Venus/Pluto Aspects - Synastry

Does anyone or has anyone had this with someone else? Hard or soft aspects?

If so were you the venus or the pluto, what was the aspect and how did it feel?

Posted by Koniuchaa
I have experienced the conjunction and square. I was Venus in both. I will say that Pluto wants and tries to control.

Did it work out long term? Also, did you find the pluto trying to control was subconcious? Not in a very obvious way?

Posted by Arielle83
Square. I was the Pluto.

What was meant to happen?

How was the relationship? Did it feel obsessive and or intense in any way?

Just curious about this aspect. I'm venus and they are pluto. Trine. Just wanting to see others' experiences

Posted by nats
Does anyone or has anyone had this with someone else? Hard or soft aspects?

If so were you the venus or the pluto, what was the aspect and how did it feel?

My Taurus (SO). We also have Venus-Pluto (trine) double whammy each side.

Anyways, we discussed marriage today. Seems like we both agree we were meant for each other. Maybe it's our Venus-Pluton(double whammy) "OR" that we also have Venus-Mars (double whammy). Also a Venus-ASC conjunction as well one-way...

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Posted by Arielle83
Square. I was the Pluto.

What was meant to happen?

How was the relationship? Did it feel obsessive and or intense in any way?

Just curious about this aspect. I'm venus and they are pluto. Trine. Just wanting to see others' experiences

He kept telling me he was falling in love with me.

He said he is amazingly sexually attracted to me.

Didn't want any guy talking to me.

Wanted to be exclusive quick.

I ran and told him not exclusive, wanted to wait it out cuz I wasn't sure if he was sincere.

I wanted casual.

Then he ran and is telling our mutual frievds that I was obsessed with him.

I did like the sex a lot.

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You're always in complicated, obsessive situations

I was venus in venus conjunct pluto. Pluto changed what I wanted in a relationship (so typical). I used to want deep, passionate, intense relationships, but after him I realized that a relationship where you grow and that's based off of respect of one another is the one that lasts and one that you need. I admired his dedication and loyalty. He gave me insight to beauty and told me that there will always be someone prettier or smarter, that you just kind of settle. He changed how I viewed older people as friends, it could happen. I realized that I might have been shrugging off some good people based off of their looks.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Lilianni

Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by Arielle83
Square. I was the Pluto.

What was meant to happen?

How was the relationship? Did it feel obsessive and or intense in any way?

Just curious about this aspect. I'm venus and they are pluto. Trine. Just wanting to see others' experiences

He kept telling me he was falling in love with me.

He said he is amazingly sexually attracted to me.

Didn't want any guy talking to me.

Wanted to be exclusive quick.

I ran and told him not exclusive, wanted to wait it out cuz I wasn't sure if he was sincere.

I wanted casual.

Then he ran and is telling our mutual frievds that I was obsessed with him.

I did like the sex a lot.

You're always in complicated, obsessive situations

Someone told me it's my Mars square Saturn and Venus square Uranus.

Help

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Idk I think it's mars square pluto. I have venus square uranus and if anything, it makes friendships/relationships complicated. *shrug*

Posted by Lilianni
I was venus in venus conjunct pluto. Pluto changed what I wanted in a relationship (so typical). I used to want deep, passionate, intense relationships, but after him I realized that a relationship where you grow and that's based off of respect of one another is the one that lasts and one that you need. I admired his dedication and loyalty. He gave me insight to beauty and told me that there will always be someone prettier or smarter, that you just kind of settle. He changed how I viewed older people as friends, it could happen. I realized that I might have been shrugging off some good people based off of their looks.

WOW! that's a pretty heavy observation. my SO and I are both introverted. we started off with "passion" and simmered, but we're so comfortable together that it's uncanny. we're both earth signs and i think that we value home life made it easier for us. we have a 10+ age gap, but i find it works for us and where we are in our life stages.

my question to you is that "are relationships that you become final on; that you met your soulmate considered "settling" ? after all you found a person that fills a void. do we still desire passion for someone new or grave for another "soulmate" connection?

Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by Arielle83

Square. I was the Pluto.

What was meant to happen?

How was the relationship? Did it feel obsessive and or intense in any way?

Just curious about this aspect. I'm venus and they are pluto. Trine. Just wanting to see others' experiences

He kept telling me he was falling in love with me.

He said he is amazingly sexually attracted to me.

Didn't want any guy talking to me.

Wanted to be exclusive quick.

I ran and told him not exclusive, wanted to wait it out cuz I wasn't sure if he was sincere.

I wanted casual.

Then he ran and is telling our mutual frievds that I was obsessed with him.

I did like the sex a lot.

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U were pluto or venus