Bachelorette Virgin - Why?

I thankfully have never seen an ep of the Bachelor or Bachelorette

But news websites and twitter seem very happy to update peeps in their feeds.

And they said that the Bachelorette walked out when the nfl guy told her he was still a virgin.

Two things- One, the nfl player as virgin is a partial scam. Because usually these guys especially the other famous player think his name was tim are closeted.

These dudes are only virgins with women. Remember football is notorious for homophobia. There are a lot of players who are closeted and have fake relationships for pr.

The only reason i know that tim guy is closeted is because i saw him make out with a dude on the blvd when i was walking to 1oak in LA long time ago

And this new guy i bet is using the bachlorette for publicity purposes.

But anyhow my main point of this post is if the dude was legit straight, why tell the girl hes a virgin?

Most girls if they are not Christians will not feel comfortable being with a virgin. They feel too much pressure in their mind to make someones first time special. Even if the guy doesn't care about that.

Its better not to say anything unless the girl is christian or specifically states she is one too and would like someone similar to her.

I dont see why guys feel the need to dispense that info as it is no ones business. I mean if a girl is shaking you down just tell her its been years since youve been intimate with a woman. Worst case scenario is she thinks you are

I just dont get the need for men to disclose that info.

It was him. Celebs hang out in sunset at night all the time on the weekend. And it helps when you know a few gay guys in la. Dude is very closeted, as all his girlfriends are for pr which is also known as bearding.

Many actors do bearding as they think they will lose out on roles if they are living as gay publicly.

@Arielle83 Normally i dont out anyone but when the guy is running a scam then i have no issue doing it.

There are a lot of famous peeps i know from living in west Hollywood that are gay and no one knows

My problem is these dudes like tim pretend to be these fundamentalist Christians. Which by the way are against homosexuality.

But while they are condemning them want to be on the downlow to do their thing.

Also, i dont necessarily have an issue with a guy saying they are a virgin. But let's be realistic in the sense that this a tough society we live in. And outside of religious or virgin girls a lot of women dont feel comfortable with male virgins.

@Arielle83 These people on these bachelor shows are just fame whores. They are not really looking for love just 15 minutes of attention. Im dumbfounded that people are still invested in these shows and buy it as gospel.

If a virgin finds a sexually agressive lady more power to them. I personally think male virgins should lose their virginity to a free spirited girl looking to just hook up. Not a girl looking for a relationship as that puts too much pressure on the situation

I lucked out and lost mine to a girl just wanting the d. It took so much pressure off since she wasn't looking for a relationship. So i wasnt so self conscious of how bad i was.

@Arielle83- No problem i could sense it was a miscommunication on my end. Im at work and dont always have time to elaborate on stuff.

Being that this is the internet, i dont know if that is a joke.

But in the event it is not, let me reiterate what i stated early. My issue is with closeted men that say they're fundamentalist christians. And will happily watch someone that is out and of the same sexual orientation be persecuted while they stand on the sidelines pretending to be holier than thou.

Besides that i was just making mention of the fact that a lot of athletes are closeted and pretend to be straight. As they are afraid of what sports fans and what their fellow athletes will think.

As far as my personal feelings go its their business if they want to play straight. UNTIL they go holier than thou and condemn other people of their sexual orientation because they lack the courage to live openly.

@ellesbelles - to address your first question. Yes, it is speculative at this point. But since "tim guy" and this dude are both professional athletes claiming virginity something didnt add up for me. Bare in mind, when i lived in west hollywood, i had friends that worked in publicists office.

They would tell me stories of how the publicists would spin relationships for their clients for publicity or to have their clients pass as straight. And those clients are made to seen with the other celebs. Boosts their profile and if they are secretly gay makes rumors look implausible.

But getting back to the dating other celebs thing. Something went off when i saw it mentioned in my twitter feed that the Bachelorette guy had shortly dated aly raisman. That reeked of a pr fixup to me

Also him going on the bachlorette rang a few bells for me. I never trust anyones intentions that goes on a tv show to look for love.

As far as the feeds- several people i follow on twitter were mentioning it. And being bored i got curious. I have no idea what becca even looks like. I just heard the fact she walked away after mr nfl made his confession.

And reading into it further the whole situation reeked of bs. That was basically it.