@Stensco21
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What are signs someone is cheating on you?
Signs Someone Is Cheating on You
Common signs include sudden changes in behavior, secrecy, increased distance, and unexplained absences. Trust your intuition and observe patterns that may indicate infidelity. Communication is key to addressing concerns and confirming suspicions.
Yea how do you know someone is cheating?
Okay well signs a cancer man is cheating on you ?
Make up stains on the t shirt, or underwear not yours.
Lol other signs cheat too
Pisces Leo! That's a cool mix! Never thought of that
Yea
Taking the phone to the bathroom?
What about if he has cousin that ain't really his cousin lol
Posted by Stensco21
Taking the phone to the bathroom?
Not exactly. I take my phone to the bathroom. Not cheating.
1. Not as emotionally expressive as before
2. a change in sexual habits with you
3. Acting distant
4. Aloofness
5. Guarded or more guarded with phone
Lol yes true
If you have a feeling to believe he is cheating, he probably is.
yes I believe is sneaky troll
Lol what about if he gets pissed if you just bring it up?
Yea I did accuse lol
Posted by Stensco21
What about if he has cousin that ain't really his cousin lol
In the context of your original post that is scarily specific, a little bit creepy and a whole other kettle of fish @_@
I've been cheated on a LOT and never pegged on coz I'm a trusting idiot and have a lot to learn, my instincts were always good tho.
But in hindsight, behavioural changes, working later, less spare cash, no sexual appetite etc etc
Could be depression, could be cheating ~shrug~ it isn't good to speculate - you need to communicate.
No just once when I brought it up
Your gut...
Well he has had a life long friend who he calls his cousin he looks bored by her but she seems a little shady and catty
These "signs" sound like personal experience & projections.
Lol wow. Yea his phone goes off in the middle of the night and he didn't use to take it to the barhroom and he started to few days ago. So I creeped his messages after he fell asleep and apparently he had Been texting some girl but it's supposedly an old friend. She said do you have company? And he said no and I wasn't there that night l. So um yea I accused him. It was late at night too
I know but he's still lying and trying to make me look crazy. It's only been a month of dating so I'm not that attached. I left at two in the morning. He blew my phone up and I said bye! Lol nice to know you n he tried to act like I was crazy but the text were really flirty and he told me he had been talking to a girl before me who didn't want him and he told her about me and after that she got jealous and stepped her game up. She's not very cute or educated and from what I understand she used him and cheated but he prb is more attached to her then me and they can have each other. I was kind of settling anyway and would have had to carry his weight. He was a cancer and complained and was moody. He had a Sagittarius moon though so it was really high highs and low lows. Kind of a weird mix of energy of you ask me.
Posted by Stensco21
Lol wow. Yea his phone goes off in the middle of the night and he didn't use to take it to the barhroom and he started to few days ago. So I creeped his messages after he fell asleep and apparently he had Been texting some girl but it's supposedly an old friend. She said do you have company? And he said no and I wasn't there that night l. So um yea I accused him. It was late at night too
So now that you know what's up, what are you gonna do—
Posted by Stensco21
Taking the phone to the bathroom?Not exactly. I take my phone to the bathroom. Not cheating.
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😆! You don't have to answer, but I'm wondering why?
Posted by Stensco21
Taking the phone to the bathroom?Not exactly. I take my phone to the bathroom. Not cheating.
😆! You don't have to answer, but I'm wondering why?
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Habit, lol.
All of these responses can be explained away with legitimate answers so... really?
Well during the phone conversation he said why didn't you just wake me up and at least fight about it and I said because there's nothing to fight about. I won't ever trust him or be able to get close to him after that. Especially knowing he has that big tall big bird girl lurking around in the background looking for some attention. And he's not gonna make me look dumb. After she found out about me she started posting hotter pics on Facebook and trying to out do me. Once a girl gets competition she ain't letting go. She didn't have that before. And I'm not that into him to fight so maybe it's a good thing. I was having doubts any way cuz he sucks with money and lies and steals. Just little lies here and there and stealing. Just not my kind of person and he was racist which is so ignorant to me. So I just wanted to make sure I really didn't jump the gun, but I don't think I did like he tried to act like. I blocked his number the next day and then unblocked it in case he wanted to try and talk just like hey it's over here's your shit back type thing but it's been Thursday and he I bet he feels dumb he got busted like that too!
Posted by RealTalk
These "signs" sound like personal experience & projections.Wow you're really smart
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Is that sarcasm I smell? 🤔🤔🤔
Posted by Stensco21
It's only been a month of dating so I'm not that attached....
Yeah, you had me sold on moving on after this...
Too much wondering "what he may be doing" for only a month of dating. Many more men out there that won't make you wonder.
And this isn't the cousin in talking about this is a different girl lurking
Yea it's just annoying honesty he put me through grade school old player tricks lol
Posted by Stensco21
Well during the phone conversation he said why didn't you just wake me up and at least fight about it and I said because there's nothing to fight about. I won't ever trust him or be able to get close to him after that. Especially knowing he has that big tall big bird girl lurking around in the background looking for some attention. And he's not gonna make me look dumb. After she found out about me she started posting hotter pics on Facebook and trying to out do me. Once a girl gets competition she ain't letting go. She didn't have that before. And I'm not that into him to fight so maybe it's a good thing. I was having doubts any way cuz he sucks with money and lies and steals. Just little lies here and there and stealing. Just not my kind of person and he was racist which is so ignorant to me. So I just wanted to make sure I really didn't jump the gun, but I don't think I did like he tried to act like. I blocked his number the next day and then unblocked it in case he wanted to try and talk just like hey it's over here's your shit back type thing but it's been Thursday and he I bet he feels dumb he got busted like that too!
It's only been a month. I wouldn't take him seriously.
What do you rmesn?
Posted by RealTalk
These "signs" sound like personal experience & projections.Wow you're really smart
Is that sarcasm I smell? 🤔🤔🤔
Hhhh no ..I'm just playing with you 😛
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I know...‰œ
Mean?
A month of dating. That's not shit. That's still very casual to me. You two need to get to know each other more. A MONTH of dating is a very short time & usually people still have there options open.
Well I mean to me. Some people may think 1 month is enough.
Yes but we were really drunk most of the time so I hair kind of wanted the train wreck to end
One month is enough to pick up a persons character and I didn't like it
Posted by Stensco21
One month is enough to pick up a persons character and I didn't like it
So don't fuck with him then.
I know
Posted by Stensco21
Well during the phone conversation he said why didn't you just wake me up and at least fight about it and I said because there's nothing to fight about. I won't ever trust him or be able to get close to him after that. Especially knowing he has that big tall big bird girl lurking around in the background looking for some attention. And he's not gonna make me look dumb. After she found out about me she started posting hotter pics on Facebook and trying to out do me. Once a girl gets competition she ain't letting go. She didn't have that before. And I'm not that into him to fight so maybe it's a good thing. I was having doubts any way cuz he sucks with money and lies and steals. Just little lies here and there and stealing. Just not my kind of person and he was racist which is so ignorant to me. So I just wanted to make sure I really didn't jump the gun, but I don't think I did like he tried to act like. I blocked his number the next day and then unblocked it in case he wanted to try and talk just like hey it's over here's your shit back type thing but it's been Thursday and he I bet he feels dumb he got busted like that too!
Which is it? Is she big bird it hot? You sound petty putting her down when your real issue is with the man you're sharing a pillow with not some random. Not to mention you're coming up a list of things that are wrong with him, yet making his possible cheating the issue. Either work it out with him or move on, but dissing her is beneath you. No need to be that woman.
PS. He sounds like drama looking for an ego stroke. And can he be accused of "cheating" after a "month of dating"? I may have missed where you said you two were in an exclusive relationship. Just be glad to be rid of him.
Oh you just trying to argue wahhh
But yea he's looking for an ego stroke you're right but she does look like big bird
Posted by Stensco21
Oh you just trying to argue wahhh
No. I'm just really sarcastic, but it was a legitimate question. She's irrelevant, so are her looks. No need to go there. She was never the issue. He was. You found out early so you can cut your losses.
You know what I'm trying to say. Never lower yourself to that level. Just my 2 cents.
Yea but she still look like big bird but I get it lol but looks don't matter if u have a coknection
Connection ugh
He is cute though. So that sucks
She tried to make herself hotter than her previous pics like she became a model over night on Facebook after he told her about me. Copying my poses and stuff is what I meant
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