Worst Matches/Pairs

That you've personally seen/ heard of?

I'd like to see if it agrees with astrology guide lines or goes against them.

Capricorn male/ Sagittarius female seems like a lot of heartache and headache for the Cap guys. Also know two people close to me of this sign, though not in a relationship lol they still fight like crazy and disagree and view life very very differently.

Aries/Cancer

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
In my experience: Scorpio and Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces, Scorpio and Sagittarius, AND Scorpio and Gemini!

Also, I've seen Cancer and Cancer to be a horrible match.
Virgo and Leo,
Virgo and Pisces

I believe Virgo & Leo. I knew two people of this match though they weren't together they had to spend time together and the Leo hurt the Virgo a lot.

Posted by prettyladii

Capricorn male/ Sagittarius female seems like a lot of heartache and headache for the Cap guys. Also know two people close to me of this sign, though not in a relationship lol they still fight like crazy and disagree and view life very very differently.

They can't get enough of us though. :/

Capricorn &Gemini oh gawd. They split up 20 years ago and still can't manage not to talk shit about the other.

Also, Sag/Scorp cusper & Sag. *headache* Like Jerry Springer style drama

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Scorpio/Taurus.

I heard a lot of negativity on this in another thread about it being too much of a love/hate thing.

From my personal experience, I'd have to say Sag/Virgo...My ex was a Virgo and although we lasted 16 years, it was pure hell...not sure why I stayed at all. They are way too "by the book", obsessive/possessive and like things their way...argh!!

But I will say that my ex is equal parts Virgo and Scorpio in his planets with 4 each, the only exceptions are Saturn and Uranus in Taurus and Libra respectively. His ascendent is also Virgo...so for his obsessive/possessive qualities I've come to realize we can blame that mostly on Scorpio.

Do Scorps get along well with anyone?? ha ha... 😉 There has to be someone out there that can handle their all-or-nothing relationship attitude...

none of the above

the winner is Capricorns and anyone.

Mmm me and my lovely Libra. He's not normal lol Well, he's SUCH a textbook Libra.. yet out of his last FOUR serious relationships (including a 7 year one), THREE of us were born the THIRD week of February, the Cusp of Sensitivity (1 Aqua Sun and 2 Pisces Suns). Yeah, I'm seeing a definite pattern in what he's attracted to. Oh, and a wild & crazy Sag girl, which ended badly. I won't speak ill of someone not here to defend herself, except to say she lies a fuck of a lot, even to this day.

I'm discovering that I'm not a "typical" Pisces. My supposed good matches usually aren't; my supposed bad ones work better. But the other three Elements ALL outnumber my 4 Pisces (and NO other Water) placements. I may be atypical, but I still just "get" other Pisces. I mix great with Scorps. Cancers, not at all. Caps, no. But I mix with Sags for friendship only, Gems okay for romance but not great. Taurus friends, Aqua friends, Aries friends. This is not normal LOL I've dated more Virgos than all other signs combined. SOOO NOT normal lol So my best romantic partners are Libras, Virgos, and Scorps... never dated a Pisces. Dunno if I'd WANT to date myself! We'd love each other... to death. With an icepick. *wink*

Worst? For me, Caps and Cancers. And Sags and Leos. My Virgo Mom and Grey Lizard Scorp father - almost 40 effing years married, about the worst couple I've ever seen. Libra/Aqua - terrible match and bitter divorce, but my Libra Aunt is/was crazy. My Cancer brother and his Leo/Virgo cusp ex-wife, but both were dumbfucks anyway, and he's better off in his LTR with a Scorp woman. My older Leo baby sister and every sign she ever dated. (LOL)

My family is obviously completely fucked when it comes to relationships. Except my (favorite) Scorp brother and his Scorp/Sag cusp wife. They're doing good last I knew.

Hmmm...I am going to say the absolutly worst relationship is scorpio and gemini...never again will i date a gemini...its like a battle between dark and light our differences were too great terrible communication and often too many misunderstandings this relationship is by far the worst disaster ever. I felt as if a nuclear bomb had been dropped on our relationship and maybe it was me that exploded but he is definatly the one who pushed my buttons. agh we were terrible togethter

Posted by size zero superhero
Hard to say. The most dysfunctional, pathetic and hopeless couple I ever met was comprised of an Aries girl and Sagittarius guy...and these signs are generally compatible.

Taurus and Leo doesn't seem to stand much of a chance.

Cancer and Libra would be rough, too.

I think any fixed sign together is usually a rough match both are too stubborn and it usually becaomes a battle of the wills I think scorpio leo is pretty rough myself i dated a leo once and GOD he was one that ripped my heart from my chest he got whatever he wanted from me then just ran off...anyway I completely ignored him and he coulndt stand that so he was back for more and i was his fool, got hurt again...what do they say fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me...LOL I should have never let my guard down dammmit!!

Whoops.. how could I have forgotten Wes? I DID date a Pisces guy, for 7 or 8 months. Connection was amazing, but he was a liar to the Nth degree, like I think he must have thought he was in his own Witness Protection Program. LOL

Like I said.. it was icepick or GTFO.

From my own experience : G?mini man-cancer girl = a lot of heartaches!!!

Gemini moon + Pisces moon, too many highs and lows.. I guess its not the worst though but difficult indeed.

Virgo and Cancer seems really rocky. We're both emotional signs, but Cancers seem to like to dish what they can't take, and we end up making them cry, and this thrills us a little too much, LOL!

Virgo and Pisces can either be a match made in heaven or in hell--it all depends on the two; if the Virgo is overly-critical and demanding, it'll drain the Pisces and bring them to a really low level of depression until they find a way out. If the Pisces spends too much time in fantasyland, with their heads in the clouds, Virgo feels as if they're "All Alone In Love" and pulls away.

gemini man and taurus woman he is way too flighty and flirty for the loyal dependable grounded taurus..6 years of love hate uggggh

Posted by prettyladii

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Scorpio/Taurus.

I heard a lot of negativity on this in another thread about it being too much of a love/hate thing.

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I had two serious relationships in life and both were with Taurus. Love/hate thing definitely nails it on the head. So much push and pull it was exhausting.

Worst combo I think would have to go to Aqua/Taurus.

From my experience Leo women and Virgo males shouldn't happen. Virgo males should be with scorpio women they are more brazen and can deal with someone that is cold and confusing. Also for me Leo and Libra. I find libra males interesting but they really don't make me want to date them.

I don't know what it is because we are supposed to be a great match. Maybe I would need a september libra. Someone that is close to virgo but not a virgo.

I think leo and virgo don't work because neither party is prepared for what the other brings to the table. My current BFF is is a female virgo and we sometimes disagree, but we can make it work as friends. We compliement each other very well. I had to make a lot of personality changes for our friendship to really grow. Sometimes we still bump heads but thats what friends do bump heads and fight but at the end of the day you are still each others friend.

I think a leo women and virgo males would only work if the virgo man is completely in love with his leo woman. I think the leo woman also has to willing to let him be in control because thats what he really wants. I also think that for it to work communication has to be great and that both sides really want to make it work. But in any relationship even if its an astrology perfect match both sides must want the same thing.

Posted by QLIbraMale
for some reason i get along with just about all signs except Capricorns. be it guy or girl no matter at my job there too rude for their own good.

I said the same thing on the other board about getting along. But they seem to have a harder time than other signs maintaining a relationship or keeping a relationship. Even when I think the Cap women are so intelligent, and beautiful, and sophisticated I'm always surprised well not so much anymore but find out about their poor choice in a partner or their difficulty in keeping a relationship. It's not too different with the men either they need a weaker or submissive partner or it won't work. Thats the only way I've ever seen it work.

James Tate is right. As a Cap Male, from my observations, apart from maybe Taurus, Its Capricorn and Everyone Else....

@bluefish.....youre correct. My sister is a Capricorn and my 8yr old neice is an Aries. Her Aries traits are already starting to show, I forecast trouble ahead when she reaches her teens coz her mum is a typical capricorn, both very strong willed....

Posted by prettyladii

Posted by QLIbraMale
for some reason i get along with just about all signs except Capricorns. be it guy or girl no matter at my job there too rude for their own good.

I said the same thing on the other board about getting along. But they seem to have a harder time than other signs maintaining a relationship or keeping a relationship. Even when I think the Cap women are so intelligent, and beautiful, and sophisticated I'm always surprised well not so much anymore but find out about their poor choice in a partner or their difficulty in keeping a relationship. It's not too different with the men either they need a weaker or submissive partner or it won't work. Thats the only way I've ever seen it work.

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I think that's because a lot of us are really not "people" people. Caps are known to be boring, but honestly, we can become bored with others more than anything, and that's not a good thing in relationships.

Aries with pisces. It just seems messed up.

Libra with cancer. Bleh!

Capricorn with gemini.

Virgo with aries.

I knew of a libra and gem couple who just had issues beyond control. They both cheated on each other repeated times. It was like they were together for the sake of hurting each other. She (libra),left him and was already hooked up four days later. He is still there trying to mack on her sister! Talk about crappy.

Posted by leilaxxlovez
Virgo with aries.

I know of a virgo/aries couple that go really well together...I like them : )

yeah? My bestfrnd (virgo) dated this aries guy. She was constantly smothering him,and he would treat her like crap. She was constantly in tears. But this guy was just loving it. Then she found out he cheated with 3 other women.

I found out how to surprise my Aries admirer for Christmas by helping the grocery store he manages get a boost. I put an editorial in the newspaper in my hometown and in a few days he'll see the surprise soon enough. Decided since I am in the giving spirit to help give his business a boost. He knows that deep down he still likes me and I like him too because I was born on the gemini/cancer cusp and have a half sister, cousins and aunts and uncles who are aries so I know how they can be. I really think that anyone can do well in any relationship if you just know what the warning signs are and the type of men to avoid. good luck.

Posted by cancer75
I found out how to surprise my Aries admirer for Christmas by helping the grocery store he manages get a boost. I put an editorial in the newspaper in my hometown and in a few days he'll see the surprise soon enough. Decided since I am in the giving spirit to help give his business a boost. He knows that deep down he still likes me and I like him too because I was born on the gemini/cancer cusp and have a half sister, cousins and aunts and uncles who are aries so I know how they can be. I really think that anyone can do well in any relationship if you just know what the warning signs are and the type of men to avoid. good luck.

huh? and people accuse me of trying to buy love *rolls eyes*

Scorpio/Aries - what a shitstorm. It's passionate, and hot, and has its amazing moments, but in the end, FUCK THAT.

Cap and Sag - Ugh! They've been together a total of 11 years now, the last 3 spent as a married couple, and I abhor them being together. The differences between them aren't complementary at all. Their common interests and tastes are next to nil. He (Cap) is actually quite the sweetheart but he's a total pushover. She gets to be a raging bitch to him and gets away with it. I know he feels love for her but a lot of it is out of the sense of duty. They share a small child and he is head of household (but not really).

Cancer and Aries - I've seen this one fail so many times I lost count. For good reason too! At first Cancer is hot for the fire and appreciates the differences in character. Then when the Aries aggressiveness is projected onto Cancer it sends Cancer bolting!

I'm sad about seeing the Leo/Virgo combo not look so hot. If I weren't happily and heavily involved with my Cancer, I have a willing and eager Virguy that would be my next pick. Maybe it would work out ok for me? I mean, I do tend to be more compatible with signs/elements I'm not supposed to get along with. Hey, I can daydream! Keeps the passions high, damn it... 😛

for me and my expereince its libras and scorpios, fucc that never again


scorpios fool libras so easily and pull you in with passion and hold you there with emotions, both of those are unfamiliar to libras cuz we need to take time to discover ourselves to the point wheree dont second guess ourselves. Lots of drama, lots of lies, lots of tears just to keep me there

fuccin hated the shit. HAd to stand my ground so many times with her cuz i would catch her in a lie and she would tell me im trippin which resulted in me yellin at her ass

Libras are still cardinal signs so its a tendacy to change something we dont like or just leave it alone and ignore it, i tried to change her triflin ass numerous times, she promised to but hasnt yet and im exhausted and giving up on her


they will play with a libras head b/c we second guess all the time and they take advantage of that and even poke fun at it but when you listen to your gut wit em they become this desperate crying baby ass mistress or this cold hearted silent women who wouldnt cry at her own mother's funeral


too many differences, libras want to and feel like they need to believe scorpios and you will never know their true plan any way so its best to stick with your guns and dont back down from what you feel


she will ignore you, make fun of you and act liek you dont exist and libras hate being ignored, we demand answers on your behaviour. They do not scare you just annoy you and will play of your fears to get you to shut up


No libra should do this relationship unless he is fully of aware of himself, his emotions, and his own motivations b/c sscorpios play to whatever control. I fucked up good friendships and my life over this scorpio and i hate her ass dont do it libras you will end up hating them if you second guess your own happiness

Posted by Nefer
Whoops.. how could I have forgotten Wes? I DID date a Pisces guy, for 7 or 8 months. Connection was amazing, but he was a liar to the Nth degree, like I think he must have thought he was in his own Witness Protection Program. LOL

Like I said.. it was icepick or GTFO.

LMAO

Posted by spaggiescorp
Scorpio/Aries - what a shitstorm. It's passionate, and hot, and has its amazing moments, but in the end, FUCK THAT.

Totally agree!!

I would say Cancer male/Libra female, it's so wrong its right! lol

Aries/Scorpio....aries is too insecure and easily fooled by scorpio. scorpio cant seem to figure out what aries just wont calm down and let him posses her.

You are welcome.


But you can notice that she goes to him because she thinks he is a safe choice .. i.e.: he won't be abusive to her the same way her exes were. She also will think he can calm her, balance her emotions and also give in to her little girl antics whenever she likes. She will also think he is easy to control.

As for him, he has low self esteem so he sticks by her to learn assertiveness. He thinks that being with her helps his ego, when it's actually a cop-out. She will make all decisions for him, push him around and also be his spokesperson. She also resorts to flattery to stroke his ego and get him to do whatever she likes.

aries does like to be in control...they kinda feel insecure if they are not....

So Caps, Aries, Scorps, Sags and Virgos seem to have a lot of issues with others and eachother! These five signs are all I hear about in this thread...

"the roles switch with them. Believe it or not."

How do roles switch with them?
Thing is, Aries LOVE to dominate and they respect power and fearlessness.
Libra is the EXACT opposite.

I don't see how a Libra can be happy with an Aries in the long run.

Best match for Aries would be another Aries, or Scorpio.

P/S: Your sister got 'abused' by her other bfs because she ADORED their POWER over her.
Now she's with a Libra as a safe haven.
He may or may not love her, but he definitely feels OBLIGED to "save" her. Libras are angels like that, usually to the detriment of themselves.

From my Virgo experience...
Sagittarius and Aries = Lack of chemistry and much awkwardness
Taurus (several of them) = Incredibly hard work

Worthy of note...
Chinese Tiger and Monkey are supposed to be worst possible match, but I am a Tiger and my Cappy OH is a Monkey and it's the best relationship I've ever had.

Posted by enfant_terrible
So Caps, Aries, Scorps, Sags and Virgos seem to have a lot of issues with others and eachother! These five signs are all I hear about in this thread...

For aries and saggis, fire is difficult to contain
scorpio, feels the deepest of any sign and their emotions arent for the weak
virgos, are also had to contain even though they are an earth sign

but in all our experiences with which make the best matches, their is more to these 2 people than their sun sign that lead to breakups.

"Everything is about what they can get out of it."

Yep, the MEMEME generation..

It depends on whether your Aries sister enters a relationship for sex (most likely...) or status (even more likely.. bad boys..) that's how she can turn around without looking back. So what you say is accurate. Abuse, power struggles, no compromise.. because she was in love with power in the first place.. and power corrupts.

Posted by enfant_terrible
So Caps, Aries, Scorps, Sags and Virgos seem to have a lot of issues with others and eachother! These five signs are all I hear about in this thread...

Capricorns are too superficial and shallow for my deeper thoughts and emotional value.

Aries rams stuff, which can be quite painful to deal with, but are excellent allies whenever dealing with society's jerks.

Scorpios.... Just too deceptive for my tastes. Granted that I can relate to some of them, many others just come off as compulsive liars that really wear on my nerves once the lies are exposed.

Sags are waaaaaaaaaaaay too free spirited for me. As I age, I prefer some grounding.

Virgos tend to say the harshest, most hurtful things in just a few sentences. This is why I prefer them as a friend over a lover.

SNAP!!!!!!!!!

@Katie: Yeah, I forgot you have a moral obligation to honor your family tie. Your sister is never wrong 😉

@TurnWoundsIntoWisdom: At least you can agree Libs/ Aries can't make a relationship. Their personalities are totally at odds.

..and before I forget.. Of COURSE there are good and bad in every sign, but I was speaking in general regarding the warrior Mars and the peaceable Venus.

HAhahahahah.. OMG, Katie comes in SO many different disguises..

Geez, you Sp0ok me then and there AGAIN.

Love Aquarius!

Oh, I thought YOU were gone for good, or you were a Leo.

All you do is to remind me that there is a certain Aquarius I should talk to again. I haven't spoken to her for about 2 yrs.. he effect on my mind is too strong, so I had to move away for a bit. But I have always adored her and will contact her again.

😉

And of course, relationships are usually fated from the get go.
I'm not for Aries/ Libra relationships, but that doesn't mean I'll break up any Aries/ Libra coupling. I'd just think it's their Karma in relationships and leave it as that..

Oh and Katie is pretty much against Libras.. so hahaha @ this skewed illogical argument.. We all have individual preferences..

but I know that Misery is usually caused by opposite pairings (especially Mars-Venus ones as they rule relationships).. but without Misery, growth doesn't happen.. so if they want to, go ahead..
🙂

Aries & Cancer, Aries & Libra,Cancer & Leo,pisces & aries
too many to list yet many of these couples had other issues
as well like drugs & alcohol so addictions won't show the
true traits of each sign but many of them weren't abusing
anything except each other soooo?