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Affairs
Understanding Why Some Women Engage in Affairs
Women may pursue affairs for various reasons including desire for excitement, emotional connection, or dissatisfaction in their current relationship. It is important to recognize that motivations differ, and not all women seek affairs for the same reasons. Trust and communication are key to understanding relationship dynamics and behaviors.
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Why do married men or women sleep with single people when they are committed or partnered up?
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Sorry I'm being a brat lol
Men and women both do this, not just women.
Let's be real, monogamy is a choice. And people, sometimes like the taboo, and also like the challenge of the competition aspect. Ego drives most things.
Because married pos lie and say they are single and once the truth comes to light your already ‘in love’ and feel like you can’t walk away.
Why would you? They swear that they are only with their SO for the kids and haven’t had a sexual relationship in years.
Your the one I want to be with babe and I’m going to leave my SO BUT...
...the timing isn’t right
...I gotta prepare my finances (aka hide money from my spouse)
...etc. etc.
Then you wake up one day 10 years later realizing you’ve settled for crumbs. Womp womp.
I'm asking about women cause this gemini girl was telling me how she was talking with a man who had a girlfriend. It ended recently cause nothing physical ever happened between them and she wanted it. I guess she thought he would eventually leave his girlfriend? He didn't.
But why would you think a man who steps out wouldn't do that with you? That's what I'm wondering.
So she must be emotionally unavailable and just enjoy chasing? Did she really think having a relationship start off that way would form into love?
If cheating is all about ego why would you go after a taken person? Wouldn't be more self satisfying to already have a mate and have something else on the side too? Double loving you know?
I feel like just being on the side and not having anything else would suck. Like what do you do when they are off busy in their relationship again?
Wait around?
Maybe it's introvert thing I don't understand. Because in my head the ideal ego driven life would be having a million people love me at once lol
I know a few women that prefer dating married men and they always said it was because they were never worried he’d ask for commitment. They said it’s all the fun of a relationship and none of the responsibility.
Okay, got it
So she must be emotionally unavailable and just enjoy chasing? Did she really think having a relationship start off that way would form into love?
If cheating is all about ego why would you go after a taken person? Wouldn't be more self satisfying to already have a mate and have something else on the side too? Double loving you know?
Simply put, there are men and women that get an ego boost from being the one that "took" them. That they were "better" then their partner.
Every person's ego is different. Validation to feed one's ego comes in many forms. Some through wanting to be loved by many, some needing positive affirmations, and some through accomplishments from work. It all ties together, just in different ways.
Because married pos lie and say they are single and once the truth comes to light your already ‘in love’ and feel like you can’t walk away.
Why would you? They swear that they are only with their SO for the kids and haven’t had a sexual relationship in years.
Your the one I want to be with babe and I’m going to leave my SO BUT...
...the timing isn’t right
...I gotta prepare my finances (aka hide money from my spouse)
...etc. etc.
Then you wake up one day 10 years later realizing you’ve settled for crumbs. Womp womp.
Oh! THATS what happened to you?
I het it now...your obsession with my affairs...poor baby...this bastard turned you into a bitch! Fuck him! I mean...you can’t but still...mentally!
Fuck him!
I'm asking about women cause this gemini girl was telling me how she was talking with a man who had a girlfriend. It ended recently cause nothing physical ever happened between them and she wanted it. I guess she thought he would eventually leave his girlfriend? He didn't.
But why would you think a man who steps out wouldn't do that with you? That's what I'm wondering.
So she must be emotionally unavailable and just enjoy chasing? Did she really think having a relationship start off that way would form into love?
If cheating is all about ego why would you go after a taken person? Wouldn't be more self satisfying to already have a mate and have something else on the side too? Double loving you know?
I feel like just being on the side and not having anything else would suck. Like what do you do when they are off busy in their relationship again?
Wait around?
Maybe it's introvert thing I don't understand. Because in my head the ideal ego driven life would be having a million people love me at once lol
I've only been cheated on so I only come from that side. Perhaps the women think they can change the guy or thinks their pussy is so magical it will lock that guy down.
Wanting what they can't have is what I having always thought of women that chase taken men. Some also have the thought no ring= fair game.
please don't blame someone being introverted on this lol
Because married pos lie and say they are single and once the truth comes to light your already ‘in love’ and feel like you can’t walk away.
Why would you? They swear that they are only with their SO for the kids and haven’t had a sexual relationship in years.
Your the one I want to be with babe and I’m going to leave my SO BUT...
...the timing isn’t right
...I gotta prepare my finances (aka hide money from my spouse)
...etc. etc.
Then you wake up one day 10 years later realizing you’ve settled for crumbs. Womp womp.
Oh! THATS what happened to you?
I het it now...your obsession with my affairs...poor baby...this bastard turned you into a bitch! Fuck him! I mean...you can’t but still...mentally!
Fuck him!
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I actually plagiarized this from your life. So sad.
I'm asking about women cause this gemini girl was telling me how she was talking with a man who had a girlfriend. It ended recently cause nothing physical ever happened between them and she wanted it. I guess she thought he would eventually leave his girlfriend? He didn't.
But why would you think a man who steps out wouldn't do that with you? That's what I'm wondering.
So she must be emotionally unavailable and just enjoy chasing? Did she really think having a relationship start off that way would form into love?
If cheating is all about ego why would you go after a taken person? Wouldn't be more self satisfying to already have a mate and have something else on the side too? Double loving you know?
I feel like just being on the side and not having anything else would suck. Like what do you do when they are off busy in their relationship again?
Wait around?
Maybe it's introvert thing I don't understand. Because in my head the ideal ego driven life would be having a million people love me at once lol
I think some women have such low self esteem they will settle for a bit of attention from the man and knowing they are "stealing" a man probably makes them feel better about themselves
The biggest pipe dream of all! 😆
Ego.
For both parties or just one?
I'm asking about women cause this gemini girl was telling me how she was talking with a man who had a girlfriend. It ended recently cause nothing physical ever happened between them and she wanted it. I guess she thought he would eventually leave his girlfriend? He didn't.
But why would you think a man who steps out wouldn't do that with you? That's what I'm wondering.
So she must be emotionally unavailable and just enjoy chasing? Did she really think having a relationship start off that way would form into love?
If cheating is all about ego why would you go after a taken person? Wouldn't be more self satisfying to already have a mate and have something else on the side too? Double loving you know?
I feel like just being on the side and not having anything else would suck. Like what do you do when they are off busy in their relationship again?
Wait around?
Maybe it's introvert thing I don't understand. Because in my head the ideal ego driven life would be having a million people love me at once lol
My Dad (scorp venus btw) had a gf in high school. Ended then he met my mom. 7 years there, divorce. etc etc. Re-married a beautiful mexican woman when I was 10. They became stagnant after 7-8 years. Due to a shitty 1983 Ford Ranger, Dad and I re-unite, he fixes my truck over a few days I introduce him to FB- (found out later) first person he looks up is that girl from highschool. Finds out she's married, also local. They both have affairs with their SOs, that's how their relationship re-started. His wife left, her husband separated. His entire personality changed I've never seen him so happy. They've been together 8 years.
not exactly the same situation you talk about, but similar ilk. crazy stuff.
Your quote is all messed up lol
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Ego.
For both parties or just one?
Female, most of the times.
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Oh? Interesting. I thought it was both parties. A married man still feeling attractive and the side piece getting away with something.
But the female you refer to, could also be the married one?!
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“Never really done it.” Hmmmm. 🤔
Yeah I haven’t. Because I don’t wanna get murdered by some chick over some stupid dude
They are off limits if there's a ring on it. Everything else is fair game.
Really?
Any anyone who has affairs is definitely a risk taker in my eyes
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
“Never really done it.” Hmmmm. 🤔
Yeah I haven’t. Because I don’t wanna get murdered by some chick over some stupid dude
Do chicks really murder though? I thought they only murder dudes they're planning to leave for another dude.
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Woman are just as violent as men
They are off limits if there's a ring on it. Everything else is fair game.
Really?
Yeah
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Hmm
Ha this is how I found it he was married after two weeks of this latter red flags turned up
I did research n sure enough
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lol These married folks in general are ridiculous and greedy. They shouldn't of got married if they wanted multiple relationships.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
“Never really done it.” Hmmmm. 🤔
Yeah I haven’t. Because I don’t wanna get murdered by some chick over some stupid dude
Do chicks really murder though? I thought they only murder dudes they're planning to leave for another dude.
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I think both parties murder. People are always getting put in jail for hits that are undercover cop stings.
But murders don't happen often, its usually just violence.
Ego.
For both parties or just one?
Female, most of the times.
Oh? Interesting. I thought it was both parties. A married man still feeling attractive and the side piece getting away with something.
But the female you refer to, could also be the married one?!
Certainly, but most of the time the female isn't involved and goes for the married man.
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lol I think both parties are to blame, honey bear 🙂
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
“Never really done it.” Hmmmm. 🤔
Yeah I haven’t. Because I don’t wanna get murdered by some chick over some stupid dude
Do chicks really murder though? I thought they only murder dudes they're planning to leave for another dude.
I think both parties murder. People are always getting put in jail for hits that are undercover cop stings.
But murders don't happen often, its usually just violence.
The last cop sting I read about was a woman wanting a hit on another woman who was the stepmother to her kids, so I suppose I just don't know.
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Ego.
For both parties or just one?
Female, most of the times.
Oh? Interesting. I thought it was both parties. A married man still feeling attractive and the side piece getting away with something.
But the female you refer to, could also be the married one?!
Certainly, but most of the time the female isn't involved and goes for the married man.
lol I think both parties are to blame, honey bear 🙂
Sure, but that wasn't the question.
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As long as we agree 🙂
Because they are bytches, it’s so simple actually
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
“Never really done it.” Hmmmm. 🤔
Yeah I haven’t. Because I don’t wanna get murdered by some chick over some stupid dude
Do chicks really murder though? I thought they only murder dudes they're planning to leave for another dude.
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They say 70-80% of murders are committed by someone close to the victim and are emotionally driven.
Watch killer women with pierce morgan
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
“Never really done it.” Hmmmm. 🤔
Yeah I haven’t. Because I don’t wanna get murdered by some chick over some stupid dude
Do chicks really murder though? I thought they only murder dudes they're planning to leave for another dude.
I think both parties murder. People are always getting put in jail for hits that are undercover cop stings.
But murders don't happen often, its usually just violence.
The last cop sting I read about was a woman wanting a hit on another woman who was the stepmother to her kids, so I suppose I just don't know.
half those memes don't make sense to me.
It's like they want a village/community mindset to govern other people's relationship. It just says repression to me, but they're acting like the married couple are repressed.
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Lmao. I actually hate all the lonely cat lady memes that are all over the web too.
"I'm a great person, who deserves a good man"
"I know my worth, my future husband will recognize it"
" I will give my heart to the right one who deserves it"
😆 GTFOH with all that and work on yourself lol It's not always the other persons fault lol
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
“Never really done it.” Hmmmm. 🤔
Yeah I haven’t. Because I don’t wanna get murdered by some chick over some stupid dude
Do chicks really murder though? I thought they only murder dudes they're planning to leave for another dude.
They say 70-80% of murders are committed by someone close to the victim and are emotionally driven.
Watch killer women with pierce morgan
Ok, will do.
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On netflix or hulu, I forgot which
Because married pos lie and say they are single and once the truth comes to light your already ‘in love’ and feel like you can’t walk away.
Why would you? They swear that they are only with their SO for the kids and haven’t had a sexual relationship in years.
Your the one I want to be with babe and I’m going to leave my SO BUT...
...the timing isn’t right
...I gotta prepare my finances (aka hide money from my spouse)
...etc. etc.
Then you wake up one day 10 years later realizing you’ve settled for crumbs. Womp womp.
Oh! THATS what happened to you?
I het it now...your obsession with my affairs...poor baby...this bastard turned you into a bitch! Fuck him! I mean...you can’t but still...mentally!
Fuck him!
The specific nature of her post says your reply is maybe correct
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I always knew someone hurt her and she is holding grudges and her heart is dead! Some women carrying it to the end. I know a few...always been sorry for their hurt asses that can’t forgive and forget and get life back.
Nooooo...they are on a mission! To destroy men. All of them! And then they die...alone...bitter and angry.
They don’t look good laying in the coffin...lmao
They are off limits if there's a ring on it. Everything else is fair game.
Really?
Yeah
Hmm
Questions?
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Actually I was thinking about this today. You may have a point
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Why do women like to sleep with married men or taken men?
I've never really done it. Mostly out of fear of being found out or being killed. ( I'm serious, you never know how someone will react )
Is it fun? Do you think a cheater loves you? Sexy?
I'm curious.