Noncommittal but jealous Pisces

Posted by Jamiejean1021
So I've been 'dating' my Pisces best friend for the past couple of months. Having been friends with him for so long, I've always known him to be the 'hit-it-and-quit-it' type of guy. Incredibly charming, respectful, and polite to women, but is just looking for casual sex. This is why I was shocked when he approached me about his feelings for me and wanting to give us a shot. We've been dating since the end of January (although he refuses to call it that) he's very giving in the bedroom, still as caring as he was as my friend (brings me medicine when I'm sick, pays for dinner, etc.) I get good morning texts every day. But there's times when he pulls away and I'll just get short one word answers. My natural response is to follow suite and pull away too (I'm a libra/Scorpio cusp) but then he turns it into this "do you not want to be friends anymore?" "You seem distant" and ultimately "I know you were out with another guy, you're replacing me!"

Again, HE'S the one who freaked out when I referred to us as dating. I am familiar with Pisces and the back and forth crap they do... but I'm not use to the jealousy.

My question here is can I expect him to ever take the next step in admitting that we are more serious than he likes to pretend, and is jealousy a sign that he's realizing that and afraid of losing me... or is it just more moody water sign stuff.

Posted by Jamiejean1021
I posted this on the Pisces board but I'm trying to see if I have more luck in responses here:

Posted by Jamiejean1021
So I've been 'dating' my Pisces best friend for the past couple of months. Having been friends with him for so long, I've always known him to be the 'hit-it-and-quit-it' type of guy. Incredibly charming, respectful, and polite to women, but is just looking for casual sex. This is why I was shocked when he approached me about his feelings for me and wanting to give us a shot. We've been dating since the end of January (although he refuses to call it that) he's very giving in the bedroom, still as caring as he was as my friend (brings me medicine when I'm sick, pays for dinner, etc.) I get good morning texts every day. But there's times when he pulls away and I'll just get short one word answers. My natural response is to follow suite and pull away too (I'm a libra/Scorpio cusp) but then he turns it into this "do you not want to be friends anymore?" "You seem distant" and ultimately "I know you were out with another guy, you're replacing me!"

Again, HE'S the one who freaked out when I referred to us as dating. I am familiar with Pisces and the back and forth crap they do... but I'm not use to the jealousy.

My question here is can I expect him to ever take the next step in admitting that we are more serious than he likes to pretend, and is jealousy a sign that he's realizing that and afraid of losing me... or is it just more moody water sign stuff.

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