Advice Needed

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The Lady Scorpio
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No judgements girlscorp, but until the both of you are single souls you would both be playing with fire and unnecessarily dragging a lot of other people into your dramatic mess (that would be unfair for it would cause much pain for those parties involved). If you want a chance to explore the possibility with this man, he must first be done with his marriage and it must be a closed end chapter, the same goes for you.

You said he was close to divorce but the fact remains, he is still married and he most likely still feels an obligation towards his wife. Leave the man be, he has the right to think and choose his own pathway, in the end he might even choose to work it out with his wife. If you are no longer happy within your marriage, then deal with your own marriage first, address the issues with your Aquarius and come to a resolution.

You cannot possibly believe you can have your cake and eat it too. 😐
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Posted by girlscorp

We met up and spent about 5 days together.

I started to get sort of clingy and told him that I cared alot about him

I flat out asked him if he cared about me

because I pressured him.


Posted by girlscorp

I am married to an Aquarius which is not a totally happy marriage.

No judgements

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The fact that you say "no judgments" just goes to show how fucked up you really are.

The only people who worry about being judged are the ones who know they're wrong and that they're totally fucked up for what they are doing ... because the reality of life is = people want to be judged, they want to be noticed, they want people to be in awe of them.

that is, the people who have honor and carry themselves as such.


Only the fucked up bitches who know their wrong, want to be entitled and not be called out for being that fucked up person.



Here's a thought .... why don't you ask your husband how to handle this situation, ask him how to get this Cancer man to have feelings for you ..... maybe he won't judge you, maybe he'll just beat your ass instead, which you would deserve btw