@VenusAquarius
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Making Love or Banger Porn Sex?
Difference Between Making Love and Banger Porn Sex
Making love typically involves slow, intimate touches, emotional connection, and tenderness. Banger sex is faster, more intense, and focused on physical stimulation. Your choice depends on your mood and relationship goals. Understanding these differences can improve communication and satisfaction in your sex life.
I don't think I've ever "made love"
Aww, sweet and hot.
Venus Leo 😘 / Mars Gemini 😏
I had both with this one Gemini...damn.
Taurus venus cap mars
Venus Leo 😘 / Mars Gemini 😏
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
If you were in a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
I had both with this one Gemini...damn.
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
If you were in a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
Gotta have a balance of both
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
I had both with this one Gemini...damn.
I'm sayin.
I say, get you a man who can do both. Hold you tightly while looking into your eyes, and the next night has one big hand wrapped around your neck, and gripping your scalp with the other.
V-Aqua
M-Libra
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I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
Porn sex : choke me, kiss me, slap me, call me your slut, kiss my neck at the same time, f*** me like it's your last time ever
Position : Missionary or Doggy but I prefer face to face positons. My scorp got me addicted to him staring at me and kissing me softly during rough sex.
Venus : Scorpio
Mars : Sag
Which have you had the most of?
Sensual, slow sex? Uh...thanks but no thanks!
Playful sex all the way. Grab my hair, push me up against the wall, let me push you up against shiz...I like teasing, flirty sex, and quickies not hours-long...we can do it multiple places more often lol.
Sag sun, Aries mars
Wait, I meant Scorp Venus lol Aries Mars
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
...variety is so important IMO....
Yesireebob, I agree! Variety. Keep it random as fuck n fun and you have me lol.
Sensual, slow sex? Uh...thanks but no thanks!
Playful sex all the way. Grab my hair, push me up against the wall, let me push you up against shiz...I like teasing, flirty sex, and quickies not hours-long...we can do it multiple places more often lol.
Sag sun, Aries mars
I don't get the appeal of grabbing hair and pushing, grabbing etc. I see a lot of people on here sayingthey prefer that but I don't see how that is appealing lol
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For me, it's the playfulness. I don't wanna just lay there. Let's rough-house a bit. Make it a bit of a challenge and you'll have my attention. Be boring and I'm onto the next lol.
Different strokes for different folks, whatevs.
Sensual, slow sex? Uh...thanks but no thanks!
Playful sex all the way. Grab my hair, push me up against the wall, let me push you up against shiz...I like teasing, flirty sex, and quickies not hours-long...we can do it multiple places more often lol.
Sag sun, Aries mars
I don't get the appeal of grabbing hair and pushing, grabbing etc. I see a lot of people on here sayingthey prefer that but I don't see how that is appealing lol
For me, it's the playfulness. I don't wanna just lay there. Let's rough-house a bit. Make it a bit of a challenge and you'll have my attention. Be boring and I'm onto the next lol.
Different strokes for different folks, whatevs.
Ah that's very fire-like so I can see how you would like that. Fire signs are very playful
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Mhmm! 😍 I do enjoy snuggles tho...but first let's have fun!
...variety is so important IMO....
Yesireebob, I agree! Variety. Keep it random as fuck n fun and you have me lol.
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Sag I'm seeing is the same way....loves the spontaneity, and anything involving risk or even slight exhibitionism....dressing rooms, outdoors, even if in secluded spots....cool also is that she has tons of ideas herself, and is always down for whatever/whenever....when I think back to some of my earliest experiences, part of what made it so fun was the risk involved, sneaking into my gf's house middle of the night, or down in her basement while her parents cooked....door swings open, footsteps on the stairs, heart racing getting dressed in like 3 seconds flat lol....that taboo and risk factor really is undervalued I think as we get older, but definitely part of the fun....and pretty easy to recreate or simulate...
...variety is so important IMO....
Yesireebob, I agree! Variety. Keep it random as fuck n fun and you have me lol.
Sag I'm seeing is the same way....loves the spontaneity, and anything involving risk or even slight exhibitionism....dressing rooms, outdoors, even if in secluded spots....cool also is that she has tons of ideas herself, and is always down for whatever/whenever....when I think back to some of my earliest experiences, part of what made it so fun was the risk involved, sneaking into my gf's house middle of the night, or down in her basement while her parents cooked....door swings open, footsteps on the stairs, heart racing getting dressed in like 3 seconds flat lol....that taboo and risk factor really is undervalued I think as we get older, but definitely part of the fun....and pretty easy to recreate or simulate...
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I'm down for whatever, pushing the envelope is fun lol. Altho my focus is on the playfulness not necessarily the risk. If we happen to be in a public place when the mood hits then cool beans, I'm game.
...variety is so important IMO....
Yesireebob, I agree! Variety. Keep it random as fuck n fun and you have me lol.
Sag I'm seeing is the same way....loves the spontaneity, and anything involving risk or even slight exhibitionism....dressing rooms, outdoors, even if in secluded spots....cool also is that she has tons of ideas herself, and is always down for whatever/whenever....when I think back to some of my earliest experiences, part of what made it so fun was the risk involved, sneaking into my gf's house middle of the night, or down in her basement while her parents cooked....door swings open, footsteps on the stairs, heart racing getting dressed in like 3 seconds flat lol....that taboo and risk factor really is undervalued I think as we get older, but definitely part of the fun....and pretty easy to recreate or simulate...
I'm down for whatever, pushing the envelope is fun lol. Altho my focus is on the playfulness not necessarily the risk. If we happen to be in a public place when the mood hits then cool beans, I'm game.
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I can't do full public...lol and I don't think its legal...but just an example - was with her at hotel recently, came in from the pool/sunbathing....she strips down, opens the drapes, opens the doors to the balcony, and then jumped on top of me in the bed....we're high up, mostly overlooking water and no one can see, but there's always that chance there's people in adjacent rooms wit binoculars or really good eyesight lol....
which kinda leads into another point - the more I think about it, its really hard to draw a hard line betw. sensuality/romance and more raw/aggressive style s for me, not just bc one leads to the other, but I think a lot of times you can even interpret the same act in both ways....she's more excited that someone could see us; I was more so enjoying the view of her in the natural light coming in, and the feel of the breeze lol....similarly, she likes really hard sucking/biting on her neck, which is cool, but I'm more enjoying the taste of the salt on her neck lmao....
...variety is so important IMO....
Yesireebob, I agree! Variety. Keep it random as fuck n fun and you have me lol.
Sag I'm seeing is the same way....loves the spontaneity, and anything involving risk or even slight exhibitionism....dressing rooms, outdoors, even if in secluded spots....cool also is that she has tons of ideas herself, and is always down for whatever/whenever....when I think back to some of my earliest experiences, part of what made it so fun was the risk involved, sneaking into my gf's house middle of the night, or down in her basement while her parents cooked....door swings open, footsteps on the stairs, heart racing getting dressed in like 3 seconds flat lol....that taboo and risk factor really is undervalued I think as we get older, but definitely part of the fun....and pretty easy to recreate or simulate...
I'm down for whatever, pushing the envelope is fun lol. Altho my focus is on the playfulness not necessarily the risk. If we happen to be in a public place when the mood hits then cool beans, I'm game.
I can't do full public...lol and I don't think its legal...but just an example - was with her at hotel recently, came in from the pool/sunbathing....she strips down, opens the drapes, opens the doors to the balcony, and then jumped on top of me in the bed....we're high up, mostly overlooking water and no one can see, but there's always that chance there's people in adjacent rooms wit binoculars or really good eyesight lol....
which kinda leads into another point - the more I think about it, its really hard to draw a hard line betw. sensuality/romance and more raw/aggressive style s for me, not just bc one leads to the other, but I think a lot of times you can even interpret the same act in both ways....she's more excited that someone could see us; I was more so enjoying the view of her in the natural light coming in, and the feel of the breeze lol....similarly, she likes really hard sucking/biting on her neck, which is cool, but I'm more enjoying the taste of the salt on her neck lmao....
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Lol, well even w/all the opposing views, ya'll both still having a good time! 😉
It's not the public part for me...it's that when I want it, I want it. Ha, that fire impatience and impulsivity! 🙃
I had both with this one Gemini...damn.
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
If you were in a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
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Ive had more banger porn sex. If I absolutely have to choose I’d choose banger porn lol
I can love you another way...give me passionate, hair pulling, scratching, spanking, choking etc sex.
Venus and Mars in Leo
Even when I try to do the slow love making it turns into hard fucking anyway. I need all of it,rough fucking, spanking, slapping, choking, hair pulling, scratching, pinning your arms behind your back with one hand while I shove your face into a wall or bed with the other hand, toys in your ass while I fuck your pussy, toys in your pussy while I fuck your ass, tied up, hand cuffed, throat fucking until your mascara is running, dirty talk I NEED dirty talk, you’re gonna be my dirty little slut and you refer to me as Daddy or Sir, outdoor sex, any door sex, all kinds of role play, and a bunch of other things that I won’t mention here.
venus/mars scorp
Even when I try to do the slow love making it turns into hard fucking anyway. I need all of it,rough fucking, spanking, slapping, choking, hair pulling, scratching, pinning your arms behind your back with one hand while I shove your face into a wall or bed with the other hand, toys in your ass while I fuck your pussy, toys in your pussy while I fuck your ass, tied up, hand cuffed, throat fucking until your mascara is running, dirty talk I NEED dirty talk, you’re gonna be my dirty little slut and you refer to me as Daddy or Sir, outdoor sex, any door sex, all kinds of role play, and a bunch of other things that I won’t mention here.
venus/mars scorp
I am blessed to have both.
Then, we just blessed together.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus in the 1st and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
If you were in a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Venus/Mars sign?
Which have you had the most of?
How do you define making love vs. banger sex?
Not exclusive to my definitions but just for delineation...
Making love: long kisses, sensual gentle touches, careless whispers, slow deep, I love you talk, positions that focus on embraces.
Porn sex: faster paced, dirty talk, more grabby rough, positions that focus on genital stimulation, often involve breast or booty clapping sounds.
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
Combination of both start slow finish hard
If you were in a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Venus/Mars sign?
Which have you had the most of?
How do you define making love vs. banger sex?
Not exclusive to my definitions but just for delineation...
Making love: long kisses, sensual gentle touches, careless whispers, slow deep, I love you talk, positions that focus on embraces.
Porn sex: faster paced, dirty talk, more grabby rough, positions that focus on genital stimulation, often involve breast or booty clapping sounds.
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
Combination of both start slow finish hard
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That's nice.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
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ah I have mars in leo in 7th, but my venus in gemini, also 5th house.....you might have noticed I can never give straight answers to your questions lol... Its hard to pinpoint my own desires bc they change/adapt alot, and if there is any stable feature, its just that I get off most on what gets my partner off. I just think the two categories overlap too much....choking, spanking, hairpulling, biting - if that's what she wants, and I'm willing to meet her needs, stretch my own boundaries, whatever - isn't that sort of also love/romance, at least from a perspective of like serving/pleasuring another?....if you're all yoked up w/your SO, fist full of hair in one hand, her ankle in another, etc. going at it really hard, and she is moaning in ecstasy, that's still love/romance to me....if I accept the distinction though, which have I had the most of? I'd say more of the hardcore variety, bc being in that patient/more sentimental/engaged/emotional place where you just want to savor the other person is probably a more rare mind state given how busy life is.....
Both. But if I have to choose only one. I go for the second one
Aries Venus, Taurus mars
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
ah I have mars in leo in 7th, but my venus in gemini, also 5th house.....you might have noticed I can never give straight answers to your questions lol... Its hard to pinpoint my own desires bc they change/adapt alot, and if there is any stable feature, its just that I get off most on what gets my partner off. I just think the two categories overlap too much....choking, spanking, hairpulling, biting - if that's what she wants, and I'm willing to meet her needs, stretch my own boundaries, whatever - isn't that sort of also love/romance, at least from a perspective of like serving/pleasuring another?....if you're all yoked up w/your SO, fist full of hair in one hand, her ankle in another, etc. going at it really hard, and she is moaning in ecstasy, that's still love/romance to me....if I accept the distinction though, which have I had the most of? I'd say more of the hardcore variety, bc being in that patient/more sentimental/engaged/emotional place where you just want to savor the other person is probably a more rare mind state given how busy life is.....
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Agreed with the bold. But, you know laymens terms and all.
Nights when the sheets are off the bed and it takes you a day to find your panty in your own room, and your playlist in the background gives you quick mental snapshots... after decades together... yeah, still love.
The make love one definitely! That appeals to me most. The banger sex one doesn't appeal to me at all.
Pisces Venus Libra Mars
I’d choose Love making for me. Sex for me is a build up / need some mental and emotional stimulation. Just physical sex seems boring to me and very rarely do I like banger sex. Well, it just depends on who the partner is. Different people create different dynamics for me. 😁
Cap/Aqua Venus and aqua Mars.
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To the bold: yeah, a good dick tease...cat n' mouse game, fear of rejection, will "build up... mental and emotional stimulation" too. 😁 Succes resulting in banger porn sex.
If I had to choose I’d choose love making. I like the emotional connection.
lmao...."bear trap"
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
ah I have mars in leo in 7th, but my venus in gemini, also 5th house.....you might have noticed I can never give straight answers to your questions lol... Its hard to pinpoint my own desires bc they change/adapt alot, and if there is any stable feature, its just that I get off most on what gets my partner off. I just think the two categories overlap too much....choking, spanking, hairpulling, biting - if that's what she wants, and I'm willing to meet her needs, stretch my own boundaries, whatever - isn't that sort of also love/romance, at least from a perspective of like serving/pleasuring another?....if you're all yoked up w/your SO, fist full of hair in one hand, her ankle in another, etc. going at it really hard, and she is moaning in ecstasy, that's still love/romance to me....if I accept the distinction though, which have I had the most of? I'd say more of the hardcore variety, bc being in that patient/more sentimental/engaged/emotional place where you just want to savor the other person is probably a more rare mind state given how busy life is.....
Agreed with the bold. But, you know laymens terms and all.
Nights when the sheets are off the bed and it takes you a day to find your panty in your own room, and your playlist in the background gives you quick mental snapshots... after decades together... yeah, still love.
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off topic, but what do you think has kept the chemistry alive & well for so long with your dude?
Not much of an emotional/spiritual connection with banger porn sex, especially in the long-term...
Well, if it's based on shallow attraction, vanity, body love... no, not good for longterm.
But, if it's based on your mind, personality is hawt... and, you have perfect rhythm, inspire each other and all that... separation could be physically painful... which is pretty spiritual. When you don't wanna fuck anyone else anymore.
I've had both equal. The love making is with women I consider wife material. The latter is with women most could likely mistake for a prostitute. Or your average street hoe. Which ever, I like to get away from both as fast as possible.
Cancer Venus Taurus mars.
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
ah I have mars in leo in 7th, but my venus in gemini, also 5th house.....you might have noticed I can never give straight answers to your questions lol... Its hard to pinpoint my own desires bc they change/adapt alot, and if there is any stable feature, its just that I get off most on what gets my partner off. I just think the two categories overlap too much....choking, spanking, hairpulling, biting - if that's what she wants, and I'm willing to meet her needs, stretch my own boundaries, whatever - isn't that sort of also love/romance, at least from a perspective of like serving/pleasuring another?....if you're all yoked up w/your SO, fist full of hair in one hand, her ankle in another, etc. going at it really hard, and she is moaning in ecstasy, that's still love/romance to me....if I accept the distinction though, which have I had the most of? I'd say more of the hardcore variety, bc being in that patient/more sentimental/engaged/emotional place where you just want to savor the other person is probably a more rare mind state given how busy life is.....
Agreed with the bold. But, you know laymens terms and all.
Nights when the sheets are off the bed and it takes you a day to find your panty in your own room, and your playlist in the background gives you quick mental snapshots... after decades together... yeah, still love.
off topic, but what do you think has kept the chemistry alive & well for so long with your dude?
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He's a Virgo so, he thinks I'm a perfect person inside and out. As for me, he is actually the man of my prayers and I drew him before I met him. We have alot in common.
Just a tiny example, I'm into horror novels. So, at some point (19), I got it in my mind that I needed a man who knows everything about the Earth. A guy raised on a farm. And, he was... a real complete farm. He was embarrassed to tell me. I took him a while. There's so much more... even dark things.😎
I still can't believe it and, that's stimulating every hour of the day. And, when people think our divorce was romantic... geez. His longsuffering is... I don't know, my God... 4 years no contact. Dated many woman but still wanted me? ☹
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
ah I have mars in leo in 7th, but my venus in gemini, also 5th house.....you might have noticed I can never give straight answers to your questions lol... Its hard to pinpoint my own desires bc they change/adapt alot, and if there is any stable feature, its just that I get off most on what gets my partner off. I just think the two categories overlap too much....choking, spanking, hairpulling, biting - if that's what she wants, and I'm willing to meet her needs, stretch my own boundaries, whatever - isn't that sort of also love/romance, at least from a perspective of like serving/pleasuring another?....if you're all yoked up w/your SO, fist full of hair in one hand, her ankle in another, etc. going at it really hard, and she is moaning in ecstasy, that's still love/romance to me....if I accept the distinction though, which have I had the most of? I'd say more of the hardcore variety, bc being in that patient/more sentimental/engaged/emotional place where you just want to savor the other person is probably a more rare mind state given how busy life is.....
Agreed with the bold. But, you know laymens terms and all.
Nights when the sheets are off the bed and it takes you a day to find your panty in your own room, and your playlist in the background gives you quick mental snapshots... after decades together... yeah, still love.
off topic, but what do you think has kept the chemistry alive & well for so long with your dude?
He's a Virgo so, he thinks I'm a perfect person inside and out. As for me, he is actually the man of my prayers and I drew him before I met him. We have alot in common.
Just a tiny example, I'm into horror novels. So, at some point (19), I got it in my mind that I needed a man who knows everything about the Earth. A guy raised on a farm. And, he was... a real complete farm. He was embarrassed to tell me. I took him a while. There's so much more... even dark things.😎
We tell each other everything, good, bad, and ugly. Raw communication... even if it hurts.
I still can't believe it and, that's stimulating every hour of the day. And, when people think our divorce was romantic... geez. His longsuffering is... I don't know, my God... 4 years no contact. Dated many woman but still wanted me? ☹
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Even when I try to do the slow love making it turns into hard fucking anyway. I need all of it,rough fucking, spanking, slapping, choking, hair pulling, scratching, pinning your arms behind your back with one hand while I shove your face into a wall or bed with the other hand, toys in your ass while I fuck your pussy, toys in your pussy while I fuck your ass, tied up, hand cuffed, throat fucking until your mascara is running, dirty talk I NEED dirty talk, you’re gonna be my dirty little slut and you refer to me as Daddy or Sir, outdoor sex, any door sex, all kinds of role play, and a bunch of other things that I won’t mention here.
venus/mars scorp
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Haha and I didn’t even include all the best stuff 🤷🏻♀️
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
ah I have mars in leo in 7th, but my venus in gemini, also 5th house.....you might have noticed I can never give straight answers to your questions lol... Its hard to pinpoint my own desires bc they change/adapt alot, and if there is any stable feature, its just that I get off most on what gets my partner off. I just think the two categories overlap too much....choking, spanking, hairpulling, biting - if that's what she wants, and I'm willing to meet her needs, stretch my own boundaries, whatever - isn't that sort of also love/romance, at least from a perspective of like serving/pleasuring another?....if you're all yoked up w/your SO, fist full of hair in one hand, her ankle in another, etc. going at it really hard, and she is moaning in ecstasy, that's still love/romance to me....if I accept the distinction though, which have I had the most of? I'd say more of the hardcore variety, bc being in that patient/more sentimental/engaged/emotional place where you just want to savor the other person is probably a more rare mind state given how busy life is.....
Agreed with the bold. But, you know laymens terms and all.
Nights when the sheets are off the bed and it takes you a day to find your panty in your own room, and your playlist in the background gives you quick mental snapshots... after decades together... yeah, still love.
off topic, but what do you think has kept the chemistry alive & well for so long with your dude?
He's a Virgo so, he thinks I'm a perfect person inside and out. As for me, he is actually the man of my prayers and I drew him before I met him. We have alot in common.
Just a tiny example, I'm into horror novels. So, at some point (19), I got it in my mind that I needed a man who knows everything about the Earth. A guy raised on a farm. And, he was... a real complete farm. He was embarrassed to tell me. I took him a while. There's so much more... even dark things.😎
We tell each other everything, good, bad, and ugly. Raw communication... even if it hurts.
I still can't believe it and, that's stimulating every hour of the day. And, when people think our divorce was romantic... geez. His longsuffering is... I don't know, my God... 4 years no contact. Dated many woman but still wanted me? ☹
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I guess when it is really meant to be like that, or maybe the key is that you both believe and feel it is (?), nothing can kill it? anyway, in your pics, aside from the fact that you are so beautiful, it really always looks to me like you have the glow of a person who is actually in love....its inspiring to see that it still occurs....
dont think I could choose betw the two....lately it is both every time...starts off slow and sensual....more aggression/passion as it progresses and turns into something completely different....not sure they are opposed at all, but blur 2gether for me....I do notice we take our time and are much heavier on the foreplay/sensuality if we smoke first....if we have been drinking, tends to be much more rough....also Sag/Gem axis is my favorite here....every time seems different....variety is so important IMO....
Yeah, my Venus and Mars in the 5th are the kings of variety.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Which have you had the most of?
ah I have mars in leo in 7th, but my venus in gemini, also 5th house.....you might have noticed I can never give straight answers to your questions lol... Its hard to pinpoint my own desires bc they change/adapt alot, and if there is any stable feature, its just that I get off most on what gets my partner off. I just think the two categories overlap too much....choking, spanking, hairpulling, biting - if that's what she wants, and I'm willing to meet her needs, stretch my own boundaries, whatever - isn't that sort of also love/romance, at least from a perspective of like serving/pleasuring another?....if you're all yoked up w/your SO, fist full of hair in one hand, her ankle in another, etc. going at it really hard, and she is moaning in ecstasy, that's still love/romance to me....if I accept the distinction though, which have I had the most of? I'd say more of the hardcore variety, bc being in that patient/more sentimental/engaged/emotional place where you just want to savor the other person is probably a more rare mind state given how busy life is.....
Agreed with the bold. But, you know laymens terms and all.
Nights when the sheets are off the bed and it takes you a day to find your panty in your own room, and your playlist in the background gives you quick mental snapshots... after decades together... yeah, still love.
off topic, but what do you think has kept the chemistry alive & well for so long with your dude?
He's a Virgo so, he thinks I'm a perfect person inside and out. As for me, he is actually the man of my prayers and I drew him before I met him. We have alot in common.
Just a tiny example, I'm into horror novels. So, at some point (19), I got it in my mind that I needed a man who knows everything about the Earth. A guy raised on a farm. And, he was... a real complete farm. He was embarrassed to tell me. I took him a while. There's so much more... even dark things.😎
We tell each other everything, good, bad, and ugly. Raw communication... even if it hurts.
I still can't believe it and, that's stimulating every hour of the day. And, when people think our divorce was romantic... geez. His longsuffering is... I don't know, my God... 4 years no contact. Dated many woman but still wanted me? ☹
I guess when it is really meant to be like that, or maybe the key is that you both believe and feel it is (?), nothing can kill it? anyway, in your pics, aside from the fact that you are so beautiful, it really always looks to me like you have the glow of a person who is actually in love....its inspiring to see that it still occurs....
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Awww, thank you.
Hey, I ain't trying to paint a perfect picture. Our divorce was a horror story (but, I love horror too). Our son calls us Beauty & the Beast. But, surviving each other's dark sides... that's something forever bonding. I'm proud of myself for handling him with no need for forgiveness because I knew what I asked for... deep, deep, down.
Even when I try to do the slow love making it turns into hard fucking anyway. I need all of it,rough fucking, spanking, slapping, choking, hair pulling, scratching, pinning your arms behind your back with one hand while I shove your face into a wall or bed with the other hand, toys in your ass while I fuck your pussy, toys in your pussy while I fuck your ass, tied up, hand cuffed, throat fucking until your mascara is running, dirty talk I NEED dirty talk, you’re gonna be my dirty little slut and you refer to me as Daddy or Sir, outdoor sex, any door sex, all kinds of role play, and a bunch of other things that I won’t mention here.
venus/mars scorp
Haha and I didn’t even include all the best stuff 🤷🏻♀️
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porn seks maikes da baby
love sex does not satisfyenough unless youre in a really really really emo mood
LMAO!
If you were in a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Venus/Mars sign?
Which have you had the most of?
How do you define making love vs. banger sex?
Not exclusive to my definitions but just for delineation...
Making love: long kisses, sensual gentle touches, careless whispers, slow deep, I love you talk, positions that focus on embraces.
Porn sex: faster paced, dirty talk, more grabby rough, positions that focus on genital stimulation, often involve breast or booty clapping sounds.
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
Combination of both start slow finish hard
That's nice.
Now...
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.
In a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
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the thing is i like sensuality so i can't choose most of the time sex is very explosive with me anyways so i would say porn sex the thing is i'm a virgo and i like to please either i like to do that in slow way or fast way i need to make sure my partner is satisfied, My sagg and i are on the same level so then i would choose porn star hahaha
Making love is the best I think
But you can mix all those things together!
So it's like making love but it's spicy because it's little dirty that's my favorite lol
Venus/Aqua Mars/Scorpio
In light of today's topics... dick size, bad attraction, erectile dysfunction, etc....
BUMP
This question is quite difficult to answer with an either or so here's my attempt lol. As personally get off more tapping into my partners desires and then blending the two. I have had long term relationships which more relied one or a combo of the two
For option 1 love making I notice this ilwas more heaving in my water Venus connections (Mars taurus/Venus cancer and Mars capricorn /Venus Pisces)
Deep connection years of friendship. anytime anywhere banger sex was with my ex finance ( Mars aries/Venus libra).
For me really depends on the connection with the partner. Because my ass going always want to spice it, change it...I need it soul bending transcendent,. Mars taurus /1st house , Venus cap/9th house.
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If you were in a committed relationship, and could only have one or the other, which would you choose?
Venus/Mars sign?
Which have you had the most of?
How do you define making love vs. banger sex?
Not exclusive to my definitions but just for delineation...
Making love: long kisses, sensual gentle touches, careless whispers, slow deep, I love you talk, positions that focus on embraces.
Porn sex: faster paced, dirty talk, more grabby rough, positions that focus on genital stimulation, often involve breast or booty clapping sounds.
I know we get in moods for one or the other and can have both in one session so, this is just hypothetical.