3rd Wheeling, 5th Wheeling, 'x'th Wheeling

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Virgorean on Sunday, December 18, 2016 and has 5 replies.

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@Virgorean
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Does it make you confortable, uncomfortable, or has it become second nature?

And vice versa for those in relationships, do you feel awkward inviting your single friends?

I have no problem tagging along with my friend and her fiancée. It's like hanging with a brother and sister for me.

I've also realized in my friend's upcoming wedding, I am the only singleton from both the bridesmaids and groomsmen parties.

Better focus on catching that bouquet.

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The Stylin', profilin', limousine riding, jet flying, kiss-stealing, wheelin' n' dealin' son of a gun—

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Oh you mean......rite, sorry.

Yeah it sucks, I tend to avoid it at all costs. It's the reason I ended my relationship with the former love of my life. Turned out he had a son from a previous relationship with a woman, and they were coming back into his life in a major way.

It don't feel good.

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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
The Stylin', profilin', limousine riding, jet flying, kiss-stealing, wheelin' n' dealin' son of a gun—

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Oh you mean......rite, sorry.

Yeah it sucks, I tend to avoid it at all costs. It's the reason I ended my relationship with the former love of my life. Turned out he had a son from a previous relationship with a woman, and they were coming back into his life in a major way.

It don't feel good.

Sorry to hear. But it is unavoidable when you don't choose to be it.

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Posted by Virgorean

Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
The Stylin', profilin', limousine riding, jet flying, kiss-stealing, wheelin' n' dealin' son of a gun—

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Oh you mean......rite, sorry.

Yeah it sucks, I tend to avoid it at all costs. It's the reason I ended my relationship with the former love of my life. Turned out he had a son from a previous relationship with a woman, and they were coming back into his life in a major way.

It don't feel good.

Sorry to hear. But it is unavoidable when you don't choose to be it.

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I didn't have an issue with the kid himself, I would've gladly stepped in as his second dad. It's more the chemistry my guy still had with his ex (he was bi). It was undeniable. And I figured the kid deserved a chance to have his parents together finally.

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@Virgorean
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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy

Posted by Virgorean

Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
The Stylin', profilin', limousine riding, jet flying, kiss-stealing, wheelin' n' dealin' son of a gun—

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Oh you mean......rite, sorry.

Yeah it sucks, I tend to avoid it at all costs. It's the reason I ended my relationship with the former love of my life. Turned out he had a son from a previous relationship with a woman, and they were coming back into his life in a major way.

It don't feel good.

Sorry to hear. But it is unavoidable when you don't choose to be it.

I didn't have an issue with the kid himself, I would've gladly stepped in as his second dad. It's more the chemistry my guy still had with his ex (he was bi). It was undeniable. And I figured the kid deserved a chance to have his parents together finally.

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It's nice that you put the kid first.

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@Virgorean
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I wouldn't say it's awkward if you're comfortable with your status and if it's a group of people you know. I would find it awkward if you thought you're 5th wheeling only for your friends to set you up with another 3rd wheeler.