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I've never done 11 years hard time with someone but I'd be wondering: why is she scared to lose you? That's your first problem.

No one who's afraid is going to put effort into seducing you, at least not for the right reasons.

according to her she loves me and she wont find someone better than me
Lol i meant what is the source of her fear in this relationship.

Not the literal explanation she gave you, but that's funny

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well when i broke up with her she didnt know that i've been holding back what i really feel all those years,she thought she knew me but then im really not good at communicating my feelings so when i cant take it anymore and i snap thats when i told her all about it,its been hell since i dont really know how but i didnt back down even if its so hard for me i explain it to her after that she felt like someone just pounce on her head,how she is so wrong and how she has taken me for granted and she asked for forgiveness and a 2nd chance,it took 10months when i decided to give her another chance,i've been good in communicating what i feel now but she fears that even if im telling her im leaving out something important again and might snap again and break up with her when i cant take it anymore so she always ask me "is that really how you honestly feel?pls dont hide anything from me now even if its very difficult explain it to me and ill try very hard to understand you,i dont want you to break up with again because of pent up frustration(i dont know if this helps in answering your question) i tried haha!
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕

What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.



its only been two months so your still in that stage,shes a scorp with leeb moon,venus in sag,mars in leeb


I dated a Scorpio and he was not romantic at all

How would you describe the stages of a relationship for an aqua?

she wasnt when we started then all of the blue she copies me and reciprocate the surprise thing,i do the romantic surprise thing every monthsary for 11yrs but the problem is now we already now when something is up we cant surprise each other now😄,its 2months with your aqua so your like a friend he expects you to be there whenever his not busy so keep doing what your doing be patient with him but let him feel your there whenever he needs you
Hmm think outside of the box. There’s other ways to surprise each other. Would it be a good idea to mail him a surprise gift? I have no idea what. Just something to make him happy. He’d have no idea it’s coming. Thank you for your advice I will continue to be patient.

when i got a book its like christmas but i do love to read,honestly anything that you give will be appreciated makes us feel special you know him better but if your going to give him something do it personally
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You’re easy to shop for!! I bought him a very nice pen engraved with his name and his new company name that he’s been sooo busy at. I hope he likes it!
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Hmmm my aqua bf has been distant too
Why don't u have a talk with him. I told my aqua the min u wanna end shyt don't pull no disapearing acts just tell me. We are both grown and I don't have the energy.
I asked him Friday if he’s still interested in dating me. He said yes. He’s very busy with work. But he has been for weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot.

sorry for that we aquas work really hard, i've been doing the same with her right now she understand,but sometimes i want her to be spontaneous surprise me with something romantic😕

What’s her sign? Maybe she’s just trying to be respectful towards you. She doesn’t know you want that. It’s okay I respect guys who work a lot but it makes me wonder if he really does like me. We’ve only been dating for almost 2 months.



its only been two months so your still in that stage,shes a scorp with leeb moon,venus in sag,mars in leeb


I dated a Scorpio and he was not romantic at all

How would you describe the stages of a relationship for an aqua?

she wasnt when we started then all of the blue she copies me and reciprocate the surprise thing,i do the romantic surprise thing every monthsary for 11yrs but the problem is now we already now when something is up we cant surprise each other now😄,its 2months with your aqua so your like a friend he expects you to be there whenever his not busy so keep doing what your doing be patient with him but let him feel your there whenever he needs you
Hmm think outside of the box. There’s other ways to surprise each other. Would it be a good idea to mail him a surprise gift? I have no idea what. Just something to make him happy. He’d have no idea it’s coming. Thank you for your advice I will continue to be patient.

when i got a book its like christmas but i do love to read,honestly anything that you give will be appreciated makes us feel special you know him better but if your going to give him something do it personally
You’re easy to shop for!! I bought him a very nice pen engraved with his name and his new company name that he’s been sooo busy at. I hope he likes it!
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i like me some pillows right now too😂,yes he would appreciate it and he will remember you everytime he uses that pen hehe
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Posted by Capmercury87
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I've been thru this before.

It wasn't a desire to be single, that's just the feeling of existing. I left my s.o. to follow that feeling and it hurt, missed him and took him back.



i dont want to make rash decision but when i snap i snap when i had enough,its a good thing im patient though it took me 7 years to blow up

Blow up over what

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Pent up frustration and im feeling the dissapoinment in her she doesnt listen at all very stubborn,im always the one to compromise,and i hate arguments i dont see the sense in it so i always just say yes to not get the argument further and to stop it
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We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
Why you feel this way is bc you are purposely making yourself and her grow distant to eachother so that it's easier for you to leave her. There is such a thing as too much space. The way I figure you're either with someone who isn't imposing on your space even when they're around, or it's not going to work in the long run. Seemes like you've already checked out
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I want to be single all of a sudden?

Is it because im an aqua and i want my freedom?

but my gf give me all the space i want especially now she is so scared to lose me she give me all the space i want

We only chat for a couple of minutes a day she isnt in my face all the time,shes far from me right now for about a month now so i dont know why i feel this way,we see each other after a couple of months so i dont really know what is Happening with me😣
You dont have a gf. I hope this helps. bye xx
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I've been thru this before.

It wasn't a desire to be single, that's just the feeling of existing. I left my s.o. to follow that feeling and it hurt, missed him and took him back.



i dont want to make rash decision but when i snap i snap when i had enough,its a good thing im patient though it took me 7 years to blow up

Blow up over what



Pent up frustration and im feeling the dissapoinment in her she doesnt listen at all very stubborn,im always the one to compromise,and i hate arguments i dont see the sense in it so i always just say yes to not get the argument further and to stop it

That doesn't sound healthy. Run for it

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oh yes very!,i told her that thats why i broke up with her but then i do believe in 2nd chances and she showed me she can also compromise and change after 10months i gave her another chance,sometimes 2 people inlove need to separate for them to now how they value each other,and that time im so frustrated i wanna know my worth with her
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Don't blame astrology for the choices you make.

11years?! Maybe you are bored in this relationship.

Break up with her if your dick can't take the distance.

cant blame it on the dick coz i dont have any😂
Dick, vag, you get what I mean.



Don't string the girl along if you aren't ready for a relationship.

sorry my bad,i didnt include that we are together for 11years already,maybe im bored?and just to clear im not blaming it on astrology,im just posting that maybe someone can shed a light on me,no offense you people gotta stop assuming behind what a person say and take it as face value what i wrote is what it is✌
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I love to travel. Buying the plane ticket never fails to excite. All the build up and planning. But there’s always this moment, mid-flight, where I have this momentary freak out.

I’m in a tin can, being hurled through space.

It’s terryfing, but it passes. Flying is part of getting to my amazing destination.

I’m not saying to go or stay, but try not to let some momentary turbulence destroy your vacation.
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I've been thru this before.

It wasn't a desire to be single, that's just the feeling of existing. I left my s.o. to follow that feeling and it hurt, missed him and took him back.



i dont want to make rash decision but when i snap i snap when i had enough,its a good thing im patient though it took me 7 years to blow up

Blow up over what



Pent up frustration and im feeling the dissapoinment in her she doesnt listen at all very stubborn,im always the one to compromise,and i hate arguments i dont see the sense in it so i always just say yes to not get the argument further and to stop it

That doesn't sound healthy. Run for it



oh yes very!,i told her that thats why i broke up with her but then i do believe in 2nd chances and she showed me she can also compromise and change after 10months i gave her another chance,sometimes 2 people inlove need to separate for them to now how they value each other,and that time im so frustrated i wanna know my worth with her

Some people never actually change they just say they do because they would hate to see you with someone else. I learned that the hard way a few times in the past. Ended up physically and mentally drained and abused.

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I hope this one isnt otherwise she wont have me for a very long time