Being asked "Why are you single?" (Page 2)

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Palerio
It's most likely to be a compliment if said by a man, in the sense of "how can a hot person like you be single?".

The real problem is that it's hard for some women to accept compliments, which is ridiculous.

I mean, no man has said, why you single? lol

they don't give a fuck.

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Jerk don't give a treetrunk.

Normal men still don't give a treetrunk but they ultimately care about not wasting their own time when it's a lost cause.

Posted by Damnata
Depends on the person asking

The axis 😆

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Posted by Palerio
The real problem is that it's hard for some women to accept compliments, which is ridiculous.

Which results in accusations of sexual harrassment... 😆

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Pretty much... 😆

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Palerio
It's most likely to be a compliment if said by a man, in the sense of "how can a hot person like you be single?".

The real problem is that it's hard for some women to accept compliments, which is ridiculous.

I mean, no man has said, why you single? lol

they don't give a fuck.

Jerk don't give a treetrunk.

Normal men still don't give a treetrunk but they ultimately care about not wasting their own time when it's a lost cause.

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TRUTH coming out here. 😆

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Posted by Arielle83
A guy told me once, "you're too hot to be married."

So I guess I should get a divorce and get a job at the brothel down the road.

Wtf eh?

Oh ya and that was my actual rebuttal.

There was girl who tell me that she is so hot to be with just one man

She want a lot of men to share her body with them

The main problem with women, they think they born to make men happy


From what I have seen, single people more happy than taken people lol

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this is Prince's take:

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Posted by Nevermore
My reaction: "Why you care?"

If he's confident enough he will reply "because you're hot".

Straightforward a simple.

I do admire that though for someone telling me straightforward. But still, don't understand why does anyone need to care if I'm single.. I mean is my life so much important than themselves?

They care when they find you interesting, men don't bother asking if they're not, unless they're good friend of yours and just really care about knowing what's going on in your life to support you. They basically want to know if they're wasting their time with someone unavailable.

Blurred lines are too convenient for women.

Still it does feel like forced to getting one just like anyone else. They have their own choice whenever they wanted single or not.. only when they are ready with.

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I've never asked it personally, I think I'm good at reading people since I'm usually receptive, on an emotional level, to the person who's in front of me.

It just shows from they way she speaks if she's into someone else or not, I don't bother asking I know my answer already, although I do wonder sometimes, if she's extremely attractive, while she's being single for so long, it's just odd considering the pool at disposal. Sometimes it can be a choice, most time it's self-sabotage and it feels to me like a waste.

Not in a chauvinist way, I just think that if a woman has been blessed with outward beauty and the power to reject anyone whom she's not interested in, she'd better be with someone (some of them are lazy) or, imagining she doesn't want to be in a relationship, which is acceptable, at least use that power to reject people in a direct way, that's not much to ask.

It would be like for a woman complaining because she's too hot (what about being ugly and not getting approached at all?) or perhaps like watching a gifted sportsman wasting his talent because he's mononeuronic, I get pissed.

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My reaction: "Why you care?"

If he's confident enough he will reply "because you're hot".

Straightforward a simple.

I do admire that though for someone telling me straightforward. But still, don't understand why does anyone need to care if I'm single.. I mean is my life so much important than themselves?

They care when they find you interesting, men don't bother asking if they're not, unless they're good friend of yours and just really care about knowing what's going on in your life to support you. They basically want to know if they're wasting their time with someone unavailable.

Blurred lines are too convenient for women.

Still it does feel like forced to getting one just like anyone else. They have their own choice whenever they wanted single or not.. only when they are ready with.

I've never asked it personally, I think I'm good at reading people since I'm usually receptive, on an emotional level, to the person who's in front of me.

It just shows from they way she speaks if she's into someone else or not, I don't bother asking I know my answer already, although I do wonder sometimes, if she's extremely attractive, while she's being single for so long, it's just odd considering the pool at disposal. Sometimes it can be a choice, most time it's self-sabotage and it feels to me like a waste.

Not in a chauvinist way, I just think that if a woman has been blessed with outward beauty and the power to reject anyone whom she's not interested in, she'd better be with someone (some of them are lazy) or, imagining she doesn't want to be in a relationship, which is acceptable, at least use that power to reject people in a direct way, that's not much to ask.

It would be like for a woman complaining because she's too hot (what about being ugly and not getting approached at all?) or perhaps like watching a gifted sportsman wasting his talent because he's mononeuronic, I get pissed.

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YES!! every pisces sun male and scorpio sun male is like this. they just "know". at least in my personal experience. They don't need to "ask"...it's very deep emotional. an intuitiveness that is hard to describe. I never needed to tell them or use "talk" to express myself. It's a hidden kind of communication.

I just remember back in college, too, and we'd hang out, but they just "know" i'm not interested. but we liked eachother's company, like to have coffee all together at the local university café/restaurant, library and hang out and study. but they just "know" ...it really is what they say in astrology, the "water" thing communication.

EDIT - yes and there ARE men out there that you have to be DIRECT with, and tell them to go fuck off or get lost, because they are too dense to "get"it.

they think no means yes. when honestly no means no, asshole.

Posted by lisabethur8
I just remember back in college, too, and we'd hang out, but they just "know" i'm not interested. but we liked eachother's company, like to have coffee all together at the local university café/restaurant, library and hang out and study. but they just "know" ...it really is what they say in astrology, the "water" thing communication.

EDIT - yes and there ARE men out there that you have to be DIRECT with, and tell them to go fuck off or get lost, because they are too dense to "get"it.

they think no means yes. when honestly no means no, asshole.

You need to be direct with water signs too, because some of them may see your lack of interest and they consequently abort the mission, some of them primarily focus on positives and may not. Well...they may notice it but they also see "something there", which is unexplainable, they see margin and potential to convince you to change your mind.

They get clingy and delusional if you don't reject them, so to be frank it's always the preferred approach. Beside, contrarily to what some women may think, it's a lot "nicer" that way.

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Posted by lisabethur8
I just remember back in college, too, and we'd hang out, but they just "know" i'm not interested. but we liked eachother's company, like to have coffee all together at the local university café/restaurant, library and hang out and study. but they just "know" ...it really is what they say in astrology, the "water" thing communication.

EDIT - yes and there ARE men out there that you have to be DIRECT with, and tell them to go fuck off or get lost, because they are too dense to "get"it.

they think no means yes. when honestly no means no, asshole.

You need to be direct with water signs too, because some of them may see your lack of interest and they consequently abort the mission, some of them primarily focus on positives and may not. Well...they may notice it but they also see "something there", which is unexplainable, they see margin and potential to convince you to change your mind.

They get clingy and delusional if you don't reject them, so to be frank it's always the preferred approach. Beside, contrarily to what some women may think, it's a lot "nicer" that way.

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lol naw...they know.

if they keep pushing it's because they are just being assholes.

Actually, the funny thing is - we keep seeing majority of the people in relationships one after the other after they hit puberty. No one asks them - "why are you in relationship always?"

..but soon after a person hits puberty, she is asked "you are single :o ? " and as she reaches late teens "why are you single? You shouldn't be so closed you know" ...and once she is 20 "wow, you are a nun" ...

It is compliment when intended to compliment but otherwise, people think of it as abnormal. Somehow relationships have become normalcy

@AriesLove,

lots of men are taken out there. Even those hot celebrity men. lol

Hm I think there ARE single men on dxp.

sing out,

"Hey fellas, toot toot!!!!"

@arieslove, you must live in environments and places where people don't believe in long term till death thing.

ah well. that's the breaks for them.

well if you are looking for real life meet ups....

you better hurry!!! 😆


OR you can keep on dreaming.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by lisabethur8
@arieslove, you must live in environments and places where people don't believe in long term till death thing.

ah well. that's the breaks for them.

well if you are looking for real life meet ups....

you better hurry!!! 😆


OR you can keep on dreaming.

But you will know when I'm no longer single. I'll be traveling with my significant other not on DXpnet with other single people.

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you keep passively aggressively attempting to put me down and my own marriage and for being on dxp.

*smh*

i'm very happy. and i'm very lucky I found a man who loves me deeply AND gives me freedom and is a homebody like me.

to each their own.

plus my sister is the traveler,not me.

it's like when people attempt to passively aggressively put in, "kept woman" comments too.

i'm like, jesus Christ. Like I have to go out into the world all the time to be BUSY?

can't I be busy at home and work and come online too?

it's like this is the ONLY social media I go on. and everyone knows i'm taken.

and you all know I LOVE being in my relationship.

well, what the hell are you all on here looking for astrology compatibility??

SO OBVIOUS.

me? I go on here cause I happen to really like astrology and learning just like many of you. I've learned ALOT too.

EDIT - of course not everyone, some of you are taken too.

but it's OK to say, yes I am looking for love. I'm not ashamed of that. I want to be loved and find someone to love me back!!

10 step program astrology anonymous.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by lisabethur8

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Posted by lisabethur8
@arieslove, you must live in environments and places where people don't believe in long term till death thing.

ah well. that's the breaks for them.

well if you are looking for real life meet ups....

you better hurry!!! 😆


OR you can keep on dreaming.

But you will know when I'm no longer single. I'll be traveling with my significant other not on DXpnet with other single people.

you keep passively aggressively attempting to put me down and my own marriage and for being on dxp.

*smh*

i'm very happy. and i'm very lucky I found a man who loves me deeply AND gives me freedom and is a homebody like me.

to each their own.

plus my sister is the traveler,not me.

No not that...when I was married before I didn't spend so much time online. Me and husband were always doing things together. So I didn't have the time.

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my husband works, he is NEXT to me, in the same room. He works at home some weeks.

and if you and your husband, AriesLove were always doing stuff....what happened— how come you are NOT together. maybe you should have stayed home with him.

HUMPF. so don't tell me passively aggressively how it should be. lol

i'm the one with MY man right now.

lol yeah yeah ignore the fact that you're NOT with your ex right now. so obviously it was not that happy.

anyway, I forgot I also read other astro boards, online but this is my main one.

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Posted by lisabethur8
and if you and your husband, AriesLove were always doing stuff....what happened— how come you are NOT together. maybe you should have stayed home with him.

HUMPF. so don't tell me passively aggressively how it should be. lol

i'm the one with MY man right now.

I divorced them both. One just last year. I didn't like him anymore lol. He became boring and not what I wanted forever. I started thinking about forever.

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fickle dee fickle doo.

it's hilarious when you read some people writing books on how to be happy in a relationship and they are single.

lol

it reads all nice and lovely and idealistic...

but what happened to the all the farting and cleaning and taking care of your loved ones?

they seemed to have ignored the work part.

You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

what's the difference between reading stuff and posting online on a public forum than it is, having another hobby like reading a good juicy book—? I used to do that a lot.

also painting and other artsy fartsy crafts. and lots of writing.

or creating stuff.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Yes you can post online...but ALL the time!

I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.

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and that's why you are SINGLE.

😆

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by lisabethur8
and if you and your husband, AriesLove were always doing stuff....what happened— how come you are NOT together. maybe you should have stayed home with him.

HUMPF. so don't tell me passively aggressively how it should be. lol

i'm the one with MY man right now.

I divorced them both. One just last year. I didn't like him anymore lol. He became boring and not what I wanted forever. I started thinking about forever.

fickle dee fickle doo.

I'm an Aries...I get bored.

Neither of my husbands were homebodies especially not the Sag. And the Leo worked a lot but he worked for the airlines so we traveled a lot.

But as you grow older you just want different things. You raise the bar. I have and I feel I have the right to.

But God knows I love my freedom.

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thank GOD my husband is a HOMEBODY and a good, responsible man.

mmmm mmmmm good.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Yes you can post online...but ALL the time!

I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.

and that's why you are SINGLE.

😆

And that's why you are married but living the single life with single people. So we are all in the same boat.

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huh? that don't make any sense? how is living the single life? when I sleep with my husband and take care of him everyday? 😕

this is clearly a case of married peeps just don't get along with single peeps.

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Posted by lisabethur8

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Posted by lisabethur8
and if you and your husband, AriesLove were always doing stuff....what happened— how come you are NOT together. maybe you should have stayed home with him.

HUMPF. so don't tell me passively aggressively how it should be. lol

i'm the one with MY man right now.

I divorced them both. One just last year. I didn't like him anymore lol. He became boring and not what I wanted forever. I started thinking about forever.

fickle dee fickle doo.

I'm an Aries...I get bored.

Neither of my husbands were homebodies especially not the Sag. And the Leo worked a lot but he worked for the airlines so we traveled a lot.

But as you grow older you just want different things. You raise the bar. I have and I feel I have the right to.

But God knows I love my freedom.

thank GOD my husband is a HOMEBODY and a good, responsible man.

mmmm mmmmm good.

I'm not a homebody. I like to travel, work out and eat out.

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ok but you're here a lot I notice. soo you have to be WITH someone to travel and get out?? 😕

you people *smh*

I see you posting and mentioning how you love to find a good man someday.....in so many words.
you can't fool us!!

right now it's COZY

and it's raining outside and I got my man here and serving him.

too bad i'm not dressed as a HOT FRENCH MAID ....serving him. 😉

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Yes you can post online...but ALL the time!

I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.

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My sister posts comments on YouTube all the time and she's happily married.

I see nothing wrong with married people posting on a public forum all the time.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Yes you can post online...but ALL the time!

I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.

My sister posts comments on YouTube all the time and she's happily married.

I see nothing wrong with married people posting on a public forum all the time.

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I see astrologers posting daily at their blogs and they are happily married too.

some of these so -called astrologers even on hubpages, or elsewhere, maybe darkastorlogy or lindaland, they have husbands who work in truck driving business or military where they are away.

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Posted by lisabethur8

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Posted by lisabethur8

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Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Yes you can post online...but ALL the time!

I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.

and that's why you are SINGLE.

😆

And that's why you are married but living the single life with single people. So we are all in the same boat.

huh? that don't make any sense? how is living the single life? when I sleep with my husband and take care of him everyday? 😕

this is clearly a case of married peeps just don't get along with single peeps.

Why are you taking care of him? Is he handicapped?? I'm so confused about your idea of marriage. I'm just to independent to be taking care of someone. Some people just marry to marry and die in that life.

I like excitement. I can't sit at home all day online and I have a hot husband. NO WAY!!

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well that's WHY you are single. you can't even serve or sacrifice and LOVE your man.

maybe you NEED a man to SERVE you...


edit anyway I gotta go make lunch and clean and do some work.

so ta ta...


and i'll snuggle and kiss my man too.

teehee.

😆

😄

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Yes you can post online...but ALL the time!

I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.

My sister posts comments on YouTube all the time and she's happily married.

I see nothing wrong with married people posting on a public forum all the time.

There is something wrong with that. If that's your business or trade and you are providing services...but to just ramble about nothing all day everyday something is off.

Even the ones that claim to have relationships pop on and off. Especially the men.

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😆 omg this is too precious not to pass up right now.

clearly someone is jealous.

Am I making you jealous— cause you wouldn't be BOTHERED if i'm here or not.

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Posted by lisabethur8
maybe you NEED a man to SERVE you...

I serve no one but the one up above. Lol

There is absolutely no way....ill be single forever. I come first. Me me me. I'm an Aries..,self love, self indulgent, selfish.

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i'm a 1st houser and i'm JEALOUS as fuck. it's all about ME ME and my husband is also a 1st houser, we're both 4th housers, (homebodies)

and that's why we are very very compatible. it's all about ME ME ME and selfish love.

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Posted by lisabethur8
maybe you NEED a man to SERVE you...


edit anyway I gotta go make lunch and clean and do some work.

so ta ta...


and i'll snuggle and kiss my man too.

teehee.

😆

😄

Finally you got your senses back...but I'll know you'll be back soon. You are bored to death!

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I like it here. *shrug* I can speak my mind, and free to do so, like you.

it provides FREEDOM for me too.

just like if I had my own blog. plus I can interact with astrology freaks like you.

unfortunately you are single and taking it out on me. Oh well.

Most likely, the OP just wants to plant the suggestion in the mind of the viewing audience that she is so special that suitors should be clawing for her.

Looks like there are responders who also believe themselves to be this special also, since they too highlight this insinuation to the viewing audience, by saying that they too are so great that people think they should be clawed after by men.


that's a pretty ugly quality, and likely the real reason why you are single.



As much you believe you are amazing in your mind, and you think you're pretty to look at .... by this false and entitled self image you have of yourself, actually makes you unworthy, and the reason why you are single ... because nobody wants someone that egotistical and superficial.

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Posted by malloryor

Posted by Gem20Redux
Take it as a compliment. Some might find it perplexing on the basis that someone with your credentials, taste, pleasant temperament, etc... Are what people your age would find as an eligible suitor. If you really don't feel like giving a specified response, (I wouldn't imagine you actually wanting to haha) just give a cordial smile or head shake that'd be applicable in the scenario. Words aren't always demonstrative as to how one feels. Just my thoughts and opinions for you!

Here is why it's not a compliment. When you ask someone, especially a woman why she is single--based on her credentials, social and economic stature-- you are suggesting that there is a "BUT" in there, a potential underlying issue or problem with her. It's not a compliment and can never be received as such because in essence the man is fishing for a reason to understand why you are without a partner. The man fails to take into account the fact that perhaps the woman was uninterested in a relationship, or simply had not found someone who inspired her enough to leap into a romantic relationship with, INSTEAD the man assumes there is something wrong with her and this is why she is not received.

Men really need to get a revelation. It is the most OVERUSED, unoriginal pick up line and the most unflattering at that.

A dude asked though....

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I see you didn't read...

It doesnt matter what gender asked, I am simply saying it is not a compliment, especially, when directed towards a woman.

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Posted by Gem20Redux
Take it as a compliment. Some might find it perplexing on the basis that someone with your credentials, taste, pleasant temperament, etc... Are what people your age would find as an eligible suitor. If you really don't feel like giving a specified response, (I wouldn't imagine you actually wanting to haha) just give a cordial smile or head shake that'd be applicable in the scenario. Words aren't always demonstrative as to how one feels. Just my thoughts and opinions for you!

Here is why it's not a compliment. When you ask someone, especially a woman why she is single--based on her credentials, social and economic stature-- you are suggesting that there is a "BUT" in there, a potential underlying issue or problem with her. It's not a compliment and can never be received as such because in essence the man is fishing for a reason to understand why you are without a partner. The man fails to take into account the fact that perhaps the woman was uninterested in a relationship, or simply had not found someone who inspired her enough to leap into a romantic relationship with, INSTEAD the man assumes there is something wrong with her and this is why she is not received.

Men really need to get a revelation. It is the most OVERUSED, unoriginal pick up line and the most unflattering at that.

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I'm sure it feels wonderful, fantasizing that this is the case, since the dream of it shines a woman in a better light.

The reality is .... a single woman is only so because she can't get a man, or she's such a bitch that she can't keep a man.

Every single one of you has been in here whining about how you lost your man, and you want him back regardless of how much of a dickhead he is.

Every one of you, except two.

How lovely the fantasy is that you believe you have chosen the single.

We all know the truth of it ... we all know that's the excuse you tell yourselves. the reality is .... you're single because you operate under false pretenses.

and by the word "you", I mean the women in here, at large.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by veryimportantperson
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.

There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.

Have you single folks ever think about that?

Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.

Yes you can post online...but ALL the time!

I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.

My sister posts comments on YouTube all the time and she's happily married.

I see nothing wrong with married people posting on a public forum all the time.

There is something wrong with that. If that's your business or trade and you are providing services...but to just ramble about nothing all day everyday something is off.

Even the ones that claim to have relationships pop on and off. Especially the men.

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You know tbh with you I think it's the opposite.

I would think there's something wrong with single people who has nobody to be here all the time.

When single there's plenty to do other than stay home playing on the internets.

When married and settled, you free to stay home and post on line all you want.

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Posted by Chance_11
When you try to go trick or treating at P-Angel's

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And what's your excuse for constantly being here all the time other than not having a life?

Cos we already know you'll never get married.

Posted by Palerio
It's most likely to be a compliment if said by a man, in the sense of "how can a hot person like you be single?".

The real problem is that it's hard for some women to accept compliments, which is ridiculous.

Because being good looking is directly related to ones ability to maintain a relationship. Right.

Posted by AriesLove
@veryimportantperson

I carry my phone everywhere, and most single people stay online. Whether it be Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, dating sites etc etc. They don't have a man sitting at home to serve like one married woman put it.

I came on this site just a few months this year. Not 2012 like another married woman. I stumbled after reading astrology but see it's more about lonely women in relationships looking for answers...go figure.

I'm free as bird not tied down like most but when I was married I didn't care for all this stuff because I was enjoying the married life and my companion 80% of the time. Which was the point.

Yes that's true

Most single people do carry their phones everywhere they go as well as married ones.


But how would you know their status?

Everybody carries their phones with them and go on line because it's convenient.

But do normal single people care about posting stuff on line at home? No...

They would more than likely go out with friends.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Palerio
It's most likely to be a compliment if said by a man, in the sense of "how can a hot person like you be single?".

The real problem is that it's hard for some women to accept compliments, which is ridiculous.

Because being good looking is directly related to ones ability to maintain a relationship. Right.

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That was not my point, also I've never asked a similar question, definitely not my style.

Men are genuinely surprised when a good-looking woman is single. I don't know in the US but I can guarantee you where I live it's a rare occurance to meet someone you find attractive who isn't taken already; men are forced to be vultures and in public places she's usually speaking with someone else, plus there are often 3 or 4 other guys waiting in line already...

I don't believe I'm the only one noticing this phenomenon.

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Posted by Chance_11
When you try to go trick or treating at P-Angel's

And what's your excuse for constantly being here all the time other than not having a life?

Cos we already know you'll never get married.

By her photo I doubt that's the case.

Why don't you go on a dating site and see how many available men stay on there 24/7. Some are probably married too. Lol

A single person can be on there phone whenever they like wherever they like. They don't have meals to cook, shirts to iron, feet to scrub and a $ $ to wipe for their handicapped husband.

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Nah I highly doubt that babe.

She'll never get married.

You can't judge a book by its cover.



I am left speechless on how many single men look for love on dating sites. Pathetic i tell you.

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Omg a dxp cat fight over a single two time divorcee women telling a once divorced, married woman that when she gets married, for a 3rd time, she will not be on dxp!!!


HUMMMPPPFF

I didn't realise their was a a whole "time on dxp versus good marriage-correlation"?

Jebus!

No I stated when I was married I did not spend 80% of my time on social media. I would pop on and off. But when I was home I was active with my spouse.

Some of these so called married women are on here morning, noon and night lol

Maybe you should plot time stamps on a graph and correlate it to the amount of posts.

Don't forget to include other variables in your calculations such as:

- time differences
- years married
- income
- age difference
- who earns more
- children
- wealth
- health

Happy plotting!

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omg this topic & comments are/is GOLD.


it's like the housewives of dxp. 😆

"I've run out of room in my crawlspace for relationships."

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As we see some desperate housewives don't get much attention.

Yet you've come back to her to make a rebuttal.

You sound pretty jealous casting all that shade on a random married woman.

Go back to running track.

What is there to be jealous about— I'm for real, I'll make points all day...hence a "forum". I can't and will not live the type of life she's living. I'd die of boredom and I'm not used to being on my knees all day.

I understand a man is all you got. But they are not hard to attain. Trust me. I think you are jealous of me.

Remember this is a singles thread yet happily married women find their place on it. The irony!

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i'm dominant earth, so naturally staying home and being boring and stability is really SOOTHING and happy for my soul.

i'm also 4th house dominant. so DUH.

if you can't figure that out already, then relax.

yes there's PLENTY of men out there, but I don't see you with one are you?

are you kidding? I'd NEVER want to be in your place, cause we are just two different peeps.

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Also Ryan gosling isn't dreamy anymore.

He's like a skinny wittle boy.

I never found him attractive personally.

I saw "NoteBook" and thought it was sweet and I think him in "Drive" was really good.

other than that. meh.

but i'm not attracted to AIR venus men, ever.

edit I think they're great guys though. but not romantically.
it's because my venus/mars/moon is not in air or air houses.

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Sometimes I wish I was still single.

Really...why? I thought you liked being married


I have to say since i have been i felt happier than ever

Freedom is priceless

Settling down is hard for me.

I actually left canada because I loved partying and being single TOOO MUCH!'

So traveling all over made me want a husband, but really the best travelling you do is with yourself.

I think travelling exhausted me so I wanted a house to hibernate in and a husband to have sex with me, on tap.

I'm such a loner though.

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even a wanderlust wants a home to come home to.

they too get a desire to plant themselves at a homefront.

my sister and her man are traveling all over the world right now. But I dreamt that she was wanting to come home badly the first two months. I could feel it. Then later, she got used to it. but she adapts.

she's in the U.S. now, but they've been to South America, Canada, and all over the southern U.S. now in the north.