Aquarius Men What's up with them? (Page 2)

I'm dating an aquarius guy for month and a half now. We see eachother every day, takl on the phone a lot too. Since we met he was pursuing me. I fell for him rather quickly, but from the day we kissed he labeled us: Boyfriend and girlfriend. He told everyone about me, when we met people on the street he introduced me as his GF 🙂
He's very open about his feelings, and hurt that sometimes I'm cautious, cold, distant maybe, because he thinks i'm right for him in every way. And he tells that to me and all his friends and family too. I'm the first GF to meet his parents, have lunch with them etc...

He did say he wasn't like this - clingy and emotional when he was younger. He's 30 by the way.
I suppose that it's really all about how MATURE a guy is. No mater what sign. Or maybe since i'm a sag i'm more detached. So not all aqua males are bad 🙂 !!!

I was in a relationship with an aquarius last year and he split up with me before xmas saying he didnt feel strong enough . It was hard as we work together and i am so in love with him but i coped . we carried on talking to eachother and having the odd coffee and now after five months from the split we have started seeing eachother again sexually and going out . My confusion is , is that where we were in a relationship before , girlfriend and boyfriend , he says what we are doing now is dating. I have no idea what to expect about this . Should i expect exclusivity. All he says is that he has refused offers because he is cool dating me , we have an amazing connection that he doesnt want to lose. Im a scorpio and i just dont get it , the connection is amazing between us so why dont we just get back in a relationship again ! anybody help me understand this please .

I was in a relationship with an aquarius last year and he split up with me before xmas saying he didnt feel strong enough . It was hard as we work together and i am so in love with him but i coped . we carried on talking to eachother and having the odd coffee and now after five months from the split we have started seeing eachother again sexually and going out . My confusion is , is that where we were in a relationship before , girlfriend and boyfriend , he says what we are doing now is dating. I have no idea what to expect about this . Should i expect exclusivity. All he says is that he has refused offers because he is cool dating me , we have an amazing connection that he doesnt want to lose. Im a scorpio and i just dont get it , the connection is amazing between us so why dont we just get back in a relationship again ! anybody help me understand this please .

"All he says is that he has refused offers because he is cool dating me"

From an Aqua, wouldn't this mean he is telling you he doesn't want to see anyone else?

Just recently started a relationship with an Aquarius. Only thing to note so far is that he likes playing games. I can never get a straight forward answer out of him. If I want something, even if it's implied, I have to ask for it. He purposely tries to make me jealous. He even once set up a meeting with an old crush just to get me riled up (which I talked him into canceling because that is completely stupid). Etc. I don't play along. He also is really sensitive to the things I say, yet he says insensitive things to me all the time. As for the commitment thing, he's been with a lot of people, but says he's ready for something more real and long term, now. We'll see how that goes.

It's a process, though, and I'm very tolerant. There's a lot of things I like about him and we can work through our differences. My Aqua is very cute in the things he does. : ) No matter how this ends up, it'll be a learning experience, and I won't regret it. Right now, Aqua men are on my good side.

what woman should understand about aqua men is that we are inlove with your mind,the way how you think etc. your beauty and everything else is of secondary nature, all we want is to be understood, which is a epic battle, we like witty conversations, or stupid conversations, as long as its not the same stuff everyone else is talking about. be careful when asking us for advice, we seem to have a solution for everything, and you dont necessarily want that. we dislike cry-babies because we cannot deal with it properly, emotions is something we suppress instead of letting it flow out openly. but deep down there's an inner battle engaging which you will never know about, we often need space and time to retreat and regenerate. I am only 23 years old and was recently in a relationship.. the thought of marriage scares me to death, my friends have babies already, some engaged,but I can't see myself settling down like this for a very long time to come. We don't fall inlove easily, we like the unknown and mysterious
if you are too predictable like an open book, you're probably not our type. don't try and force us to love you either it will probably backfire. We have our own way of doing things so don't be surprised if somethings we do seems unconventional, we think and stand outside the box.
we are humanitarians, open and talkative, yet loners and distant, I don't know if that will make any sense to the non aqua but ok.

For me personally, a woman will never be #1 on my list, my ultimate highest priority. I don't even hold myself up that high, why should you be there?
that spot is reserved for life itself and the sooner you accept this the better things will go.
As earlier stated, we don't fall inlove easily, but when we do, we tend to fall hard, and we truly care.
Sex life is complicated. for me personally..I love sex but I dont like to have it that often. my scorpio girl wants to cuddle and have sex from morning till late at night, it was fun at first but it came to an end very quickly, she was very surprised when I refused to have sex with her, she soon got the picture, but was never happy about it.

Why are you like this, she asked. Why is winter cold, I responded.

You say you Aqua men just want to be understood?
How can we truly understand you if you are aloof to letting us get to know the real you?

I have a theory on that, by the way, but I want to hear your response first.

Posted by Bohemianrhapsody74
We are all just a lab experiment! LOL

astrologers are usually making fun but, there's some truth in that lab experiment stuff with aquarius men.(mainly/generally "air") no wonder they get awards /prizes for unfeeling. it's too bad if they dont have some water in them to 'feel' out someone. then they dont have to worry about these lab experiments. they get a lot of women though from what I've seen in RL. Same with pisces men. I dont know why either, other than the obvious. Unless they have an earth moon, the ones with air and fire moons will be the most sociable. Aquarius moon not so much i dont think; they're so afraid of rejection.

Posted by ElusiveSoul
^^^^ Oh yeahh, they say it takes a strong woman to deal with cap men...well same goes with aquas ( I guess both are coruled by Saturn...go figure)

Saturn is really tough too.
Enjoyed reading your input, Elusive.

Scorpian women are just too deep for the I have a hundred million friends Aquarius guy.

I'm an aquarius male and I have come to the conclusion that for absolute true love....he would have to be with a scorpio. There is a lot of growth and true love that can be found in this relationship I am certain of it. To me true love is loyalty to the core no matter what.
I'm a stupid man who has wasted away his 20's on proving he can do anything if he puts his mind to it. And the result is me being poor as hell and staying at home with my family to save money so I can finish my schooling. I was originally studying electrical engineering but now I've changed to accounting. Anyhow I met this scorpio girl in one of my accounting classes and wow. It is odd but it is as if I can read her every desire. I noticed her the very first class so I sat relatively close and I'm certain she noticed me too. Next thing I know every time she comes to class she is always trying to make sure to sit as close to me as she can. and always seems frustrated that there are other people in her way haha. She even started to confront me and strike up conversations with me. And to my utter surprise this girl was actually intelligent ^.^? Prettiest intelligent girl I think I've ever met. I don't hold a whole lot of weight on looks although after being jaded in the past I'm somewhat bitter and have set my standards to astronomical heights. We are both so busy we really have no time to talk much other than in between classes. I just feel that this girl would not be interested in me once she truly got to know me...she just thinks she is....I mean she is independent and on her own. I know she makes more money than me. I've been holding off telling her just how shitty my situation is because the more I get to know her (she does actually open up to me) the more I admire her. I found out just how much I think of this girl when I caught up with her in a computer lab and she was studying with another guy...first time I've ever...ever...ever seen her around another dude before. Wow I was actually kinda jealous and I'm NEVER jealous. I don't know what to do ya'll I want to tell her how I feel but I feel like it is too soon even though it has been like 4 months of this or more. I really feel like to expect a younger girl to take me on is selfish.....I mean I'm thinking what is she going to tell her freinds when she says she's dating me....I'm no one to brag about for sure....you don't go home and say hey mom i'm dating a 29 year old man who stays home with his mommy.

Just ask her out for happy hour after classes one day! Get a group together and invite her to join if that makes it less pressure.

Well Starlover I have both my sun and moon in Aquarius and I look at it as if you want to breath down my neck go right ahead...^_^ I think why I'm so compelled to be with this scorpio is my mom and uncle ...they are twins and they are both scorpios! I used to really hate how my mom would be up my ass about EVERYTHING. But then I realized something not too long ago that is very important. NO matter how much of a fuck up I've been in my life she always stuck by my side and when other people told her I was a waste of time she would defend me and not give up. She saw what I could be...she remained loyal to me.
I have new found respect and love for for my mother. Honestly, if she is anything like what a typical scorpio is...I'd say I understand ya'll very well I've had to live with one for the longest ass time. I'd say Scorpios are probably just as boring as any Aquarius can be but I'm sure each person is a little different. I suppose for an Aquarius I maybe a little bit different I have venus and mars in pisces as well as mercury and pluto in scorpio! I called the scorpio I'm interested in last night and I was going to tell her how I feel but damn she was like half awake sounding...she answers the phone all half awake but seductive like. When she answered that way it just sorta threw me off...makes we wonder if she thought I was calling just to talk about sex or something....we only talked for 6 minutes! LMAO not how I envisioned that convo going before she had to go. All I know is I'm not talking to her just for some booty call. If that is all she is thinking then maybe I was wrong about her. I haven't had sex in like hmm 3 years! Yeah I guess I'm just a prude. I like sex like the next guy but I dunno casual sex has never been my thing. I feel like only way Imma be able to tell this damn chick is like grab her by the arm yank her to the corner and whisper it in her ear...she like always has to be doing something. I just think doing that is going to scare her...like a guy twice her size grabs her and yanks her somewhere haha...I just wanna get it over with though. My little dark secret is either going to bother her or not. I'm honestly not afraid of losing her if she knows...I mean its a waste of my time right... if it would have mattered and I not know.

Warm breath on my neck gets me all hot and bothered....hee hee! 😛

Only been catching up from the first and last couple of pages, way too lazy not enough time or patience! I think the majority of Aquas I meet fall into 2 categories, the nice ones and the bad ones. Isn't it too bad all I hear abou there are mainly the bad ones?

In response to the thread and the original question: Sorry sweetheart, regardless of whatever Aquas you meet, you probably didn't hold his attention long enough or you gave it all too soon. Both cases I find boring and I move on. Is it a crime to move on from something you are not interested in? I'm not defending Aquas in any case because when we put on our game faces we tend to be manipulative sons of bitches.

Like all other Aquas said, when we fall for you we really fall for you and will goto the ends of the world to make sure things work out to the point where we will actually change for you! And that's really hard to accept as an aqua!

Scenic- I always have amazing sparks with Pisces, there's something about you that brings out the kids in us. He's probably just having fun with you and at the same time screening you out. It's good you aren't abiding to his rules 🙂 If he's playful, be playful! Show him his own medicine and he'll be wanting more. He might be an Aqua like me in that I've always held my ex girlfriends close, not as a way of retreat but we've all ever started out as friends and I can easily cut that romantic relationship off and revert to being friends.

ElusiveSoul - shit it seems like you've had the worst draw out of the nice aquas and aloof aquas. I personally never understood the whole detached Aqua men because I'm not like that. When I detach myself from someone I'm seeing, I make it very clear I'm no longer interested and I never go back to them.

TrueCap - HAHAHA! Damn right, don't figure us out! We are having a hard time figuring ourselves out.

StarLover - We don't need freedom, we just like to put life experience over existing relationships. There are times where this priority may change and it's the best when we want to move forward in life WITH our partners. That's when things are the best. I love being around people I love but in some regards yes, as long as you don't shackle us down, we have no reason to try and escape.

NotYourAverageAqua - I love you. You're like me in that we type novels when we find someone we like in hopes to justify our choices and feelings and never really form any sort of solid point! GOOD STUFF!

Posted by truecap
You say you Aqua men just want to be understood?
How can we truly understand you if you are aloof to letting us get to know the real you?

I have a theory on that, by the way, but I want to hear your response first.

My theory is as basic as you have to pay attention!!! I believe they tell you the information you need, albeit subtle and nonchalant and/or quite honest and upfront. You can learn all about them, you just have to listen and learn how to read the one you're with. If they tell you something, believe them. I think most of the time aquas get accused of playing games, but quite frankly, they've probably already said right up front from the beginning what they're all about. For instance, if they say they don't want a relationship, believe them. If they say their favorite color is blue, remember it! No, it's not simple, but I think if you pay attention, you can learn a lot.

Man..... I hate this waiting game crap! You wanna know why I would ignore you scorpio woman? It's cause you do the same to me lol! And Im a fucking pro just like you too shi'a ^.^ Why WHY ya'll gotta be so damn shy? Scorpio's I swear lol rawr! Yeah I guess I'm just annoyed today -_-

Aqua Male- Scorp Female Tough Match.....Aquas are just so aloof and scorpios want to get deep......Good Luck

Posted by LiquidAir29


Aqua Male- Scorp Female Tough Match.....Aquas are just so aloof and scorpios want to get deep......Good Luck

Oh, but what an accomplishment to get to deepest and most personal aspects of an Aqua! 😛

I'm a cap with scorp venus and rising, by the way.

Hmm I wonder if I make it to easy for this little scorpio woman I've been into. I'm not truly sure. I'm thinking that what is probably the case is Im more into her than she is into me. She rarely excepts anything from me and so far the first time I've asked her to do something with me she claimed she was busy so...... However, she does not appear to mind me being around. She is very sweet to me but lol she rarely if ever asks questions about me. About the only question that comes to mind was where do I work and that's about it or what was my grade on some test or w/e. Earlier when I was not really showing as much interest as I am now she damn near started to talk to me about a past boyfriend of hers! I always hear they like never do that? Anyways, ever since I've been making it more know that I have an interest in her she keeps giving all these mixed signals... Today after class she tells me see sometime next week lol!? Okay no text or talkie talkie on the phone then? Maybe I've been giving her mixed signals but I don't know how. I've been up front with my interest in her and if I text her some message about doing something for her and get no reply I push it no further..... When I speak to her I always stare into her eyes... LoL I asked if she wanted a ride to her car since she parks far away off campus and she tells me I'm alright...I'll walk thank you though. Like scorpios I like my free time and independence but damn.... I dunno Im used to it the other way around ^.^ I don't necessarily like the other way but it sure would be nice to be given more every once in awhile. If I was around her everyday then the way she is as of now would be fine I guess but sometimes I might only see ehh twice in a week? I'm not for sure but I get the vibe that either there is some other guy that either she can't make up her mind about or he can't make up his about her...... Or last guy she was with did her so wrong she that she tries desperately hard to not get too close to people ^.^? Those are the only two that makes sense because no girl would be as sweet to me as she is and spend they're time with me at school unless they were interested but damn she is so confusing sometimes. I can't figure out for sure if I should give her more attention or back off ahh well....

Double edged sword!

If you back off, she might chase you some.
If you give her more attention, makes you vulnerable.

Just ask her out for drinks!

I always felt the man should make the first move!

Technically I did make the first move. I told her what I thought of her and I've like I said asked her on a date once so far but like I said she claimed she had to work that night..... Funny thing is she usually is always off that night and from how she made it sound when she told me her schedule around the beginning/middle of the semester she didn't want her work knowing she had that evening off. I mean if you agree to work that evening just once they are gonna your free unless she told them it was a vacation day and she needed the money or w/e. You see I have kinda made the first move and been up front and even exercised some patience but she is still being so ambiguous at times. Like I said she seems to genuinely enjoy my company and we have are laughs but there is not always time talk about things other than school and she always seems to be hesitant about everything.

I'm typing this in an IPhone so just bare with me if my sentences become run ons 🙂 I really just am wondering do all scorpios like lots of attention..... Or at least the minimum of one single contact via text or w/e a day or do they have seriously varying degrees? Should I back off... LoL sometimes I wonder if she just sorta doesn't like me as much as I do her but she doesn't want to be mean I guess or something? Hmm Im tempted to start a thread in the scorpio area ^.^

Technically I did make the first move. I told her what I thought of her and I've like I said asked her on a date once so far but like I said she claimed she had to work that night..... Funny thing is she usually is always off that night and from how she made it sound when she told me her schedule around the beginning/middle of the semester she didn't want her work knowing she had that evening off. I mean if you agree to work that evening just once they are gonna your free unless she told them it was a vacation day and she needed the money or w/e. You see I have kinda made the first move and been up front and even exercised some patience but she is still being so ambiguous at times. Like I said she seems to genuinely enjoy my company and we have are laughs but there is not always time talk about things other than school and she always seems to be hesitant about everything.

I'm typing this in an IPhone so just bare with me if my sentences become run ons 🙂 I really just am wondering do all scorpios like lots of attention..... Or at least the minimum of one single contact via text or w/e a day or do they have seriously varying degrees? Should I back off... LoL sometimes I wonder if she just sorta doesn't like me as much as I do her but she doesn't want to be mean I guess or something? Hmm Im tempted to start a thread in the scorpio area ^.^

The scorps may be able to help you better. 🙂
I have no idea what to tell you.

Posted by truecap
The scorps may be able to help you better. 🙂
I have no idea what to tell you.

Jeez I'm scared of scorp ladies I told one that fancied me one of my biggest family secrets idk why I did too it's crazy haha.

And, Aqualad? What happened? Did she keep the secret? Use it against you? Tell other people? Don't tease me now!

NYAA - I'm thinking...uhmm...she's playing too many games. Give her one last chance or no more chances. She's either going to or she's not. I'm feeling she doesn't know what she wants. So, her loss!!! You seem a great guy so it'd definitely be her loss!

Well,(unless she's not feeling you're serious - you aquas throw all us females for a loop). I don't know if scorps like attention or not, but women generally do!

See, that's why I can't help. Too many gray areas. Post it on the scorp board. I have scorp venus and rising, but I'm a triple cap. The scorp gets overruled unless its passionate or vengeful. lol!

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Technically I did make the first move. I told her what I thought of her and I've like I said asked her on a date once so far but like I said she claimed she had to work that night..... Funny thing is she usually is always off that night and from how she made it sound when she told me her schedule around the beginning/middle of the semester she didn't want her work knowing she had that evening off. I mean if you agree to work that evening just once they are gonna your free unless she told them it was a vacation day and she needed the money or w/e. You see I have kinda made the first move and been up front and even exercised some patience but she is still being so ambiguous at times. Like I said she seems to genuinely enjoy my company and we have are laughs but there is not always time talk about things other than school and she always seems to be hesitant about everything.

I'm typing this in an IPhone so just bare with me if my sentences become run ons 🙂 I really just am wondering do all scorpios like lots of attention..... Or at least the minimum of one single contact via text or w/e a day or do they have seriously varying degrees? Should I back off... LoL sometimes I wonder if she just sorta doesn't like me as much as I do her but she doesn't want to be mean I guess or something? Hmm Im tempted to start a thread in the scorpio area ^.^

stop talking so much and just be. lol

anyway, go call Michael Sheen (he's an Aqua sun) and ask him 😛 He's with a Scorpio woman.

well obviously he's not afraid 😛
he's got scorpio mars to her scorpio sun. Some aries in him and a virgo moon.
She's got a gemini moon, sag mars and scorp venus, pluto libra.

Yeah I dunno I guess I just not used to this type of stuff I suppose. Funny thing is I don't think it would bother her if I did keep giving her attention... it would basically be the same way I have been treating her just I dunno... nothing is progressing anywhere just yet. And she is not verbal about anything between me and her. Your right I talk a lot. I need to shut my big fat stupid mouth.

TrueCap Im going to try to think positive and give her the chance to kick me in the sand... at least I know I did no wrong that way ultimately.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I dunno I guess I just not used to this type of stuff I suppose. Funny thing is I don't think it would bother her if I did keep giving her attention... it would basically be the same way I have been treating her just I dunno... nothing is progressing anywhere just yet. And she is not verbal about anything between me and her. Your right I talk a lot. I need to shut my big fat stupid mouth.

TrueCap Im going to try to think positive and give her the chance to kick me in the sand... at least I know I did no wrong that way ultimately.

aww i was only having fun, i thought you'd "get" that. 😢 don't shut up on account of me, please. Just be there for her if you really want her. You can usually tell if a woman doesn't want you, right?

i was going to make a funny comment on you (pretend) calling up Michael Sheen (for the lols and to brighten your day):
you: Mr. Sheen, hello? hello?
Mr.Sheen: Who is this?? How did you get my number?
you: i'm psychic?
Mr.Sheen: what-?
you: Mr.Sheen, I want to know how you nabbed the most sought after gorgeous woman in hollywood! how how how?
Mr.sheen: *click*
line goes dead.......

ok so maybe it's not funny but 🙂