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Aries Venus - Territorial/Possesive/etc. of love interest?
@Rambunctious76 - I'm highly offended that you would say that.
For there is nothing low-key about my possessiveness.
For there is nothing low-key about my possessiveness.
As a Leo Venus I'm not territorial though. It seems like Aries Venus is.....is this true?
What is the fantasy running through their heads when they're interested in a person?
What is the fantasy running through their heads when they're interested in a person?
Posted by Rambunctious76I'm currently exclusively dating a Venus Aries with Sun Taurus. I'm think you may have a point about low key possessiveness but I'm still getting to know him. I would agree with the pedestal thing. I certainly feel he's put me on a pedestal but not too quickly. Naturally my Leo Mars is fully deserving of the pedestal.Posted by PearlsI can't tell you about the territorial part because I don't do that. There may be other Aries Venus who do have that, I don't know. That might be other placements in play and not just Venus.
As a Leo Venus I'm not territorial though. It seems like Aries Venus is.....is this true?
What is the fantasy running through their heads when they're interested in a person?
Aries Venus is idealistic at the first instance, and we have a tendency to put someone on a pedestal very quickly - but just as quickly that pedestal crashes when we start to see red flags.click to expand
It would be interesting to see others experiences of Aries Mars as I don't have enough to really comment on.
Posted by Pearlshttp://astrology.about.com/od/venus/qt/The-Venus-In-Aries-Man.htm
As a Leo Venus I'm not territorial though. It seems like Aries Venus is.....is this true?
What is the fantasy running through their heads when they're interested in a person?
Venus as Fighter
On the sunny side, this instinct for the fight keeps love from stagnating. He's attracted to the woman who stands up to him, and meets him head-on! His feminine ideal is the now version of the Amazon -- physically strong, street smart and self-assured. He admires a self-starter with a passion for what she does in life. A lusty libido is a must.
On the Move
A Venus in Aries man attracts by being a presence of raw vitality, ready to go after what he wants. Venus Aries tilts forward head first, when walking, as the cardinal fire sign of initiation. That means that the desired state is on edge -- not everyone's cup of tea, but very arousing to the right lover. Fire signs seek inspiration, the heat of experience, creative risk -- these attract the man with Venus in cardinal Aries.
for a man, he's attracted to a warrior woman.
Posted by Rambunctious76Okay yeah that I can understand. That's the power of the trine - we all kind of do that to an extent (Venus in Sag, Leo, and Aries) .
Aries Venus is idealistic at the first instance, and we have a tendency to put someone on a pedestal very quickly - but just as quickly that pedestal crashes when we start to see red flags.
I thought that territorial action was the result of a certain common thought like "You're interrupting my plans of seduction asshole. Back. Off." or something
Posted by Rambunctious76Hm? I want to know all your thoughts on this subject. Hell, rage rant if you want.
From my own personal experience, Leo Mars on a Scorpio is very good for a (insert sun sign here) with Aries Venus. Somewhat harmonious. Leo Venus on the other hand....click to expand
I have a Leo Mars too (Leo Venus, Leo Mars, & Leo Jupiter in my 7th house on the cusp of Cancer *also my mercury is in Cancer but in there too*).
But what's the issue with Venus in Leo when it comes to Venus in Aries? I want to know all the dirty details.
@AgentP911- Do you two have a very playful/teasing/joking relationship?
Or do you find that most of the time the relationship has a heavy and serious undertone to it?
Hopefully that makes sense.
Or do you find that most of the time the relationship has a heavy and serious undertone to it?
Hopefully that makes sense.
@lisabethur8 - Thank you m'lady.
Believe me I've googled the mess out of this placement as I usually do when I find a common factor in the people I attract.
I've seen the info you posted, I highly appreciate you taking out the time to do that though.
I've read the traits of that they find attractive but imo I don't even fit them.
I'm not loud, have a strong personality, or making plans to be on a high flying adventure.
I come off as cold (Cap asc.), quiet, stand-offish, and I think I come across as too sweet (I'm always saying please and thank you and such).
I've caught a couple of them look me up and down & stare at my stomach(?) or hips or something at first but after that stare into my face all day,
I would think by going off descriptions I would attract Venus in Cancer, Taurus, and Pisces.
I damn near never attract them. I always attract Venus in Aries (obviously), Sag, and Aqua.
Believe me I've googled the mess out of this placement as I usually do when I find a common factor in the people I attract.
I've seen the info you posted, I highly appreciate you taking out the time to do that though.
I've read the traits of that they find attractive but imo I don't even fit them.
I'm not loud, have a strong personality, or making plans to be on a high flying adventure.
I come off as cold (Cap asc.), quiet, stand-offish, and I think I come across as too sweet (I'm always saying please and thank you and such).
I've caught a couple of them look me up and down & stare at my stomach(?) or hips or something at first but after that stare into my face all day,
I would think by going off descriptions I would attract Venus in Cancer, Taurus, and Pisces.
I damn near never attract them. I always attract Venus in Aries (obviously), Sag, and Aqua.
Damn "I, I, I, me, me, me"...Tell me about yourself.
Posted by Pearlsyou're welcome.
@lisabethur8 - Thank you m'lady.
Believe me I've googled the mess out of this placement as I usually do when I find a common factor in the people I attract.
I've seen the info you posted, I highly appreciate you taking out the time to do that though.
I've read the traits of that they find attractive but imo I don't even fit them.
I'm not loud, have a strong personality, or making plans to be on a high flying adventure.
I come off as cold (Cap asc.), quiet, stand-offish, and I think I come across as too sweet (I'm always saying please and thank you and such).
I've caught a couple of them look me up and down & stare at my stomach(?) or hips or something at first but after that stare into my face all day,
I would think by going off descriptions I would attract Venus in Cancer, Taurus, and Pisces.
I damn near never attract them. I always attract Venus in Aries (obviously), Sag, and Aqua.
and you're just describing politeness in polite society. You should say "thank you"please" to a host/hostess, or when someone is serving you, it's an act of kindness.
that has nothing to do with being a warrior woman, that's just status quo.
your cap asc helps you alot in this life, so you're Lucky.
i never attract anything else but venus aries in the past. lol
i dont even attract sag venus or aqua venus. (different styles for men)
so maybe since you also attract sag and aqua venus, you give off the need and understanding of freedom?? and space.
if i recall, the aqua venus man we know in our family the pisces sun/ aqua venus/aries mars husband married to the double libra/libra venus.
she gives him ALOT of SPACE. infact, they even travel separately sometimes. my mother in law is going with the wife to several countries without the husband for a few weeks (it's for their son's schooling so there is a big reason) and the husband is staying back at the homefront working or riding his motorcycle. FREEDOM.
Posted by PearlsIt's only been six dates so still early days but we've been in contact since mid Dec last year.
@AgentP911- Do you two have a very playful/teasing/joking relationship?
Or do you find that most of the time the relationship has a heavy and serious undertone to it?
Hopefully that makes sense.
I would say it's both. It is very easy communication with playful teasing and joking but also serious too. I think the ease of communication makes the more heavier subjects less heavy. As a Scorp, heavy communication or subjects to me aren't really heavy at all. I remember trying to talk about stuff with my ex Virgo Sun, Venus and Merc, Aries Moon, Gem Mars and he would always label it as heavy even though to me it was just normal conversation.
With this new fella we can talk about anything. I recently asked him his thoughts on marriage/kids as I'm 36 and he's nearly 45. Neither have been married or have kids. I knew I could ask him without him freaking out. It was just a normal, open, honest question.
We also had a conversation about 'check lists' and what we were looking for/dating process and I actually sent him a photo of the 'list' of qualities etc I had written down last September. No one has seen it but I knew he'd be cool with it plus he ticked lots of stuff on their so it was a confidence booster for him too. Something like that which is highly personal was so natural to share.
He says he finds it easy communication as I'm so open and honest/direct.
I don't know how this relates to his Venus but he pursued me consistently and is a gentleman. I guess at the moment it just works so will see how it goes!
Posted by Rambunctious76Yeah I've had done that too.
There's really not much to say about Leo Venus in the negative sense. I get along fine with Leo Venus as friends, but when it gets to anything more than that, I find the constant demand for attention from me annoying. I've dated 3 Leo Venuses (one was a Leo Sun with Leo moon and Leo Venus), and it's like...they would do things to keep my attention on them. Bad mouth some of my friends to me (e.g your friend X ignored me when I tried to talk to her) etc.etc. Seemed as if all the bad things would happen to them when I'm not around, so it was really hard for me to gauge the truthfulness of it. Also, the need for me to agree with them in almost everything..jfc..
But that's it. On a platonic level I don't mind their need for attention, but I guess as a friend it isn't expected of me to give 100% .
Believe me they weren't lying nor trying to manipulate you. But we usually take note when someone/something is off. Disingenuous.
& if it was your friend better believe we're going to tell you the red flags. I do this to my friends (non-romantic & of the same sex) also.
We also would want for people to tell me if my friends did something like to me. It's also to warn you if that same friend wants to act all friendly again (when you're around of course)
don't be surprised if we come off cold or ignore them completely so they can't pull that victim role and put something in your head.
They wanted you to agree with them because they wanted for you two be equal . Because when we're immature we believe in our mind agreeability = compatibilty. We care about this to people we think are special and it's not just romantic. We could refrain from this even with a boyfriend we don't think is special. We want you to be the most compatible with us if we believe you are special and it's also part of the whole putting on a pedestal thing for us. Once we grow up emotionally we start truly believing you can disagree with us and it's still possible that you can deeply love us. But even now I'm kind of repelled by guys that are the TOO direct opposite of me (I like to be hot - they like to be cold, etc.). I feel opposites can attract but they can't stay together. But that little last sentence is more just my personal belief.
I know you didn't ask for the dissertation explanation but I get what you're saying and I respect it's not your cup of tea. Love the honesty.
No.. I have never been in relationship.. But I've had massive long term crushes.
I never get jealous. And obviously never felt possessive. In relationship, i may feel very possessive. But I cant imagine expressing it...not even in subtlest ways. I'll just swallow it and not bother about about such feelings.
I never get jealous. And obviously never felt possessive. In relationship, i may feel very possessive. But I cant imagine expressing it...not even in subtlest ways. I'll just swallow it and not bother about about such feelings.
@Rambunctious76 - I'm glad you can nail down what you like ! I'm still searching for such a clear idea.
I wish I could imagine a good chart for me because even when I did have one & met a guy that matched it (!!) he was too - just no.
@AgentP911 - It must be nice to be able to be so open and be well received. I'm looking for high emotional compatibility myself in a relationship and it seems you're well on your way to finding a deep connection but even that exchange sounds like a fun thing to do. One of my exes was a Venus in Aries in HS and we could talk all day and night and he always wanted more never got tired of me and didn't have the need to be a "mystery". I could literally talk to him to I feel asleep on the phone and wake up in the morning and he'd still be on the line and wake up when I said his name a couple of times. I could do the most mundane things and he stays in awe just because it's me doing it. It was like I was magical to him.
It was just free flowing and natural and it seems that way for you too.
I wish I could imagine a good chart for me because even when I did have one & met a guy that matched it (!!) he was too - just no.
@AgentP911 - It must be nice to be able to be so open and be well received. I'm looking for high emotional compatibility myself in a relationship and it seems you're well on your way to finding a deep connection but even that exchange sounds like a fun thing to do. One of my exes was a Venus in Aries in HS and we could talk all day and night and he always wanted more never got tired of me and didn't have the need to be a "mystery". I could literally talk to him to I feel asleep on the phone and wake up in the morning and he'd still be on the line and wake up when I said his name a couple of times. I could do the most mundane things and he stays in awe just because it's me doing it. It was like I was magical to him.
It was just free flowing and natural and it seems that way for you too.
@RumiL - Hey girl hey!
I don't even think the guys with this placement knows what hit them really. They can act completely out of character even for themselves I can tell.
But I'd like to hear all about how you feel once you get in one.
I don't even think the guys with this placement knows what hit them really. They can act completely out of character even for themselves I can tell.
But I'd like to hear all about how you feel once you get in one.
Posted by Rambunctious76Lol. Such feelings only complicate an easy communion, so better to keep it inside and kill such feelings as they arise.Posted by RumiLThat's your spider moon haha!
But I cant imagine expressing it...not even in subtlest ways. I'll just swallow it and not bother about about such feelings.click to expand
Are you like this too?
Posted by PearlsHii Pearls 🙂
@RumiL - Hey girl hey!
I don't even think the guys with this placement knows what hit them really. They can act completely out of character even for themselves I can tell.
But I'd like to hear all about how you feel once you get in one.
Really..hmm...i dont know any Aries Venus besides me and my friend.
My friend too has a similar chart like mine. When she gets jealous, she will cry in cold silence.. She has cancer mars ( @rambunctious76 -- ?? ) ..and she's a Capricorn moon - the moon that NEVER cries!
I will tell you haha.. But IDK. I'd just ignore such feelings. 🙂
Oh I remember.. I got very possessive of my parents once. I cried sooo much that day lol.
They were out of town for a few days. And I was eagerly waiting to see them, talk to them and all. Had everything set and ready at house. They had to arrive and I kept waiting and waiting...for sometime. Almost an hour goes by and I call them, they tell me they stopped at grandma's! It's 10 minutes away from our house, they didn't call me because it was "dark outside".. I just...went blank . . .
Said "okay" and hung up and cried so much that day. I didn't know why I felt so sad..
They were out of town for a few days. And I was eagerly waiting to see them, talk to them and all. Had everything set and ready at house. They had to arrive and I kept waiting and waiting...for sometime. Almost an hour goes by and I call them, they tell me they stopped at grandma's! It's 10 minutes away from our house, they didn't call me because it was "dark outside".. I just...went blank . . .
Said "okay" and hung up and cried so much that day. I didn't know why I felt so sad..
Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by RumiLYes, we keep the feelings to ourselves because we don't want to seem vulnerable emotionally. Although in my case for potential relationships , once the person has fallen off the pedestal, I am quick to weight the pros and cons of whether I should bother to have those feelings. And then it vanishes into thin air. There have been several occasions when I would ask myself in disbelief, "WTF was I thinking—" There have also been some occasions where I would even forget the person's name.Posted by Rambunctious76Lol. Such feelings only complicate an easy communion, so better to keep it inside and kill such feelings as they arise.Posted by RumiLThat's your spider moon haha!
But I cant imagine expressing it...not even in subtlest ways. I'll just swallow it and not bother about about such feelings.
Are you like this too?click to expand
Hmm.. So, sometimes the Scorpio-sponsored possessiveness took control of you?
Posted by PearlsYeah that's kinda how he is with me. You just described it better! It's like he's super interested in everything to do with me. Let's hope it doesn't wear off!
@Rambunctious76 - I'm glad you can nail down what you like ! I'm still searching for such a clear idea.
I wish I could imagine a good chart for me because even when I did have one & met a guy that matched it (!!) he was too - just no.
@AgentP911 - It must be nice to be able to be so open and be well received. I'm looking for high emotional compatibility myself in a relationship and it seems you're well on your way to finding a deep connection but even that exchange sounds like a fun thing to do. One of my exes was a Venus in Aries in HS and we could talk all day and night and he always wanted more never got tired of me and didn't have the need to be a "mystery". I could literally talk to him to I feel asleep on the phone and wake up in the morning and he'd still be on the line and wake up when I said his name a couple of times. I could do the most mundane things and he stays in awe just because it's me doing it. It was like I was magical to him.
It was just free flowing and natural and it seems that way for you too.
Posted by TaureyeWow! Are you my ex husband-Taurus with Venus in Aries??
I'm possessive AF, but i let it be know, ground rule don't cheat on me. As long as you adhere by that rule i won't get mad if you socialize but NO flirting. IDC if it's innocent ( i sound crazy here) But i don't do it, neither should you. But other than that have fun. Did you just touch his arm? that's it we're going home. I love you but omg wth. Hey you wanna get ice cream?
Let me run away now if you are....
One of my close friends who is a Taurus female with an Aries Venus also sticks to me like glue.
She is extremely possessive with her bf. She tells me everything...
Come to think of it there are FOUR in my life....
She is extremely possessive with her bf. She tells me everything...
Come to think of it there are FOUR in my life....
Posted by TaureyeHaha sorry I ran over to the gym and then ran some more. ‰Posted by jane84JANE84? Is THAT YOU?! Omg it's been such a long time since we parted. How are you?! You look great! Omg this is so crazy how we found each other again after all these years, almost as if its...fate....Posted by TaureyeWow! Are you my ex husband-Taurus with Venus in Aries??
I'm possessive AF, but i let it be know, ground rule don't cheat on me. As long as you adhere by that rule i won't get mad if you socialize but NO flirting. IDC if it's innocent ( i sound crazy here) But i don't do it, neither should you. But other than that have fun. Did you just touch his arm? that's it we're going home. I love you but omg wth. Hey you wanna get ice cream?
Let me run away now if you are....click to expand
Posted by TaureyeHaha that's sort of funny...except you really do sound like my ex....that "YOU WERE MINE" line.. Gives me chills. LolPosted by jane84You always were a runner. Maybe we should run back and revisit why you LEFT!? YOU WERE MINE?!Posted by TaureyeHaha sorry I ran over to the gym and then ran some more. ‰Posted by jane84JANE84? Is THAT YOU?! Omg it's been such a long time since we parted. How are you?! You look great! Omg this is so crazy how we found each other again after all these years, almost as if its...fate....Posted by TaureyeWow! Are you my ex husband-Taurus with Venus in Aries??
I'm possessive AF, but i let it be know, ground rule don't cheat on me. As long as you adhere by that rule i won't get mad if you socialize but NO flirting. IDC if it's innocent ( i sound crazy here) But i don't do it, neither should you. But other than that have fun. Did you just touch his arm? that's it we're going home. I love you but omg wth. Hey you wanna get ice cream?
Let me run away now if you are....
*i hope you read all of that and my prior response in ryan reynolds' voice*click to expand
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Being a Leo venus & mars it's not that difficult I guess.
But I noticed one thing they have in common - they're all kind of low-key territorial over me but not to my face.
I can tell they get angry when another person comes around and takes up my attention regardless of a guy or girl. They start snapping at the third party and have something like a silent attitude towards them when they're not aware I'm paying attention but all smiling and happy when talking to me.
Let me note I do not flirt nor flutter my eyelashes to any of them.
Is this normal for Aries Venus people? They all have different Suns btw.
I never seen this trait mentioned when describing Aries Venus guys.
What's this all about?