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💔MY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE STORY💔
Understanding the Impact of Domestic Violence
Domestic violence involves emotional, physical, or sexual abuse by a partner. It can escalate to severe injury or death. Recognizing the signs and seeking help is crucial for safety. Resources are available to support victims and intervene before tragedy occurs. No one deserves to live in fear or harm from an intimate partner.
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Is this a true story that happened to you? I am sorry to hear you went through this if it was. Why are your dates in the future though do you mean June or July 2017?
Yes this is my story it happened to me 3weeks ago.
and I was already pissed off today.
but now.... my body is boiling.
edit: *after getting a snack to reduce my blood pressure*
if you already got the evidence and the reports, you gotta put his sorry ass on jail, and in many jurisdiction, women can ask compensation for domestic abuse, I'd say take everything, max consequences for that piece of shit.
What? Is it real? Is he walking streets? Is he fucking alive? Why?
Woman!!! I almost died reading it!
What’s now? Isn’t he going to be locked up? Mind blowing...what—
No! You have to tell the end of it! Shit!!! Really— Sorry to the highest degree of sorry!
and I was already pissed off today.
but now.... my body is boiling.
edit: *after getting a snack to reduce my blood pressure*
if you already got the evidence and the reports, you gotta put his sorry ass on jail, and in many jurisdiction, women can ask compensation for domestic abuse, I'd say take everything, max consequences for that piece of shit.
I plan to share my story in court and hope that he pays for what he did and hopefully he never does this again to any other woman. No human should do this to another human. It was torture. A nightmare that I re live in my mind daily.
Is this a true story that happened to you? I am sorry to hear you went through this if it was. Why are your dates in the future though do you mean June or July 2017?
Yes this is my story it happened to me 3weeks ago.
Are you ok?
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I plan to be, I’m still recovering.
Wow!
Sorry that happened to you. Are you okay? Are people looking out for you? Restraining order (not that that works 100% )? 3 days in jail? For all that?
What was this guys sign?
The doctors put took me off work, I’m still recovering from the concussion but healing little by little, I am safe, I moved out of my place I’m an hour away from him hiding out and looking for a new job so when I recover I have a new place and new job, the plan is to start a fresh start away from that nightmare.
What? Is it real? Is he walking streets? Is he fucking alive? Why?
Woman!!! I almost died reading it!
What’s now? Isn’t he going to be locked up? Mind blowing...what—
No! You have to tell the end of it! Shit!!! Really— Sorry to the highest degree of sorry!
Yes he’s out free on bail, until we go to court which is in a couple weeks.
I couldn’t even finish this story. I almost made it halfway and I refuse to finish it. I seriously hope this guy is gone out of your life and you are protected by people that will help you. What a trash example of a man. Most importantly, I am glad you are alive and able to share this story. I don’t know whether it’s fiction or a self experience, but shit, it’s extremely vivid and graphic.
Unfortunately it’s not fiction, I am blessed to have survived and I know with time I’ll be me again. I hope that Sharing my story helps someone out there who is dealing with domestic violence, sometimes people aren’t lucky enough to share their story
Assholes like your guy are killed by cops here in the Philippines. That or thrown in jail to be raped by inmates.
I’m so sorry that happened to you *hugs* 😭💔
I wish someone will beat this monster to death
He is not a man, for what he did to you, threaten you!!
Glad that you survived, take care of yourself please .
I hope you know that nothing that happened was your fault. Every adult should be able to control themselves.
Did he ever show signs of physical and verbal abuse before this?
Omg this is horrible. I’m so sorry you had to go through this. I’m glad you are taking care of yourself and have a plan. Is this the Libra who was trying to get you back?
Big hugs!
Thank you yes it was him.
Is this a true story that happened to you? I am sorry to hear you went through this if it was. Why are your dates in the future though do you mean June or July 2017?
Yes this is my story it happened to me 3weeks ago.
Are you ok?
I plan to be, I’m still recovering.
❤ so awful that you went through that. I hope he rots in jail.
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Same here. Praying and hoping he pays for the torture.
I couldn’t even finish this story. I almost made it halfway and I refuse to finish it. I seriously hope this guy is gone out of your life and you are protected by people that will help you. What a trash example of a man. Most importantly, I am glad you are alive and able to share this story. I don’t know whether it’s fiction or a self experience, but shit, it’s extremely vivid and graphic.
Unfortunately it’s not fiction, I am blessed to have survived and I know with time I’ll be me again. I hope that Sharing my story helps someone out there who is dealing with domestic violence, sometimes people aren’t lucky enough to share their story
Well like I said, I’m glad you could share this within the community. It is a real eye opener for someone who doesn’t deal with domestic violence, as well with someone who is dealing and cannot recognize it. This is one hell of a thing to happen to you and you sound like you are coming out stronger. Don’t you ever let this happen to you again.
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Thank you yes it’s definitely an eye opener.
Assholes like your guy are killed by cops here in the Philippines. That or thrown in jail to be raped by inmates.
Unfortunately he’s in California and the laws are so much different out here.
I’m so sorry that happened to you *hugs* 😭💔
I wish someone will beat this monster to death
He is not a man, for what he did to you, threaten you!!
Glad that you survived, take care of yourself please .
Thank you, yes I’m sure one day he will pay for this. I have faith that he will get his one day .
i'm so sorry.. what a terrible man... i hope he'd stay far away from you and that you're around loved ones
Yes I had to leave my place and move in with family until I get a new place, he has no idea where I am now. I’m hiding until my court date.
I hope you know that nothing that happened was your fault. Every adult should be able to control themselves.
Did he ever show signs of physical and verbal abuse before this?
He became possessive and jealous but was never physical with me.
Reading this made my stomach turn a little. I hope you get justice, your peace of mind, and healing. Keep yourself and your children safe.
Yes it’s sickening when I re live it in my mind, when I read my story it only makes me realize how lucky I am to have survived. My children are safe and they are my priority. Thank you
Be careful who you date
Everyone reacts to situations differently
Something small to you, could mean a death sentence to someone else
Good luck
True. I never thought he was capable of this, but I’ve learned to give up on relationships for a while.
i'm so sorry.. what a terrible man... i hope he'd stay far away from you and that you're around loved ones
Yes I had to leave my place and move in with family until I get a new place, he has no idea where I am now. I’m hiding until my court date.
yeah it's best that he doesn't know where you live.. did he show any signs of being violent or abusive in the past? how long have you known each other?
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He was never physically abusive
He did argue but I didn’t pay attention to it
He was pocessive and jealous even more towards the end.
2yrs in a half exactly
We lived together half a year.
Crazy libra, I’m sure his chart is full of scorpio/virgo placements.
Nevemind me sweety, I’m just taking notes.
Even tho I know it have nothing to do with his chart.
You’re so lucky 🍀, And this monster will pay for what he did, karma will destroy him.
So sorry to hear what happened to you
He sounds like a very sick person
Look after yourself and children 💙
i'm so sorry.. what a terrible man... i hope he'd stay far away from you and that you're around loved ones
Yes I had to leave my place and move in with family until I get a new place, he has no idea where I am now. I’m hiding until my court date.
yeah it's best that he doesn't know where you live.. did he show any signs of being violent or abusive in the past? how long have you known each other?
He was never physically abusive
He did argue but I didn’t pay attention to it
He was pocessive and jealous even more towards the end.
2yrs in a half exactly
We lived together half a year.
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Did your children live with him also?
Fuck that fucking asshole! I would NOT allow myself to be treated that way; thank GOD I intimidate men (NOW I fully understand "why"); in the good sense that they know it will be either HIM or ME; fuck the latter! I will fight to the end to protect myself (I have spit, nails, teeth, long legs to kick him in the balls, etc)...fucking asshole!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Hope you’re ok
I’m am okay yesterday I finally saw him at preliminary hearing/ court for the first time since the night he left me on the ground completely hurt. He followed me with his vision the entire time. He did not get his eyes off me, he wanted to make eye contact no idea why. He sat behind me and I had to walk out of the court room to avoid him. Not sure why he wanted to be near me. I finally went up on the witness stand and said my story out loud for the first time and right in front of him. My family said that he cried the entire time. I did notice he covered his face while i talked and answered questions. The judge requested to see my pictures of how he had left me and decided to arrest him then and there with a bail of $ 180K which is only $ 18k in reality, he’s still in custody I pray he doesn’t get out. We’re still awaiting trial.
Hope you’re ok
I’m am okay yesterday I finally saw him at preliminary hearing/ court for the first time since the night he left me on the ground completely hurt. He followed me with his vision the entire time. He did not get his eyes off me, he wanted to make eye contact no idea why. He sat behind me and I had to walk out of the court room to avoid him. Not sure why he wanted to be near me. I finally went up on the witness stand and said my story out loud for the first time and right in front of him. My family said that he cried the entire time. I did notice he covered his face while i talked and answered questions. The judge requested to see my pictures of how he had left me and decided to arrest him then and there with a bail of $ 180K which is only $ 18k in reality, he’s still in custody I pray he doesn’t get out. We’re still awaiting trial.
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Crazy man, he was thinking that you’re cheating on him.
These kind of crazy men always insecure af.
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Take care of yourself, Stay safe please.
Hope you’re ok
I’m am okay yesterday I finally saw him at preliminary hearing/ court for the first time since the night he left me on the ground completely hurt. He followed me with his vision the entire time. He did not get his eyes off me, he wanted to make eye contact no idea why. He sat behind me and I had to walk out of the court room to avoid him. Not sure why he wanted to be near me. I finally went up on the witness stand and said my story out loud for the first time and right in front of him. My family said that he cried the entire time. I did notice he covered his face while i talked and answered questions. The judge requested to see my pictures of how he had left me and decided to arrest him then and there with a bail of $ 180K which is only $ 18k in reality, he’s still in custody I pray he doesn’t get out. We’re still awaiting trial.
Crazy man, he was thinking that you’re cheating on him.
These kind of crazy men always insecure af.
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Take care of yourself, Stay safe please.
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Thank you sis I am safe now
wow...I can't believe you had to go through this and feel for you deeply 😢 stay strong and fight that bastard with last breath you have if it takes...with whole honesty speaking I wouldn't even bother going to a police for such bastard, I would pay for his death with last money I have if that's what it takes, he wouldn't walk streets for long after that. Not only because of me, but because of potential of him hurting another person the same way. Someone who's capable of doing such horror to another human being, specially lying about it and taking it on a weaker than them...they don't deserve to live. Just my take on this. I admire your strength and ability to survive something like that. Get well asap and take good care of yourself and your kids. Wish you a lot of luck in life and for only good people in your life from now on...
Hurting someone back physically is not always the best solution. I need to be free and alive for my kids.
Such a sick individual. I hope he gets what he deserves. Stay strong. ❤
Thanks I hope so too
i'm so sorry.. what a terrible man... i hope he'd stay far away from you and that you're around loved ones
Yes I had to leave my place and move in with family until I get a new place, he has no idea where I am now. I’m hiding until my court date.
yeah it's best that he doesn't know where you live.. did he show any signs of being violent or abusive in the past? how long have you known each other?
He was never physically abusive
He did argue but I didn’t pay attention to it
He was pocessive and jealous even more towards the end.
2yrs in a half exactly
We lived together half a year.
Did your children live with him also?
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I was never ready to let my kids meet him. They never met him. They only knew that I dated someone but never knew him personally
This breaks my heart. Both of my sisters were victims of domestic abuse. I am glad you are strong enough to fight against him and to see to it that he is charged. Please be very careful with social media as far as never posting your whereabouts or photos that might indicate where you are hiding. Also disable any type of location tracking from your cell phone if you have not already. I am praying for you and your children’s safety. I pray that justice is served swiftly so that you can get back to living your life without fear. Praying for a speedy recovery as well, both physically as well as emotionally/psychologically. ❤️
This.
Have you told your family and friends about what happened?
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My family was there since day 1. My best friends we’re at court with me yesterday when I faced him.
I am sorry to hear that you experienced that. I hope you have a speedy recovery.
What are you doing to keep yourself safe?
I relocated jobs and my home I was hiding from him, no personal social media, and blocked from any account he could seek me. I was careful where I went she was never alone.
This breaks my heart. Both of my sisters were victims of domestic abuse. I am glad you are strong enough to fight against him and to see to it that he is charged. Please be very careful with social media as far as never posting your whereabouts or photos that might indicate where you are hiding. Also disable any type of location tracking from your cell phone if you have not already. I am praying for you and your children’s safety. I pray that justice is served swiftly so that you can get back to living your life without fear. Praying for a speedy recovery as well, both physically as well as emotionally/psychologically. ❤️
Thank you for sharing I pray for your sisters too. How are they now?
Where is he from and how old is he?
He’s in his 30s
Why the song
Why the song
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I just feel sad, and can't really empress how everything feels other then the song.
I'm glad your alive though. That guy is a psychopath, and needs to be put down.
I just looked how big ass story it is and was like, I'll start with the comments.
What are you saying?
Why the song
I just feel sad, and can't really empress how everything feels other then the song.
I'm glad your alive though. That guy is a psychopath, and needs to be put down.
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No one deserves to die honestly but he does deserve to be behind bars reflecting and Changing to better himself and never hurt any human again. I’m glad I’m alive too thank you
Hope you’re ok
I’m am okay yesterday I finally saw him at preliminary hearing/ court for the first time since the night he left me on the ground completely hurt. He followed me with his vision the entire time. He did not get his eyes off me, he wanted to make eye contact no idea why. He sat behind me and I had to walk out of the court room to avoid him. Not sure why he wanted to be near me. I finally went up on the witness stand and said my story out loud for the first time and right in front of him. My family said that he cried the entire time. I did notice he covered his face while i talked and answered questions. The judge requested to see my pictures of how he had left me and decided to arrest him then and there with a bail of $ 180K which is only $ 18k in reality, he’s still in custody I pray he doesn’t get out. We’re still awaiting trial.
Not matter how remorseful he appears. He can cry himself a river
Don’t go back to him
Im so glad to hear you have a great support system
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This only god can forgive. Myself I am here to stop him from being able to hurt another female in the future I am going to do what’s right and tell my story in that court room
On June 16, 2018 at 3 AM I was woken up By my boyfriend Steven R. who was sitting on top of me hitting me, beating me, he had my phone in his hand questioning me why I had added friends on my social media and why I had not told him about this. He mainly mentioned one person a guy named Mario S who he had no longer been friends with since 2012 due to a female. (two weeks prior to this incident me and Steven Ramirez had taken a break, a two week break to be exact. During that break I did add a couple friends on my social media Snapchat account). The beating took over an hour. Constantly punching my face, my head , my back, my rib area and anywhere he could with a closed fist as hard as he could, constantly choking me, slapping me on my face and butt over and over as hard as he could, dragging me around my apartment by my hair, by my arms and any way he could. I begged for him to stop but he wouldn’t. I apologized but he only hurt me more. Nothing that I could say would make him stop. (I also said I’d see my family for fathers day the next day and they would know he was the one who was with me that night, especially because people saw us on social media at a night club that night) He sat on top of me & would not allow me to move or get away, as I tried to scream for help he would choke me and covered my nose & mouth where I couldn’t breathe and then he told me that I would be sorry if I continued to scream. I feared for my life. I tried to run towards the front door to try to run out of the apartment, but he followed me and push me into a kitchen corner, I open a kitchen drawer and grabbed a knife to try to protect myself. He held my arm against the corner where he had pinned me & would not let me go, I pleaded for him to leave, he asked me to drop the kitchen knife and he agreed to grab his belongings and leave. (We did live together at the time).
As I dropped the kitchen knife I ran towards the restroom and locked myself in there. I barricaded myself in there in hopes that he would leave. I could only hear him walking around the apartment. Then he kicked in the restroom door and continue to beat me. I was bleeding all over the apartment, my face was swollen, I could no longer see clearly, but a blur. I was dizzy, out of energy. There was no more strength within me. At one point I felt as if I was going to die, I could no longer try to wrestle with him nor try to push him off of me, I could no longer fight for my life. Only then, I prayed and prayed and prayed. I prayed that he would stop, I prayed that I would survive to see my children again. All I could think of was of my two kids. He called me many names such as whore, slut, bitch, among so many others. Each time I told him the truth about my loyalty and faithfulness to him he would strike me again and again. At one point I realize that he wanted me to say what he wanted to hear in order for him to stop beating me. He wanted me to agree that I was an unfaithful woman to him, which I wasn’t. Each time I swore to him that I was faithful he beat me harder. At one point I begun to agree to all his fabricated stories about me and I realized he would stop hurting me and he even said to me, “see your learning now”, if agreeing to his fabricated stories we’re going to save my life, then I would agree to all of it. As I tried to get off the ground he would tell me to stay down because I would be sorry if I stood up, he stood over me threatening to beat me some more so I just obeyed and laid on the ground, completely naked. Before he left he whispered in my ear, “ if you go to the cops and say my name you’ll be sorry, I will have your kids and you and their father killed, I know where they live, work and go to school, I won’t even need to dirty my hands because I have people who will gladly do it for me”, he then kissed my cheek and said “I hope you remember me each time you see your face in the mirror, you just lost a best friend”. Minutes later as I heard the front door shut I remained on the ground very hurt, I cried, I had so much pain, I crawled to ensure he was gone, I lock the door, looked for my cell phone but I couldn’t find it anywhere. I had no form of communication. (He was the last person to have my phone, I assumed he took it so I wouldn’t call for help) I noticed he had thrown my sofas all over the living room, he had thrown my laundry all over my room, (seemed to me that he was staging something before he left) at this point I got dressed as quickly as I could and even though I feared for my life I walked carefully to my car and went to seek help. His request was for me to stay in that apartment and not tell anyone, maybe in hopes that I’d die and no one ever know my story. I ended up in the hospital with many bumps and bruises and a horrible concussion that caused such bad side effects, till this day I am recovering. (I had to replace my phone of course since I had no idea what he had done to my other phone) June 17th, 2018 at 10:45pm he dialed my number, maybe he was checking to see if I was still alive, maybe he wanted to threaten me again, regardless his motives, I didn’t answer. June 20th, 2018 he was finally arrested, and out on bail June 23, 2018. Were awaiting trial and justice on this matter, all because he falsely accused me of being unfaithful to him and accepting friend requests on social media. No one should ever be tortured this way!
Please don’t ever let anyone put their hands on you this way.
The CDC analyzed the murders of women in 18 states from 2003 to 2014, finding a total of 10,018 deaths. Of those, 55 percent were intimate partner violence-related, meaning they occurred at the hands of a former or current partner. In 93 percent of those cases, the culprit was a current or former romantic partner
My heart is racing after reading your story. Your blessed to be alive. Every day above ground is another chance given by God to learn & improve. I sincerely hope this creature goes to jail for a long time. My hope for yourself & all of my sisters who may read this. At the very 1 st sign he’s crazy jealous or psycho then believe it & walk away ASAP.
My question for you is what we’re some of the signs he gave off before this all happened? Surely there was something?
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He constantly text me, called me wanted to know where I was & with who & checked my phone. It seemed as if he did not trust me. I didn’t give them any reason to not trust me therefore I did not understand why he was so jealous. He started questioning me a lot about me being truthful to him. Then one day while I was sleeping he went through my phone and saw that I had added friends on social media and he snapped. No one understands how something so insignificant can make someone snap and react that way. Many people suspect that he must have been doing drugs, Which I don’t believe because I never saw any signs of drugs in our home. We did live together. But then again no one really knows what caused this behavior. Only he knows what was going through his mind and what he was feeling when he decided to hurt me the way he did.
This is why you learn to defend yourself. You learn to shoot and hit accurately. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please learn how to defend yourself and shoot the ass off of the next person who tries to harm you.
Let’s hope there’s no next person.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you are trying your best to regain your overall well-being dealing with the trauma. Please keep yourself and children safe, and I hope you have reported this to the police.
We had a preliminary hearing this past Monday. He’s currently behind bars. With the option to bail out. Everyone is hoping that he stays in there until we begin trial. And until he is sentenced.
I wish you great love and healing. Stay strong.
Thank you
I wish you great love and healing. Stay strong.
Thank you
Sorry, my mom was also abused by my dad many times and some of it we had to watch .That man must go to jail.
i'm so sorry.. what a terrible man... i hope he'd stay far away from you and that you're around loved ones
Yes I had to leave my place and move in with family until I get a new place, he has no idea where I am now. I’m hiding until my court date.
yeah it's best that he doesn't know where you live.. did he show any signs of being violent or abusive in the past? how long have you known each other?
He was never physically abusive
He did argue but I didn’t pay attention to it
He was pocessive and jealous even more towards the end.
2yrs in a half exactly
We lived together half a year.
Did your children live with him also?
I was never ready to let my kids meet him. They never met him. They only knew that I dated someone but never knew him personally
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This is really good. The amount of children who also get abused in the process by such partners of their parents' is alarmingly high.
My thoughts and prayers are with you for fast recovery.
Sorry, my mom was also abused by my dad many times and some of it we had to watch .That man must go to jail.
I’m sorry to hear hope she’s better now
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On June 16, 2018 at 3 AM I was woken up By my boyfriend Steven R. who was sitting on top of me hitting me, beating me, he had my phone in his hand questioning me why I had added friends on my social media and why I had not told him about this. He mainly mentioned one person a guy named Mario S who he had no longer been friends with since 2012 due to a female. (two weeks prior to this incident me and Steven Ramirez had taken a break, a two week break to be exact. During that break I did add a couple friends on my social media Snapchat account). The beating took over an hour. Constantly punching my face, my head , my back, my rib area and anywhere he could with a closed fist as hard as he could, constantly choking me, slapping me on my face and butt over and over as hard as he could, dragging me around my apartment by my hair, by my arms and any way he could. I begged for him to stop but he wouldn’t. I apologized but he only hurt me more. Nothing that I could say would make him stop. (I also said I’d see my family for fathers day the next day and they would know he was the one who was with me that night, especially because people saw us on social media at a night club that night) He sat on top of me & would not allow me to move or get away, as I tried to scream for help he would choke me and covered my nose & mouth where I couldn’t breathe and then he told me that I would be sorry if I continued to scream. I feared for my life. I tried to run towards the front door to try to run out of the apartment, but he followed me and push me into a kitchen corner, I open a kitchen drawer and grabbed a knife to try to protect myself. He held my arm against the corner where he had pinned me & would not let me go, I pleaded for him to leave, he asked me to drop the kitchen knife and he agreed to grab his belongings and leave. (We did live together at the time).
As I dropped the kitchen knife I ran towards the restroom and locked myself in there. I barricaded myself in there in hopes that he would leave. I could only hear him walking around the apartment. Then he kicked in the restroom door and continue to beat me. I was bleeding all over the apartment, my face was swollen, I could no longer see clearly, but a blur. I was dizzy, out of energy. There was no more strength within me. At one point I felt as if I was going to die, I could no longer try to wrestle with him nor try to push him off of me, I could no longer fight for my life. Only then, I prayed and prayed and prayed. I prayed that he would stop, I prayed that I would survive to see my children again. All I could think of was of my two kids. He called me many names such as whore, slut, bitch, among so many others. Each time I told him the truth about my loyalty and faithfulness to him he would strike me again and again. At one point I realize that he wanted me to say what he wanted to hear in order for him to stop beating me. He wanted me to agree that I was an unfaithful woman to him, which I wasn’t. Each time I swore to him that I was faithful he beat me harder. At one point I begun to agree to all his fabricated stories about me and I realized he would stop hurting me and he even said to me, “see your learning now”, if agreeing to his fabricated stories we’re going to save my life, then I would agree to all of it. As I tried to get off the ground he would tell me to stay down because I would be sorry if I stood up, he stood over me threatening to beat me some more so I just obeyed and laid on the ground, completely naked. Before he left he whispered in my ear, “ if you go to the cops and say my name you’ll be sorry, I will have your kids and you and their father killed, I know where they live, work and go to school, I won’t even need to dirty my hands because I have people who will gladly do it for me”, he then kissed my cheek and said “I hope you remember me each time you see your face in the mirror, you just lost a best friend”. Minutes later as I heard the front door shut I remained on the ground very hurt, I cried, I had so much pain, I crawled to ensure he was gone, I lock the door, looked for my cell phone but I couldn’t find it anywhere. I had no form of communication. (He was the last person to have my phone, I assumed he took it so I wouldn’t call for help) I noticed he had thrown my sofas all over the living room, he had thrown my laundry all over my room, (seemed to me that he was staging something before he left) at this point I got dressed as quickly as I could and even though I feared for my life I walked carefully to my car and went to seek help. His request was for me to stay in that apartment and not tell anyone, maybe in hopes that I’d die and no one ever know my story. I ended up in the hospital with many bumps and bruises and a horrible concussion that caused such bad side effects, till this day I am recovering. (I had to replace my phone of course since I had no idea what he had done to my other phone) June 17th, 2018 at 10:45pm he dialed my number, maybe he was checking to see if I was still alive, maybe he wanted to threaten me again, regardless his motives, I didn’t answer. June 20th, 2018 he was finally arrested, and out on bail June 23, 2018. Were awaiting trial and justice on this matter, all because he falsely accused me of being unfaithful to him and accepting friend requests on social media. No one should ever be tortured this way!
Please don’t ever let anyone put their hands on you this way.
The CDC analyzed the murders of women in 18 states from 2003 to 2014, finding a total of 10,018 deaths. Of those, 55 percent were intimate partner violence-related, meaning they occurred at the hands of a former or current partner. In 93 percent of those cases, the culprit was a current or former romantic partner.