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Where should I go fishing?
How do I become sassy, Kiwi?
Is it ghosting if you speak to someone only 4 days and even that couple messages exchanged ?
What’s the best way to work on yourself? Relationship or no relationship.
Why do some men have breeding kinks? 🤭
Is cyber sex chat considered cheating?
Posted by BadderBunny
oops @aquarius09 I thought I was in the comments.
Madame SassyKiwi we are waiting with baited breath on our responses. 😆
You’re welcome to answer in the meanwhile. This Gemini has no patience! 😅
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by aquarius09
Is it ghosting if you speak to someone only 4 days and even that couple messages exchanged ?
Its only ghosting if you have no intention of talking to them againclick to expand
No worries. I ain’t waiting on responses from the Op.
Then, why do people get so upset losing a random online penpal who could be a catfish for all they know.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by aquarius09Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by aquarius09
Is it ghosting if you speak to someone only 4 days and even that couple messages exchanged ?
Its only ghosting if you have no intention of talking to them again
click to expand
No worries. I ain’t waiting on responses from the Op.
Then, why do people get so upset losing a random online penpal who could be a catfish for all they know.
They got attached. If people feel you are changing up they get anxious you are pulling away. I'm someone who doesn't like inconsistency. If I talk to you every day and then all of a sudden you disappear I will just shrug and move on. But other people will freak out.click to expand
I’d like to believe this but if someone is getting attached with 4 messages in total, they would certainly give the person who abruptly left a shot if they came back a week or two later and apologized and explained themselves.
How do I get a big butt to bite and lay on?
Posted by Walk_on_by
Where should I go fishing?
You are already on an island surrounded by the sea. You literally have fishing spots all around you! If that truly fails, take a holiday to Australia.
Posted by BadderBunny
What's the placements of my soulmate?
He’s got Scorpio and Virgo placements 😏
Posted by RollergirlOrc
How do I become sassy, Kiwi?
One does not simply become, one just is. Real talk tho, by having too much fire energy. Do you have any?
Posted by aquarius09
Is it ghosting if you speak to someone only 4 days and even that couple messages exchanged ?
If you didn’t ghost here and there often (particularly when nothing substantial happened), how else are you supposed to get through rest of the potential suitors?? Time is limited. Go forth and next.
Posted by borednbeautiful
What’s the best way to work on yourself? Relationship or no relationship.
It’s often said it’s best to work on yourself before getting into a relationship but I say do what makes you feel good the most! I personally find the most confidence to be my best while in a relationship. I think it’s the pressure of trying to be the best version of myself for the other person 🤷♀️
Posted by borednbeautiful
Why do some men have breeding kinks? 🤭
Most of them just get off on the IDEA of impregnating. Has a lot to do with possessiveness and dominating. Some of them can even find ACTUAL pregnancy/childbirth/child rearing awful. Elon Musk and Nick Cannon definitely have it. Such pleasant men aren’t they huh lol
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by borednbeautiful
Why do some men have breeding kinks? 🤭
Most of them just get off on the IDEA of impregnating. Has a lot to do with possessiveness and dominating. Some of them can even find ACTUAL pregnancy/childbirth/child rearing awful. Elon Musk and Nick Cannon definitely have it. Such pleasant men aren’t they huh lolclick to expand
And it feeds their inflated egos “look at me i can make a baby” but as you say they can’t rear a child
Posted by borednbeautiful
Is cyber sex chat considered cheating?
If someone’s gotta ask if something is considered cheating, it nearly always is 😂 Reminds me of the black mirror episodes where the guy(s) would disappear into their video games to be physical with a game character. That time could be used to intimately connect with their real partner ya feel?
Posted by BadderBunny
oops @aquarius09 I thought I was in the comments.
Madame SassyKiwi we are waiting with baited breath on our responses. 😆
Madame SassyKiwi welcomes any and all apprentices to step in !
Posted by aquarius09Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by aquarius09Posted by BadderBunnyNo worries. I ain’t waiting on responses from the Op.Posted by aquarius09
Is it ghosting if you speak to someone only 4 days and even that couple messages exchanged ?
Its only ghosting if you have no intention of talking to them again
click to expand
Then, why do people get so upset losing a random online penpal who could be a catfish for all they know.
They got attached. If people feel you are changing up they get anxious you are pulling away. I'm someone who doesn't like inconsistency. If I talk to you every day and then all of a sudden you disappear I will just shrug and move on. But other people will freak out.
click to expand
I’d like to believe this but if someone is getting attached with 4 messages in total, they would certainly give the person who abruptly left a shot if they came back a week or two later and apologized and explained themselves.click to expand
They didn’t give you a shot after you apologized and explained yourself? If that was the case you definitely dodged a bullet 😬
Posted by Solo
How do I get a big butt to bite and lay on?
Those Latin night clubs might be a good try!
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by borednbeautifulMost of them just get off on the IDEA of impregnating. Has a lot to do with possessiveness and dominating. Some of them can even find ACTUAL pregnancy/childbirth/child rearing awful. Elon Musk and Nick Cannon definitely have it. Such pleasant men aren’t they huh lol
Why do some men have breeding kinks? 🤭
click to expand
And it feeds their inflated egos “look at me i can make a baby” but as you say they can’t rear a childclick to expand
I was thinking about narcissism as a first thought but it’s definitely part of a male’s primal instinct to want to spread their seed or else mankind would truly go extinct cause Lord knows most women are more often than not very picky about who they will allow procreation with.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by aquarius09Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by aquarius09Posted by BadderBunnyNo worries. I ain’t waiting on responses from the Op.Posted by aquarius09
Is it ghosting if you speak to someone only 4 days and even that couple messages exchanged ?
Its only ghosting if you have no intention of talking to them again
click to expand
Then, why do people get so upset losing a random online penpal who could be a catfish for all they know.
They got attached. If people feel you are changing up they get anxious you are pulling away. I'm someone who doesn't like inconsistency. If I talk to you every day and then all of a sudden you disappear I will just shrug and move on. But other people will freak out.
click to expand
I’d like to believe this but if someone is getting attached with 4 messages in total, they would certainly give the person who abruptly left a shot if they came back a week or two later and apologized and explained themselves.
They didn’t give you a shot after you apologized and explained yourself? If that was the case you definitely dodged a bullet 😬click to expand
Precisely. They not only ignored my apology message (because they obviously took my reason as a pretext) but they followed up with blocking me. Thats fine and dandy but now 2 yrs later they wannna crawl back. Showed me sass like he has a line up of women outside his place and now he wants to crawl back. I’m not a coward and I feel like saying you don’t show attitude if you plan on revisiting someone.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by RollergirlOrc
How do I become sassy, Kiwi?
One does not simply become, one just is. Real talk tho, by having too much fire energy. Do you have any?click to expand
Fire moon and rising but those don't really count when ruled by Saturn in every other aspect 😅
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Walk_on_by
Where should I go fishing?
You are already on an island surrounded by the sea. You literally have fishing spots all around you! If that truly fails, take a holiday to Australia.click to expand
Thankyou for your wisdom
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Solo
How do I get a big butt to bite and lay on?
Those Latin night clubs might be a good try!click to expand
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