Does it mean anything if a man speaks to you everyday?

Like as in every single day all day and everyday conversation but still no commitment (Aquarius moon).. I’m trying to cut him off but I feel bad because he hates drama. It’s not working out, I’m a Pisces and I want an exclusive relationship whereas according to him he’s not sleeping with anyone else but doesn’t want to put a title on it. I just think we’re incompatible and it’s not going to work because he’s happy and I’m not. If I try to speak to him about this he doesn’t want to talk about it it’s like it’s very stressful and dramatic so we go nowhere and I’m just left to ignore him yet that doesn’t work for too long either I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to end on bad terms but it’s like he lacks communication and he won’t go away.. he’s a cancer

Posted by Clair_de_Lune

Just seem interested in him and he'll run away

Might just tell him I love him that would probably work

Posted by Klh1203

Like as in every single day all day and everyday conversation but still no commitment

How are these conversations developing, Are you nagging him??

block him

Posted by CreativeCap

Posted by Klh1203

Like as in every single day all day and everyday conversation but still no commitment

How are these conversations developing, Are you nagging him??

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I don’t nag him but I will bring it up at a certain time, for instance I went on holiday and he told me not to speak to any guys whilst I was away. So I thought I would bring it up then.

I agree with littlestar, Tell him you want A relationship or it’s over and mean it. Be confident. Don’t answer his calls or texts until he surrenders like begging to be with you. It’s best to do it now while his interest level is still high.

Posted by Gobby

Aqua mooners can be real obnoxious fuckers.

Go find yourself a water or earth mooner instead...

Honestly. I just keep attracting Aqua placements. This is not my first time dealing with them, I thought I got lucky until I saw his moon sign. Now I’m just stuck. He’s so selfish.

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I agree with littlestar, Tell him you want A relationship or it’s over and mean it. Be confident. Don’t answer his calls or texts until he surrenders like begging to be with you. It’s best to do it now while his interest level is still high.

Ok I’ll try again. Right now I’m not talking to him though need a few days (if he lets me) to just calm down and breathe.

Why are y’all not talking. Is he not responding?

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Why are y’all not talking. Is he not responding?

I don’t know I just have trust issues. Everything has to be on his term. I’ve never had any inclining he’s been seeing anyone else whilst with me but now I’m starting to doubt it. A psychic told me the other day he has an ex who he still has feelings for and that she broke his heart or something so since learning that I’ve been very cautious and tried to not let it affect my relationship with him because initially I was happy to just go with the flow because we was going well and we was happy but now I can’t stop thinking about this ex and I know how men are they sometimes will check up on an ex and it’s making me feel insecure and start to wonder if that’s why he’s not pursuing further with me. We’ve only been dating like this for 3 months so it’s still early days and I understand his Aqua moon could be the reason why he’s not putting a title on it but I still feel insecure and I need a man who’s going to be in control and never make me question what our situation is and leave me feeling like I need to step on egg shells just to keep him. If I speak to him about things regarding my feelings or a relationship he gets awkward and it’s too much for him he tries to go off topic. As I said I understand this could be from his Aquarius moon because I’ve dealt with Aquarius men before but I’m just not interested anymore like it’s too conflicting for me

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Posted by Clair_de_Lune

Just seem interested in him and he'll run away

Might just tell him I love him that would probably work

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Why don't you just tell him that you're looking for something more serious, and it since he's not interested, that you two have a difference that can only be resolved by breaking up? You'll feel good that you were honest, which is how you should be with someone you love. You'll also build trust that you could be frank with someone and achieve results that both could understand.

Posted by Marai

Coming from a Cancer Sun, Aqua Moon gal btw... When we're sure and know it, we go all in. We don't do half half.

Thank you boo.

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Posted by Clair_de_Lune

Just seem interested in him and he'll run away

Might just tell him I love him that would probably work

Why don't you just tell him that you're looking for something more serious, and it since he's not interested, that you two have a difference that can only be resolved by breaking up? You'll feel good that you were honest, which is how you should be with someone you love. You'll also build trust that you could be frank with someone and achieve results that both could understand.

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Hmm I’m done talking to him

Posted by Klh1203

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Why are y’all not talking. Is he not responding?

I don’t know I just have trust issues. Everything has to be on his term. I’ve never had any inclining he’s been seeing anyone else whilst with me but now I’m starting to doubt it. A psychic told me the other day he has an ex who he still has feelings for and that she broke his heart or something so since learning that I’ve been very cautious and tried to not let it affect my relationship with him because initially I was happy to just go with the flow because we was going well and we was happy but now I can’t stop thinking about this ex and I know how men are they sometimes will check up on an ex and it’s making me feel insecure and start to wonder if that’s why he’s not pursuing further with me. We’ve only been dating like this for 3 months so it’s still early days and I understand his Aqua moon could be the reason why he’s not putting a title on it but I still feel insecure and I need a man who’s going to be in control and never make me question what our situation is and leave me feeling like I need to step on egg shells just to keep him. If I speak to him about things regarding my feelings or a relationship he gets awkward and it’s too much for him he tries to go off topic. As I said I understand this could be from his Aquarius moon because I’ve dealt with Aquarius men before but I’m just not interested anymore like it’s too conflicting for me

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It’s your choice. I empathize with your frustration and understand how it can make you lose interest. He has already tested your patience. Just like you said, stepping on eggshells, calculating your every move just to keep him around. You know what you need and want, just be confident in your decision. It’s possible that you will bc miss him at but you will feel a sense of relief that you stood your ground and moving on to find something more fulfilling.

Posted by GirlygirlNadia

If a guy talks to me everyday I'm going to take it as he wants something if I'm already showing him I'm not interested the persistence makes me believe he is crazy 😜 srsly

Well we already have been having sex like every week lol. We’ve been seeing eachother for coming up to 4 months. I don’t know what he wants from me.

Posted by Klh1203

).. I’m trying to cut him off but I feel bad because he hates drama.

So what? Who cares what he hates? If you want to cut him off just do it. Why do women always worry about what the man wants instead of what they need.

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If a guy talks to me everyday I'm going to take it as he wants something if I'm already showing him I'm not interested the persistence makes me believe he is crazy 😜 srsly

Well we already have been having sex like every week lol. We’ve been seeing eachother for coming up to 4 months. I don’t know what he wants from me.

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Why haven't you asked him what he wants from you instead of guessing? I don't understand people who can get naked with someone but be afraid to ask them a question.

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Posted by GirlygirlNadia

If a guy talks to me everyday I'm going to take it as he wants something if I'm already showing him I'm not interested the persistence makes me believe he is crazy 😜 srsly

Well we already have been having sex like every week lol. We’ve been seeing eachother for coming up to 4 months. I don’t know what he wants from me.

Why haven't you asked him what he wants from you instead of guessing? I don't understand people who can get naked with someone but be afraid to ask them a question.

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If you read I’ve already mentioned I’ve spoken to him and cannot get a clear enough answer because he gets cold and shuts down. Which is why I’ve come here to ask what shall I do as I’m conflicted. I’m looking to see what the majority thinks so I don’t go and do something I will regret in the long run

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Posted by GirlygirlNadia

If a guy talks to me everyday I'm going to take it as he wants something if I'm already showing him I'm not interested the persistence makes me believe he is crazy 😜 srsly

Well we already have been having sex like every week lol. We’ve been seeing eachother for coming up to 4 months. I don’t know what he wants from me.

Why haven't you asked him what he wants from you instead of guessing? I don't understand people who can get naked with someone but be afraid to ask them a question.

If you read I’ve already mentioned I’ve spoken to him and cannot get a clear enough answer because he gets cold and shuts down. Which is why I’ve come here to ask what shall I do as I’m conflicted. I’m looking to see what the majority thinks so I don’t go and do something I will regret in the long run

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If he can't give you a clear and direct answer without shutting down, that is your answer. Let him go.

Talking to you everyday?

How long are these phone conversations?

I would take it as a good sign UNLESS you 2 arent on the same page.

People who are trying to build a relationship should be in constant contact preferably on the phone.

Now, there are some placement that are selfish and want your energy and emotions but none of the responsibilities.

Ask for what you want.

If he runs for the hills, you got your answer.