Anger & Sex

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by LibrasRule36! on Wednesday, September 30, 2009 and has 26 replies.

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Do you have sex when you are angry/hurt by your S/O? Is it a grudge-fuck? Or is it raw passion?

I can't - it's the last thing on my mind when I am hurt or angry...

Some people actually get turned on during arguments (L@@KS)

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You know, I guess that are men who like to "beat it down" and women who like men to make it "hurt so good "- πŸ™‚

I like strong-backs myself, but my stuff is too pretty to get beat down!

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Posted by Ms.P
lol what?^

haha @ VH.

Angry sex is hot. When they tell you to shut the fuck up mid argument, throw you up against the wall and rip your clothes off...

But its really not healthy, if I'm being honest :/

Hey Lady. Its only weird IF YOU MAKE IT WEIRD! πŸ˜›

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oo hoo hoo! what's with all the sex talk? i love it!

anyway, i've never engaged in angry sex and, though i am a HUGE fan of sex like leolady, it doesn't appeal to me when i'm pissed off. i pretty much just wanna start kick boxing when i'm angry. however, i will say that i have had sexual feelings arise out of a strong dislike for someone. u know what i mean? like, u know a certain person and u hate everything about them and can't stand them but u could fuck the shit outta them? yeah, i've had a couple of those. not that we ever got to the sex part but i've had those desires. my first bf's best friend was one of those ppl. totally arrogant, full of himself, narrow minded, but was deliciously attractive and masculine. fucker. nah, it's all good! i hope he's well!

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Posted by ninjamu
oo hoo hoo! what's with all the sex talk? i love it!

anyway, i've never engaged in angry sex and, though i am a HUGE fan of sex like leolady, it doesn't appeal to me when i'm pissed off. i pretty much just wanna start kick boxing when i'm angry. however, i will say that i have had sexual feelings arise out of a strong dislike for someone. u know what i mean? like, u know a certain person and u hate everything about them and can't stand them but u could fuck the shit outta them? yeah, i've had a couple of those. not that we ever got to the sex part but i've had those desires. my first bf's best friend was one of those ppl. totally arrogant, full of himself, narrow minded, but was deliciously attractive and masculine. fucker. nah, it's all good! i hope he's well!

LMAO!!! Yeah, I know what you mean..... I have had those feelings as well!

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My ex (a Leo) was usually very horny just after a blazing row, though she would often say things in the heat of argument that made me feel somewhat disinclined towards lovemaking. That said, she'd never have any trouble winning me over as she knew exactly which buttons to press!

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Posted by VirgoM20
My ex (a Leo) was usually very horny just after a blazing row, though she would often say things in the heat of argument that made me feel somewhat disinclined towards lovemaking. That said, she'd never have any trouble winning me over as she knew exactly which buttons to press!

Yes, VM, that's how I am - who wants to do it when you are mad? Not me.

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When I'm upset, it's the last thing on my mind. Now, make-up sex is a different story. But, it can take me a bit to get to that point. I definitely cannot get turned on during an argument as I'm usually pretty pissed.

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Posted by eden 3
ya my cat gets all randy after a fight and is completely bewildered that i'd be pushing him away...but he can usually break me down ;P after a calm a bit. he's funny about it too...i suspect some gem in his chart cuz he is really changeable or is this some leo trait as well?

oh right they r just really horny, got it.

I'm like that too eden. I'm really changeable and can laugh things off in situations like that. Esp if sex is involved!! LOL!

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I know when my gem is mad when we have sex...he either pulls my hair too hard or smacks me on my @ss too hard....then I catch myself fighting with him right in the middle....crazy!