@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts
Because relationship butter really sucks,
The problem with relationships sucking isn't because of sex ... it's because you made it the problem.
Sex isn't the relationship ... it's an effect of the relationship.
Unfortunately, people think it IS the foundation of the relationship.
Posted by P-Angel
The problem with relationships sucking ... it's because you made it the problem.
Can you don't say You please? It's not really me who caused it. Stick to "they" and I can take your comment seriously. Thanks.
haha it's part of living in an oversexed society. the only topic that gets people excited is sex. lol
some people on dxp can't even finish a sentence without throwing in some sort of sexual innuendo in there lol it's kinda funny.
I think most people attribute asexuality to sex, which is where it should be contributed to... if we were sponges.
Many people are actually asexual or aromantic. Either they derive no joy or desire from sexual activity or they derive no joy out of being in romantic relationships, or they just don't become romantically attached to other people.
I think in general, most of us would want to be aromantic... because come on... sex is awesome.
Posted by P-Angel
The problem with relationships sucking isn't because of sex ... it's because you made it the problem.Sex isn't the relationship ... it's an effect of the relationship.
Unfortunately, people think it IS the foundation of the relationship.
i agree.
i think sex only becomes a problem if you let it.
for example, some people will let sex hinder their ability to think clearly.
words of wishdom from the man who licks the rug
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No, I'm not phasing out sex for you guys.
It's just the bigger picture. Relationship problems are really due to sex in the grand scheme of things. Not really about spirituality at all.
If it were about love/spirituality, you'd be floating in the ethers as a spirit/ghost. The reason you're incarnated in flesh is for earthy pleasures.
Really, it's that complicated. Now I wish everyone was platonic and they can make their own babies. That'd solve some things.
😛
Posted by P-Angel
The problem with relationships sucking ... it's because you made it the problem.Can you don't say You please? It's not really me who caused it. Stick to "they" and I can take your comment seriously. Thanks.
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Can you please comprehend that "you" isn't said in 1st person narrative?
Can you please comprehend that I wasn't talking about you, specifically, rather "you" as a people?
Can you please realize that you (now in 1st person to mean you specifically), are too subjective, obviously, to take anything seriously, because you might hurt yourself with this subjectivity you choose to use because you cannot comprehend the difference between personal and impersonal prose.
Thank you
Posted by spica
No, I'm not phasing out sex for you guys.It's just the bigger picture. Relationship problems are really due to sex in the grand scheme of things. Not really about spirituality at all.
If it were about love/spirituality, ((((((((((((((((you'd)))))))))))))) be floating in the ethers as a spirit/ghost. The reason ((((((((((((((you're)))))))))))))) incarnated in flesh is for earthy pleasures.
Really, it's that complicated. Now I wish everyone was platonic and they can make their own babies. That'd solve some things.
*** gasps ***
Did you say ....... you ?
Oh nos ..... a person got their panties wadded up over something they did themselves.
First, there are many people above me. There's only one person above you when you made your comment.
But you have made yourself clear. Thank you for your opinion.
And you are welcome.
That would mean detaching emotions from your body, seeing it as but a vehicle. A.K.A, androidifying yourself 😛
A lot of wisdom here the rat and spica should go fuck thereselfs
and james tate shouldn't have been born
I'm pretty sure this thread offends the sensitibilities of the highly sexual males.. lolol
one must remember spica was the poster child for birth control
Likely it was tate but he was looking for a scapegoat
(lol, a pun!)
I think tate is a little cold sometimes, really now tate.
Only just realised, but hey ho :/
Brr
What does being asexual have to do with being in a relationship. You can be in a relationship without having sex....well, unless you're a horndog and can't control yourself.
Posted by happykitsune
What does being asexual have to do with being in a relationship. You can be in a relationship without having sex....well, unless you're a horndog and can't control yourself.being a horndog has nothing to do with it. that goes both ways with women and men. whether or not people admit it sex is more important then some make it out in a relationship and less important then others that make a reaaallly big deal out of it.
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That's because people in this world have warped minds
WARPED MINDS
THANK YOU THANK YOU VERY MUCH
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therefore, everyone should have been born asexual. They can still procreate and ensure the survival of their species, by something similar to mitosis. In other words, they should be able to fug themselves.
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