What does it mean when a guy goes back and forth between two ex's?

What does it mean when a guy goes back and forth between two ex's?

Posted by drunkghost
intimacy/relationship/commitment issues come to mind

What do you mean?

Posted by drunkghost

Posted by Stensco21

Posted by drunkghost
intimacy/relationship/commitment issues come to mind

What do you mean?

has issues moving on/letting go if he's the type to jump from relationship into another relationship he is unaware of himself needs to get in touch with who he is especially toying with peoples emotions

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Exactly

One has his heart, one has his dick

Boredom really

His dick is speaking much louder then his mind.

They're letting him.

Wtf.

Posted by Soul
His dick is speaking much louder then his mind.

What do you mean?

He says the other is dumb sucks in bed and the other he is "obsessed" with but doesn't trust. So is the first one just security?

Posted by Montgomery
They're letting him.

Wtf.

lol

some men not all, some...

will want to get away with that.

some are super honest and upfront about it,

being honest and saying, "I want two women, what say you? you for it? No lies okay, just you and me and sally over there."

"...."

lol

Posted by Stensco21
He says the other is dumb sucks in bed and the other he is "obsessed" with but doesn't trust. So is the first one just security?

sounds like a scared motherfucker.

in short, cowardly.

Posted by Stensco21

Posted by Soul
His dick is speaking much louder then his mind.

What do you mean?

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I guess I can't say his dick is speaking louder then this mind for all men. It could also be emotional turmoil, or a case of indecisiveness. He certainly isn't letting his mind speak though, because if he did he would realize the drama isn't worth the effort and pick one or neither.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery
They're letting him.

Wtf.

lol

some men not all, some...

will want to get away with that.

some are super honest and upfront about it,

being honest and saying, "I want two women, what say you? you for it? No lies okay, just you and me and sally over there."

"...."

lol

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Lol

He's weak and sentimental

Posted by SugeredSap
He's weak and sentimental

Very weak

Posted by Miaou
He cares for / loves both equally ... As in he doesn't.

Righttt

Posted by Soul

Posted by Stensco21

Posted by Soul
His dick is speaking much louder then his mind.

What do you mean?

I guess I can't say his dick is speaking louder then this mind for all men. It could also be emotional turmoil, or a case of indecisiveness. He certainly isn't letting his mind speak though, because if he did he would realize the drama isn't worth the effort and pick one or neither.

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It's to much work I don't get it

Posted by Stensco21

Posted by Soul

Posted by Stensco21

Posted by Soul
His dick is speaking much louder then his mind.

What do you mean?

I guess I can't say his dick is speaking louder then this mind for all men. It could also be emotional turmoil, or a case of indecisiveness. He certainly isn't letting his mind speak though, because if he did he would realize the drama isn't worth the effort and pick one or neither.

It's to much work I don't get it

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Sorry.

There is no real easy way to explain it then. You'd need to somewhat understand the psychology of humans to a small degree to get it.

He will end up marrying a third girl.

Hoes that get scared

I'm with an Aquariusfor 3 years and in this span many times I saw some flirty behaviour of his to some other ladies on his social media but he said that it wasn't him but his friends. He gave me the same reason for many chats and I trusted him. Now on my birthday he became so touchy to my best friend in front of me. He touched her in various parts of hers and that's all in front of my eyes. And, then he explained that he took a revenge from me to make me realise how it feels to get hurt becz 2 years back my ex tried to touch me and I said nothing but walked out of the room. My aqua man scolded me a lot that why I didn't repelled. I want to know if all he did was cheating or not. If he's loyal to me or not. He says he loves me a lot and also cares for me, pampers me a lot. It's been 3 years and we know each otherbut I don't know whether he's loyal or cheating?

If they're both aware that this is happening and are choosing to settle for him then why should he change?

People do remarkable things if left unchecked and with no appropriate boundaries and they're allowing this to happen. If they are that is. In any case its sad but nothing for third parties to do. Its their own twisted triangle of tragedy.