He had no intention of finding a solution to his problems. Virgos, Pisces and Cancers bask in complaining! They love doing that. Anyways, I read the OP to my mom and she was like “this loser sounds a lot like my ex…must be Virgo with Cancer moon.” Lo and behold this guy is too!
It's great to hear that you've been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months. It sounds like you care about him and want to support him during this difficult time.
Virgos are known for being analytical, detail-oriented, and hard-working. They can also be introverted and private, so it's not surprising that your Virgo man has withdrawn a bit since opening up to you about his struggles.
The best way to support your Virgo man is to be patient, understanding, and non-judgmental. Let him know that you're there for him and that you care about him. You can also offer to help him with his finances or other practical matters.
Here are some specific ways to support your Virgo man:
Listen to him without judgment. When he's ready to talk about his problems, be a good listener and offer support without judgment.
Offer to help him brainstorm solutions. Virgos are often good problem-solvers, so he may appreciate your help in coming up with solutions to his problems.
Respect his need for space. Virgos need time to process their emotions, so don't crowd him or pressure him to talk if he's not ready.
Let him know that you care about him. Remind him that you're there for him and that you care about him, even if he doesn't feel like talking right now.
As for whether or not to reach out to him, I would say that it depends on your gut feeling. If you feel like he needs space, then give him space. But if you feel like he's just withdrawn because he's overwhelmed, then you can reach out to him occasionally to check in and let him know that you're thinking of him.
Just remember to be patient, understanding, and supportive, and your Virgo man will appreciate it.
It's great to hear that you've been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months. It sounds like you care about him and want to support him during this difficult time.
Virgos are known for being analytical, detail-oriented, and hard-working. They can also be introverted and private, so it's not surprising that your Virgo man has withdrawn a bit since opening up to you about his struggles.
The best way to support your Virgo man is to be patient, understanding, and non-judgmental. Let him know that you're there for him and that you care about him. You can also offer to help him with his finances or other practical matters.
Here are some specific ways to support your Virgo man:
Listen to him without judgment. When he's ready to talk about his problems, be a good listener and offer support without judgment.
Offer to help him brainstorm solutions. Virgos are often good problem-solvers, so he may appreciate your help in coming up with solutions to his problems.
Respect his need for space. Virgos need time to process their emotions, so don't crowd him or pressure him to talk if he's not ready.
Let him know that you care about him. Remind him that you're there for him and that you care about him, even if he doesn't feel like talking right now.
As for whether or not to reach out to him, I would say that it depends on your gut feeling. If you feel like he needs space, then give him space. But if you feel like he's just withdrawn because he's overwhelmed, then you can reach out to him occasionally to check in and let him know that you're thinking of him.
Just remember to be patient, understanding, and supportive, and your Virgo man will appreciate it.
Posted by Harry_Capricorn
It's great to hear that you've been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months. It sounds like you care about him and want to support him during this difficult time.Virgos are known for being analytical, detail-oriented, and hard-working. They can also be introverted and private, so it's not surprising that your Virgo man has withdrawn a bit since opening up to you about his struggles.
The best way to support your Virgo man is to be patient, understanding, and non-judgmental. Let him know that you're there for him and that you care about him. You can also offer to help him with his finances or other practical matters.
Here are some specific ways to support your Virgo man:
Listen to him without judgment. When he's ready to talk about his problems, be a good listener and offer support without judgment.
Offer to help him brainstorm solutions. Virgos are often good problem-solvers, so he may appreciate your help in coming up with solutions to his problems.
Respect his need for space. Virgos need time to process their emotions, so don't crowd him or pressure him to talk if he's not ready.
Let him know that you care about him. Remind him that you're there for him and that you care about him, even if he doesn't feel like talking right now.
As for whether or not to reach out to him, I would say that it depends on your gut feeling. If you feel like he needs space, then give him space. But if you feel like he's just withdrawn because he's overwhelmed, then you can reach out to him occasionally to check in and let him know that you're thinking of him.
Just remember to be patient, understanding, and supportive, and your Virgo man will appreciate it.
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If he was interested his issues wouldn't stop him being with you.
A friend of mine went through this with a virgo. He had serious problems and he couldn't do a relationship with anyone he said. She hung around and helped him until one day he told her he had met someone he wanted to be with and he was fine now and to leave him alone.
It's not you, but he's also not interested and if he was he wouldn't risk losing you.
Don't hang around waiting just move on and if he comes back proceed with caution
How to support someone you barely know who is struggling financially?
Qualify as a financial adviser.
Well I guess you go into hiding when you're on the lam
Posted by SoulfulGirlPisces
Hello everyoneI would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?
As a Virgo man, I will tell you the absolute best way to support him. Because of your long distance write him a sincere letter or email. His inner peace doesn't rely on external validations, however express what your concerns are and tell him flat out if you don't want him to go anywhere, tell him "You're not going anywhere without checking in". Or express it in your own sincere way that outside of his situation he is still important to you. He'll open up. We are very much so loners and especially when things get difficult. We rely on our own abilities and resources first to handle our responsibilities and this ability to maintain balance and control of our own lives is very important. However, we Virgos have a weakness for sincere concern and conversation. We intuitively know whether someone is being genuine or not. Best of luck and please let me know if it works for you.
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Hello everyone
I would love to hear from any Pisces ( I’m a Pisces) who has experiences with a Virgo ..please read below
I’ve been getting to know and getting closer with a Virgo man for about 6 months .
3-4 days ago he revealed to me he was unhappy with life, and having issues with his finances. During that conversation we talked for 2 hours and I let him know I appreciated him for sharing that information with me among other things .
Since then he has gone silent and I believe it doesn’t have anything to do with me and more about what he told me and what he continues to experience daily .
We are long distance so all we have is communication
In what ways can I support him ?
If you’re a Virgo or know any Virgos
Should I give him space and not reach it out or reach out sometimes and wait until he contacts me ?