Are you a person of depth?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by lisabethur8 on Monday, June 12, 2017 and has 24 replies.

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@Teena
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I feel deep deep down, depth is shallow. I don't know how to explain it, but shallowness n too much depth often lead to the same road n show the same things.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by bittercupcake

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Posted by bittercupcake
I agree..with elegant...

But not many wish for people...to explore depth... I can be superficial...superficial deep...and really deep... not many people get to see the really deep aspect of me... most only make it to superficial deep which is a mask

You said deep four times bitter but didn't really go into depth.

... because my depth is a secret... ☺️

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we're not mind readers.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by d0s3r
anyone can be deep many just choose not to

i think people who want to always portray themselves as deep, are more shallow than they think. it's an image. why be so afraid of superficiality?

do you understand the definition of a person with depth?

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Posted by tiziani
Right time and right place counts for a lot.

I save the depth for writing sessions or work, not for personal life and leisure time.

When I live on the shallow end and have fun, it helps renew any kind of depth I'm shooting for.

Plus I disagree with the article on one thing: I usually hear "they are a person of depth" used as damning faint praise. As in: they're cool to keep at arm's length but just don't lose ten years of your life winding up alone in a room with them.

How 'deep' is this to make people feel dumb? ?

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@Gemitati
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It's a silly concept.

How is steepness excluded shallowness?

And vise versa...

I can be feeling your pain like my own and helping you at tough moments by giving you last shirt off my back (deep enough?)

and you will have NO idea that I wouldn't do it if you were different race with me...

(how shallow is this?)

Or

I will make you chicken soup while you sick in bed and call your mother with updates on your wellbeing, hold your hand and comfort you when you are in pain and pay my hard earned cash for your meds until you recovered (deep?)

BUT

When you recovered and we have sex - I dump you because your dick is too small.

(Shallow huh?)

That's all folks! ?

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@bricklemark
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That's a great article, it's true we are fed with constant memes and shallow observations. But my schooling has not left me, l still analyse everything l touch and spread it to everyone l meet on the webz...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by tiziani

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by tiziani
Right time and right place counts for a lot.

I save the depth for writing sessions or work, not for personal life and leisure time.

When I live on the shallow end and have fun, it helps renew any kind of depth I'm shooting for.

Plus I disagree with the article on one thing: I usually hear "they are a person of depth" used as damning faint praise. As in: they're cool to keep at arm's length but just don't lose ten years of your life winding up alone in a room with them.

How 'deep' is this to make people feel dumb? ?

Lol that just means I have to work on expressing myself better

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You bet you do!

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by -Flo-

Posted by bittercupcake
I agree..with elegant...

But not many wish for people...to explore depth... I can be superficial...superficial deep...and really deep... not many people get to see the really deep aspect of me... most only make it to superficial deep which is a mask

You said deep four times bitter but didn't really go into depth.

... because my depth is a secret... ☺️

we're not mind readers.

,,,not asking you to be....my depth is only showed to those worthy..... if you dont see it...youre not worthy ... plain and simple

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a person of depth doesn't talk like that to others that they are not worthy, who do you think you are??

the queen of sheeba?

gimme a break.

anyone who thinks they are above others have no depth. shallow.

and noble queens are not loved because they talk down to others,

a person of depth has kindness and compassion and HUMILITY /humbleness.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by bittercupcake

Posted by -Flo-

Posted by bittercupcake
I agree..with elegant...

But not many wish for people...to explore depth... I can be superficial...superficial deep...and really deep... not many people get to see the really deep aspect of me... most only make it to superficial deep which is a mask

You said deep four times bitter but didn't really go into depth.

... because my depth is a secret... ☺️

we're not mind readers.

,,,not asking you to be....my depth is only showed to those worthy..... if you dont see it...youre not worthy ... plain and simple

a person of depth doesn't talk like that to others that they are not worthy, who do you think you are??

the queen of sheeba?

gimme a break.

anyone who thinks they are above others have no depth. shallow.

and noble queens are not loved because they talk down to others,

a person of depth has kindness and compassion and HUMILITY /humbleness.

Ugh... seriously... you need to get your head out of your ass for once... and learn to live a little... because obviously you didn't understand the satire I was trying to convey... and it obviously wasn't meant for you

To me...you sound like a typical Aqua whose pushing your ideals of depth ... into me.... you don't know me... yet you feel obligated to jump into a conversation that doesn't pertain to you...

If I'm shallow to you... then chances are I could care less about you... I show love and compassion to those who are vulnerable and in need... not to individuals who take advantage and misuse that love for their own selfish purposes...

Call me selfish... but I've learned to be... as far too many people have wounded and taken advtange of me... so yes... you need to prove your worth (loyalty, compassion, love, understanding)... if you wish to dig deep

... and I'm not about to change my ways for anyone... if I wish to change.. it will be on my terms after much instrospection and self understanding

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i never said you are shallow.

so why didnt you just write that all out?

instead of trying to read your mind in what you actually mean? like GO IN DEPTH. you didnt.

you just got snarky and sounded hoity toity.

if you had just went IN DEPTH......instead of pointing fingers at my astrological sun sign and calling it ideal?

anyway, that's great you feel that way that people should earn your loyalty and trust.