Night Owls. I never pester my Da for anything before noon, 1 in the afternoon. He probably looked blearily at his phone and tapped something in to acknowledge your message not even being awake enough to think past voiding his bladder.
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Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by venusianbullPosted by PunkyBruiserPosted by venusianbull
LOL We'd all be a mess in the same room, all the Fire pinging all over the place. Ackshully I think it'd be fun. 🙂
haha yesss! We keep it cool with our earth but when no one's looking..... RAAAWR 😛
LOL Exactly. Living flame under a cool exterior.
haha I guess the fire risings are the opposite then.. a calm interior under a ball of fire 😛
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Night Owl my ass. he went to bed at 10pm! Even last night, he was acting off.
Ringerr, he doesn't work. He made quite a bit of money from selling his business a few years ago. He doesn't have to go to work, but he has to wake up at 7 to take his daughter to school. other than that, he makes up his day as he goes along.
Intrigued, I'm very nurturing, but I can only be that if someone lets me.
He may have went to bed, doesn't mean he immediately fell asleep. There are too many variables to get bunged up over things. Maybe he's not a chipper chappy in the earlier hours. Maybe he was inspecting his nostril hair for a trim, perhaps he was on the stool or trying to select just the right t-shirt to go with his jeans. As I chided that he let things hinge on one message so are you. RELAX for heavens sakes.
Mirroring! Hello? *blowing on mic and tapping it* Is this on..is this thing on?
It's such a hypocritical thing to do though. I can't leave him hanging, but he can me?
Mirroring what?
You are allowing yourself to get upset over something that could quite possibly be nothing. You are allowing doubt and fear to creep up on you and bite you spang on the arse. And why? Because he wasn't tap-dancing ala Fred Astaire over a text message. Men are well known throughout the land far and wide to be a bit suck at that lil' keyboard of joy. Some loathe it.
Just because he didn't slap on a top hat and grab his cane does not make him less than interested.
I will tell you one thing though. If you slam that wall up and get up on that high horse with the Mizz Biscuits 'tude and send short or curt messages he will fall in line with that. It will be finished in its infancy. Likewise if you do not curb that very real Taurean tendency to wrap round like kudzu vine and choke the very life out of something. I'm guilty of it too, so don't think those fingers aren't pointed spang back at me. I am urging you to think. Really think about going off half-cocked and reading something into something that may not be there at all. NOT telling you to go against what you feel, just to out that crapola and look at it.
Just because he didn't slap on a top hat and grab his cane does not make him less than interested.
I will tell you one thing though. If you slam that wall up and get up on that high horse with the Mizz Biscuits 'tude and send short or curt messages he will fall in line with that. It will be finished in its infancy. Likewise if you do not curb that very real Taurean tendency to wrap round like kudzu vine and choke the very life out of something. I'm guilty of it too, so don't think those fingers aren't pointed spang back at me. I am urging you to think. Really think about going off half-cocked and reading something into something that may not be there at all. NOT telling you to go against what you feel, just to out that crapola and look at it.
And like PP said, sometimes that mood is thick. It has absolutely zero to do with you personally and everything to do with "Fuck off for a minute and let me regroup and breathe." Bit of diving in the ol' pool to clear ones head, set things to rights.
Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong Princess.
Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong Princess.
Before the texts to him this morning, I sent him an email replying to his from yesterday. In his email, he said that he had other things he'd talk to me about when I showed up at the bar. So my email to him was "Good morning. I don't think we talked much about this yesterday. Is it a closed topic now?"
No answer to that email either.
Bleh.
No answer to that email either.
Bleh.
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Like I said .... you think he isn't allowed the same things you allow yourself, and expect more of him then you do yourself .... if you really believe that, then you don't deserve him.
And probably not anyone else for that matter ... unless it be someone who thinks as hypocritical as you do, and that they have equal entitlement issues, as you.
And probably not anyone else for that matter ... unless it be someone who thinks as hypocritical as you do, and that they have equal entitlement issues, as you.
Posted by houstonpeach74
Before the texts to him this morning, I sent him an email replying to his from yesterday. In his email, he said that he had other things he'd talk to me about when I showed up at the bar. So my email to him was "Good morning. I don't think we talked much about this yesterday. Is it a closed topic now?"
No answer to that email either.
You sound extremely smothering ... you can't wait until you see him to have this discussion.
You've already pissed him off ... so, now you stick more pins in him to irritate him, and then have no self accountibility in that.
Perhaps, you should continue to irritate him until he is furious ..
Posted by houstonpeach74
In his email, he said that he had other things he'd talk to me about when I showed up at the bar. So my email to him was "Good morning. I don't think we talked much about this yesterday. Is it a closed topic now?"
No answer to that email either.
Posted by houstonpeach74
When I explained to him why I didn't respond and my reasoning to wait until we met for coffee to tell him (I was exhausted)..
Again, you think it's ok for you not to respond to emails, but, not him. He's rude for doing it, but, you aren't.
Posted by houstonpeach74
We ended the conversation with he wasn't sure if we should continue this "relationship". I'm confused a little mad at this because all week, he was the one pursuing me and it was me that was worried we were moving too fast. Now I get this handed to me?
Posted by houstonpeach74
Oh the email stated how much I was starting to really get into him and that I did not think we were moving to fast
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Again, it's ok for you to think you two were moving too fast, but, not him.
If he feels this, then he's wrong .. you can feel it, though - you think you are entitled to it.
Posted by houstonpeach74
I called him and he proceded to tell me that we moved too fast and the fact that he was feeling paranoid over the fact that I didn't respond to his message proved to him that he wasn't ready to date someone again.
Let me guess .... you will bombard him with texts and emails, instead of having any honor at all, and just walking away from a man who isn't ready for a relationship.
Oh no, you will await for a moment when he lets out even the smallest of endearment for you, so you can pounce on that and attempt to make it mean he wants you on the terms you have in your mind as an expectation of what a man who loves you is suppose to behave.
Heaven forbid that you walk away with dignity in tact because that would suggest you had some.
And then cycle continues ... if a man lets out even the smallest measurement of feelings to a woman, he gets emotionally attacked by her because she never has enough, and will strike at anything that even resembles a target.
I hope he runs away ... quick.
Strange change of event - I just got flowers delivered. They were from him.
Grrr, talk about confusing!
Grrr, talk about confusing!
Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
Well, Houston...I'm so thrilled for last night and yeah I can bet that even though he wanted to kiss you and he even had the nerve to tell you later that he wanted to that he just couldn't muster it up just yet. What kind of perfume were you wearing? I've heard they like kind of sweet fragrances. Vanilla and sandalwood kind of stuff. I have a cinnamon and sandalwood lotion made by Suave....it's delicious and sensual. I imaging they'd like something like that. Happy for your little love tale as it unfolds.
I agree with this the guy has guts!Usually we will let you know once we get the green light. I still haven't told the Aqua guy I've been seeing I want to lay one on him...even after he layed one on me. But my moon is in Taurus so like Venus said I need a 2x4 board up against my head and for me to be like oh wait he likes me lol. I still have my doubts.
Flowers...there now. Is that the stamp of a man not interested? Nothing to be confused about there. 🙂
Posted by PunkyBruiser
Omg flowers? I guess that's a traditional form of romanticism.... See, stop worrying... You know you're both in this, you're just confusing yourself by analyzing. With men, they mean what they say. There's no roundabout in their communication style the way there is with female lingo lol. Take the flowers for what they are. ENJOY THIS MOMENT WOMAN!😛
Annnnnnnnnnnd this.
Posted by tbirdPosted by intriguedbypiscesman
Well, Houston...I'm so thrilled for last night and yeah I can bet that even though he wanted to kiss you and he even had the nerve to tell you later that he wanted to that he just couldn't muster it up just yet. What kind of perfume were you wearing? I've heard they like kind of sweet fragrances. Vanilla and sandalwood kind of stuff. I have a cinnamon and sandalwood lotion made by Suave....it's delicious and sensual. I imaging they'd like something like that. Happy for your little love tale as it unfolds.
I agree with this the guy has guts!Usually we will let you know once we get the green light. I still haven't told the Aqua guy I've been seeing I want to lay one on him...even after he layed one on me. But my moon is in Taurus so like Venus said I need a 2x4 board up against my head and for me to be like oh wait he likes me lol. I still have my doubts.click to expand
LOL Speak softly and carry a big stick.
Why Miss PB! 😄
Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
"I think Pisces guys are some of the best and sweetest guys out there though. They just need someone who understands them well, and who doesn't take all their moods way too seriously, and who can just 'go with the flow' with them"
This is pisces as a whole we are go with the flow and you should as well. Our moods fluctuate and you need to be able to do so as well. Some days were are introverted and observant others we are extremely extroverted and silly. We can pretty much be Sally Fields... think of Sally after Shelby died. Girls you know what I mean... all over the place.
"I 100% agree. I have to catch myself sometimes. Though I do understand them well, I sometimes get paranoid that he swam away because he'll message me every other day for weeks, then I'll go four and five days without hearing from him. It's just the way he is, he has his things to work out in his mind. They are known to need to go back into their place of solace and refuge and not resurface until the feel recharged. They need someone who gives them the space to do this and be there for them when they are ready to come out."
Exactly!!! You need to be able to have your own full life so that way when we do unplug your not on freak out mode. You need to be able to enjoy your life and not to be rude... be up our as $ that will make us swim for sure. Think Aqua and Virgo we MUST have time alone. Other times we need to be up your as $ think Scorp.
"You also said Houston that you are very nurturing when someone allows, that could very well be but he will guard his feelings now for a while, probably until he senses that you like him just a bit more than he likes you. But if you don't understand his behaviors then you won't know how to handle him when he goes into hiding."
Despite what some sites makes us seem like some lost puppies needing love and giving it to anyone around. NOT TRUE! A lot of people confuse a pisces compassion for wanting to be with someone. We don't give our heart out like flyers for a club that's opening next week. We are very guarded with that sucker. We might do nice and extravagant gestures but doesn't mean he's going to spend the rest of his life with you. We are giving people... for me I'm so giving that it's strange to receive. I feel like I'm taking advantage so usually I don't like to receive gifts... I would rather give. Did I digress... I dunno
Oh come ON! LOL Girl talk. If there's life changing PMs afoot I want to know what kind of cake to make. *tapping foot*
Posted by venusianbullPosted by tbirdPosted by intriguedbypiscesman
Well, Houston...I'm so thrilled for last night and yeah I can bet that even though he wanted to kiss you and he even had the nerve to tell you later that he wanted to that he just couldn't muster it up just yet. What kind of perfume were you wearing? I've heard they like kind of sweet fragrances. Vanilla and sandalwood kind of stuff. I have a cinnamon and sandalwood lotion made by Suave....it's delicious and sensual. I imaging they'd like something like that. Happy for your little love tale as it unfolds.
I agree with this the guy has guts!Usually we will let you know once we get the green light. I still haven't told the Aqua guy I've been seeing I want to lay one on him...even after he layed one on me. But my moon is in Taurus so like Venus said I need a 2x4 board up against my head and for me to be like oh wait he likes me lol. I still have my doubts.
LOL Speak softly and carry a big stick.click to expand
THIS! Carry bandaids and an ice pack for a good measure! 😉
Posted by ellybdPosted by venusianbull
Oh come ON! LOL Girl talk. If there's life changing PMs afoot I want to know what kind of cake to make. *tapping foot*
My birthday was a week ago, and I've been informed by my co-workers that birthdays last all month.
I'm rather fancying a rainbow cake... 😛click to expand
I better get some rubber gloves to ride the fondant train, I'd be tie-dyed for a week. 🙂
Posted by venusianbull
Oh come ON! LOL Girl talk. If there's life changing PMs afoot I want to know what kind of cake to make. *tapping foot*
COFFEE CAKE!!! OMG I haven't had that glorious nectar of the Gods in ages!
Posted by tbirdPosted by venusianbullPosted by tbirdPosted by intriguedbypiscesman
Well, Houston...I'm so thrilled for last night and yeah I can bet that even though he wanted to kiss you and he even had the nerve to tell you later that he wanted to that he just couldn't muster it up just yet. What kind of perfume were you wearing? I've heard they like kind of sweet fragrances. Vanilla and sandalwood kind of stuff. I have a cinnamon and sandalwood lotion made by Suave....it's delicious and sensual. I imaging they'd like something like that. Happy for your little love tale as it unfolds.
I agree with this the guy has guts!Usually we will let you know once we get the green light. I still haven't told the Aqua guy I've been seeing I want to lay one on him...even after he layed one on me. But my moon is in Taurus so like Venus said I need a 2x4 board up against my head and for me to be like oh wait he likes me lol. I still have my doubts.
LOL Speak softly and carry a big stick.
THIS! Carry bandaids and an ice pack for a good measure! 😉click to expand
Damned good excuse to play Nursie. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. "Done TOLDJA WOMAN..I'm DIGGING YA. Can you get THAT through your...THICK SKULL?" *whap whappedy whap* 😄
What's up with PB?
Well hell... wouldn't it figure... I get on the boards and it dies down *kicks up sand*
damn I'm always 2 days late to the party carrying flat champagne.
Well hell... wouldn't it figure... I get on the boards and it dies down *kicks up sand*
damn I'm always 2 days late to the party carrying flat champagne.
Hehehehehe cake, it brings people together.
Posted by venusianbullPosted by tbirdPosted by venusianbullPosted by tbirdPosted by intriguedbypiscesman
Well, Houston...I'm so thrilled for last night and yeah I can bet that even though he wanted to kiss you and he even had the nerve to tell you later that he wanted to that he just couldn't muster it up just yet. What kind of perfume were you wearing? I've heard they like kind of sweet fragrances. Vanilla and sandalwood kind of stuff. I have a cinnamon and sandalwood lotion made by Suave....it's delicious and sensual. I imaging they'd like something like that. Happy for your little love tale as it unfolds.
I agree with this the guy has guts!Usually we will let you know once we get the green light. I still haven't told the Aqua guy I've been seeing I want to lay one on him...even after he layed one on me. But my moon is in Taurus so like Venus said I need a 2x4 board up against my head and for me to be like oh wait he likes me lol. I still have my doubts.
LOL Speak softly and carry a big stick.
THIS! Carry bandaids and an ice pack for a good measure! 😉
Damned good excuse to play Nursie. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. "Done TOLDJA WOMAN..I'm DIGGING YA. Can you get THAT through your...THICK SKULL?" *whap whappedy whap* 😄click to expand
THIS oh my dear GOD THIS!!! He can send a banner to your house that says I'm into you!! Let's date! And I will be like... Does this mean he likes me? I dunno.... better play it safe and say no! lmfao
LOL!!!! *pointing to t, then to me, then back to t* WHOA did that one go over my head. Next time a man should put a sparkler in his bum cheeks, paint a day-glow heart on his chest and play the trumpet. THEN I might get the hint.
Posted by PunkyBruiser
I'm down, ill bring the goodies you provide some chill music 🙂. Perhaps some wine? According to my bestie I like to clean while I'm buzzed your place will look like its straight from a catalog haha.
Ohhhh are you in trouuuuuubleeeeeee. 😄
Posted by PunkyBruiser
I'm down, ill bring the goodies you provide some chill music 🙂. Perhaps some wine? According to my bestie I like to clean while I'm buzzed your place will look like its straight from a catalog haha.
My GOD what kind of wine? I'll make sure your good and floating... my place needs a lot of tending.
Funny thing is when I go to the Aqua's house it's spotless, dirtless and just immaculate. He has scented candles going... I was like hmmm did I step into the Twilight Zone? I seen hospitals dirtier than his house. If he comes over to mine... he will have a panic attack and probably just pass out. He's never coming over unless I move. lol My carpets look like they are leopard print....but they are originally beige. lol that's what happens when you have a single mom fish with 2 kids. Funny thing is that I have 3 placements of Virgo in my chart so when I start I get really anal and I can't stop. Literally I can't stop cleaning. So that's probably why I hardly unleash it cause when I clean like that and my kids come in like a tornado and destroy my pristine surrounding I can't help but get truly offended, then the pissy fish comes out. For heavens sake I just cleaned the house why is your shirt hanging off the ceiling fan! Your rude!
Posted by Nights22
All the estrogen in here could even take down chuck norris!
Ohhhhh you love it. 😛 LOL
Posted by aquaj
uhhhh... Fish men.... fml.
Do you like ANYONE?! lol I have never seen you say oh this sign is great. You diss your own sign!
Posted by PunkyBruiser
Lmfao!! Omg I'm cracking up so badly w/ what T n VB said! It's funny cus its truuue!
It could be in sky writing in front of my face and Is still think wait... There must be a mistake lol!
Oh yeh! *squinting and looking up* I ...luff...you...****..Someone sure is a lucky girl, bet she didn't see that. 😛
Posted by venusianbull
LOL!!!! *pointing to t, then to me, then back to t* WHOA did that one go over my head. Next time a man should put a sparkler in his bum cheeks, paint a day-glow heart on his chest and play the trumpet. THEN I might get the hint.
THIS! But knowing me I'll be too busy running to get him Aquaphor for his bum burns to notice the day-glow heart. I'll be in the medicine cabinet thinking I hear a trumpet... maybe a marching band is passing by? Hmmm... is it memorial day?
Posted by tbirdPosted by PunkyBruiser
I'm down, ill bring the goodies you provide some chill music 🙂. Perhaps some wine? According to my bestie I like to clean while I'm buzzed your place will look like its straight from a catalog haha.
My GOD what kind of wine? I'll make sure your good and floating... my place needs a lot of tending.
Funny thing is when I go to the Aqua's house it's spotless, dirtless and just immaculate. He has scented candles going... I was like hmmm did I step into the Twilight Zone? I seen hospitals dirtier than his house. If he comes over to mine... he will have a panic attack and probably just pass out. He's never coming over unless I move. lol My carpets look like they are leopard print....but they are originally beige. lol that's what happens when you have a single mom fish with 2 kids. Funny thing is that I have 3 placements of Virgo in my chart so when I start I get really anal and I can't stop. Literally I can't stop cleaning. So that's probably why I hardly unleash it cause when I clean like that and my kids come in like a tornado and destroy my pristine surrounding I can't help but get truly offended, then the pissy fish comes out. For heavens sake I just cleaned the house why is your shirt hanging off the ceiling fan! Your rude!click to expand
LOL Ummmm my darling dearest hearts, is it really necessary to set off an atom bomb in my sanctuary? You know..the one I just cleaned for ages so I could relax in it? Go read a book, slay a dragon, play in the mud puddle. Before Mumsy Dearest sets loose the Kracken.
Posted by PunkyBruiserPosted by tbird
What's up with PB?
Well hell... wouldn't it figure... I get on the boards and it dies down *kicks up sand*
damn I'm always 2 days late to the party carrying flat champagne.
Hey Miss T! Nothing, my Leo moons just craving attention lol. I pity the foo who doesn't give it to me!click to expand
*Gigglesnort* I'm a night elf mohawk
Nights - see that's what happens when you leave 😉 Oh yeah Chuck Norris doesn't have anything on a gaggle of women!!
Posted by tbirdPosted by venusianbull
LOL!!!! *pointing to t, then to me, then back to t* WHOA did that one go over my head. Next time a man should put a sparkler in his bum cheeks, paint a day-glow heart on his chest and play the trumpet. THEN I might get the hint.
THIS! But knowing me I'll be too busy running to get him Aquaphor for his bum burns to notice the day-glow heart. I'll be in the medicine cabinet thinking I hear a trumpet... maybe a marching band is passing by? Hmmm... is it memorial day?click to expand
LMAO Maybe he has GAS. I better bust out the simethicone.
Posted by PunkyBruiser
Lmfao!! Omg I'm cracking up so badly w/ what T n VB said! It's funny cus its truuue!
It could be in sky writing in front of my face and Is still think wait... There must be a mistake lol!
Or thinking oh that girl has the same name as me... she so lucky... I'll never have a guy do that for me then kick the dirt. fml I can never win! lmfao
Awww @ this thread!
OK I'm only on page 25 so have to finish reading up to date, I hope it all turns out well!
OK I'm only on page 25 so have to finish reading up to date, I hope it all turns out well!
Posted by Nights22Posted by venusianbullPosted by Nights22
All the estrogen in here could even take down chuck norris!
Ohhhhh you love it. 😛 LOL
idk I drowned it every time I come into this thread. hahaclick to expand
LMAO Now if that isn't full on man I dunno what is. Hear something? It was above a middle C..didn't hear a thing. 😄
Posted by venusianbullPosted by tbirdPosted by venusianbull
LOL!!!! *pointing to t, then to me, then back to t* WHOA did that one go over my head. Next time a man should put a sparkler in his bum cheeks, paint a day-glow heart on his chest and play the trumpet. THEN I might get the hint.
THIS! But knowing me I'll be too busy running to get him Aquaphor for his bum burns to notice the day-glow heart. I'll be in the medicine cabinet thinking I hear a trumpet... maybe a marching band is passing by? Hmmm... is it memorial day?
LMAO Maybe he has GAS. I better bust out the simethicone.click to expand
My god battle down the hatches and go into a underground bunker... It's gonna get bad!
Exactly unleash the Kracken! Venus I thought I was the only one that said that. My daughter was being her normal stubborn self and I said go into your room before I get upset and unleash the Kracken... she started laughing but I wasn't. I said move it missy
Posted by PunkyBruiser
Omg T you're hilarious. Yes, when I.start cleaning I can't stop either til everythings either spotless or I can't keep my eyes open lol cus if you stop you'll lose your groove ya know? I'm always cleaning something haha what a Virgo!
Why thank you TB I'll be here every monday... be sure to tip your waitress... she works hard for the money... so hard for it honey... she works hard for the money so you better tip her right!
Why I say TB... I mean PB.
I'm not thanking myself. Wait I do have a leo ascending...so maybe I am.
Thank you TB your quite welcome TB
I'm not thanking myself. Wait I do have a leo ascending...so maybe I am.
Thank you TB your quite welcome TB
Aw he sent her flowers. 🙂
I'm glad it turned out well.
VB when you say cake though you mean pie right? 😛
I'm glad it turned out well.
VB when you say cake though you mean pie right? 😛
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