Well that didn't last long... (Page 4)

Yay!

And I agree, to hell with the pessimism!

Yes, I read about the football themed wedding. I will make my bridemaids wear fingers down the aisle and throw peanuts on the ground instead of rose pedals!

*foam fingers

I think I just threw up a little

LOL I'm glad things went well.

"I concur...the earth signs just do not *get* the emotions of a Pisces...ever...they just brush off the Pisces emotions and see it as over reacting etc...it's not it's their feelings and they are real...

I would never date a earth sign for this reason ...unless they were overly watery and understand....because quite frankly I can see the earths getting overwhelmed by the Pisces rather fast approach and the need for reassurance...

I can just feel the earths rolling eyes every time the Pisces has emotions...

already you can read in this thread the brush off...we don't think like an earth sorry..."

I highly disagree with this. Every single real time Pisces friend of mine bonds with me and I with them. We can just look at each other and crack up/sound off or simply smile. Every one, from my father, to my boss, to my stepmother of over 10 years, to my niece, my Grandmother, my Aunt and all the way down the line. The people in my life that I care about deeply. The ones in my circle. I listen to them, and they to me. I wouldn't poo-poo an emotion. A drama soaked pity party, yes I would, but that would be anyone. Some of my best and dearest friends are Pisces and I can't imagine cutting any one of them out of my life based on their sign. Nor would I refuse a date from a Pisces man because I thought he wouldn't 'get me'. Perhaps because my Venus is strongly in Pisces, unsure..perhaps being raised by them and around them my whole life, again, not sure. But I simply do not believe that statement based on my own experience.

I love that VB and me are Taurus Sun/Pisces Venus twins.

What's your moon? I'm Leo.

Aries. 😄

Well both fire.

LOL Both Fire indeed. One of my Pisces mates was listening to someone gabble on about me. He just looked at them and said "She's deeper than you'll ever know." I thought that was all shades of groovy.

Ohhhh lookit that kitty! Someone slap me, I don't need another cat. I had to peel my fingers off the steering wheel the other day, there was a black kitten in the cornfield. I wanted to bring it home. *fidgets*

LOL We'd all be a mess in the same room, all the Fire pinging all over the place. Ackshully I think it'd be fun. 🙂

Oh yeh, I understand completely. You ever get the cavalcade of kittehs following you outdoors? It's like a homing beacon for strays. "There she is, get her boys, the jig is up!" I have two high stepping calico misses. One is a complete bag ( she will proclaim a place as *hers* and take swipes at someone for having the cheek to walk by her ) and the other a total lap girl. That and Mizz Dippedy Dawg. LOL She's such a goof. I will more than like bring the black one home if I see it again, dammit'all.

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LOL We'd all be a mess in the same room, all the Fire pinging all over the place. Ackshully I think it'd be fun. 🙂

haha yesss! We keep it cool with our earth but when no one's looking..... RAAAWR 😛

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LOL Exactly. Living flame under a cool exterior.

Your moon determines your temperment, right?

Your moon is your most intimate self, the inner being that only those close to you truly experience. Your moon is similar to slipping into comfy clothes at the end of the day. Also what fuels things in critical moments. Instinct.

You know, there really is something quite surreal trying to be serious while getting a full facial tongue bath from a pit bull.

Do mine andhis moons matchup? I'm Leo he's Aries.

LOL Just know your breeds. If you're more relaxed choose one that suits your temperament. It breaks my heart seeing people taking on a dog not suited to them..i.e. winding up in the shelter. If you like to jog all the time and are action based, seek something like a terrier. If you thrive on defense and loyalty, a German Shepherd is nice, etc. Saddens me too that folks don't think about the simple things. Puppies turn into dogs that many do not want or feel they can't handle. I always tell people if they're not serious in devotion to an animal, don't bother with having a pet at all.

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Do mine andhis moons matchup? I'm Leo he's Aries.

I'm not well versed in things terribly well..but I think Fire to Fire will strike mad sparks. But also on the down side pitfalls to look out for are one wanting to trump the other but lying underneath even all this is a very real need to belong.
Compatible? Oh yes, but watch the need for wanting to be center stage.

I know you'll be a great Goggy Momma. 🙂

Yep! Optimal for me are Fire Moons, next are Air Moons with that whole "opposites attract" mojo working ( attraction to what I lack and vice versa ), Taurus Moon because it gives a big ol' pfffft! to the Aries. Water Moons not so well, I'd be hard on one.

As to my Sun, oh who above and below knows really. I read all the 'this is compatible with you' stuff, but I never say never. The Universe listens to stuff like that and gets the ball bat out. 😄

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LOl my fire moon owned him. "You wanna play house little boy? Well I dont think so!"

I think only the fire moons would chuckle at this...I did!

LOL PWNED! *sigh* I'm too much of a softy. My Aries would be 'bwahahahahaa SUCKERRRRRR' then my Taurus would jump in and say "Oh girl, NOT NICE'..and my Pisces will sigh softly and say "I'm sorry, I'll make it worlds better..hold still while I get a bandaid". Then there's the Lilith skipping in to make sure everything is sterile. 😛

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LOl my fire moon owned him. "You wanna play house little boy? Well I dont think so!"

I think only the fire moons would chuckle at this...I did!

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RIGHT?! LOL All of us are laughing, we know we are.

Punky, You change your profile picture more times than a Kardashian gets plastic surgery.

It's her Libra, bless. Can't make up its mind. —

LOL What gripping heroine is she portraying in this Oscar-worthy performance?

So I've been reading about pisces men...yeah i guess i should have done that earlier this week. 🙂
but anyway, some of the articles say that they are not the chasers, but rather hope the other person takes initiative. I suppose this is why he didn't kiss me?

Another article says that you should look at the Pisces man's Venus because it suggests what he is looking for in a woman. So question, since we are both Venus in Pisces, does that mean we're compatible?

HAHAHAHA I'll be sure to slip another wad of Bubble-Yum on my Kardashian shrine in the swelling hope that it makes the cut.

What does YOUR Pisces say? Look inward..can't you feel it? I do. It is such a wonderful optimist, only wants to give and love and feel. That's what I meant by singing in clear voice. Embracing every bit of self and letting it shine. We're all a grab-bag of foibles and inconsistencies. We've all faults, none of us perfect by any means..but that inner voice is a true and infallible guide. Let it take over and if necessary gag and bind the Bull with all its "Oh but what if he..." and "OH GOD, he didn't say.."..tell it to stuff it and take a hike for a time. Light a candle to feed your Fire, that dancing flame, but let Water hold sway. May sound a bit off beam, but it'll help focus things. 🙂

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HAHAHAHA I'll be sure to slip another wad of Bubble-Yum on my Kardashian shrine in the swelling hope that it makes the cut.

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lmao. youz bad bullette, real bad!

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LOL Iz a baaaaaaaaaaaaad mama jama. HAHAHAHA.

—— She's a bad mama jama..juss as fine as she can be..—?? *hip bumping*

*brow raised* It also does really cool super hero schtuff like making a mental picture of an arena, but the walls are high with water. All the Fishies watching what goes on from the other side. While Water ( is seemingly ) away..Earth will play.

What about Pisces not being chasers?

Mmmmm I think perhaps the Merfolk should take that one on. I think they chase in their way, what we as Earth need to do is be more open to something that isn't blatantly in our faces. In all seriousness I about require a 2x4 upside the head in some instances. "Me? Oh right, me." *insert goofy arsed grin*

LOL Yes'm.

And there it is. 😄

Awwww. 😢

March 6

Ahhh, he's one day before my Daddy. Second Decan I do believe. TEDDY BEAR ALERT! And never, and I mean NEVER believe the crap that Pisces isn't heaps manly. My Pa has his own theme music bumping when he walks, he attracts women like bears to honey.

Oh dear, 'man code' and laying claim. "I saw her FIRSTEDED". LOL

What am I? The first prize at a turkey shoot? Knock that stuff OFF. 😛

Can be...bonus bit, they think we're weirdos too. 😄 I'm all bout the claiming ..."BEHOLD! MY WOMAN! See how she glimmers and gleams in the moonlight!"

Posted by houstonpeach74

The last 10 days was a whirlwind with the Pisces guy I have been posting about. I got home last night from a long business trip and he and I set a date for today at noon to meet for coffee before I boarded the plane.

I landed in Houston and got a phone call from a girlfriend whom I hadn't seen in a long time and she invited me to dinner. I went. Fast forward to about 11pm last night. I text him a quick message to say hi. He replies around 11:30 and said "sorry, I was asleep". Well I was pretty tired too and I fell asleep quick. I woke up to a text message from him that said "can't wait to see you tomorrow". I didn't reply to him until this morning when I woke up.

Fast forward some more, about 10:30, I get a message from him that said that "something doesn't add up. i'm thinking we don't need to meet today". I was shocked.

I called him and he proceded to tell me that we moved too fast and the fact that he was feeling paranoid over the fact that I didn't respond to his message proved to him that he wasn't ready to date someone again.

We ended the conversation with he wasn't sure if we should continue this "relationship". I'm confused a little mad at this because all week, he was the one pursuing me and it was me that was worried we were moving too fast. Now I get this handed to me?

I didn't read past the OP, and if I read the rest of your saga (you said you've been talking about him for awhile) I don't remember ... so my response comes from just this one post.

First off .. why would you title this to suggest something is over and then proceed to talk about a relationship that is trying to bloom? Just having difficulties getting off the ground.

You had said that you were a little concerned prior to his being confident, and then when he got a little spooked - you suddenly lost all understanding of what this means/how it feels? Eventhough you had just been through it yourself?

"and it was me that was worried we were moving too fast"

So, you are allowed to get spooked at the rate in which a relationship is moving, but, he isnt"


So, he's a little freaked out ... why are you making that a big deal .. or more precisely .. a deal-breaker?

What runs through my mind now, and perhaps I would need to go back and read everything you've ever written about this to know the reality of truth here ..... but, during this time that you were worried and freaked and he was still pursuing .. were you making it known to him that you were freak, and this is the reason why he kept telling you it was ok to keep it going?


He spends time talking to you, telling you that this should continue forward, while you remain back, worried ... so, it's ok if he is supportive of how you feel when you are freaked out?


But, if he is .. then that's not ok with you? And how dare him use a mirror on you?

So, he freaked out ...... he is allowed to.

And if you don't think, as a human being, that he is allowed to freak out ... then you don't deserve him.

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So I guess females & males are alike in so many ways... yet not LOL. Obvs women are superior.. Dont tell them that though 😛

Hehehe.

Good morning. After mulling over what happened this weekend, I am now torn.
Yes, he decided to meet me. But the hoops I had to go through for him to decide that?

This morning, I sent him a Good morning text. He seemed distant. I asked him how he slept and he said "Ok, but not long enough".
I told him that I hope he has a great day. No response. One last message about 15 minutes and I say "I'll be around if you want to chat".

Nothing.

This may actually prove to be too much for me.