Aquarius Venus problems

I see a lot of Venus in Scorpio topics, Venus in Virgo at Virgo forum, ive even seen Venus in Gemini....

and a few other venuses.

maybe this needs to be addressed on a deeper level.

what do you as ladies with this energy feel that you need, out of a man/partnership?

what is it that you can't commit right away, do you shy away from? are your standards super high?

with men, I don't really see this as a problem around here.



here is something .....she says you all need someone weird and unusual, quirky. Gosh...so typical. she loves the aquarian energy...

Posted by yupvirgoo
I'm really curious about them too.

I have Leo venus so i'm not really sure what to think of someone when they have Aqua venus... do they dislike commitment? Or people who are showy with affection?

I know! I don't see the same typically of Aries venus women, they want to commit even if it they are jumping from one guy monogamously to a new guy. lol

Even Aqua sun/Aries venus Aniston is with a Leo/Leo venus easily.





so yeah I don't see the same problems with Aries venus, as I do Aquarius venus.

earth and water also don't have this problem as much.

I haven't noticed much on sag venus, but on forums, lots of aqua venus and from ladies who desire a relationship. so you know they want it, but are very very picky.

I thought virgo venus had problems being in the "fall" but I've read that some aqua venus folks were saying they should be detriment or fall, cause they have a hard time. :/

I wonder if it's house placement/aspects too?

Two of my best friends have this placement as well as mars in aqua. I find they're pretty secretive and private about love and sex.

Posted by Etherealfeeling
Two of my best friends have this placement as well as mars in aqua. I find they're pretty secretive and private about love and sex.

I understand being private about sex, as lots of signs/people want privacy but about love, I wonder why.





they want someone "off the wall, uncommon" *sigh * so typical again. lol

any aquarius venus ladies/men want to chime in?



also, there used to be problems on this site with aqua venus men problems,



but the video there says, they don't need anyone, or any support of anyone, and that they can come off cold and insensitive and you need to take care of your own feelings and won't dry your tears...

don't rely on them for feelings. watch the video if you think that's true.

Posted by SweetLily89
An ex finace of mine is an Aqua sun, Aqua Venus.. I'm not sure how to describe him as he seems to have been completely different with other partners than he was with me. Every other relationship he had he was quite showy and had no qualms with PDA, but for whatever reason that was a big no no for me, unless there was another male near by, then he was on me like white on rice. For the most part both of us, would kind of wander off and do our own thing, then eventually make our way back to each other. In private however, he was very affectionate, never controlling, but getting him to talk about things was a hair pulling task.

it sounded like you understood him, too bad he's an ex.

Posted by yupvirgoo
I'm really curious about them too.

I have Leo venus so i'm not really sure what to think of someone when they have Aqua venus... do they dislike commitment? Or people who are showy with affection?

We have a list in our head and you have to meet all the points or it's a no go. We have no problem being single, so no problem waiting.

Not struggling too much with celibacy could be a problem with this placement.

I have a very big problem indeed....I always end up with air signs 😄!

I'm also fixed as fuck (it could be because it's in Taurus house)...I dump you... I'm gone in a sec and nothing will bring me back again (only the thought of coming back makes me vomit).

You dump me.....I will try my chances again, after 1-2 years of no contact! Expect chasing and mind games till I get bored.

My partner of choice should be stable, intelligent, kind and keen (to be with me).

My dad is an Aqua Venus as well. Terrible partner, lightweight as a father (fine with me).

As I grew up, I kept repeating to myself....never date someone like him, never date someone like him, ever!!

Posted by Undine
My dad is an Aqua Venus as well. Terrible partner, lightweight as a father (fine with me).

As I grew up, I kept repeating to myself....never date someone like him, never date someone like him, ever!!

omg he is aqua /leo moon AND aqua venus??

well, there is a Gemini woman with cancer moon on this forum who is married to a man with those placements.

Posted by Undine
I have a very big problem indeed....I always end up with air signs 😄!

I'm also fixed as fuck (it could be because it's in Taurus house)...I dump you... I'm gone in a sec and nothing will bring me back again (only the thought of coming back makes me vomit).

You dump me.....I will try my chances again, after 1-2 years of no contact! Expect chasing and mind games till I get bored.

My partner of choice should be stable, intelligent, kind and keen (to be with me).

there's nothing wrong with air sign men. there are plenty of water sign women marrying them.

and they keep a strong commitment, (Justin timberlake, Jessica biel as one couple)

I know theyre famous but I don't know any in real life, only pisces man/libra woman. I also only know aqua woman/scorpio man. but the scorpio is airy. with aqua moon/libra mars.

but honestly don't know any pisces woman with any air sun men in real life. only what I read on astrotheme, ect.

Posted by Canbullrius

Posted by Undine
My dad is an Aqua Venus as well. Terrible partner, lightweight as a father (fine with me).

As I grew up, I kept repeating to myself....never date someone like him, never date someone like him, ever!!

My dads a lightweight too...

I will run a quick scan of my dads chart for you.









Abusive, cowardly and manipulative, narcissistic.

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that's horrible. :/

I don't like abusive, mean parents.

do you think it's the squares in his chart? the sun square mars? Saturn square his mars and sun?

Posted by Canbullrius

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Canbullrius

Posted by Undine
My dad is an Aqua Venus as well. Terrible partner, lightweight as a father (fine with me).

As I grew up, I kept repeating to myself....never date someone like him, never date someone like him, ever!!

My dads a lightweight too...

I will run a quick scan of my dads chart for you.









Abusive, cowardly and manipulative, narcissistic.

that's horrible. :/

I don't like abusive, mean parents.

do you think it's the squares in his chart? the sun square mars? Saturn square his mars and sun?

Maybe.

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I remember doing a chart of a man where the young woman PUSHED him out of the balcony, and she claimed he was being abusive, and obviously she was scared of him

the man had sun square mars, mars square moon, lots of personal squares.



https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology-and-crime/amber-hindlerling-7084473/?checkpg=1

Posted by sagsagsag
The thing is that my aqua venus is partnered with scorp mars and cancer moon, so it's tough for me.. they don't get along really well ?

But yeah.. I love someone who is original.. I find it awesome... And it's not in a weird way tho.. it's just that, i love studying people, the more open they are to me with their flaws the more I love it. And I will love them more for their flaws rather than their positive traits that the whole wide world know, weird huh? ?

As for commitment, same like @PV&Jellay I take my time too. Sometimes I freeze and freak out when I realise I'm starting to fall deep only to come back to my senses later on..

and when that sense hits me, it hits like a ton of brick because that cancer moon starts to play its role.. LOL ? But true, when I'm in, I'm all in...

No, I don't treat people equally. I play favorites.

No, I'm only interested in men. But I notice I did attract women, 2 times to be exact. Sometimes people mistaken my love for studying people as an act of affection, which is never the case.

Yea kinky fo shooo... ?

I'm very showy of my affection.. this is not an aqua venus thing? is it the sag sun thing?

ohh wow, a sag sun with aqua venus. lol!! 😛



I usually see only the aqua, cap and pisces peeps with aqua venus sad about being single and can't find someone to suit their aqua venus, at other forums. So I thought...hmmm where are the Aries sun and Sag sun peeps with aqua venus. lol

I want it all & would stay single (if I was single) until I find that . I have zero problems with being single. I know exactly what attracts me & know if I'm into someone the first date. I just know. I can be very showy or stay in the shadows. It's whatever my mood is, whatever I choose that week. It can be very confusing to some, then others can handle it well.

Posted by PV&Jellay
I can't speak for aqua venus men, but as an aqua venus woman I take my time committing to be certain. But once I'm in, I'm all in.

Im affectionate in my own way. More acts of service than physical touch. But with the right person I can be touchy feely and totally mushy...in private. I hate pda...get a room.

I'm affectionate in my own way = I swear it's not that I don't like showing affection, it's just that I feel awkward af while holding hands in public

@OP

Aqua Venus here

"what do you as ladies with this energy feel that you need, out of a man/partnership?"

I cannot speak for specific to aqua venus, as description of aqua venus i read online is not totally me . I will speak for what i need out of a partnership . Honestly it has changed with time . One thing that has always been my priority is the emotional connect . I am totally a feeling person . Blinded and guided by it . Wont hold true if i am committed to someone else..when committed i know how to keep a check on myself . Today what i need out of a partnership is peace and bliss . I crave for attention and lot & lot of love . When i dont get it i feel restless . I am not a space crazy kind of person in a romantic relationship .

There is one thing that i have noticed about myself in past. That i have never felt any need to be in a relationship. I only feel the need when i like someone . I have been single for very long time and that didnt make me feel any bad. There has never been a time that i wasnt approached by guys but i develop feel very very rarely . I only feel the need for relationship when n only when i like someone .



"what is it that you can't commit right away, do you shy away from? are your standards super high?"

I can commit right away...if i am in love and if i can trust that person. I have never asked for commitment from anyone though ..i dont like asking for it. I feel i deserve it and i should get it without asking. In past I have pretended to be cool and not bothered just because i did not want to show my vulnerability . I have also in past pretended to take people's confession of them liking me as a joke coz i didnt trust them and sometimes i was little embarrassed .

Standards are super high. If i loose respect for a guy ..he is gone. No matter what . For me character holds highest value in a man .

Posted by Miamia13
@yupvirgoo

I'm an Aquarius Sun and Aquarius Venus. I'm extremely unconventional. I love to experiment

and I'm not judgmental. I'm quirky, weird, fun, and sometimes shocking. One things for sure, you will never be bored of an Aquarius Venus. I love people and am very particular about who I decide to have romantic interest in. In most cases, I know right away if I like someone. Sometimes it's just the energy or vibes I feel. If I take a little more romantic interest in someone, I actually get a bit obsessive. I research everything I need to know about my love interest but you'd never know it because I play it very cool.

If someone approaches me with a lot of flattery, I withdraw. I will initiate PDA and I even like chasing a bit. But chase me too hard and I will withdraw. If anything appears phony or if the communication is less then par, I'll withdraw. I want a relationship but I don't want my freedom taken away. Approach me with a relationship and I'll withdraw to think about it. If we have a connection and you let me have my space, I'll come right back to you and be in the relationship.

Being an Aquarius, I am often surrounded by many people and always have a few followers. However, if I truly fall for someone- I'm the most loyal woman you will ever meet. I see no one else but my person and love extremely hard. Even when the relationship fails, I'm mentally attached to that person for months and sometimes years.

Aquarians are a paradox. Don't ask us why we do what we do because we honestly don't even understand ourselves.

now we have three gals here with aqua sun /aqua venus, @ aquarius09 who has a stellium and aquarius_beauty.

there are extreme examples of aqua venus....

1) Amal Alamuddin,

2) Rachael Ulitechl.

lol @ the 2nd. cause she is only infamous for being the mistress never the bride, and it's not even a good position, because she is the woman who only got to be the sidechick to married famous men, (Tiger Woods and David Boreanz)

there's also,

3) Christie Brinkley

supermodel and still going strong.

This is a very interesting post. Love seeing others perspectives on this.

For me, meeting people isn't that hard. Becoming friends isn't difficult. Turning the corner and falling for someone? That is really a hard and thus rare. It takes time-- and I am very upfront about this. Still most women I meet can't deal with the slow pace- as is their right. Add to that this feeling of the connection needing to be both cerebral and emotional, and it becomes a challenge to find someone who hits those notes.

There are a few women that I have a had to stop dating who were aesthetically stunning but we just couldn't click on a cerebral level. My friends still make fun of me for this. But to me, the beauty of her mind and heart is just as important (actually more so) as her body.

I looked up the deceased ex's chart and he was a Venus in Aquarius. I always questioned if our relationship was one way and you know the saying if you have to question then it's whatever your assumption is. Then there is the other golden rule of don't make assumptions. Talk about confusion galore. I guess I'll never know now.

Posted by sagsagsag
@daron76 we share the same venus and moon.. I wonder what's your mars?

my mars is in Virgo