deckedandecker
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Posted by deckedandecker
I mean come on kids. For those of you who have never experienced one, I hope you never do and please be grateful you never do.
I am experiencing one right now and quite frankly, I feel powerless on so many occasions. It is not really that Plutonian but the fact that we have a pluto-mars double whammy on tight angles, whew buddy. It's like even when I am my higher self, aware, and composed; she gets under my skin like none other. Even when I know to control my emotions, I just cannot. It's like I hate her guts but at the same time, hate the idea of seeing other guys get her attention unless they are very important men (like her boss or something).
I have thought of her almost every day and god, it freaking sucks, it sucks bad.
So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind.
Momentarily kids, momentarily.....
Then like a hand from h3ll or like a virus, she was back. Maybe she did something, intentionally or not, to get my attention but she surely got under my skin with it. She was back and she was back for good kiddos. And that is the worst part.
Right when you think it is over, that they are out of your head and out of your thoughts, they come back.
Did ya forget about me ole chap? Did ya really think you'd move on old boy? Did ya really think you'd be over it?
Like a Satanic figure with wings and a long tongue, they smile that sinister smile in your head laughing at your attempts to rid their possession of you.
You are helpless, powerless, and then it gets even worse.
The intensity? That feeling you got? Now you are in fear. You fear that whatever relationship you have that doesn't have that intensity to it? You are going to be bored of it.
Drug addictions are healthier than this.....








Posted by Sagoxa
I'm with @Luxepurr
How old are you? It's funny how you can contradict yourself in one post..
Lazily rephrased:
"When i'm my higher self, composed, aware, I chose to ramp up my dating resume and dated dozens of girls and went to partying and drinking.
I fear that whatever relationship I have that doesn't have that intensity to it..I'm going to be bored of it."
That's some super higher self stuff right there. 🤣

Posted by bmoon8Posted by MyStarsShine
OP
You seem to be fond of creating drama
What are your placements?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-problems-14691470/?checkpg=1<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by Aquamarine_
Are Plutonian relationships really that bad?


Posted by Aquamarine_Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by Aquamarine_
Are Plutonian relationships really that bad?
No, especially if either person in the relationship has major natural Plutonian energy.
I currently like a guy and our synastry is filled to the rim of pluto contacts. I would say he has strong Plutonian energy. Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio, pluto trine moon and mars. Scorpio mercury.
I on the other hand am not so Plutonian, so Im a bit worried. Mostly worried about the moon square pluto double whammy and mars square pluto. I hear awful things about it like a relationship that is doomed from the get goclick to expand

Posted by Aquamarine_Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by Aquamarine_Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by Aquamarine_
Are Plutonian relationships really that bad?
No, especially if either person in the relationship has major natural Plutonian energy.
I currently like a guy and our synastry is filled to the rim of pluto contacts. I would say he has strong Plutonian energy. Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio, pluto trine moon and mars. Scorpio mercury.
I on the other hand am not so Plutonian, so Im a bit worried. Mostly worried about the moon square pluto double whammy and mars square pluto. I hear awful things about it like a relationship that is doomed from the get go
Well I wouldn't worry so much unless you guys actually start a relationship. I'm pretty Pluto heavy and I have Mars-Pluto square with my Gem but we fit together best. Try to let things happen as they will. 🙂
Thank you that makes me feel a bit more relieved lol
Most interpretations Ive read of mars square pluto say it indicates violence or abuse. Do you feel any negative effects of it? And if you don’t me asking have you guys been together for a while? I love hearing real life experiences of synastry aspectsclick to expand

Posted by Aquamarine_Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by Aquamarine_Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by Aquamarine_
Are Plutonian relationships really that bad?
No, especially if either person in the relationship has major natural Plutonian energy.
I currently like a guy and our synastry is filled to the rim of pluto contacts. I would say he has strong Plutonian energy. Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio, pluto trine moon and mars. Scorpio mercury.
I on the other hand am not so Plutonian, so Im a bit worried. Mostly worried about the moon square pluto double whammy and mars square pluto. I hear awful things about it like a relationship that is doomed from the get go
Well I wouldn't worry so much unless you guys actually start a relationship. I'm pretty Pluto heavy and I have Mars-Pluto square with my Gem but we fit together best. Try to let things happen as they will. 🙂
Thank you that makes me feel a bit more relieved lol
Most interpretations Ive read of mars square pluto say it indicates violence or abuse. Do you feel any negative effects of it? And if you don’t me asking have you guys been together for a while? I love hearing real life experiences of synastry aspectsclick to expand




Posted by deckedandecker
I mean come on kids. For those of you who have never experienced one, I hope you never do and please be grateful you never do.
I am experiencing one right now and quite frankly, I feel powerless on so many occasions. It is not really that Plutonian but the fact that we have a pluto-mars double whammy on tight angles, whew buddy. It's like even when I am my higher self, aware, and composed; she gets under my skin like none other. Even when I know to control my emotions, I just cannot. It's like I hate her guts but at the same time, hate the idea of seeing other guys get her attention unless they are very important men (like her boss or something).
I have thought of her almost every day and god, it freaking sucks, it sucks bad.
So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind.
Momentarily kids, momentarily.....
Then like a hand from h3ll or like a virus, she was back. Maybe she did something, intentionally or not, to get my attention but she surely got under my skin with it. She was back and she was back for good kiddos. And that is the worst part.
Right when you think it is over, that they are out of your head and out of your thoughts, they come back.
Did ya forget about me ole chap? Did ya really think you'd move on old boy? Did ya really think you'd be over it?
Like a Satanic figure with wings and a long tongue, they smile that sinister smile in your head laughing at your attempts to rid their possession of you.
You are helpless, powerless, and then it gets even worse.
The intensity? That feeling you got? Now you are in fear. You fear that whatever relationship you have that doesn't have that intensity to it? You are going to be bored of it.
Drug addictions are healthier than this.....

Posted by bmoon8Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by deckedandecker
I mean come on kids. For those of you who have never experienced one, I hope you never do and please be grateful you never do.
I am experiencing one right now and quite frankly, I feel powerless on so many occasions. It is not really that Plutonian but the fact that we have a pluto-mars double whammy on tight angles, whew buddy. It's like even when I am my higher self, aware, and composed; she gets under my skin like none other. Even when I know to control my emotions, I just cannot. It's like I hate her guts but at the same time, hate the idea of seeing other guys get her attention unless they are very important men (like her boss or something).
I have thought of her almost every day and god, it freaking sucks, it sucks bad.
So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind.
Momentarily kids, momentarily.....
Then like a hand from h3ll or like a virus, she was back. Maybe she did something, intentionally or not, to get my attention but she surely got under my skin with it. She was back and she was back for good kiddos. And that is the worst part.
Right when you think it is over, that they are out of your head and out of your thoughts, they come back.
Did ya forget about me ole chap? Did ya really think you'd move on old boy? Did ya really think you'd be over it?
Like a Satanic figure with wings and a long tongue, they smile that sinister smile in your head laughing at your attempts to rid their possession of you.
You are helpless, powerless, and then it gets even worse.
The intensity? That feeling you got? Now you are in fear. You fear that whatever relationship you have that doesn't have that intensity to it? You are going to be bored of it.
Drug addictions are healthier than this.....
" So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind."
^^Meaning you ran🏃 and ran HARD instead of confronting the issues she brought to the surface.
Yes I know about those kind of relationships firsthand.
That is what Pluto can do. Brings aspects of ones self to the surface forcefully by super charging it and making you. Aware of it and having to deal with it. Literally one way or another, the good, bad, and ugly 😂
And in return you get raw intensity and passionate connection. It's one hell of a ride.
I feel that the personal planets in aspects to Pluto in synastry, such as the sun, shine the light on Pluto.click to expand



Posted by bmoon8Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by bmoon8Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by deckedandecker
I mean come on kids. For those of you who have never experienced one, I hope you never do and please be grateful you never do.
I am experiencing one right now and quite frankly, I feel powerless on so many occasions. It is not really that Plutonian but the fact that we have a pluto-mars double whammy on tight angles, whew buddy. It's like even when I am my higher self, aware, and composed; she gets under my skin like none other. Even when I know to control my emotions, I just cannot. It's like I hate her guts but at the same time, hate the idea of seeing other guys get her attention unless they are very important men (like her boss or something).
I have thought of her almost every day and god, it freaking sucks, it sucks bad.
So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind.
Momentarily kids, momentarily.....
Then like a hand from h3ll or like a virus, she was back. Maybe she did something, intentionally or not, to get my attention but she surely got under my skin with it. She was back and she was back for good kiddos. And that is the worst part.
Right when you think it is over, that they are out of your head and out of your thoughts, they come back.
Did ya forget about me ole chap? Did ya really think you'd move on old boy? Did ya really think you'd be over it?
Like a Satanic figure with wings and a long tongue, they smile that sinister smile in your head laughing at your attempts to rid their possession of you.
You are helpless, powerless, and then it gets even worse.
The intensity? That feeling you got? Now you are in fear. You fear that whatever relationship you have that doesn't have that intensity to it? You are going to be bored of it.
Drug addictions are healthier than this.....
" So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind."
^^Meaning you ran🏃 and ran HARD instead of confronting the issues she brought to the surface.
Yes I know about those kind of relationships firsthand.
That is what Pluto can do. Brings aspects of ones self to the surface forcefully by super charging it and making you. Aware of it and having to deal with it. Literally one way or another, the good, bad, and ugly 😂
And in return you get raw intensity and passionate connection. It's one hell of a ride.
I feel that the personal planets in aspects to Pluto in synastry, such as the sun, shine the light on Pluto.
Yes the sun can bring awareness of Pluto as well as pluto can force awareness of the sun in a person. Everything is a 2-way street.
Pluto pushes. Whether in the end it turns out to be beneficial is really dependent on the people's mentality. Which is why I really dislike people giving Pluto shit by default.
Pluto is yin. Super yin. While the sun may shine light, Pluto pulls the Sun in.click to expand

Posted by bmoon8Posted by PuzzlePieces
Lol is something in the air? Cap is making another try 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ I need to stop being nice to him. That doesn’t mean I want to get back together.
Just let go already!
https://www.dxpnet.com/capricorn-forum/why-now--14773633/<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by VenusAquarius
I have been in a Plutonian relationships for 26 years, LOL, and it's quite intense. It was best at the beginning and now. I am Pluto and always Pluto in all romantic relationships.
Here are our major Pluto aspects (this as not all of them). What makes it so intense is my husband also has these two aspects in this natal chart.
Venus Conjunction Pluto Orb 0°
Moon Square Pluto Orb 0°
This one is actually quite financially destructive in a "mean no harm" sweet way.
Pluto Opposite Sun Orb 5°13'
What's more he has Venus in Libra exalted in the 7th House and Pluto in the 7th...that's intense... He also has Mars in Aries/Taurus cusp in the first as an Aries Ascendent with me being an Aries.
So, this as quite Plutonian. DXP is too virgin for these tales, lol. What the OP describes is applesauce.
While in the thick of, it sometimes it felt like a Lifetime movie to me. But, when describing to others, they say awwww, how romantic.

Posted by bmoon8Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by bmoon8Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by bmoon8Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by deckedandecker
I mean come on kids. For those of you who have never experienced one, I hope you never do and please be grateful you never do.
I am experiencing one right now and quite frankly, I feel powerless on so many occasions. It is not really that Plutonian but the fact that we have a pluto-mars double whammy on tight angles, whew buddy. It's like even when I am my higher self, aware, and composed; she gets under my skin like none other. Even when I know to control my emotions, I just cannot. It's like I hate her guts but at the same time, hate the idea of seeing other guys get her attention unless they are very important men (like her boss or something).
I have thought of her almost every day and god, it freaking sucks, it sucks bad.
So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind.
Momentarily kids, momentarily.....
Then like a hand from h3ll or like a virus, she was back. Maybe she did something, intentionally or not, to get my attention but she surely got under my skin with it. She was back and she was back for good kiddos. And that is the worst part.
Right when you think it is over, that they are out of your head and out of your thoughts, they come back.
Did ya forget about me ole chap? Did ya really think you'd move on old boy? Did ya really think you'd be over it?
Like a Satanic figure with wings and a long tongue, they smile that sinister smile in your head laughing at your attempts to rid their possession of you.
You are helpless, powerless, and then it gets even worse.
The intensity? That feeling you got? Now you are in fear. You fear that whatever relationship you have that doesn't have that intensity to it? You are going to be bored of it.
Drug addictions are healthier than this.....
" So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind."
^^Meaning you ran🏃 and ran HARD instead of confronting the issues she brought to the surface.
Yes I know about those kind of relationships firsthand.
That is what Pluto can do. Brings aspects of ones self to the surface forcefully by super charging it and making you. Aware of it and having to deal with it. Literally one way or another, the good, bad, and ugly 😂
And in return you get raw intensity and passionate connection. It's one hell of a ride.
I feel that the personal planets in aspects to Pluto in synastry, such as the sun, shine the light on Pluto.
Yes the sun can bring awareness of Pluto as well as pluto can force awareness of the sun in a person. Everything is a 2-way street.
Pluto pushes. Whether in the end it turns out to be beneficial is really dependent on the people's mentality. Which is why I really dislike people giving Pluto shit by default.
Pluto is yin. Super yin. While the sun may shine light, Pluto pulls the Sun in.
You can learn a lot by experiencing plutonic connections.
If something is cracked Pluto will break it.
You can turn put it nack together.
If you are ignoring or ignorate of something, Pluto will bring it to light.
Then you can change it.
If you desire something, Pluto will dial it up a notch.
Then you will have to face it.
As I see this and many things, It's all about cause and effect. Something deeper and more true then simply the "good" and "bad" labels.
I experience them on the daily with the Pluto in Libra generation because majority of my personal planets are in cardinal signs. This forms hard aspects. Some are better than the others.click to expand

Posted by Aquamarine_
Are Plutonian relationships really that bad?
Posted by bmoon8
In the case of Pluto/Mars contacts... Pluto is yin attracting and pulling in Mars, the hunter, warrior, gatherer. Mars is yang.

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I am experiencing one right now and quite frankly, I feel powerless on so many occasions. It is not really that Plutonian but the fact that we have a pluto-mars double whammy on tight angles, whew buddy. It's like even when I am my higher self, aware, and composed; she gets under my skin like none other. Even when I know to control my emotions, I just cannot. It's like I hate her guts but at the same time, hate the idea of seeing other guys get her attention unless they are very important men (like her boss or something).
I have thought of her almost every day and god, it freaking sucks, it sucks bad.
So I did everything in my power. I ramped up my dating app profile and got matches out the wazoo. I went on dates with many many different women in the past month. I reconnected with old friends and started my life style of drinking and partying. I was done with her, so done with her, she was momentarily out of my mind.
Momentarily kids, momentarily.....
Then like a hand from h3ll or like a virus, she was back. Maybe she did something, intentionally or not, to get my attention but she surely got under my skin with it. She was back and she was back for good kiddos. And that is the worst part.
Right when you think it is over, that they are out of your head and out of your thoughts, they come back.
Did ya forget about me ole chap? Did ya really think you'd move on old boy? Did ya really think you'd be over it?
Like a Satanic figure with wings and a long tongue, they smile that sinister smile in your head laughing at your attempts to rid their possession of you.
You are helpless, powerless, and then it gets even worse.
The intensity? That feeling you got? Now you are in fear. You fear that whatever relationship you have that doesn't have that intensity to it? You are going to be bored of it.
Drug addictions are healthier than this.....